Do you hold hands with your paid companion?

[Celsius]

You are dating (paying) your much younger gf.

 

You want the world to know how cool you are and you want to show your trophy.

 

So, you hold hands in the shopping mall and BTS.

 

Ridiculous or not?

 

[SAFETY FIRST]

2 minutes ago, Celsius said:

You are dating (paying) your much younger gf.

 

Ridiculous or not?

 

Yes, see this too often. 

 

Very strange behaviour, could be a mental health illness. 

 

[Doctor Tom]

What is a 'paid companion'? is that a wife of 20 years and a mother, who has never worked? Is it a new girlfriend who happens to be younger than you?  Why does it bother you?  whats it got to do with you?  Perhaps you are of a certain culture that requires wives and daughters to walk 3 steps behind a man? 

Edited August 21 by Doctor Tom

[gargamon]

In most cases he's holding on to her so she doesn't run away.

[SAFETY FIRST]

3 minutes ago, Doctor Tom said:

What is a 'paid companion'? is that a wife of 20 years and a mother, who has never worked? Is it a new girlfriend who happens to be younger than you?  Why does it bother you?  whats it got to do with you?  Perhaps you are of a certain culture that requires wives and daughters to walk 3 steps behind a man? 

Crikey, it's a simple posting and you have a dozen questions. 😂

 

[Doctor Tom]

23 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Crikey, it's a simple posting and you have a dozen questions. 😂

 

You're the one that brought it up , so it must be a issue with you, I would be interested to know why, but not that interested.

 

For the avoidance of doubt, I do hold hands with my G/F, who is younger than me, (but not excessively so) because we like to do so. 

[Ralf001]

Any hand that has touched chilli does not touch me.

[SAFETY FIRST]

14 minutes ago, Doctor Tom said:

, I do hold hands with my G/F,

I see lots of you guys walking along Jomtien Beach, very romantic. 

[scubascuba3]

If the girl genuinely likes you then holding hands makes sense, but if its fake then it's worthless, same as LTs, fake hugging in bed, pointless

[SAFETY FIRST]

53 minutes ago, Celsius said:

You want the world to know how cool you are

I like my gf to hold me tight when riding my PCX. 😎

 

[jvs]

1 hour ago, gargamon said:

In most cases he's holding on to her so she doesn't run away.

In my case if there are a lot of (single)women around the gf will latch onto me.

This one is taken!

I kind of like it that way.

Better then some i guess.

Edited August 21 by jvs

[TimBKK]

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

Ridiculous or not?

Yes, this post is quite ridiculous.

[Will B Good]

Yes.......lot of time and energy spent making a selection.....not easy....and no intentions of letting them slip away on the way back.

[petermik]

1 hour ago, gargamon said:

In most cases he's holding on to her so she doesn't run away.

Wrong...opposite way...the lady,s hanging onto her customer in case he does a runner

[KhunLA]

1 hour ago, jvs said:

In my case if there are a lot of (single)women around the gf will latch onto me.

This one is taken!

I kind of like it that way.

Better then some i guess.

I'm going down South again and converting. You bleeding heart Christians and your 'woman's rights'.

 

Y'all really screwed the pooch there ... DUMB ASSES

 

On topic ... yes, still hold the wife's hand, every now & then, when the mood strikes.   Though not as much as ex  GFs/wives in USA.    Hot ... damn hot, and sweaty hands are uncomfortable.

 

I don't do P4P ... so N/A to OP.   Get strange looks when holding daughter's hand 😂

[Puccini]

5 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

If the girl genuinely likes you then holding hands makes sense, but if its fake then it's worthless, same as LTs, fake hugging in bed, pointless

 

What do you mean with LT?

[Lacessit]

7 hours ago, Celsius said:

You are dating (paying) your much younger gf.

 

You want the world to know how cool you are and you want to show your trophy.

 

So, you hold hands in the shopping mall and BTS.

 

Ridiculous or not?

 

Holding hands is not a big thing in Thai culture, some go arm in arm.

 

I prefer privacy for displays of affection.

[bkk6060]

I never hold theirs but they hold mine.

[scubascuba3]

50 minutes ago, Maestro said:

 

What do you mean with LT?

Long Time

[scubascuba3]

50 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Married, he sees being married to a woman as a long term paid option. 

It's not the typical LT but yes it is a paid quasi LLT

[brianthainess]

34 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Holding hands is not a big thing in Thai culture, some go arm in arm.

 

I prefer privacy for displays of affection.

My wife always holds my hand when we are out.....................and I see younger Thais doing the same.

[brianthainess]

54 minutes ago, Puccini said:

 

What do you mean with LT?

London Transport ?? 

[jerrymahoney]

And as on here there are frequent topics related to wills in Thailand, some would say the 'long term' is how long the much younger Thai wife has to wait for the much older farang hubby to expire.
 

[maesariang]

7 hours ago, Celsius said:

You are dating (paying) your much younger gf.

 

You want the world to know how cool you are and you want to show your trophy.

 

So, you hold hands in the shopping mall and BTS.

 

Ridiculous or not?

 

Perving on other couples ridiculous?

[Fortunateson]

See it quite a bit in Bangkok, when they are leading the man to the ATM.  Makes as much sense as posters on various forums who refer to prostitutes as “ladies”

[Puccini]

8 hours ago, Celsius said:

You are dating (paying) your much younger gf...

 

What do you mean with "much younger"? How many years younger or how many percent younger?

[Lacessit]

55 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

I never hold theirs but they hold mine.

The thread topic is hands.

[Puccini]

46 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Long Time

 

Thank you.

[PingRoundTheWorld]

8 hours ago, Celsius said:

Ridiculous or not?

If you're doing it to "show off" then yes - it's ridiculous.

 

Personally I don't date/pay anyone that I don't geuninely like and feel like they like me beyond just money, and if I like them then sure I will hold hands and hug them - because I like them, not to show off.

[Puccini]

42 minutes ago, brianthainess said:

My wife always holds my hand when we are out.

 

Aye,  but your wife doesn't meet the OP's criterion of "gf" and we do not know if she meets the undfined criterion of " much younger"