After 43 years: My Chinese wife wishes to return to me. Good idea?

[GammaGlobulin]

Dear Friends,

 

I last saw my Chinese wife in 1980, in Hong Kong.

 

Last week, my wife sent me an email, stating that she wishes to come visit me in Thailand.

 

She has been living in the USA for most of the time since we last saw each other.

 

When I last saw her, she was slim and trim....and super HOT.

 

But now, I worry that she might not be just as she was when we last parted.

 

She is very intelligent.  But I don't care that much about her being smart, anymore.

 

The reason is that there are just too many girls here in Thailand who are not smart, but super good looking, instead.

And, since I do not care about the hot-young-Thai girls....then why should I care about my old-Chinese wife?

 

When I was younger, I cared more about smart girls.

Now that I am older, I only care about more superficial skin-deep traits.

I have always preferred younger Thai girls, even though I have never actually had one.

 

If I WANTED a companion, I would choose one of the younger girls, maybe around 24.

Why should I now risk getting re-involved with my Kowloon wife?

 

On the other hand, we shared many good times together when we were young.

 

Does anyone here have any experience hooking up with an old wife, after a 40-year hiatus?

Were you able to get back in the swing of things, fairly easily?

 

If you wish, I will upload some photos of my wife, 40 years ago.

She was definitely....nice.

 

Also, I think she might still have a lot of money.

So, considering the money, would it be worth it to allow her to come to visit me?

 

Now that she is older, she may have changed.

I may be able to tolerate her more easily.

 

Mostly, the reason for this Topic is that I need advice concerning whether her money might be worth becoming re-involved with her.

 

I am thinking that...as I continue to age....

It might be sort of like having a Golden-Parachute, having her around,

In my old age.

 

I would no longer need to worry about dying alone, either.

 

If you had seen her 40 years ago....then....the answer would be a no-brainer.

I just mean, that if you saw her, most of you guys would pay USD1000.00 per hour to be with her.

 

Yet now that she is old.....

 

I doubt you guys would pay that much.

 

So, just on a cost/benefit basis....

 

Should I reply to her email to me, and acquiesce...should she ask to see me, and board the next flight from San Francisco to Chiang Mai?

 

What would you do?

 

Note:  This is the wife that, due to my services, was able to first get a Green Card, and then her USA citizenship.  And now, I am a bit suspicious why she wants to see me again, now that she no longer needs a Green Card.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited November 13 by GammaGlobulin

[herfiehandbag]

Perhaps she could fund your sex change before you move to Malaysia?

 

Just a thought!

[SoCal1990]

This is the fifth topic of mindless drivel you've let loose for today. Don't you have any shame?

[RSD1]

25 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

When I last saw her, she was slim and trim....and super HOT.

I stopped reading when I reached the fourth sentence. As soon as I got to the part above, I knew it was all BS. Globs has never had a hot looking companion or anything even mildly luke warm. We all know that. A pile of tosh and such utter tripe. 

[BE88]

I'm waiting for the photo of your ex

 

[marin]

Posters get admonished when they reply negatively to GG. Why? When he starts one thread that he is going to change sexes and move to Malaysia. Then two hours later his Chinese x wife wants him back and another thread. There has to be some moderation on the topics this guy puts up. We have two GG's who are now competing to post the most asinine thread to ever be created on this forum. 

 

Maybe give this a thought or two. Thanks. 

[save the frogs]

8 minutes ago, marin said:

We have two GG's

 

a bit off topic, but ...

the mathematical odds of having two GG's on a forum who create weird topics seem rather low.

like, of all the millions of user names they could have chosen. 

unless it's a conspiracy. 

 

Edited November 13 by save the frogs

[KannikaP]

2 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

I have always preferred younger Thai girls, even though I have never actually had one.

Quote of the week?

[KannikaP]

34 minutes ago, marin said:

Posters get admonished when they reply negatively to GG. Why? When he starts one thread that he is going to change sexes and move to Malaysia. Then two hours later his Chinese x wife wants him back and another thread. There has to be some moderation on the topics this guy puts up. We have two GG's who are now competing to post the most asinine thread to ever be created on this forum. 

 

Maybe give this a thought or two. Thanks. 

And if you report any of his BS, you get a message to say that if you don't like his posts, then don't open them. I suppose that makes sense.

[G_Money]

OP

 

1.  Only one reason she would want to get back with you, 43 years later.  She’s broke and for some reason she thinks you’re not.

 

2.  Why bring a ham sandwich to a steak house.

 

3.  Sure, post some before photos.  If she’s as hot as you say she is, readers never turn down a good wan-.

 

4.  Post both of your current photos.  We can decide who’s getting the better deal.

 

Edited November 13 by G_Money

[madone]

On 11/13/2024 at 7:42 AM, SoCal1990 said:

This is the fifth topic of mindless drivel you've let loose for today. Don't you have any shame?

 

Should we limit our posts to a single account of our prolific sexual prowess and be done with it?

[Crossy]

I'm sure she has a Facebore page with recent photos, so you can have an idea just how well she's lasted

 

IMHO my Korean ex actually looks better now (21 years after we split), she eventually married a Kiwi after turning me down, twice!

[BritManToo]

7 minutes ago, Crossy said:

I'm sure she has a Facebore page with recent photos, so you can have an idea just how well she's lasted

 

IMHO my Korean ex actually looks better now (21 years after we split), she eventually married a Kiwi after turning me down, twice!

My ex's got old and fat, but my current wife of 15 years still looks pretty good.

[GammaGlobulin]

7 minutes ago, Crossy said:

I'm sure she has a Facebore page with recent photos, so you can have an idea just how well she's lasted

 

IMHO my Korean ex actually looks better now (21 years after we split), she eventually married a Kiwi after turning me down, twice!

 

I would have to do a search of FaceBook.

I try never to use FaceBook.

 

I don't have the stomach to use any products thought up by that Suckerberger fellow, you know...

 

 

[kingstonkid]

On 11/13/2024 at 9:05 AM, save the frogs said:

 

a bit off topic, but ...

the mathematical odds of having two GG's on a forum who create weird topics seem rather low.

like, of all the millions of user names they could have chosen. 

unless it's a conspiracy. 

 

actually it is impossible if they spell the name the same and use the same characters.  

 

Then again maybe he has a split personality.

 

One is the old broad that wants to get out  and the other is the old guy that wants to get laid.

 

Maybe they should see a shrink so he can introduce them to themselves.