How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)

[thainomad3]

3 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

If you were actually for real, there are plenty of Thai women that don't want any sin sod, but given how mean you are with money I guess the only way you have is to pay up.

I agree other girls wouldn't want sin sod but wouldn't I have to pay in other ways like letting her live with me or US visa. Also this girl let me get her pregnant without sin sod (but we lost the baby in September) but now her mother is demanding sin sod.

[thaibeachlovers]

Just now, thainomad3 said:

I agree other girls wouldn't want sin sod but wouldn't I have to pay in other ways like letting her live with me or US visa. Also this girl let me get her pregnant without sin sod (but we lost the baby in September) but now her mother is demanding sin sod.

Sin sod is for the parents, not the wife. Normally when a farang marries a Thai wife he is expected to support her, not swan off around the world without her and contributing as little as possible.

[thaibeachlovers]

3 minutes ago, thainomad3 said:

Also this girl let me get her pregnant without sin sod

You clearly know nothing about Thai customs.

If you don't want to live with your own rug rat, why do you want to have one?

[richard_smith237]

17 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You clearly know nothing about Thai customs.

If you don't want to live with your own rug rat, why do you want to have one?

 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

 

I agree. I'm done on this thread.

[SAFETY FIRST]

On 11/27/2024 at 3:51 AM, thainomad3 said:

She has 2 daughters and agreed to give me a kid

Is it you again Bob? 

 

BTW, does anyone like the new colours. 

I'm not a fan. 

 

Edited 4 hours ago by SAFETY FIRST

[OneMoreFarang]

3 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

I am viewing her as a way to get kids for as cheap as possible and side chick. While she thinks im a husband. I plan to only financially support my kids and won't live with her much after staying several months this Spring. The sin sod would just be a guarantee for her to let me get her pregnant again and I agree with everyone 100k is too much. Im planning a negotiation to 10k/month while pregnant and I will get a paternity test.

 

I met her in February 2024. That summer, I stayed in her home while taking online classes, paying only the power bill (4,000 baht/month). I got sex daily, and she became pregnant, but we lost the baby in September. This winter, we discussed me staying with her for several months, getting her pregnant, and giving 100k baht Sin Sod.

 

That sounds strange to me.

What is the idea about getting kids for as cheap as possible? Then, what do you do with the kid(s)? Who will raise them? Who will pay for their school? Will they have only a father or also a mother?

As far as I see raising kids properly is expensive, also in Thailand. Just the school fees for decent schools are scary. Keeping those future costs in mind 100k or 1m for the "production" of the kids is just a small part of the all over cost.

[thesetat2013]

4 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

But is it not a fair deal to get a kid from her from 3k or less without having to pay for wedding gold car house etc?

Sounds to me more like you are seeking a surrogate mother.. 

 

The sinsod has nothing to do with paying for a wedding or house or gold. Those are separate and can also be considered sinsod. Gold will be part of the sinsod along with cash. Make no mistake... 

A house, car, etc... You will end up purchasing anyway in the future...because the marriage will not last....She is out for cash. If you pay her sinsod you have the opportunity to lose all 3000 plus the woman and house and chance to make a kid. Sinsod does not guarantee anything and is paid up front. Marriage will cost you over 1500 USD with party and wedding ceremonies alone. Sinsod is a gift.... not a promise or anything like that.. The family can take the money and keep it and kick you out on the street with the only option of getting that money back will be showing proof it was not a gift and was indeed a dowry payment. It has happened in Thailand many times even with Thai men and woman. The costs to retrieve that money will exceed the money you gave them should they cancel the wedding. 

Once again you show you do not really need this woman... You want a kid. I understand that.. But any woman you marry will give you a kid..  So i do not see what is your rush to have this woman and her (baggage) kids along with the deal.  You only plan to come into Thailand a few months in a year. You can be sure she will find lovers or a boyfriend during that time and continually ask you for money monthly while you are gone to support her and the family. You think right now differently and want to justify her requests but you do not look at what will really happen. 

You are setting yourself up for disaster in the future. Once you are married, she will demand money all the time. It will be your responsibility to support her and most likely her family as well.

For your few months a year in Thailand you would only spend a 1000 to 1500 USD renting a condo and a car. Without any obligatory money to her and her family. 

 

Just so you know.. the youngest daughter in the family obtains the house and land when the parents die. Also, any woman you are in relations with would allow you to sleep in their family home if you are in relations with them and wanting to marry. This woman is offering you nothing special except a lot of financial recourse in the future. Eventually, you will be having to pay for her other kids also. Even though now she is not asking this. Have no doubt this will happen. 

[steven100]

12 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

How does a 22 year old guy have a spare 100,000 baht, and what sort of job does the OP have to be living in LOS, or is he going to take her and her two kids back home?

sorry Thaibeachlovers,  I replied to the wrong comment ... it wasn't suppose to be you that I said was AI bot.

my sincere apologies for the mistake. 

[EVENKEEL]

3 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You clearly know nothing about Thai customs.

If you don't want to live with your own rug rat, why do you want to have one?

Rugrats are great. 

[EVENKEEL]

4 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

It's very real. I'm trying to reproduce for as cheap as possible while having a place to hangout in Thailand for a few months (taking online classes before graduation).

 

I met her in February 2024. That summer, I stayed in her home while taking online classes, paying only the power bill (4,000 baht/month). I got sex daily, and she became pregnant, but we lost the baby in September.

This winter, we discussed me staying with her for several months, getting her pregnant, and giving a 100,000 baht Sin Sod.

Wackaloodle comes to mind. Has to be a windup or Bob is altering course. 

[mikeymike100]

This may be a bit off topic, but are Thai men expected to pay the same as foreignness regarding this sin sod?

[BritManToo]

4 minutes ago, mikeymike100 said:

This may be a bit off topic, but are Thai men expected to pay the same as foreignness regarding this sin sod?

Depends how old and unattractive they are, and how much money they have.

Women always take all they think they can get.

[quake]

Op. Zero sin sod, she is very used goods.

But must say, sounds like a pork pie thread.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited 41 minutes ago by quake

[steven100]

19 hours ago, NoDisplayName said:

 

You should demand at least a half million baht.

Her offer of 100k and an underage daughter is insufficient.

 

C'mon, man!

Don't sell yourself short.

You're worth more than that.

no man .....   just go for a couple of million   !!     2 Million