Why Do So Many Foreign Men Still Marry Short-Time Girls?

[ChumpChange]

7 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

that is many gallons of semen.

thank you for sharing that Intel. My life is complete now.

[kiwikeith]

2 hours ago, Will B Good said:

....or worse.....both partners tough it out in shared misery as they see no real alternatives to the lives they are leading.

I would still rather have a beer in a nice bar in Thailand than play bingo at an RSA at home with some boring old farts.

At least the girls treat you well and laugh and joke even when your getting on.

[Will B Good]

13 minutes ago, kiwikeith said:

I would still rather have a beer in a nice bar in Thailand than play bingo at an RSA at home with some boring old farts.

At least the girls treat you well and laugh and joke even when your getting on.

 

OMG yes......no comparison......and I'm a total sucker for the gf experience.

[ChumpChange]

So many great options for short time women to think about marrying in Thailand. And good news is that you can go through them all and then see if you really want to marry or just continue bonking your way through it all. Of course, you start with the Thais out of courtesy, and then when you get bored with them, you move onto the Vietnamese, then over to the East Africans. Or if you're really kinky, you can go through some of those Uzbeki girls that are dressed in Burkas. The skies the limit. And pretty soon, the Indian women will start showing up with their furry growlers. Just smoke a couple of fat blunts first then head out and go balls deep. 

[spidermike007]

6 hours ago, Chwooly said:

Interesting, I keep having friends tell me that I should look at older women as they have already been used and abused and might appreciate a stable and steady guy especially one that is no longer looking to shag as many as possible. And that an older 1 might be more mature and better able to handle the emotional baggage you speak of.

 

I think the reality is that there are good and bad and unfortunately in my experience the girls coming to Pattaya that fit the less then 200 men are also being trained by the women in the 2000 men range and your assumption that they will be sane and not look at men as animals is a little naïve and I don't say that to be insulting. 

 

It wasn't so bad back in the day but i wasn't smart enough to find and latch on to one when i was younger and more desirable 555

To each his own, we all make choices in life, but from my experience I have found older women to be too conservative, too conventional, not open-minded enough, not adventurous enough, and way too traditional for my taste, and for my lifestyle. In addition I like to get some inspiration from a woman's appearance, she doesn't have to be gorgeous, but there has to be some inspiration there. 

[john donson]

AI writer getting ridiculous... check posts from this AI ... all questions...

[wombat]

if you weren't out looking for miss Rightfortonight and she wasn't working bar,

how else were you going to meet?

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, wombat said:

if you weren't out looking for miss Rightfortonight and she wasn't working bar,

how else were you going to meet?

well, for the age here, it would be to go on a cruise with all the blue hair ladys? 

[Lacessit]

Women of all stripes are seeking a good provider. It comes with the territory.

 

IMO many foreign men marry bar girls because sex is readily available, without the usual frills demanded by non- bar girls. It makes a refreshing change for many. Some girls have skills a "decent" woman would never countenance.

 

As far as getting scammed by bar girls goes, there are good ones and bad ones, and anyone who gets scammed by a bad one IMO has been thinking solely with the small head.

[Lacessit]

On 12/9/2024 at 12:43 PM, BritManToo said:

 

Most western men never learn the art of manipulation, I don't know why as it's a relatively easy skill to master.

Yes. That's why employment in science did not suit you.

 

Manipulation in science is a career death sentence, when detected.

[NoshowJones]

On 12/9/2024 at 1:00 AM, save the frogs said:

Didnt someone start this same thread like a week ago?

 

Does it matter if they did? There are thousands of AN members and new ones joining all the time.

[BritManToo]

26 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Yes. That's why employment in science did not suit you.

 

Manipulation in science is a career death sentence, when detected.

Unless your shilling for climate change or vaccinations and big pharma, in which case easy money.

[KannikaP]

7 minutes ago, NoshowJones said:

Does it matter if they did? There are thousands of AN members and new ones joining all the time.

So are you suggesting that EVERY topic should be recycled every so often for the old thousands, who cannot be bothered to check, and the new ones who don't know what they have already missed. There is a search facility for anyone who thinks they may have missed something.

[rumak]

On 12/9/2024 at 10:57 AM, KhaoTakiab said:

On 12/9/2024 at 12:17 AM, JK-Trilly said:

Their education is often minimal, and they generally know little about the world

Like most farangs living in Thailand...

 

Most of those who came here at an early age (under 40)  and stayed seem to learn

their lessons through life experiences.

Many retirees coming here after living 99% of their life as workers in the Western world , with maybe a few trips to Thailand for "fun"  , easily fall for the manipulations of street smart girls with 3rd grade "education" .....

one day to end up getting screwed in a way they never expected.

After that............. the road forks in a thousand ways .   Depends on the man.

 

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Unless your shilling for climate change or vaccinations and big pharma, in which case easy money.

Climate change is real. Vaccinations save millions of people from death or serious debilitation. The science is there.

 

No argument about big pharma, IMO Thai doctors are among the biggest shills.

[rumak]

21 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

To each his own, we all make choices in life, but from my experience I have found older women to be too conservative, too conventional, not open-minded enough, not adventurous enough, and way too traditional for my taste, and for my lifestyle. In addition I like to get some inspiration from a woman's appearance, she doesn't have to be gorgeous, but there has to be some inspiration there. 

 

When your seventy and IF you happen to be looking for your next model ....... 

you just might decide that a slower ride would suit you better .

or not.   the thrill doing gymnastics on one of those big bikes can really be a great

way to go.

Most guys have their "trade off"  date .   But some never give in ......

[novacova]

On 12/9/2024 at 12:17 AM, JK-Trilly said:

Why Do So Many Foreign Men Still Marry Short-Time Girls?

Desperation. Desperate people congregate with each other. Folks like to hang out with their own kind, drunks hang out with drunks. Thieves hang out with thieves. Church goers hang out with church goers. John’s hangout with call girls. Get the picture?

[rumak]

On 12/9/2024 at 12:43 PM, BritManToo said:

Most western men never learn the art of manipulation, I don't know why as it's a relatively easy skill to master.

 

Most people know how to manipulate .  Even young children are experts. 

But damn if men don't totally forget everything when that smile hits them between the eyes..... and her hand lands between his thighs 

[KannikaP]

On 12/9/2024 at 2:27 PM, MalcolmB said:

Over ten years that is 50,000.

 

that is many gallons of semen.

I thought it was measured in 10 cc's.

[BigStar]

20 hours ago, john donson said:

AI writer getting ridiculous... check posts from this AI ... all questions...

 

Good indication of AIs here. Questions, w/o answering for themselves.

[BigStar]

Doesn't have to be complicated. Maybe it's just to enjoy continual great sex w/ a trained expert. I know of a couple of cases where guys married BJ artists for no possible reason other to enjoy the best BJs.

[Rimmer]

A baiting flame has been removed

[Liverpool Lou]

On 12/9/2024 at 12:56 AM, save the frogs said:

believe in superstitions and ghosts.

I have encountered ghosts.

What is a ghost, then?

[Liverpool Lou]

On 12/9/2024 at 1:00 AM, save the frogs said:

Didnt someone start this same thread like a week ago?

 

Like, yes.

[connda]

Speaking for yourself JK-Trilly of 43 posts (figured as much).

[ChumpChange]

3 hours ago, connda said:

Speaking for yourself JK-Trilly of 43 posts (figured as much).

Nobody gives a toss, but try not to lose too much sleep over it. 

[SiSePuede419]

One word: L-A-Z-Y 🍌

[save the frogs]

12 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:

What is a ghost, then?

dead person? I'm not really sure. It doesn't have a physical body, but has a "presence" of some sort that can vaguely be felt. good question. i like that you're inquisitive, lou. i have a cousin named lou. 

[Kerryd]

There's a fool born every minute - and two bargirls to take him.

Literally, every single day, thousands of starry-eyed single (or not) men arrive in Thailand and fall in love with the first bar girl they meet.
Because for most of them, they've never had ANY woman treat them the same as your average (Thai) bar girl has been doing since she was a kid (before she ever went to a bar - it's Thai culture - women are generally raised to "take care" of the men).

And it's not just old, ugly guys on their third divorce either. When I was in Afghanistan (first time, '03-'05) one of our firefighters was a guy who looked like he came straight out of a Chippendale's calendar. Any time he'd be outside sunning himself you'd see a bunch of the women (military and civilian) trying to sneak peeks from their tent lines.

He goes to Phuket on his first holiday. Falls in love with the (2nd or 3rd) bar girl he met (according to his friends).
Comes back to work and on his next holiday he clears out his bedspace and flies back to Thailand (without giving notice). Marries his teerak and tries to open a "dive shop", thinking he was living the dream.

Until he found out life isn't so easy. Small matters like visas and work permits and so on. Suddenly he's out of money, no job and his "teerak" dumps him (naturally). He ended up doing odd jobs at a hotel owned by a Canadian couple and getting paid under the table until he got enough to get back to Canada.

It's a story that is literally repeated every single day in Thailand. Usually with older guys who've been married and divorced, often more than once.
They meet a woman in a beer bar. She's nice, pays attention to him, pampers him a bit and the hook is in. 

Suddenly he thinks he's "living the dream". A resort paradise, not freezing cold or drizzling, dreary rain. A woman who smiles when she looks at you and treats you "like a king" compared to how you were normally treated by women "back home".

This has been happening here ever since the first "beer bar" opened however long ago (likely before the first US servicemen started going to Pattaya on R&R from Vietnam in the late 60s).

And it will keep happening for as long as Thai women keep being Thai women and "Western women" continue being "Western women".

[Will B Good]

2 minutes ago, Kerryd said:

There's a fool born every minute - and two bargirls to take him.

Literally, every single day, thousands of starry-eyed single (or not) men arrive in Thailand and fall in love with the first bar girl they meet.
Because for most of them, they've never had ANY woman treat them the same as your average (Thai) bar girl has been doing since she was a kid (before she ever went to a bar - it's Thai culture - women are generally raised to "take care" of the men).

And it's not just old, ugly guys on their third divorce either. When I was in Afghanistan (first time, '03-'05) one of our firefighters was a guy who looked like he came straight out of a Chippendale's calendar. Any time he'd be outside sunning himself you'd see a bunch of the women (military and civilian) trying to sneak peeks from their tent lines.

He goes to Phuket on his first holiday. Falls in love with the (2nd or 3rd) bar girl he met (according to his friends).
Comes back to work and on his next holiday he clears out his bedspace and flies back to Thailand (without giving notice). Marries his teerak and tries to open a "dive shop", thinking he was living the dream.

Until he found out life isn't so easy. Small matters like visas and work permits and so on. Suddenly he's out of money, no job and his "teerak" dumps him (naturally). He ended up doing odd jobs at a hotel owned by a Canadian couple and getting paid under the table until he got enough to get back to Canada.

It's a story that is literally repeated every single day in Thailand. Usually with older guys who've been married and divorced, often more than once.
They meet a woman in a beer bar. She's nice, pays attention to him, pampers him a bit and the hook is in. 

Suddenly he thinks he's "living the dream". A resort paradise, not freezing cold or drizzling, dreary rain. A woman who smiles when she looks at you and treats you "like a king" compared to how you were normally treated by women "back home".

This has been happening here ever since the first "beer bar" opened however long ago (likely before the first US servicemen started going to Pattaya on R&R from Vietnam in the late 60s).

And it will keep happening for as long as Thai women keep being Thai women and "Western women" continue being "Western women".

 

The fool element, I guess, is getting shafted at the end when the relationship turns sour. Prior to that you are living the dream.

 

I was engaged three times before taking the plunge......and I can honestly say I was living the dream for 10 years or more.

 

Even now I find the gf experience exhilarating........and I know exactly what the girls are doing and why.....555