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"What's common in Hurricane, Earthquake and Thai marriage?"

 

"Ah, I dunno but sounds somebody's loosing his house......"

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How much did she ask for her sick buffalo 🐃

 

And make sure when you transfer all your money to Thailand make sure you transfer it to her account, I'm sure she is trust worthy, she sound genuine and a keeper...🥰😍🤑🤑    

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On 12/14/2024 at 7:59 PM, Jerry777 said:

I'm new here from America and and almost 70 years old divorced and lonely.. I met this beautiful young girl outside of  a bar very early morning in Pattaya and she seemed really afraid. I really felt sorry for her and she told me her story of such a hard life on the farm, and so after paying the bar owner 5000 baht to get her out of that horrible place, we visited her parents in Udon Thani. We knew were soul mates immediately so after they said they had some land. They  said it would only cost 200,000usd to build a small home. Is this a normal price here for a small home here. Thanks i am so in love. I know many people here have similar wonderful experiences.

HaHa, nice troll.

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You are definitely NOT in love. You are in lust. You are emotionally vulnerable. I always advocate really taking your time here. Time is ALWAYS our ally, and never theirs. So take you time, get to know who they really are, and how they act under duress. The vast majority of Thai people are way immature for their age. And many women and men are emotionally undeveloped, and really just 13 year olds, who look like adults. There is something about this society that does not allow most people to grow up with an understanding of themselves. I think face has something to do with it. The utter refusal to take responsibility for one's actions and the unwillingness to "own" a situation, and man up when you screw up. That and the inability to question people, and situations. And the subsequent lack of curiosity. It is all a perfect storm, when it comes to preventing alot of people from becoming well developed human beings, with communication skills, and the tools needed to conduct meaningful relationships, beyond the surface.

 

So you need at least 3 years, before investing any money, to get to know her and her family. Otherwise, the chances of this ending well as very slim. 

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Marriage is an archaic concept created to line the coffers of Politicians and Preachers.  As well, in Thailand, a payoff to her folks.  A marriage certificate only provides an entry, not an exit to the union.

 

In today's World, there is no reason to a marriage.   Contract agreements provide much more protection to each side without the financial stigma of an official marriage.

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On 12/14/2024 at 7:59 PM, Jerry777 said:

I'm new here from America and and almost 70 years old divorced and lonely.. I met this beautiful young girl outside of  a bar very early morning in Pattaya and she seemed really afraid. I really felt sorry for her and she told me her story of such a hard life on the farm, and so after paying the bar owner 5000 baht to get her out of that horrible place, we visited her parents in Udon Thani. We knew were soul mates immediately so after they said they had some land. They  said it would only cost 200,000usd to build a small home. Is this a normal price here for a small home here. Thanks i am so in love. I know many people here have similar wonderful experiences.

"America"?    There are 37 Countries in the Americas.

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1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

You are definitely NOT in love. You are in lust. You are emotionally vulnerable. I always advocate really taking your time here. Time is ALWAYS our ally, and never theirs. So take you time, get to know who they really are, and how they act under duress. The vast majority of Thai people are way immature for their age. And many women and men are emotionally undeveloped, and really just 13 year olds, who look like adults. There is something about this society that does not allow most people to grow up with an understanding of themselves. I think face has something to do with it. The utter refusal to take responsibility for one's actions and the unwillingness to "own" a situation, and man up when you screw up. That and the inability to question people, and situations. And the subsequent lack of curiosity. It is all a perfect storm, when it comes to preventing alot of people from becoming well developed human beings, with communication skills, and the tools needed to conduct meaningful relationships, beyond the surface.

 

So you need at least 3 years, before investing any money, to get to know her and her family. Otherwise, the chances of this ending well as very slim. 

if the op is even real which i doubt the chances of him thinking through your very sound advice with his big head instead of the little head are likely slim to none....a 20 year old thai gal can easily do that to most any man especially one that is old enough to be her great grandfather and thinks he and she are in "love".

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23 hours ago, phetphet said:

Let's face facts. You are 70, so probably only have one or two, maybe five years left on his earth. Riding a young filly might even shorten that time. Is paying US$200,000 to build a home you won't get to live in for too long a good investment?

 

Don't forget that you will also have pay pay an extremely high sin sod for such a highly prized farm girl, plus a new pickup truck for the family. There might even be further loans required once you are "part of said family."

 

It might be best you check your finances can afford it before making such a move.

 

Damn man!  I'm over 75 years old.  

 

I'll let you know if I drop dead tomorrow.   I don't even have a young filly to ride either!!!   

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A house in the Udon Thani should cost no more than US$400.00 per square meter. About 13500 TB per square meter. I just built a large one with three bathrooms and two kitchens, and project managed it myself, and it cost 12,000 TB per square meter.

And as someone else commented, be prepared to lose your investment, and don't spend all your money on the project.

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On 12/14/2024 at 7:59 PM, Jerry777 said:

I'm new here from America and and almost 70 years old divorced and lonely.. I met this beautiful young girl outside of  a bar very early morning in Pattaya and she seemed really afraid. I really felt sorry for her and she told me her story of such a hard life on the farm, and so after paying the bar owner 5000 baht to get her out of that horrible place, we visited her parents in Udon Thani. We knew were soul mates immediately so after they said they had some land. They  said it would only cost 200,000usd to build a small home. Is this a normal price here for a small home here. Thanks i am so in love. I know many people here have similar wonderful experiences.

 

the gen z ghost writers all have generic names with numbers in it and incredible stories

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On 12/14/2024 at 7:59 PM, Jerry777 said:

I'm new here from America and and almost 70 years old divorced and lonely.. I met this beautiful young girl outside of  a bar very early morning in Pattaya and she seemed really afraid. I really felt sorry for her and she told me her story of such a hard life on the farm, and so after paying the bar owner 5000 baht to get her out of that horrible place, we visited her parents in Udon Thani. We knew were soul mates immediately so after they said they had some land. They  said it would only cost 200,000usd to build a small home. Is this a normal price here for a small home here. Thanks i am so in love. I know many people here have similar wonderful experiences.

Beware of Grand Mothers sick buffalo

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Regarding ongoing running-costs, don't forget that the sick-buffaloes will require land to be purchased to live on, and regular visits from the (expensive, farang-price) vet ?  :cool:

 

Also check that your Tirak doesn't have a brother or male-cousin hanging around, of a similar age to her, that will likely be her Thai-husband, who may not like having a farang competitor.  :whistling:  

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3 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

You are definitely NOT in love. You are in lust. You are emotionally vulnerable. I always advocate really taking your time here. Time is ALWAYS our ally, and never theirs.

I know you are right and sensible BUT;

 

When we get to 70s better take what you get. Just ignore all wise advice, go for it full steam and enjoy life!

Who cares what their motives are? Just enjoy the ride with a young hot gal.

 

Most of us have paid thousands for social security - let them take care of us when we go broke.

Some of us have too much to spend - we need help! Thai women are known for good heart and great skill in that area, let them help us.

 

OP - keep reporting how things go for you.

 

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On 12/14/2024 at 7:59 PM, Jerry777 said:

I'm new here from America and and almost 70 years old divorced and lonely.. I met this beautiful young girl outside of  a bar very early morning in Pattaya and she seemed really afraid. I really felt sorry for her and she told me her story of such a hard life on the farm, and so after paying the bar owner 5000 baht to get her out of that horrible place, we visited her parents in Udon Thani. We knew were soul mates immediately so after they said they had some land. They  said it would only cost 200,000usd to build a small home. Is this a normal price here for a small home here. Thanks i am so in love. I know many people here have similar wonderful experiences.

Nope, nope, nope. Can you find happiness here in the "winter of your life"? Absolutely, but experienced advice (American 13 years retired CM)? No permanent commitments until at least a year of life in Thailand and definitely outside Pattaya. Love Pattaya and my experiences there but odds stacked against you for a long run ....

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On 12/15/2024 at 3:29 AM, redwood1 said:

Sir your not even a good troll......Try and put together a more believable story if you feel the need to troll....

Yes, he missed the sick buffaloes...

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On 12/14/2024 at 11:59 PM, Jerry777 said:

I'm new here from America and and almost 70 years old divorced and lonely.. I met this beautiful young girl outside of  a bar very early morning in Pattaya and she seemed really afraid. I really felt sorry for her and she told me her story of such a hard life on the farm, and so after paying the bar owner 5000 baht to get her out of that horrible place, we visited her parents in Udon Thani. We knew were soul mates immediately so after they said they had some land. They  said it would only cost 200,000usd to build a small home. Is this a normal price here for a small home here. Thanks i am so in love. I know many people here have similar wonderful experiences.

 

A very obviously troll thread.

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"I am new here".

 

Please, please give yourself more time before you make mistakes thousands before you have made. 

 

While many on here will scoff and be entirely negative, be aware there is 90% truth in what they are saying. 

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On 12/14/2024 at 7:59 PM, Jerry777 said:

Is this a normal price here for a small home here.

 

Yes everything about it  is completely normal --The only  un- normal thing that is the number of people who answer this thread thinking its genuine .           Then Maybe again the way ASEAN standard is heading , thats normal also......:coffee1:

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