10 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

 

Why in <deleted> would I do that ?

Sure, not you. Nobody who knows you would expect that🤗

2 minutes ago, ChaiyaTH said:

Like that changes anything, in reality you would still provide but just are ignorant to pretend you are not paying. 

You know nothing about my situation, so are an idiot making strange comments.

2 minutes ago, ChaiyaTH said:

What a nonsense reply, you now want to state that 'the right girls' 'make a lot more money too'. BS. I know doctors and laywers that barely make 40-50k.

Then you don't know the right ones. We employ woman who earn well over 100K

1 minute ago, FritsSikkink said:

Then you don't know the right ones. We employ woman who earn well over 100K

You still seem to have your head stuck in some pile of dirt. You don't seem to get the point, quality girls have nothing to do with earnings. What is the point to even brag about what your company and boss employs, that is not you, you are just a worker. 

1 minute ago, ChaiyaTH said:

What is the point to even brag about what your company and boss employs, that is not you, you are just a worker. 

and shareholder.

11 minutes ago, ChaiyaTH said:

Like that changes anything, in reality you would still provide but just are ignorant to pretend you are not paying. 

It's called a marriage, and just like in the USA, in my world anyway, we share everything.  Doesn't matter who earns more money.  Wife #2 made about the same, sometimes more than me, depending how many days I worked.  Did take her 5 days, but only 2 for me, but hey, we shared everything.

 

No my money, or her money, and no, here's money for you or me.  All ours, and we make, made decisions on how to utilize it.   Same here / TH.   Our money to spend & invest, as 'we' decide to.

 

If I want to buy a BEV pick up next week, I'll buy it.  If we want to go to Japan for a week, we go.  If she wants 10 more water storage tanks for her garden / greenhouse, she'll buy 'em.  There's no asking permission, as long as we aren't going crazy.   After 19 years, we know our 'iimits' and what needs to be jointly decided or considered on.

 

What she contributes daily, weekly, monthly, you couldn't put a value on.   What I contribute, monthly, financially, really has no value, except monetary.  

5 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

People hate up not down.

That explains why you MAGAs are so obsessed with us "lefties".

26 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

Sure, not you. Nobody who knows you would expect that🤗

 

Why would any sane man do it?

Simp maybe ?

 

41 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

The OP isn't about happiness, neither my comment.

Why would you or I care how much someone else earns? Not our business!

11 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

 

Why would any sane man do it?

Simp maybe ?

 

If you got a stupid Thai girl friend, as I suppose you have, then you're right. As a wife she has rights, same as in Europe.

35 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

That explains why you MAGAs are so obsessed with us "lefties".

You guys abuse people daily. Endless hate. Hating up from Pattaya.

20 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

 

Why would any sane man do it?

Simp maybe ?

 

No what?

41 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

and shareholder.

And?

1 hour ago, newbee2022 said:

If you're married you should share your income. What else?

If you got only girl friends or sluts you have to give a decent amount only.

....is all you ever do is spew nonsense, 24/7?

 

bob.

She pays me! Only idiots pay to keep a lady! 
she is also spending  250 k bht a month on building another villa for us to rent out on koh samui and extending our villa to 5 bedrooms 7 bathrooms ! 
losers pay their bar girl friends to stay only!

1 hour ago, Robert_Smith said:

....is all you ever do is spew nonsense, 24/7?

 

bob.

It's all what to comment after reading your stuff. 

There seems to be something interesting: your threads are becoming more and more erratic day by day. 

I am very much concerned where it will end?

Be careful if one day two men in white will visit you.🤗

2 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

If you got a stupid Thai girl friend, as I suppose you have, then you're right. As a wife she has rights, same as in Europe.

 

My wife is a white import... alien you might say, just like me.

34 minutes ago, zepplin said:

She pays me! Only idiots pay to keep a lady! 
she is also spending  250 k bht a month on building another villa for us to rent out on koh samui and extending our villa to 5 bedrooms 7 bathrooms ! 
losers pay their bar girl friends to stay only!

 

I totally believe this story.

Married 12 years, 2 kids, I pay the bills, she cooks, cleans etc etc, without me paying her, she's one of the lucky ones! 

I have yet to see a genuinely good-looking, youngish, self-made woman in Thailand who has a pile of her own money and assets. Anytime you hear some geezer on here boasting on about how his wife is so rich, doesn’t need his money, and is with him purely for other reasons, you can bet it’s either complete rubbish or she’s a fat old maid that nobody would want to plonk anyway.
 

There are only two kinds of women in Thailand. Hot and poor or fat and rich. You lot all know it, so let’s not fool ourselves. Now take your pick. Which kind is yours?

I pay her zero same as I did my U.K. wife, I look after her provide a roof over her head and food on the table, why do foreigners pay Thai ladies a salary, easy if they didn’t they wouldn’t stay with the old fart.

On 3/9/2025 at 3:42 PM, dinsdale said:

None of your business or anyone else's for that matter. As for "Thai woman" I call my "Thai woman" my wife. When are you going to stop these BS posts? As an expat I hope you're ok (mentally) but I have my doubts. As a poster on here PLEASE STOP! It's pitiful.

 

Fully agree with Dinsdale!

6 minutes ago, donmuang37 said:

Fully agree with Dinsdale!

You're just as daft as he is then!

 

you aren't an aussie too, are you?

 

bob.

44 minutes ago, Jumbo1968 said:

 I look after her provide a roof over her head and food on the table, 

 

Your paying her way then.

2 hours ago, BillyBobzTeeth said:

Married 12 years, 2 kids, I pay the bills, she cooks, cleans etc etc, without me paying her, she's one of the lucky ones! 

 

If you pay the bills you are paying her.

 

If you pay her rent/mortgage you are paying her.

 

 

57 minutes ago, Jumbo1968 said:

I pay her zero same as I did my U.K. wife, I look after her provide a roof over her head and food on the table, why do foreigners pay Thai ladies a salary, easy if they didn’t they wouldn’t stay with the old fart.

 

If you pay her rent you are paying her.

 

If you pay her food you are paying her.

On 3/9/2025 at 10:07 PM, Dmaxdan said:

Yes I did and it's meant I've lived "rent free" for close on 15 years.

 

Smart man, that's equal 5,000 Baht a month over those 9 years, and she has secure tenure when you've gone to the other side.

On 3/9/2025 at 10:28 PM, dinsdale said:

Interesting post I must say being TIT. Exactly what type of bar are we talking about here?

 

 

Was just sending the wind up the poster, my wife hasn't worked the bar for 18 years, my bad as I have had to support her for the past 18 years LoL

I lovingly give my wife 20k pm and she is not a silly little girl!

She gives her very responsible son 10k, car insurance 2k so she is left with 8k to fritter away...which pleases me...i am not a sticky man and if you want to borrow a few bob, Bob just ask