Not Approved Because I'm Not High So

[norsurin]

Meet a lady from saraburi.She told me she speaks English wery well.I speak thai well.After few minutes she asked me if i could speak thai to her because easier to understand she said Well..i spoke thai then.We talked about 30 minutes.She asked this and that.My status etc etc.Where i meet my exwife and so on I asked her to open her cam but she refused.

About 5 minutes after we talked she msg me and said she only dating High -so people not a low so like me.I laughing by myself because some is so stupid and think their so special.

I never looking down on people wherever they come from or their status.I blocked this lady but replied her that she better looking herself at the mirror before judge other.

I understand that she looks for a guy with big money that makes her shine in her stupid life 

 

[impulse]

Who was it that said he'd never join a club with such low standards that even he could get in?

 

It's the same with dating.

 

[impulse]

1 hour ago, impulse said:

Who was it that said he'd never join a club with such low standards that even he could get in?

 

It's the same with dating.

 

 

A little trivia from wikipedia:

 

I don’t care to belong to any club that will have me as a member". As quoted in The Groucho Letters (1967) edited by Arthur Sheekman (uncredited). The sentiment predates Marx by 61 years, however; it likely originated with John Galsworthy in The Forsyte Saga.

 

I thought it was Rodney Dangerfield, but it was Groucho.

 

[Gandtee]

1 hour ago, impulse said:

Who was it that said he'd never join a club with such low standards that even he could get in?

 

It's the same with dating.

 

Groucho Marx 

[save the frogs]

It's been like that since the beginning of time.

 

In African tribes, women would get hitched up with the fattest guy because he obviously could afford to eat and she wouldn't starve.

 

Only thing is women rarely state it explicitly.

 

For the most part, going after a woman above your pay grade will end badly. But you can try your luck. There might be exceptions. 

 

[SAFETY FIRST]

2 hours ago, norsurin said:

About 5 minutes after we talked she msg me and said she only dating High -so people not a low so

Good on her. 👍

 

 

[Lacessit]

Shallow as a mud puddle.

[jas007]

3 hours ago, norsurin said:

Meet a lady from saraburi.She told me she speaks English wery well.I speak thai well.After few minutes she asked me if i could speak thai to her because easier to understand she said Well..i spoke thai then.We talked about 30 minutes.She asked this and that.My status etc etc.Where i meet my exwife and so on I asked her to open her cam but she refused.

About 5 minutes after we talked she msg me and said she only dating High -so people not a low so like me.I laughing by myself because some is so stupid and think their so special.

I never looking down on people wherever they come from or their status.I blocked this lady but replied her that she better looking herself at the mirror before judge other.

I understand that she looks for a guy with big money that makes her shine in her stupid life 

 

 

Why even spend time worrying about it?  Does it matter? 

[Fat is a type of crazy]

Take it as good feedback about how you come across. She might be shallow but the issue of being Hi so or not might relate to how sociable, charming, and tuned in to the world you seem rather than only about money.  Talking about exes on a first chat - even if asked - is not likely to lead to anything positive in how you are perceived. 

Fact is if that's on her mind - and not something you care about as is the case for most men - good to find out now. 

[BangkokReady]

She sounds awful.  Bullet dodged.

[Callmeishmael]

Was your ex-wife from Issan?  Lots of people from central or southern Thailand are quite prejudiced and look down upon people from Issan, they often view them as 'Thai hillbillys'. 

 

She may consider you to be lo-so because you learned to speak Thai with an Issan accent. 

[impulse]

2 hours ago, save the frogs said:

 

For the most part, going after a woman above your pay grade will end badly. But you can try your luck. There might be exceptions. 

 

Generally, only women are allowed to get away with hypergamy. 

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, impulse said:

 

Generally, only women are allowed to get away with hypergamy. 

does happen in reverse, but much less common

[impulse]

11 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

does happen in reverse, but much less common

 

I dated a lady that made more than me. My position scored more Hay Points, but she worked for the oil company and I worked for a suppler.

 

Life's not fair...

[bunnydrops]

My wife ran into a HiSo mother who told her she should have waited for a rich farang who could support the whole family. She said it was just as easy to find a rich man as it was to find a poor one. I think a lot think this way.

[madone]

6 hours ago, norsurin said:

Meet a lady from saraburi.She told me she speaks English wery well.I speak thai well.After few minutes she asked me if i could speak thai to her because easier to understand she said Well..i spoke thai then.We talked about 30 minutes.She asked this and that.My status etc etc.Where i meet my exwife and so on I asked her to open her cam but she refused.

About 5 minutes after we talked she msg me and said she only dating High -so people not a low so like me.I laughing by myself because some is so stupid and think their so special.

I never looking down on people wherever they come from or their status.I blocked this lady but replied her that she better looking herself at the mirror before judge other.

I understand that she looks for a guy with big money that makes her shine in her stupid life 

 

 Great story, mate,

 

riveting and well told.

you are a natural raconteur

[saintdomingo]

Possibly spelling it High so instead of Hi-So is what put her off. Doesn't mean you won't get another chance, give it another go.

[Moonlover]

3 hours ago, Lacessit said:

Shallow as a mud puddle.

Who, the poster or the lady?

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, Moonlover said:

Who, the poster or the lady?

maybe both.

what are the OP's motivations for wanting to get hitched up with hiso in the first place? 

 

[scubascuba3]

You'll get over it

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, bunnydrops said:

She said it was just as easy to find a rich man as it was to find a poor one. I think a lot think this way.

 

Is "she" your wife or the woman your wife was talking to?

[scorecard]

1 hour ago, bunnydrops said:

My wife ran into a HiSo mother who told her she should have waited for a rich farang who could support the whole family. She said it was just as easy to find a rich man as it was to find a poor one. I think a lot think this way.

 

Re the last sentence, that's the thinking of my extended Thai family. One extended family member in particular is totally convinced that all farang have unlimited money.

 

The Thai man involved (a middle aged overweight loud know all about every subject  is now the brother in law of my Thai son.

 

When my Thai son was arranging his wedding to lady boy's sister the lady boy told all extended family members (regardless of age, employed / unemployed or whatever) that after the wedding they would all be receiving 50,000Baht a month from the Australian government.

 

He told me son he had informed all the extended family they would be receiving 50,000Baht a month. My Son told him taht's not true at all.

 

So lady boy called the Australian embassy in Bkk and asked what the family members had to do to start receiving 50,000Baht a month. The embassy staff told him this was totally not true.

 

Ladyboy shared this with my son and added 'you can't trust farang embassy staff they tell lies.

[DaRoadrunner]

Thais are all about image. If you are rich you are considered high class. I have tried without success to explain that real class is in how one behaves. Such is wasted on those as shallow as the Thai.

[FriscoKid]

I went into a place where everyone was high out of their minds. They said to me that I'm Not Approved Because I'm Not High So I left. 

[Cameroni]

10 hours ago, norsurin said:

Meet a lady from saraburi.She told me she speaks English wery well.I speak thai well.After few minutes she asked me if i could speak thai to her because easier to understand she said Well..i spoke thai then.We talked about 30 minutes.She asked this and that.My status etc etc.Where i meet my exwife and so on I asked her to open her cam but she refused.

About 5 minutes after we talked she msg me and said she only dating High -so people not a low so like me.I laughing by myself because some is so stupid and think their so special.

I never looking down on people wherever they come from or their status.I blocked this lady but replied her that she better looking herself at the mirror before judge other.

I understand that she looks for a guy with big money that makes her shine in her stupid life 

 

 

That's stunning. You spoke Thai and still she wasn't happy. But her refusal to switch on her cam is an indication that she was not very interested to start with.

 

In any case looks like she did you major favour.

 

How old was she?

[norsurin]

5 hours ago, Callmeishmael said:

Was your ex-wife from Issan?  Lots of people from central or southern Thailand are quite prejudiced and look down upon people from Issan, they often view them as 'Thai hillbillys'. 

 

She may consider you to be lo-so because you learned to speak Thai with an Issan accent. 

Right.My exwife from surin.I speak street thai means short words.Easy to understand for a thai because thats the way they speak to each other.I have a friend from UK who learn thai in a language school for 3 years When he and his wife visit us he couldn't follow what we talked about He said to me that he rather learn street thai.I noticed if i meet a person from fex Bangkok i have to speak thai slowly because they dont understand my short words.

My exwife learned me to speak khmer too..thats actually easier to learn because strong R 

 

[norsurin]

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

That's stunning. You spoke Thai and still she wasn't happy. But her refusal to switch on her cam is an indication that she was not very interested to start with.

 

In any case looks like she did you major favour.

 

How old was she?

She is 38 years old.

[connda]

Add a zero to those post numbers and you'll begin to understand the game.

[norsurin]

8 hours ago, save the frogs said:

It's been like that since the beginning of time.

 

In African tribes, women would get hitched up with the fattest guy because he obviously could afford to eat and she wouldn't starve.

 

Only thing is women rarely state it explicitly.

 

For the most part, going after a woman above your pay grade will end badly. But you can try your luck. There might be exceptions. 

 

I will stick with my thai mistress.Beatiful lady age 47 with a natural hairy p.....She just called and she have a really beautiful smile Her foreigner husband haven't see her for 4 years.Only promise he would take her to Europe.Nothing ever happened.No support at all.Well .shes have her needs.

[edwardflory]

Just to add...

 

When we are "out and about" and we meet other Thai women, Thai couples or mixed couples, one of the 1st questions asked of the wife by the woman in Thai language is, "How much does he 'pay' you." Sorts makes you wonder.......