40 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

We, males and females, are all humans, and closely related to the Bonobos, we are about as promiscuous as it gets. FACT.

 

It's a fallacy that all faithful girls are in rels, that's obviously not the case. As I explained above, she could have been faithful and in a rel with a guy who....had a boring life, was not good at sex, cheated, was not committed or did any of the numerous things that can cause any girl to end the rel. So then she's, guess where....on Thaifriendly waiting for you to text her.

 

Plus, there's 18 year olds, before they even get in a rel they try to date.

 

   People usually grow out of being obsessed by the opposite sex when they get into their mid 20's . once  they've been in a few relationships ,

   It rather sad and desperate to see older horny men still chasing young  woman 

25 minutes ago, thesetat said:

I always told them that they are only my Gf. I do not mind spending money on them to make a happy time for us when we are together. But it is not my responsibility to take care of them or their family. They worked and took care of themselves before me without any problems. So, why should I be paying them or their family just for us to be together. 

If we are living together then I am already supporting her and her money earned it more already so she should have money extra to send to family. 

 

Here is where the problem lies. Once you begin sending them money or supporting them financially even if it is to help their family, the are no longer just your Gf. They become your prostitute and your burden instead of someone you want to love and care for. Just don't do it. It effects your feelings towards her as well as how she views you. Your money is yours. Once you begin paying her she will become dependent on using you for this. You will no longer be a man she is trying to love and make a future together. You are now her sugar daddy who she can turn to for more and more help if using the right excuse to demand it from you. If you do not pay, her feelings will change and she will use it as well to make you suffer and perhaps even end it with you. 

 

That's a good post. I just want to make a few observations, if I may.

 

I don't think you can get out of it, in the long run. Here's why. SHE thinks its HER responsibility to look after her mother, father, sister, whatever it is. So she will try to do that. And if she can't she will not be happy and she will BLAME you for this, because in her mind you should have helped her. And to be fair, if she's your girlfriend she is your responsbility. So you actually should help her. If you don't her thinking will be "He is not giving me the lifestyle that I want, which inlcudes making sure my family is happy".

 

In the end you support every woman financially. There are no exceptions, apart from women who've already extracted large amounts from men, or got rich themselves, which is exceedingly rare.

 

They are a walking liability. And she will become your financial liability. But you're right, they will get dependent on it, and she will make you suffer if you don't pay. It's absolutely true. But it's unavoidable, and the big drawback of Asian chicks, their parents will get old and will get sick. There'll be genuine emergencies. And they'll look to you to help. What you do can determine your future.

14 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   People usually grow out of being obsessed by the opposite sex when they get into their mid 20's

 

Nope. You never saw "Scent of a Woman"?

 

14 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

It rather sad and desperate to see older horny men still chasing young  woman 

 

A little, but if that's the price for getteing pu$$y, well worth paying.

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Nope. You never saw "Scent of a Woman"?

 

 

A little, but if that's the price for getteing pu$$y, well worth paying.

 

   Are you feeling sexually aroused now ?

43 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

   Are you feeling sexually aroused now ?

 

On a scale of 1 to 10 I'd say I'm at a 4.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

On a scale of 1 to 10 I'd say I'm at a 4.

 

  When are you likely do be rampant and gagging for it ?

Sunday ?

9 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

  When are you likely do be rampant and gagging for it ?

Sunday ?

 

I think on the 16th.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I think on the 16th.

 

  Will you be watching any porn till then ?

Doing it yourself ?

6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

If she was really into you, it wouldn't have felt like she was "just a friend".

Why don't you understand? English not your first language.

She wanted to be in a relationship, but I just wanted to be friends. Is that clear enough now? 

4 minutes ago, garygooner said:

She wanted to be in a relationship, but I just wanted to be friends. Is that clear enough now? 

 

No.

 

You wrote "Sadly for me she just felt like a good friend"

 

If she had been really into you, she would not have "just felt like a good friend". It would have felt quite different.

 

Now you want to change the whole story and claim she wanted a relationship but you didn't. I'm starting to doubt every aspect of this story.

13 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

It won't happen if you are much older. If of similar age you have a chance, look for someone with a good job, not online.

 

My lawyer friend supports 6 of her family

Same here I have a friend who got married to a Thai and there are 11 family members
All the family members had jobs when he got married, but now none of them have jobs

They all wait for that monthly check to come

Sure he has the money to do it but they all sit around saying how stupid an American he is

16 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, you can't buy the first cat in the bag, you have to test drive.

Some never stop test driving, and ends up alone, and realized to late all the good ones they wasted on the way trying to find the perfect one.

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

You wrote "Sadly for me she just felt like a good friend"

 

This means, I was sad because I liked her, but only as a friend ... not like a girlfriend. (She would have been a good girlfriend, but I could only like her as a friend.) Enough now. 

20 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Quote

meeting a lady that doesn't need your money

 

It will never happen, son. Don't worry.

 

True.  And whether you want to find a woman that doesn't need your money, or one that does, you still need to have the money anyway.

13 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

 

True.  And whether you want to find a woman that doesn't need your money, or one that does, you still need to have the money anyway.

 

Yes, since having the lifestyle and social status is part of the attraction for women, it's indispensable. Unless you're a genetic wonder or film star.

26 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Some never stop test driving, and ends up alone, and realized to late all the good ones they wasted on the way trying to find the perfect one.

 

That's indeed a tragic error, that mostly happens with women though, who ride the carousel until they're past 30 and realise nobody wants them to start a family anymore. But they wasted their high value years just having fun.

 

Thankfully for us men, the biological cut-off date is much later.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's indeed a tragic error, that mostly happens with women though, who ride the carousel until they're past 30 and realise nobody wants them to start a family anymore. But they wasted their high value years just having fun.

 

Thankfully for us men, the biological cut-off date is much later.

Self awareness is rare

2 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   People usually grow out of being obsessed by the opposite sex when they get into their mid 20's . once  they've been in a few relationships ,

   It rather sad and desperate to see older horny men still chasing young  woman 

So you want people to lead boring lives like yours.

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

So you want people to lead boring lives like yours.

 

  Different people have different interests .

Some people have nothing better to do that talk to strange woman and try to have sex with the .

   You will get bored with that eventually , when you get bored with it, you will be banging away and thinking about posts on ASEANNOW  

20 hours ago, it is what it is said:

 

20 odd years here, never, ever had a thai woman who wanted money, same as when i dated back home. current gf has five cars, seven houses and condos and runs, at the last count - it's hard to keep up, seven or eight businesses.

 

i honestly have no idea why guys here pay for women, can only surmise it must be because they want to - makes them feel powerful/stokes their ego, or because they're mugs. the honest truth is you don't have to pay a penny if you don't want to. as the locals say, up to you.

At least your exes are successful, what ever happened to you?

Very easy.

Just ask them for money before they ask you.

If they don’t give it to you that means they don’t love you so get a new one.

18 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

So you want people to lead boring lives like yours.

I do not know whats more boring than posting 100 posts on AN every day, instead,,,,,  let me see, what else could you do? 

19 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I do not know whats more boring than posting 100 posts on AN every day, instead,,,,,  let me see, what else could you do? 

So you read boring posts cause you are that bored 

33 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

  Different people have different interests .

Some people have nothing better to do that talk to strange woman and try to have sex with the .

   You will get bored with that eventually , when you get bored with it, you will be banging away and thinking about posts on ASEANNOW  

Your hobbies are complaining about people having sex while you <deleted>

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

So you read boring posts cause you are that bored 

Your record speaks for itsef, no need to change the focus on to me.

Just now, Hummin said:

Your record speaks for itsef, no need to change the focus on to me.

You must be super bored then. You keep reading all of my boring posts 

21 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

My friend gave 200,000. Only had sex 12 times.

With her mum ?

22 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You must be super bored then. You keep reading all of my boring posts 

don’t flatter yourself, 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

6 hours ago, Imd8ta said:

Actually they do. My wife just bought one for 90,000 a week later flipped it for 140,000 baht . She don't need my money.

 

Ah so the traditional sport of Dwarf throwing has been replaced with Buffalo Flipping. They do breed the Northern maidens with a definite robust quality.

23 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

How do u create these?

 

23 hours ago, Celsius said:

Very good😃😃