Dating 22-Year-Old Thai Bubble Tea Girl - She Just Asked for 30K/Month – Am I Being Played?

[cdemundo]

On 5/22/2025 at 11:20 PM, persimmon said:

It`s just an opening request - negotiate , it`s common in Thailand . 30 k sounds a lot , but if you have $$$$ and are happy to pay, why not ?

I think many retirees splash a lot more on their Thai life than 30 k / month .....buying land , building the house , buying the car etc etc.

Why not negotiate?

Be interesting to see what that brings.

If doing business with friends can still negotiate.

Offer 10k/month see what she says.

[murto]

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

Love your story. I've lived a few versions of it myself but she wants to transform an emotional connection to a financial one. If you do, you can't go back. I would do one of two things both involve watching her carefully as to how she moves forward from here. First is to give no money at this point. (Don't know how long you two have been talking already). 2nd is (if you can afford it), give her a much smaller amount like 5k or 10k but give it as a gift not as a deal or a quid pro quo and see how she reacts in the weeks that follow. She may actually be sweet or she may be working you. 

[Sydebolle]

Let her run the bubbly affairs for the time being; you're not an ATM and hence there is no generous contributions to the "sick buffalo fund". If that does not go down well, then run better yesterday than today ....... in the opposite direction.

I am aware that this is not what you're looking for but you might either thank me and all the other postings for having done so ...... or regret not having listened to unbiased opinions by people who have absolutely no benefit from either of your decisions 😉 

[wavodavo]

On 5/23/2025 at 1:21 AM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

Bobby Boy the only bubble is in your head where your brain should be ...if you ever had one. You are a ninny hammer Bob.

[seajae]

mate you need to stop thinking with your little head, if you dont want to do the washing by hand find a hooker, much cheaper in the long run or maybe its just your ego she is pushing for you, big problem in Thailand are all the young ladies that get richer by using the ego of older men. You are ignoring the facts that are right in front of you, if she is into you, you would not have to pay her for her company, the old sick buffalo method of draining farangs pockets is alive and well with you, all she is now is a glorified hooker demanding money for her company and you are falling for it.

[Magictoad]

No. She just poor

[Blueman1]

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

 

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out....Is That The SAME As her " Other " Sponsors are paying Her ??

[Tazmo]

30K for a leg-opener, you need to see a Psychiatrist, maybe 500B Doctor’s fee.

You need to understand the difference between a partner and an ATM. It’s not about how much you can afford, but buying affection?  It has to be genuinely reciprocal.

But you can put it down to experience on your CV.

 

There are books written on the many different ways of getting a Thai lady, and your method is one example. Not only Bars! 

[Caldera]

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns

 

It's an outrageous request any way you look at it, no matter if it's coming from her or if the idea was put into her head by her family. At her salary level, her potential to help her family is less than 5,000 baht per month, so anything more than maybe topping it up to 10,000 baht per month would be excessive.

 

What would they need more money for, anyway? If there's no debt, drugs or gambling involved. As she's 22, it doesn't seem likely that her parents deserve a free ride (retirement) already either.

[Cameroni]

12 hours ago, JakeC said:

You pay. I speak for myself... I don't.

 

Lol, yeah you do. Stop bulll<deleted>ting. Anybody can claim anything on the internets, but what you're saying  is impossible, unless your girl has veyr low SMV because of some issues. 

 

Very good looking girls in a desirable age will want a man who makes their life better, financially too. 

 

13 hours ago, JakeC said:

When they like you and even love you, they don't want your money,

 

Lol, yeah they do. When they like you and love you, they still want your money too. And your lifestyle. They want it all.

 

11 hours ago, JakeC said:

If your girl is an 11 out of 20, mine is a 20. Want to put it to the test?

 

An 11 out of ten, actually, and I know my girl is considerably better looking than yours, she's hotter than most Miss Grand finalists.. No test necessary, I have eyes.

 

11 hours ago, JakeC said:

It's just weird that you are bringing up dead celebrities

 

No, it's not. Depp is not dead of course, but Depp, Elvis and Sinatra, Prince, all of them had to pay for their girls in long term relationships, even though their sexual market value was through the roof due to their celebrity.  Yet, you, some unknown poster on the internet claims that unlike these famous, good looking celebrities, you don't have to pay? Really? I think you're the one with the ego issues, dude, why else would you make such nonsense claims?

 

11 hours ago, JakeC said:

Women stay close to me because of something other than money.

 

Really? What would that be? Do you have wings? Religious truths? Hypnosis?  

 

12 hours ago, JakeC said:

I asked a friend to take care of a 3000 baht bill for me, as I didn't have my credentials handy. Done, without question. Would your friend do that for you?

 

Only a few days ago I was at Starbucks with a friend and had to go on  date straight after, but did not feel like getting cash. i asked him to lend me 2500 Baht, and he did. So yes they do.

 

But seriously, Jake, maybe you have something very special, why don't you tell us why girls stay close to you, when you don't spend 1 Baht on them. How do you do it, share your method, woman whisperer.

[JamesPhuket10]

18 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Another one. Lol.

 

Do you believe your own bs? Cause I know I don't.

 

i never said being good looking and the ability to earn a good living are mutually exclusive. I said that if a woman is paying for you, then only because she has low sexual market value.  If she is good looking, you will pay for her, whether she makes a good living or not. Always assuming you are in a long term relationship and not a two or three meet Fbuddy.

 

I'm the ugly one? I'm better looking than you will ever be. I'm as pretty as it gets. But I still have to pay. Like you. And that other charlatan. Because that's what men always have to do. So stop lying. Nobody believes your bs.

 

You said, "So stop lying. Nobody believes your bs."

 

I have no reason to lie, I do not know you nor will I ever know you or anyone else on this site, I am merely balancing the comments by stating not all men need/wish to pay for sex or a relationship.

 

Have you never had a relationship where you are both have an income, a career and are independent financially, both with your own assets where the woman is not some scammer, if not then that is sad, of course there are many women out there who guys might want to hire now and then long term for some fun as it is just a sex thing but that does not replace normal relationships. 

 

I remember sitting in a restaurant with four farangs a few years ago, I knew one slightly and the others were his friends, they were telling each other how they had bought their 'girfriend' a house, a car, regularly send money to her family up in some backwater village in Isaan, one said, "you know, the standard way of doing it", I didn't bother to argue as it would have been a waste of time but I never met them again.

 

If you do not know the difference or have never experienced it then that is sad, good luck with your one sided polarised limited view of Thai women, there are many like you is seems, the rest of us avoid you. 

 

Ps, we are all very handsome to the type of girl you seem to mix with if we have a few thousand baht in our pocket, maybe that is why you think you are so handsome. 

 

[1FinickyOne]

17 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

Or Tomboy 

Tomboys are great - - then you can really play some 3 card, Monte. 

[JakeC]

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Lol, yeah you do. Stop bulll<deleted>ting. Anybody can claim anything on the internets, but what you're saying  is impossible, unless your girl has veyr low SMV because of some issues. 

 

Very good looking girls in a desirable age will want a man who makes their life better, financially too. 

 

I do makes their lives better. I don't need to give them money to make that happen.

 

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Lol, yeah they do. When they like you and love you, they still want your money too. And your lifestyle. They want it all.

 

Yours wants your money. Mine neither asks nor do they get. That's just weird.

We aren't referring to family men here. We are discussing girlfriends. Giving money is just a NO.

 

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An 11 out of ten, actually, and I know my girl is considerably better looking than yours, she's hotter than most Miss Grand finalists.. No test necessary, I have eyes.

 

Ready to swap media anytime. I KNOW mine is not only hotter(and I mean sizzling), but more beautiful, more intelligent and more talented.

Yours, at best, might be reasonably attractive....and if she speaks English...where did she learn it?

 

 

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Really? What would that be? Do you have wings? Religious truths? Hypnosis?  

 

Obviously something you have not yet achieved.

 

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Only a few days ago I was at Starbucks with a friend and had to go on  date straight after, but did not feel like getting cash. i asked him to lend me 2500 Baht, and he did. So yes they do.

 

But seriously, Jake, maybe you have something very special, why don't you tell us why girls stay close to you, when you don't spend 1 Baht on them. How do you do it, share your method, woman whisperer.

 

I meant your girls, not male friends. lol

 

How do I do it? It takes a certain kind of character. Reading your posts, I understand that you have a different kind of character. You are going to be paying until you change that. It's not the girls...it's you.

[Cameroni]

1 hour ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

Have you never had a relationship where you are both have an income, a career and are independent financially, both with your own assets where the woman is not some scammer, if not then that is sad, of course

 

I have had a relationship with a girl who had her own income and career. Guess what? I still had to pay the mortage, food bills and all other bills. That was totally fine, because I made good money and I had no issue doing so, because I was getting a lot in return.

 

In fact I have had every kind of relationship conceivable with women. Which is why I know that nobody, neither man nor woman, enters into a relationship unless they want something from the other.

 

So your word salad about how your girl has her career and assets, it's meaningless, because I know your girl wanted something from you and you gave it to her. Otherwise she would not have been in a relationship.

 

And btw, it's not sad at all when men, who can afford it, take on girls who want a relationship with a man who improves their living standard. It's perfectl fine. What is sad, is some guys pretending they do not pay 1 Baht to their girlfriends, because they want to make themselves out as somehow special, when we all know you pay for them, just like everyone else. Even Elvis, Prince, Depp and Sinatra had to pay.  You want me to believe you dont?  Please. Be serious.

 

As for "handsome man", I am good looking af, and when you're born that way you get told all your life. I was told long before I went to Thailand and from age 17 women wanted me. Even so,  I still have to pay, even if i have the face. Even Elvis, Sinatra, Prince, Depp, they all had to pay. We all do. But not you of course, you're special, lol. Like the other egomaniac charlatan.

 

[Cameroni]

20 minutes ago, JakeC said:

I do makes their lives better. I don't need to give them money to make that happen.

 

Okay, you don't pay them 1 Baht, you're not a celebrity, you don't look like Elvis, you have no social standing in Thailand. So how do you make their lives better exactly? Do tell. 

20 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Yours wants your money. Mine neither asks nor do they get. That's just weird.

 

They all want money. What's weird is you pretending yours doesnt' and you don't pay her a dime. Clearly you're on some ego trip where you want to make people believe you're better than everyone else. But you're not, you're paying, just like everyone else.

 

20 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Ready to swap media anytime. I KNOW mine is not only hotter(and I mean sizzling), but more beautiful, more intelligent and more talented.

Yours, at best, might be reasonably attractive....and if she speaks English...where did she learn it?

 

No, my girl is the epitomy of hotness, yours would be outclassed. She taught herself English, and it's still shaky, not great.

 

20 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Obviously something you have not yet achieved.

 

Lol, and it's so secret you can't name it? Why don't you say what you have achieved that others haven't? I would be so curious. Shy? 

 

20 minutes ago, JakeC said:

I meant your girls

 

I routinely make out that I have less money than I do, to weed out golddiggers, and tell the girls I have no money. My current girl and a previous girl have both sent me money. But that does NOT mean we pay equal or I don't pay, it just means they're willing to invest in me. That's all.

 

20 minutes ago, JakeC said:

How do I do it? It takes a certain kind of character.

 

That's all you got? Spell it out, what is it about your "character" that you don't pay 1 Baht for your girls, when Elvis, Sinatra, Prince, Depp, all pay for theirs, despite celebrity status and massive SMV. What gives your character such amazing value, do you think, Jake? I'd love to know, lol.

[1FinickyOne]

17 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I have provided photographic proof to some posters on here,

 

17 hours ago, Celsius said:

It is exactly because I am not a celebrity is the reason I don't pay.

Yes, I have seen the photos and have been told the backstory - the young lady is definitely exceptional beyond looks - she has an aura about her that is very alluring, We all have our own ideas of beauty and attractiveness and this young lady goes beyond. 

 

As to paying for it, or paying our wives... I would call it sharing. It is doing something nice for someone - be it paying the bills, dinner, the mortgage or my favorite, 'taxi fare home' - There are many ladies that I know for many years and I enjoy their company, but often times, an hour or two at a time is enough. As to my wife - as they say, happy wife, happy life. It is easy enough to find hourly companionship but it is nice to have a relationship that transcends as well. We probably don't fit many 'definitions' that you may have or preconceived notions... in the course of 25 years, things change. And somebody once told me, 'you can't take it with you'  - - of course, I don't believe that... but if money makes others more secure, or even happy, then I am glad to help out. 

[Cameroni]

5 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Yes, I have seen the photos and have been told the backstory - the young lady is definitely exceptional beyond looks - she has an aura about her that is very alluring, We all have our own ideas of beauty and attractiveness and this young lady goes beyond. 

 

Thank you for kind words, needless to say I completely agree with you, as far as looks go she is in the top 1 percent.

 

6 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

As to paying for it, or paying our wives... I would call it sharing. It is doing something nice for someone - be it paying the bills, dinner, the mortgage

 

Indeed, if a man has resources, he is happy to share, he has no issue with it. If he gets a lot in return, why not. Nothing wrong with it.

[JakeC]

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No, my girl is the epitomy of hotness, yours would be outclassed. She taught herself English, and it's still shaky, not great.

 

Talk is cheap. I'm ready to swap media and to accept honest and diplomatic criticism. Not just face, but full body if we are to be realistic.

Video, if she's actually your girl she'll happily send you a full body video. We can both promise on our words, as men, to delete after viewing.

I'm sure that you won't play. All talk and no action.

I don't lie and I don't exaggerate.

I don't give money to girls, that is ridiculous. To be a gentleman of course, but paying for their accommodation, paying for their lifestyle...NO. 

 

Of course you should share your resources. I do so with people in need, not in exchange for sexual favours. That is just sad.

 

 

[JamesPhuket10]

35 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I have had a relationship with a girl who had her own income and career. Guess what? I still had to pay the mortage, food bills and all other bills. That was totally fine, because I made good money and I had no issue doing so, because I was getting a lot in return.

 

In fact I have had every kind of relationship conceivable with women. Which is why I know that nobody, neither man nor woman, enters into a relationship unless they want something from the other.

 

So your word salad about how your girl has her career and assets, it's meaningless, because I know your girl wanted something from you and you gave it to her. Otherwise she would not have been in a relationship.

 

And btw, it's not sad at all when men, who can afford it, take on girls who want a relationship with a man who improves their living standard. It's perfectl fine. What is sad, is some guys pretending they do not pay 1 Baht to their girlfriends, because they want to make themselves out as somehow special, when we all know you pay for them, just like everyone else. Even Elvis, Prince, Depp and Sinatra had to pay.  You want me to believe you dont?  Please. Be serious.

 

You said, "I have had a relationship with a girl who had her own income and career. Guess what? I still had to pay the mortage, food bills and all other bills."

 

I laughed when I read that, now that is sad.

 

You said, "......neither man nor woman, enters into a relationship unless they want something from the other."

 

That is very true, as far as I am concerned,  the serious women in my life wanted to be in a relationship because they want a life to share with someone, companionship, happiness, understanding and all the other things which you seem to know nothing about.

 

I am not saying in the distant past I did not pay for a girl for a weeks holiday as it was just about sex, but I knew what it was all about, but to think that no other type of relationship exists outside of paying for a woman is sad.

 

By your statement which more or less says all women only want money from men is also saying that applies to our sisters, mothers and other women in our family, friends and lives. 

 

I know that is not true.

 

 

 

 

[JakeC]

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You said, "I have had a relationship with a girl who had her own income and career. Guess what? I still had to pay the mortage, food bills and all other bills."

 

I laughed when I read that, now that is sad.

 

You said, "......neither man nor woman, enters into a relationship unless they want something from the other."

 

That is very true, as far as I am concerned,  the serious women in my life wanted to be in a relationship because they want a life to share with someone, companionship, happiness, understanding and all the other things which you seem to know nothing about.

 

I am not saying in the distant past I did not pay for a girl for a weeks holiday as it was just about sex, but I knew what it was all about, but to think that no other type of relationship exists outside of paying for a woman is sad.

 

By your statement which more or less says all women only want money from men is also saying that applies to our sisters, mothers and other women in our family, friends and lives. 

 

I know that is not true.

 

This, in essence, sums up why he has to pay. He takes that toxicity with him, everywhere he goes.

[FriscoKid]

I say @JakeC and @Cameroni - and anyone else involved in this "who is the biggest swinging dick" battle all just post your chick and dick pics and let us all be the judge of it all. That's the only way to settle this heated bromance. You need 3rd party opinions. We will vote, be fair, honest, and declare the winner as to who is the biggest dick. Promise. You can trust us all. We deal with this sort of thing here regularly on AN. We will keep it all private and nobody will know. Let the battle of the cucks begin!

[JakeC]

Frisco Kid is another one who pays for his company? Something triggered it.

[FriscoKid]

1 minute ago, JakeC said:

Frisco Kid is another one who pays for his company? Something triggered it.

Yep, you and I are no different. 👍🏼

[cdemundo]

" I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station"

 

Just to better understand you, which Skytrain station and what's the name of the kiosk and what is her name?

 

Also, in the OP you mention intimacy. Are you having sex or do you just tell each other your innermost thoughts?

[safarimike11]

On 5/22/2025 at 10:56 PM, BangkokReady said:

Sounds like bullsh*t

Not bull: buffalo.

[Cameroni]

36 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

companionship, happiness, understanding

 

Ohhhh, you provide companionship, happiness an understanding. Silly me, clearly I should have thought of that. Genius.

 

Thanks for clarifying.

 

38 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

By your statement which more or less says all women only want money from men is also saying that applies to our sisters, mothers and other women in our family, friends and lives. 

 

I know that is not true.

 

I never said they ONLY want money, but they want money, resources and lifestyle as well. Or do you see many homeless guys fighting off women?

[Cameroni]

42 minutes ago, JakeC said:

 

Talk is cheap. I'm ready to swap media and to accept honest and diplomatic criticism. Not just face, but full body if we are to be realistic.

Video, if she's actually your girl she'll happily send you a full body video. We can both promise on our words, as men, to delete after viewing.

I'm sure that you won't play. All talk and no action.

I don't lie and I don't exaggerate.

I don't give money to girls, that is ridiculous. To be a gentleman of course, but paying for their accommodation, paying for their lifestyle...NO. 

 

Of course you should share your resources. I do so with people in need, not in exchange for sexual favours. That is just sad.

 

 

 

I have no need at all to verify she is the epitomy of hotness. I know this for a fact. When I walk the streets with her, other WOMEN come up to her and ask her how she got her body. 

 

Another poster here, who has seen her pic, has already posted that she is uniquely attractive. I have no need to verify this with you. You however, seem not so sure, and need others' approval on how hot your girl is? That just confirms to me that mine is hotter. There is no doubt in my mind. Why would I go through all this work when I know already she is hotter? It can't be any other way. That would just be expending energy for nothing.

 

But I note that you still do not elaborate on how you justify your claim that you do not pay 1 Baht, because of your special "character"? 

 

What is it about your character that is so special? Do tell. You seem to suggest that due to your special character girls stay with you in long term rels, without you paying 1 Baht. So what is it about your character Jake, school us?

 

 

[JakeC]

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Yep, you and I are no different. 👍🏼

 

I think we might be in this case. Do you pay per session or have you negotiated an all inclusive deal?

[Cameroni]

2 minutes ago, JakeC said:

 

I think we might be in this case. Do you pay per session or have you negotiated an all inclusive deal?

 

You're paying like everyone else. Stop pretending you don't.

[JakeC]

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I have no need at all to verify she is the epitomy of hotness. I know this for a fact. When I walk the streets with her, other WOMEN come up to her and ask her how she got her body. 

 

Another poster here, who has seen her pic, has already posted that she is uniquely attractive. I have no need to verify this with you. You however, seem not so sure, and need others' approval on how hot your girl is? That just confirms to me that mine is hotter. There is no doubt in my mind. Why would I go through all this work when I know already she is hotter? It can't be any other way. That would just be expending energy for nothing.

 

But I note that you still do not elaborate on how you justify your claim that you do not pay 1 Baht, because of your special "character"? 

 

What is it about your character that is so special? Do tell. You seem to suggest that due to your special character girls stay with you in long term rels, without you paying 1 Baht. So what is it about your character Jake, school us?

 

Understood. You like her and that's enough. We can accept that our girls are hot without further ado. But there is still the issue of you paying yours a salary. if you are happy with such a relationship, there is no need for me to dissuade you. I don't want nor need competition for the good girls. You stick with what you know.