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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

Tell them the truth or make up a story? 37 members have voted

  1. 1. You are marrying a prostitute. Do you tell your family and friends back home the truth or do you make up a story?

    • Yes, honesty is the best policy.
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    • No way can I tell mum that I am marrying a prostitute from a poor SEA country.
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1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

You are nasty a lot. Boredom in Isaan is my guess. Now you are turning on another lefty.

If you're referring to me, he isn't turning on me but discussing the whys and why nots of a God or not. And I'm not a lefty. Remember, I'm in the middle?

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Just now, fredwiggy said:

So the devil made the oceans and all the fish we can eat and enjoy, all the animals we can enjoy and  also some of them eat, all the things grown and living that can be turned into fantastic meals and drinks, all the beautiful scenery and the friendships that can be made if we follow God's way and be good to one another?

 

Yes......along with cancer, guns, infectious diseases, asteroids, the ability to make nuclear weapons, mental disorders., Hitler, Pol Pot.....all his own handy work......the good bits are there just to rub salt in the wounds.

2 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

Obviously a right winger, white....but wearing a mask (or a white hood?).

 

Beer-belly, tattoos, gold chain, loud, .......oh wait.....that's an American expat

No beer belly but a 6 pack, no tattoos although all of my family has them, no gold anything and I'm not prejudiced against anyone. But an American expat.

5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You are nasty a lot. Boredom in Isaan is my guess. Now you are turning on another lefty.

I think he lost his mind long ago. Thailand has many such cases

On 10/4/2025 at 8:54 PM, MalcolmB said:

It is very common for westerners to marry Thai bar prostitutes.

 

I suspect no one mentions it to anyone back home as they would all use it as an excuse to degrade your status.

 

If people back home find out you are hitched up with a prostitute - be it mother or any relative or friend, your status will probably be degraded. If you don't care too much about your status and reputation, then no big deal.

 

The mother or any relative might try to interfere, so why would you want to deal with people interfering and telling you what to do? 

 

Best to keep quiet about it. 

The prejudices against prostitutes are not going away any time soon. 

 

Just now, Will B Good said:

 

Yes......along with cancer, guns, infectious diseases, asteroids, the ability to make nuclear weapons, mental disorders., Hitler, Pol Pot.....all his own handy work......the good bits are there just to rub salt in the wounds.

Cancer is a curse, and made by God, and it sucks, but people are curing it, and likely will all of them eventually, if the world lasts that long.

 

People made guns, idiots use them to hurt innocents.

 

The same with diseases, which never seem to end but are kept in check if treated early.

 

Asteroids aren't aimed at us. They just fly through space and run into planets sometimes. Man made nuclear weapons,and nuclear power is a blessing if used right. Maniacs abuse it.

 

Mental disorders are a bane to society, from narcissism to depression and sociopaths, and they shouldn't exist, but maybe we'll understand later, as many of them can be treated. and narcissistic personality is created by bad parenting. Narcissism created Hitler, Pol Pot, Putin, Stalin, Gaddhafi, Kim and all the others.

22 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Cancer is a curse, and made by God, and it sucks, but people are curing it, and likely will all of them eventually, if the world lasts that long.

 

People made guns, idiots use them to hurt innocents.

 

The same with diseases, which never seem to end but are kept in check if treated early.

 

Asteroids aren't aimed at us. They just fly through space and run into planets sometimes. Man made nuclear weapons,and nuclear power is a blessing if used right. Maniacs abuse it.

 

Mental disorders are a bane to society, from narcissism to depression and sociopaths, and they shouldn't exist, but maybe we'll understand later, as many of them can be treated. and narcissistic personality is created by bad parenting. Narcissism created Hitler, Pol Pot, Putin, Stalin, Gaddhafi, Kim and all the others.

 

 

People are not curing cancer......there's been a cure every month since I was a kid....people might live five years instead of three.

 

And YOUR God very cleverly has given these diseases the ability to mutate to overcome the effect of antivirals and antibiotics.....genius.

 

Why did God decide to throw in asteroids.....for a laugh?

 

Mental disorders......from a God who actually designed us......gee thanks for those.

 

 

6 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

People are not curing cancer......there's been a cure every month since I was a kid....people might live five years instead of three.

 

And YOUR God very cleverly has given these diseases the ability to mutate to overcome the effect of antivirals and antibiotics.....genius.

 

Why did God decide to through in asteroids.....for a laugh?

 

Mental disorders......from a God who actually designed us......gee thanks for those.

 

 

Maybe he's punishing mankind because so many aren't following his rules? Yes, he could just eliminate all evil, but then we wouldn't believe by faith. Yes, if he showed himself it would make more believe, and there would be less evil, especially those who use religion in a twisted way. Some cancers can be cured and some put into remission indefinitely, and that's man doing God's work, helping others. I don't have near the answers I myself want to see, but again, this is but a short 80-100 or so years, and that's nothing  compared to forever.

18 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

Obviously a right winger, white....but wearing a mask (or a white hood?).

 

Beer-belly, tattoos, gold chain, loud, .......oh wait.....that's an American expat

You sound bitter

15 minutes ago, angryguy said:

I think he lost his mind long ago. Thailand has many such cases

Yes lots of bored farangis in Siam.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

You sound bitter

 

I am a bitter man.......Timmy Taylor's, The Dog's <deleted>.....two of the best bitters you'll ever down.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Maybe he's punishing mankind because so many aren't following his rules? Yes, he could just eliminate all evil, but then we wouldn't believe by faith. Yes, if he showed himself it would make more believe, and there would be less evil, especially those who use religion in a twisted way. Some cancers can be cured and some put into remission indefinitely, and that's man doing God's work, helping others. I don't have near the answers I myself want to see, but again, this is but a short 80-100 or so years, and that's nothing to compared to forever.

 

 

Why doesn't he get off his lazy backside then and do his own work?

 

I'm sorry (not really) but you portray all the metal attributes of a child indoctrinated into a religious fantasy.....word salads

 

Just by numbers, there are more Muslims and Hindu in the world......maybe you were indoctrinated into the 'wrong' religion?

3 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Why doesn't he get off his lazy backside then and do his own work?

 

I'm sorry (not really) but you portray all the metal attributes of a child indoctrinated into a religious fantasy.....word salads

 

Just by numbers, there are more Muslims and Hindu in the world......maybe you were indoctrinated into the 'wrong' religion?

God is male?

On 10/5/2025 at 8:23 AM, JAG said:

What did you tell her @MalcolmB?

I told her that I have to keep her in Thailand or if she stays in our country 2 years she gets half your house 

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

God is male?

Mixed race trans

8 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Why doesn't he get off his lazy backside then and do his own work?

 

I'm sorry (not really) but you portray all the metal attributes of a child indoctrinated into a religious fantasy.....word salads

 

Just by numbers, there are more Muslims and Hindu in the world......maybe you were indoctrinated into the 'wrong' religion?

God create everything for us. It's up to us how we receive it. Good and evil exist, so we have a choice which way to go. Unlike your thinking that I'm some sort of brainwashed child, I rather have been looking at the common sense part of all this. You follow God's laws the best you can, and stay on his side, and eventually you'll be with him in paradise. You don't, and who knows, but it doesn't sound good, as he has the right to do with us as he chooses, as we were created by him.

 

His laws aren't bad, but are good and make sense. Free will creates good and bad choices. It's nothing to do with a word salad but again just a belief in a creator, which again, makes a lot more sense than anything else man has come up with. And it doesn't matter what religion anyone is brought up in, as most believe in God, religions are man made, and those that don't believe still have a chance to.

 

And this thread is about bar girls, far from where it strayed.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

God create everything for us. It's up to us how we receive it. Good and evil exist, so we have a choice which way to go. Unlike your thinking that I'm some sort of brainwashed child, I rather have been looking at the common sense part of all this. You follow God's laws the best you can, and stay on his side, and eventually you'll be with him in paradise. You don't, and who knows, but it doesn't sound good, as he has the right to do with us as he chooses, as we were created by him.

 

His laws aren't bad, but are good and make sense. Free will creates good and bad choices. It's nothing to do with a word salad but again just a belief in a creator, which again, makes a lot more sense than anything else man has come up with. And it doesn't matter what religion anyone is brought up in, as most believe in God, religions are man made, and those that don't believe still have a chance to.

 

And this thread is about bar girls, far from where it strayed.

 

So since the sixth day he has sat back and done nothing?.......Oh wait didn't he wipe out the whole human race except Noah, his wife three sons and their wives....nice of him.

 

There really is no paradise.......seriously deluded.

2 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

So since the sixth day he has sat back and done nothing?.......Oh wait didn't he wipe out the whole human race except Noah, his wife three sons and their wives....nice of him.

 

There really is no paradise.......seriously deluded.

God is not male. God is everything. Trees, stars, ocean, oxygen,hydrogen, metals, oil.

 

 

Just now, Harrisfan said:

God is not male. God is everything. Trees, stars, ocean, oxygen,hydrogen, metals, oil.

 

 

You're wrong,

God is definitely a white Anglo Saxon Protestant.

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

God create everything for us. It's up to us how we receive it. Good and evil exist, so we have a choice which way to go. Unlike your thinking that I'm some sort of brainwashed child, I rather have been looking at the common sense part of all this. You follow God's laws the best you can, and stay on his side, and eventually you'll be with him in paradise. You don't, and who knows, but it doesn't sound good, as he has the right to do with us as he chooses, as we were created by him.

 

His laws aren't bad, but are good and make sense. Free will creates good and bad choices. It's nothing to do with a word salad but again just a belief in a creator, which again, makes a lot more sense than anything else man has come up with. And it doesn't matter what religion anyone is brought up in, as most believe in God, religions are man made, and those that don't believe still have a chance to.

 

And this thread is about bar girls, far from where it strayed.

 

There is a connection......a little slice of heaven?

5 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

So since the sixth day he has sat back and done nothing?.......Oh wait didn't he wipe out the whole human race except Noah, his wife three sons and their wives....nice of him.

 

There really is no paradise.......seriously deluded.

We don't see work that can definitely be attached to a God, but some things happen that look like miracles every year. Again, this is far from paradise but if God can make a world that has so many good things, he can also have a place without the bad waiting. Not deluded but hopeful and a strong possibility, as the universe didn't happen all by itself, nor did everything in it alive either. 

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

We don't see work that can definitely be attached to a God, but some things happen that look like miracles every year. Again, this is far from paradise but if God can make a world that has so many good things, he can also have a place without the bad waiting. Not deluded but hopeful and a strong possibility, as the universe didn't happen all by itself, nor did everything in it alive either. 

 

Oh you mean good old cherry picking......an essential skill for all theologians......farce

Just now, Will B Good said:

 

There is a connection......a little slice of heaven?

Using and taking advantage of women either forced into a trade of thinking they needed to enter it because of a harmful childhood, isn't heaven. Women aren't objects no matter how many let themselves be one. No one gains in prostitution except those who profit from it or those who get off in women just for their own pleasure. A woman can be a slice of heaven if she's brought up right, with a loving father and mother, and if her choices are good men that treat her like a partner and not a body.

1 minute ago, Will B Good said:

 

Oh you mean good old cherry picking......an essential skill for all theologians......farce

Who created seafood, fruit and veges?

1 minute ago, Will B Good said:

 

Oh you mean good old cherry picking......an essential skill for all theologians......farce

No, we don't know what he's doing if anything, but some things can't be explained away so easily. 

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Using and taking advantage of women either forced into a trade of thinking they needed to enter it because of a harmful childhood, isn't heaven. Women aren't objects no matter how many let themselves be one. No one gains in prostitution except those who profit from it or those who get off in women just for their own pleasure. A woman can be a slice of heaven if she's brought up right, with a loving father and mother, and if her choices are good men that treat her like a partner and not a body.

 

 

and here endeth the lesson.....555

Just now, Will B Good said:

 

 

and here endeth the lesson.....555

Yes, and I hope you start believing again, if you ever did. 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Yes, and I hope you start believing again, if you ever did. 

 

Interesting...believe what......?

 

What you believe because your were indoctrinated into your parents religion.....or should I talk on another forum to a Muslim and believe what they believe, because that is what they were indoctrinated into.....or become a Jew perhaps.

 

Total farce.

5 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

Interesting...believe what......?

 

What you believe because your were indoctrinated into your parents religion.....or should I talk on another forum to a Muslim and believe what they believe, because that is what they were indoctrinated into.....or become a Jew perhaps.

 

Total farce.

Believing in the only God we have.

 

Think about this. If you believe, and follow his laws, which again make sense , acting like a good person, and there is a God, you go to heaven, paradise.

 

If you believe, and there is no God, there is nothing, and you won't lose anything anyway.

 

If you don't believe in God, and there is a God, then you might end up in a bad place, hell as it's been written.

 

If you don't believe, and there isn't a God, nothing is lost. One is a smart choice.  Muslims believe in God also.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Believing in the only God we have.

 

Think about this. If you believe, and follow his laws, which again make sense , acting like a good person, and there is a God, you go to heaven, paradise.

 

If you believe, and there is no God, there is nothing, and you won't lose anything anyway.

 

If you don't believe in God, and there is a God, then you might end up in a bad place, hell as it's been written.

 

If you don't believe, and there isn't a God, nothing is lost. One is a smart choice.  Muslims believe in God also.

 

Here we go.....the ten 'commandments'..............I am more comfortable being an anti-theist thank you.

 

 

1. **The Binding of Isaac (Genesis 22)**  
   - God commands Abraham to sacrifice his son Isaac.  
   - Raises deep questions about obedience, divine morality, and child sacrifice.

2. **The Ban (Herem) – Total Destruction of Enemies (Deuteronomy 20, Joshua 6)**  
   - Commands to annihilate entire populations—including women and children—in conquest.  
   - Often cited in debates on genocide, divine justice, and historical context.

3. **Death Penalty for Sabbath Violation (Exodus 31:14, Numbers 15:32–36)**  
   - A man gathering sticks on the Sabbath is executed.  
   - Sparks debate over proportionality and ritual law enforcement.

4. **Stoning for Adultery (Leviticus 20:10, Deuteronomy 22:22)**  
   - Both parties caught in adultery are to be stoned.  
   - Raises issues of gender bias, due process, and mercy.

5. **Slavery Regulations (Exodus 21, Leviticus 25)**  
   - Permits owning slaves, including foreign captives.  
   - Includes rules on beating slaves and lifelong servitude.  
   - Central to debates on biblical ethics and historical context.

6. **Death Penalty for Rebellious Children (Deuteronomy 21:18–21)**  
   - Parents may bring a defiant son to elders for public execution.  
   - Often cited as extreme and incompatible with modern justice.

7. **Purity Laws and Menstruation (Leviticus 15:19–30)**  
   - Declares menstruating women “unclean” and restricts contact.  
   - Criticized for reinforcing stigma and gender inequality.

8. **Prohibition on Homosexual Acts (Leviticus 18:22, 20:13)**  
   - Calls male same-sex acts “abomination” and prescribes death.  
   - Central to modern debates on sexuality, interpretation, and cultural context.

9. **Warfare and Captive Women (Deuteronomy 21:10–14)**  
   - Allows Israelite men to take female war captives as wives.  
   - Raises concerns about consent, coercion, and wartime ethics.

10. **Curses and Collective Punishment (Exodus 20:5, Deuteronomy 28)**  
   - God “visits the sins of the fathers upon the children.”  
   - Sparks debate over inherited guilt and divine fairness.

 

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