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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

Tell them the truth or make up a story? 37 members have voted

  1. 1. You are marrying a prostitute. Do you tell your family and friends back home the truth or do you make up a story?

    • Yes, honesty is the best policy.
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    • No way can I tell mum that I am marrying a prostitute from a poor SEA country.
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3 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

Here we go.....the ten 'commandments'..............I am more comfortable being an anti-theist thank you.

 

 

1. **The Binding of Isaac (Genesis 22)**  
   - God commands Abraham to sacrifice his son Isaac.  
   - Raises deep questions about obedience, divine morality, and child sacrifice.

2. **The Ban (Herem) – Total Destruction of Enemies (Deuteronomy 20, Joshua 6)**  
   - Commands to annihilate entire populations—including women and children—in conquest.  
   - Often cited in debates on genocide, divine justice, and historical context.

3. **Death Penalty for Sabbath Violation (Exodus 31:14, Numbers 15:32–36)**  
   - A man gathering sticks on the Sabbath is executed.  
   - Sparks debate over proportionality and ritual law enforcement.

4. **Stoning for Adultery (Leviticus 20:10, Deuteronomy 22:22)**  
   - Both parties caught in adultery are to be stoned.  
   - Raises issues of gender bias, due process, and mercy.

5. **Slavery Regulations (Exodus 21, Leviticus 25)**  
   - Permits owning slaves, including foreign captives.  
   - Includes rules on beating slaves and lifelong servitude.  
   - Central to debates on biblical ethics and historical context.

6. **Death Penalty for Rebellious Children (Deuteronomy 21:18–21)**  
   - Parents may bring a defiant son to elders for public execution.  
   - Often cited as extreme and incompatible with modern justice.

7. **Purity Laws and Menstruation (Leviticus 15:19–30)**  
   - Declares menstruating women “unclean” and restricts contact.  
   - Criticized for reinforcing stigma and gender inequality.

8. **Prohibition on Homosexual Acts (Leviticus 18:22, 20:13)**  
   - Calls male same-sex acts “abomination” and prescribes death.  
   - Central to modern debates on sexuality, interpretation, and cultural context.

9. **Warfare and Captive Women (Deuteronomy 21:10–14)**  
   - Allows Israelite men to take female war captives as wives.  
   - Raises concerns about consent, coercion, and wartime ethics.

10. **Curses and Collective Punishment (Exodus 20:5, Deuteronomy 28)**  
   - God “visits the sins of the fathers upon the children.”  
   - Sparks debate over inherited guilt and divine fairness.

 

Here's the real ones..............

THE TEN COMMANDMENTS

1. I AM THE LORD THY GOD: THOU SHALT NOT HAVE STRANGE GODS BEFORE ME.

COMMANDS: faith, hope, love, and worship of God; reverence for holy things; prayer.

FORBIDS: idolatry; superstition; spiritism; tempting God; sacrilege; attendance at false worship.

2. THOU SHALL NOT TAKE THE NAME OF THE LORD THY GOD IN VAIN.

COMMANDS: reverence in speaking about God and holy things; the keeping of oaths and vows.

FORBIDS: blasphemy; the irreverent use of God's name; speaking disrespectfully of holy things; false oaths and the breaking of vows.

3. KEEP THE SABBATH HOLY.

COMMANDS: going to church on Sundays and holy days of obligation.

FORBIDS: missing church through one's own fault; unnecessary servile work on Sunday and holy days of obligation.

4. HONOUR THY FATHER AND THY MOTHER.

COMMANDS: love; respect; obedience on the part of children; care on the part of parents for the spiritual and temporal welfare of their children; obedience to civil and religious superiors.

FORBIDS: hatred of parents and superiors; disrespect; disobedience.

5. THOU SHALT NOT KILL.

COMMANDS: safeguarding of one's own life and bodily welfare and that of others.

FORBIDS: unjust killing; suicide; abortion; sterilization; dueling; endangering life and limb of self or others.

6. THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY.

COMMANDS: chastity in word and deed.

FORBIDS: obscene speech; impure actions alone or with others.

7. THOU SHALT NOT STEAL.

COMMANDS: respect for the property of rights and others; the paying of just debts; paying just wages to employees; integrity in public office.

FORBIDS: theft; damage to the property of others; not paying just debts; not returning found or borrowed articles; giving unjust measure or weight in selling; not paying just wages; bribery; graft; cheating; fraud; accepting stolen property; not giving an honest day's work for wages received; breach of contract.

8. THOU SHALT NOT BEAR FALSE WITNESS AGAINST THY NEIGHBOR.

COMMANDS: truthfulness; respect for the good name of others; the observance of secrecy when required.

FORBIDS: lying; injury to the good name of others; slander; talebearing; rash judgment; contemptuous speech and the violation of secrecy.

9. THOU SHALT NOT COVET THY NEIGHBOR'S WIFE.

COMMANDS: purity in thought.

FORBIDS: wilful impure thought and desires.

10. THOU SHALT NOT COVET THY NEIGHBOR'S GOODS.

COMMANDS: respect for the rights of others.

FORBIDS: the desire to take, to keep, or damage the property of others.

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2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Here's the real ones..............

THE TEN COMMANDMENTS

1. I AM THE LORD THY GOD: THOU SHALT NOT HAVE STRANGE GODS BEFORE ME.

COMMANDS: faith, hope, love, and worship of God; reverence for holy things; prayer.

FORBIDS: idolatry; superstition; spiritism; tempting God; sacrilege; attendance at false worship.

2. THOU SHALL NOT TAKE THE NAME OF THE LORD THY GOD IN VAIN.

COMMANDS: reverence in speaking about God and holy things; the keeping of oaths and vows.

FORBIDS: blasphemy; the irreverent use of God's name; speaking disrespectfully of holy things; false oaths and the breaking of vows.

3. KEEP THE SABBATH HOLY.

COMMANDS: going to church on Sundays and holy days of obligation.

FORBIDS: missing church through one's own fault; unnecessary servile work on Sunday and holy days of obligation.

4. HONOUR THY FATHER AND THY MOTHER.

COMMANDS: love; respect; obedience on the part of children; care on the part of parents for the spiritual and temporal welfare of their children; obedience to civil and religious superiors.

FORBIDS: hatred of parents and superiors; disrespect; disobedience.

5. THOU SHALT NOT KILL.

COMMANDS: safeguarding of one's own life and bodily welfare and that of others.

FORBIDS: unjust killing; suicide; abortion; sterilization; dueling; endangering life and limb of self or others.

6. THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY.

COMMANDS: chastity in word and deed.

FORBIDS: obscene speech; impure actions alone or with others.

7. THOU SHALT NOT STEAL.

COMMANDS: respect for the property of rights and others; the paying of just debts; paying just wages to employees; integrity in public office.

FORBIDS: theft; damage to the property of others; not paying just debts; not returning found or borrowed articles; giving unjust measure or weight in selling; not paying just wages; bribery; graft; cheating; fraud; accepting stolen property; not giving an honest day's work for wages received; breach of contract.

8. THOU SHALT NOT BEAR FALSE WITNESS AGAINST THY NEIGHBOR.

COMMANDS: truthfulness; respect for the good name of others; the observance of secrecy when required.

FORBIDS: lying; injury to the good name of others; slander; talebearing; rash judgment; contemptuous speech and the violation of secrecy.

9. THOU SHALT NOT COVET THY NEIGHBOR'S WIFE.

COMMANDS: purity in thought.

FORBIDS: wilful impure thought and desires.

10. THOU SHALT NOT COVET THY NEIGHBOR'S GOODS.

COMMANDS: respect for the rights of others.

FORBIDS: the desire to take, to keep, or damage the property of others.

 

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My brother and his wife were just visiting from the US.

In my opinion he has wasted his life married to a "respectable woman" from the US.

I told him I was sick of her speaking to me as if I were a dog, he said "She talks to me like that too, but I'm married to her. I gotta just take it." 

She was successful after her dad got her a job in a big corporation and since then she has been a "successful manager" in multiple bureaucratic organizations.

I am generally not superstitious but by the end of the visit it was creeping me out if she just looked at me as if she were an evil spirit of some kind.

I would be happy for him if he ditched her and married a kind-hearted bar girl.

 

 

1 minute ago, cdemundo said:

My brother and his wife were just visiting from the US.

In my opinion he has wasted his life married to a "respectable woman" from the US.

I told him I was sick of her speaking to me as if I were a dog, he said "She talks to me like that too, but I'm married to her. I gotta just take it." 

She was successful after her dad got her a job in a big corporation and since then she has been a "successful manager" in multiple bureaucratic organizations.

I am generally not superstitious but by the end of the visit it was creeping me out if she just looked at me as if she were an evil spirit of some kind.

I would be happy for him if he ditched her and married a kind-hearted bar girl.

 

 

I told him I was sick of her speaking to me as if I were a dog, he said "She talks to me like that too, but I'm married to her. I gotta just take it." 

 

First LOL of the day....cheers.

35 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Who created seafood, fruit and veges?

 

Fruit and veg.....God (not sure which of the 3000)

Fish....the Devil for sure.

33 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

I told him I was sick of her speaking to me as if I were a dog, he said "She talks to me like that too, but I'm married to her. I gotta just take it." 

 

First LOL of the day....cheers.

My first LOL too.  I had a similar experience to cdemundo's brother.  I woke up one day and realised where I was in my life and how unacceptable it was; it had crept up on me with me not really noticing.  That was 6.5 years ago.  I explained her behaviour to her, and she acknowledged.  After a week of normality she then decided to revert and get worse.  The day after she started that she became my ex-wife.  It took about 5 years for my ex-wife to admit that her behaviour was unacceptable.  I too would be happy if cdemundo's brother saw that light too.

4 minutes ago, Watawattana said:

My first LOL too.  I had a similar experience to cdemundo's brother.  I woke up one day and realised where I was in my life and how unacceptable it was; it had crept up on me with me really noticing.  That was 6.5 years ago.  I explained her behaviour to her, and she acknowledged.  After a week of normality she then decided to revert and get worse.  The day after she started that she became my ex-wife.  It took about 5 years for my ex-wife to admit that her behaviour was unacceptable.  I too would be happy if cdemundo's brother saw that light too.

 

Incredibly difficult and stressful path to take......but well done getting out.

 

I'm in a much worse situation in many respects....living "free', young attentive, very attractive, loving wife.......but I want out........... at 70 I want to kick the ar*e out of the next five? 10? years that I've got left.

 

YOLO is screaming at me.

 

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Using and taking advantage of women either forced into a trade of thinking they needed to enter it because of a harmful childhood, isn't heaven. Women aren't objects no matter how many let themselves be one. No one gains in prostitution except those who profit from it or those who get off in women just for their own pleasure. A woman can be a slice of heaven if she's brought up right, with a loving father and mother, and if her choices are good men that treat her like a partner and not a body.

But they can't get away from you quick enough after living with you.

Guess they were all narcissists.

Just tell mum, "She's into girls too, mum. You can borrow her any time."

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14 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

But they can't get away from you quick enough after living with you.

Guess they were all narcissists.

Were you there? Did you see what went on? Are you that naive that you don't understand that some women are evil and disturbed? It seems your memory suffers also, as I already told what happened.

 

Why would anyone doubt what I've said, seeing most men have encountered evil in women at least once in their lives? Is it not possible to have  two?

 

My first wife practiced witchcraft, was rarely home because she preferred to get high with her female friends in the neighborhood, which had me raising my children while they were very young, mostly by myself. This included feeding, washing, clothing, and teaching them right from wrong. She left the state illegally with the children with her new boyfriend after the divorce. The judge made a mistake giving them to her, which was pointed out by my lawyer and he missed, at least at first. He subsequently gave me permission to go to Michigan to pick them up, and the judge there reprimanded her in front of the courtroom.

 

I then had them until they left the house as adults, and all are doing well. My ex here I've already spoken about, yet people like you, who were already told by me what happened, again chose the woman's side, which doesn't look good for a man when he's been told the truth. That means jealousy, as maybe they aren't up to what a real man means, and prefer using women and looking at children as baggage, as you've said you do.

 

How can you compare what you've done with me, seeing I've always been there for my children and you dismissed yours when you moved here only to make more, that you say you take care of? 180 turn with the child here from the others? My one daughter's mom gave me custody of our daughter, seeing she, her mom and her dad had depression and she couldn't handle our daughter, so I took her and she paid me child support, until our daughter left the house at 19, and is also doing well.

 

You can't treat women any better than I have, as it's not possible. I do all a man can do and more than many, seeing I look at my partners as partners and not objects or baggage, and love and care for them, provide for them, listen to them and romance them. I don't buy women but earn their respect, but if you make a poor choice, nothing you can do for that woman will matter, as damaged goods are impossible to fix.

 

Now, are you going to stay quite about all this , realizing i am doing my job, a hell of a lot better then you were capable of? Or will you bring up this crapola once again, which makes you look very bad to anyone here with a good memory?

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

are you going to stay quite about all this , realizing i am doing my job, a hell of a lot better then you were capable of? Or will you bring up this crapola once again, which makes you look very bad to anyone here with a good memory?

Doesn't worry me, I've never claimed to be a good person.

You, on the other hand, claim to be one of god's own, so you need to be better and forgive those that sin against you!

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Doesn't worry me, I've never claimed to be a good person.

You, on the other hand, claim to be one of god's own, so you need to be better and forgive those that sin against you!

If you think you're not good, how can you justify judging someone who is? I am better and forgive, and taking my children away from a bad, uninterested, disturbed mother is my job, and i don't shirk responsibility when it comes to my children, and still living here instead of abandoning her is proof enough. 

15 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

This forum has taught me that I don’t want to end up like you.

Border runs to Laos with long queues standing outside under an umbrella waiting for hours. 
There are better ways.

🤣......................It is quite obvious to all you are nothing like me, your life revolves around smut and member fishing for your files, eh, Goaty.......🤣

 

 

But, I am sure one day a lady or bloke will walk into your life to turn your light on.....:wub:......The light that is missing from between your ears, then all your daily master baiting will become history, you never know, it could even be Hf..................😘.................🤗

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6 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I don't buy women but earn their respect,

I don’t think any of them have showed you any respect at all.

They have all treated you like a child minding doormat.

 

Sounds like you are going about women the wrong way. 
My dad taught me you gotta treat them mean to keep them keen.

Sounds like your dad didn’t teach you about women.

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5 hours ago, transam said:

It is quite obvious to all you are nothing like me,

You are more like Fred.

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6 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

You can't treat women any better than I have, as it's not possible.

Then why do they all leave?

I am sure you try hard, but you obviously don’t have much of a clue about women.

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The problem in Thailand is that anyplace in public, when foreigners and tourists see a western man with a Thai girl,  they will always think she was a former prostitute. Even when it's not the case. Most will not admit but deep in their mind, most will think so. 

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8 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

And this thread is about bar girls, far from where it strayed.

Bargirls are angels sent to earth from heaven to make us feel good.

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8 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

God is not male. God is everything. Trees, stars, ocean, oxygen,hydrogen, metals, oil.

 

 

And most importantly, bargirls and mamasans 

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

And most importantly, bargirls and mamasans 

 

Very under-appreciated  good mamasans.

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9 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

was raised a Catholic in school for 8 years, but felt that certain things weren't necessary, and to just have a personal relationship with God and Jesus.

I have been wondering about Mary’s virginity?
 

Was it a true story or was Jesus a bastard?

Just now, MalcolmB said:

I have been wondering about Mary’s virginity?
 

Was it a true story or was Jesus a bastard?

 

Oh my Word.

 

I nearly spilled my Roiboos.

Always surprising when you see the young or middle aged bar girl playing on her phone in the food court and the poor chap who has paid her fine for the week, sitting next to her and being totally ignored by the girl who now and then looks around to find her next sponsor maybe. A bit of self respect now guys. 

17 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Then why do they all leave?

I am sure you try hard, but you obviously don’t have much of a clue about women.

This again coming from a person who buys women and also takes advantage of them while they're unconscious. Malcy, haven't you learned yet what you're dealing with? Almost every post I continue to make you look foolish, inept and showing a very poor memory. I would think by now you would go running back to mom, perhaps for another life lesson. Oh, wait, they never worked before so. By the way, since your memory and files need updating. I left them.

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I have been wondering about Mary’s virginity?
 

Was it a true story or was Jesus a bastard?

Actually I would see you as the bastard. Perhaps coming from a joining of two very disturbed hospital patients. 

11 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Bargirls are angels sent to earth from heaven to make us feel good.

I'm thinking God will have the last laugh with you.

7 minutes ago, Middle Aged Grouch said:

Always surprising when you see the young or middle aged bar girl playing on her phone in the food court and the poor chap who has paid her fine for the week, sitting next to her and being totally ignored by the girl who now and then looks around to find her next sponsor maybe. A bit of self respect now guys. 

 

Yeah, because that never happens with non-sex worker Thai girls.

 

Only bargirls do that.

In the first place, how can the proud western groom be sure that she is not playing around behid his back ?

 

One would be highly surprised on how much money these girls make. Such amounts could be hard to replace in a normal relationship, even if it's with a falang. The days when a session of hanky panky with a bar girl,  say 1000 THB per day plus board and lodging only,  are long gone. Today to keep the girl full time one has to shell out much more. How many westerners can afford it ? Because if they could, chances are that they would not be in Thailand in the first place !!! 

2 minutes ago, Sigmund said:

In the first place, how can the proud western groom be sure that she is not playing around behid his back ?

 

Well you can't, not for a bargirl, not for a civilian girl, not for a Thai girl, not Cambodian girl, not for a English girl, not for a French girl.

 

They all love to play.

 

3 minutes ago, Sigmund said:

One would be highly surprised on how much money these girls make. Such amounts could be hard to replace in a normal relationship, even if it's with a falang. The days when a session of hanky panky with a bar girl,  say 1000 THB per day plus board and lodging only,  are long gone. Today to keep the girl full time one has to shell out much more. How many westerners can afford it ? Because if they could, chances are that they would not be in Thailand in the first place !!! 

 

Hey, if it's true love she'll make sure not to tell you about the other guy paying her 2400 baht.

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