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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

Tell them the truth or make up a story? 37 members have voted

  1. 1. You are marrying a prostitute. Do you tell your family and friends back home the truth or do you make up a story?

    • Yes, honesty is the best policy.
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    • No way can I tell mum that I am marrying a prostitute from a poor SEA country.
      91%
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Just now, Harrisfan said:

You lie about telling lies. You claimed all markets are the same. Just a dumb misinformed lie.

 

 

Why are people so nasty on here?

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1 minute ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Why are people so nasty on here?

Boredom living in Isaan? 

Just now, Harrisfan said:

100 failed relationships. Living in a small town in Isaan. Not exactly a billionaire who has written 15 books. Your advice is meaningless.

Go back and look where I explained about that. Better yet, since you have a memory like malcy, I'll tell you again.

 

Most people have all of their relationships END, which doesn't mean FAILED. They go their separate ways, because their future plans didn't coincide. What I did say, and write this down so you don't come back again , twisted around, was that the relationships I had with my kids moms failed, EXCEPT for the fact 6 children were born, which actually means they didn't totally fail, as the best parts are still here. Not having written books doesn't mean I haven't read many, as some are writers and some are readers. My advice has always been spot on, and seeing you can't prove any of it wrong, and are only using biased opinions, that stands.

3 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Why are people so nasty on here?

Exactly. Leave the Wigster alone. He has his own experiences and story to tell. Seen a couple of threads today taken over by Harrisfan versus the Wigster. 

3 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Why are people so nasty on here?

They had terrible parents, and are taking out that anger on us here, and on those others around them, although we don't see that tragedy happening. 

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Go back and look where I explained about that. Better yet, since you have a memory like malcy, I'll tell you again.

 

Most people have all of their relationships END, which doesn't mean FAILED. They go their separate ways, because their future plans didn't coincide. What I did say, and write this down so you don't come back again , twisted around, was that the relationships I had with my kids moms failed, EXCEPT for the fact 6 children were born, which actually means they didn't totally fail, as the best parts are still here. Not having written books doesn't mean I haven't read many, as some are writers and some are readers. My advice has always been spot on, and seeing you can't prove any of it wrong, and are only using biased opinions, that stands.

Your advice is dreadful. 100 failed relationships and telling people to marry before 35yo. Your pre 35 marriage must have failed to have 100 relationships. Most people have 2 to 10.

4 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You lie about telling lies. You claimed all markets are the same. Just a dumb misinformed lie.

No, I said the markets in Thailand all carry much the same things. A bigger market means more of the same. Understand now? I'm not talking about the village street markets done here on certain days, which are just for the local villagers, but the town and city ones. Now, stop bringing it up as it's just a weak response.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

They had terrible parents, and are taking out that anger on us here, and on those others around them, although we don't see that tragedy happening. 

So now your parents are to blame.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I said the markets in Thailand all carry much the same things. A bigger market means more of the same. Understand now? I'm not talking about the village street markets done here on certain days, which are just for the local villagers, but the town and city ones. Now, stop bringing it up as it's just a weak response.

Totally wrong. Some markets have goods, beer, live music, roofs and lots of seating. Some markets are just fresh. Some have no seating. Some have burgers and pizzas. Some are just Thai food.

 

You need to get out more

 

 

 

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Do you actually read any of their posts and see what they're saying? Thinking it's okay to drive drunk. Okay to take advantage of women that are passed out? Thinking buying women somehow gives you the ability to judge those who have families and non purchased wives? 

Wow! That´s big of you. You must have been a saint all your life. FFS!

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

Your advice is dreadful. 100 failed relationships and telling people to marry before 35yo. Your pre 35 marriage must have failed to have 100 relationships. Most people have 2 to 10.

You must be a bot, that , like a human, doesn't read, nor comprehend most of what's written but skims the answer and comes up with it's own replies. I JUST told you about the relationships, yet you keep coming back about them being failed. Are you that dense or irregular that you can't comprehend, or just an arrogant troller that likes to bait?I haven't told anyone thy have to marry before 35, so again you're not comprehending. there are specific reasons men aren't marrie4d by 35, and most are those with issues with trust and hatred towards women, or are from an abusive personality that only looks at women as objects. You have no idea how many relationships people have, and that you've had any is remarkable.

3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

So now your parents are to blame.

My parents treated me very well. I learned to provide, love, care for both my family, children, my partner and animals, and to help others when they need it. Is that a problem with you?

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I don't assume. You give me information about yourself, and assume who and what I am, and that tells me a little about what you are. I haven't said anything about your family, yet you believe what some have said about mine. Back down and think awhile, as the more you comment, the more you enter their realm. 

No, of course! Sorry, I forgot. The great Freddy never assumes, as he already stated, he knows it all.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

You must be a bot, that , like a human, doesn't read, nor comprehend most of what's written but skims the answer and comes up with it's own replies. I JUST told you about the relationships, yet you keep coming back about them being failed. Are you that dense or irregular that you can't comprehend, or just an arrogant troller that likes to bait?I haven't told anyone thy have to marry before 35, so again you're not comprehending. there are specific reasons men aren't marrie4d by 35, and most are those with issues with trust and hatred towards women, or are from an abusive personality that only looks at women as objects. You have no idea how many relationships people have, and that you've had any is remarkable.

I can see why you ended up in an Isaan village with no life. 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

My parents treated me very well. I learned to provide, love, care for both my family, children, my partner and animals, and to help others when they need it. Is that a problem with you?

How many divorces have you had?

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

No, of course! Sorry, I forgot. The great Freddy never assumes, as he already stated, he knows it all.

Plus he never lies. 

2 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Wow! That´s big of you. You must have been a saint all your life. FFS!

No, I drove under the influence, as has almost everyone who drinks. An adult usually gets past that, realizing they might kill or maim someone or themself, so they stop. Are you justifying his behavior? 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

No, I said the markets in Thailand all carry much the same things. A bigger market means more of the same. Understand now? I'm not talking about the village street markets done here on certain days, which are just for the local villagers, but the town and city ones. Now, stop bringing it up as it's just a weak response.

@fredwiggy, I follow you on this thread and I see you always defending yourself. I can't see any reason to do so when having in mind who initiated this thread. Once he told me to do it as click baits and to get the next reward, the crown here on AN. 

You seem to be very honest in what you're writing. It will not be honored on AN. I suppose it makes you feeling angry or sad. But the level here on AN seems to be very low. Just answer where it makes sense. Not in this thread.

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

No, of course! Sorry, I forgot. The great Freddy never assumes, as he already stated, he knows it all.

That you keep coming back with the same replies, further buries you into the oblivion of an unstable character, who doesn't have the common sense to quit while you're behind, or has to try and feed his ego because somewhere in that conscience he's lacking something, and feels the need to try and come out ahead. Gottfrid, you aren't.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Try looking at my first question, which you thought you had to answer for the OP, a well known troll and women user. Try thinking before you back others up.

You must have issues. You just showing time after time Freddy. You have no humor. You just must see it all as serious intelligent conversations. It must be a total bore sitting down taking a beer with you. Just saying cheers mate, it´s just not for you. Your answer would probably be that the word cheers, insults the old TV-series, or something like that. 🤣

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

You, like a few here, nitpick and skim, which leads to your downfall

Hehehehe! You´re truly funny Freddy. Maybe you do have some humor.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That you keep coming back with the same replies, further buries you into the oblivion of an unstable character, who doesn't have the common sense to quit while you're behind, or has to try and feed his ego because somewhere in that conscience he's lacking something, and feels the need to try and come out ahead. Gottfrid, you aren't.

Nah, Freddy. The only one lacking very important things here, are you. better go home now, as Thailand wasn´t for you. You just couldn´t hack it. 

1 minute ago, newbee2022 said:

@fredwiggy, I follow you on this thread and I see you always defending yourself. I can't see any reason to do so when having in mind who initiated this thread. Once he told me to do it as click baits and to get the next reward, the crown here on AN. 

You seem to be very honest in what you're writing. It will not be honored on AN. I suppose it makes you feeling angry or sad. But the level here on AN seems to be very low. Just answer where it makes sense. Not in this thread.

I asked him why he started this thread, and was he thinking about marrying a bar girl. He never answered me, but him and the two usual suspects came back and brought up the usual things, lies and twisted thoughts, about my past, which I've been totally honest about. It's a mental illness when you feel the need to bring up other things when the topic is about something completely different. Most of the members here are fine, but seeing it's a public forum, and weirdo can join and stir up trouble, mainly because they themselves aren't happy in their own lives, so feel the need to try and bring others down, which doesn't work, as it's amusing to point them out daily. 

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I drove under the influence, as has almost everyone who drinks. An adult usually gets past that, realizing they might kill or maim someone or themself, so they stop. Are you justifying his behavior? 

Ok, it´s called under the influence when Freddy drive, others drive drunk. You are seriously ill. 😂

5 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

It is very common for westerners to marry Thai bar prostitutes.

 

Do you tell your family and friends back home that you barfined her from a brothel and paid her for sexual relations and now want to make it a full time position or do you make up a story and tell them you met her in a 7-11 or similar and try to make it sound that this attractive girl who is half your weight and half your age fell for you because of your handsomeness.

 

You are absolutely fixated on prostitutes

 

Why tell them anything? You live in Thailand and if they should ever meet even the most coarse bg can put on an amazing charm offensive 

 

Even run thru bar girls more feminine and charming than vast majority of western women. That's why we love Asian women. Even the worst of the lot are generally lovely 

7 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Plus he never lies. 

Unfortunately, the world doesn´t have such good doctor as he need.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

I asked him why he started this thread, and was he thinking about marrying a bar girl. He never answered me, but him and the two usual suspects came back and brought up the usual things, lies and twisted thoughts, about my past, which I've been totally honest about. It's a mental illness when you feel the need to bring up other things when the topic is about something completely different. Most of the members here are fine, but seeing it's a public forum, and weirdo can join and stir up trouble, mainly because they themselves aren't happy in their own lives, so feel the need to try and bring others down, which doesn't work, as it's amusing to point them out daily. 

Lots of guys do.

3 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

You must have issues. You just showing time after time Freddy. You have no humor. You just must see it all as serious intelligent conversations. It must be a total bore sitting down taking a beer with you. Just saying cheers mate, it´s just not for you. Your answer would probably be that the word cheers, insults the old TV-series, or something like that. 🤣

You're assuming again, as I'm a very humorous person, but I have to defend myself against some here , like you, that think they know me.You can't look at a few topics and judge another's humor, because you're missing the whole picture. The only people I have never gotten along with are narcissistic personalities and others who have other mental issues. 

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You must be a bot, that , like a human, doesn't read, nor comprehend most of what's written but skims the answer and comes up with it's own replies.

Have you considered what you posted here. You just said that humans are like bots and do not read nor comprehend. Welcome to the world Freddy, you just called yourself a bot. 😂

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You're assuming again, as I'm a very humorous person, but I have to defend myself against some here , like you, that think they know me.You can't look at a few topics and judge another's humor, because you're missing the whole picture. The only people I have never gotten along with are narcissistic personalities and others who have other mental issues. 

I only see 1 narc on here.

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