February 9Feb 9 On 2/4/2026 at 10:50 AM, NoshowJones said:I was walking into a toilet which was empty for a pee, I had noticed this guy standing at the entrance but thought nothing of it, as I stopped at a urinal, this guy stood at the next one watching me, probably a homosexual.If I was younger and that was in the UK, then yes! I would have been very violent.He was probably gay and you are probably a raging homophobic. 😉
February 9Feb 9 Seems the further north I go, the gayer it gets. Last time I went up north was about 2011. I was with a hottie girl in Loei, went for a pee, randomly a guy started chatting to me on the way out, just thought it was small talk at first, then I realised what was happening, so exited situation quickly.Nong Khai nightclub was full of them. I was standing up, arm around my hottie and 3 guys came up hitting on me. We left after that.Went up to Laos. Situation just got worse.What the hell is going wrong with my world?
February 9Feb 9 Author Just now, sharksy said:Seems the further north I go, the gayer it gets. Last time I went up north was about 2011.I was with a hottie girl in Loei, went for a pee, randomly a guy started chatting to me on the way out, just thought it was small talk at first, then I realised what was happening, so exited situation quickly.Nong Khai nightclub was full of them. I was standing up, arm around my hottie and 3 guys came up hitting on me. We left after that.Went up to Laos. Situation just got worse.What the hell is going wrong with my world?Nong Khai has a nightclub?
February 9Feb 9 Gay guys never have tried to hit on me, I have too much of a scary threatening presence.
February 9Feb 9 5 minutes ago, khunJam said:Gay guys never have tried to hit on me, I have too much of a scary threatening presence.You are so lucky.It really got to the point I was hating my holiday, seemed I was getting hit on at every opportunity. I don't supposed things have changed much since then either.I really don't know if I gave off gay vibes or what, but at Nong Khai I had my arm round a girl ffs.
February 9Feb 9 Author 7 minutes ago, sharksy said:You are so lucky.It really got to the point I was hating my holiday, seemed I was getting hit on at every opportunity. I don't supposed things have changed much since then either.I really don't know if I gave off gay vibes or what, but at Nong Khai I had my arm round a girl ffs.15 years ago. Maybe time to let it go.I find Nong Khai to be a normal town. People are friendly.
February 9Feb 9 Ugly old straight guys often have a bizarre tendency to way overinflate their appeal to gay men.Having a D functioning or not is not enough.Sure there are gay men who have no standards just like anyone else, but the vast majority are quite particular about what does it for them or not. Overly and oppressively so actually which can be brutal for gay men over 30 and/or not meeting with unreasonable body image expectations likely fueled by media and porn.www.michaelpezzullo.com/post/gay-men-body-image-a-therapist-s-perspective-on-insecurity-worth-and-healingThe Reality: Gay Men & Body ImageLet’s be honest: gay men & body image are closely intertwined, largely because the culture of attraction among men is highly visual. Men—regardless of sexuality—are often more visually driven when it comes to attraction. When you place men in a dating culture with other men, physical appearance naturally becomes a central metric of desirability.
February 9Feb 9 Author 2 minutes ago, Jingthing said:Ugly old straight guys often have a bizarre tendency to way overinflate their appeal to gay men.Having a D functioning or not is not enough.Sure there are gay men who have no standards just like anyone else, but the vast majority are quite particular about what does it for them or not. Overly and oppressively so actually which can be brutal for gay men over 30 and/or not meeting with unreasonable body image expectations likely fueled by media and porn.I think its a compliment. We should all be nice to each other.
February 9Feb 9 Author Hat Yai has lots of muslims yet still have ladyboys. So I dont know if one city has more except for Pattaya which is an outdoor brothel.
February 10Feb 10 3 minutes ago, Jingthing said:Ugly old straight guys often have a bizarre tendency to way overinflate their appeal to gay men.Having a D functioning or not is not enough.Sure there are gay men who have no standards just like anyone else, but the vast majority are quite particular about what does it for them or not. Overly and oppressively so actually which can be brutal for gay men over 30 and/or not meeting with unreasonable body image expectations likely fueled by media and porn.Just because a gay guy is friendly doesn’t mean he is hitting on anyone, it just means he’s friendly just like other friendly people. The problem with some guys is that they lack real self confidence and feel insecure and threatened and fearful when they see a gay guy, not to say that there’s not creepy gay guys and the same with creepy straight guys in fact I see a lot more creepy straight guys that I would never give the time of day to than I do gay guys but then again I’m not afraid of gay people and not ashamed of giving any of them the time of day or a friendly conversation. Most people are civil and there are chunks of dirt in every group.
February 10Feb 10 1 hour ago, sharksy said:You are so lucky.It really got to the point I was hating my holiday, seemed I was getting hit on at every opportunity. I don't supposed things have changed much since then either.I really don't know if I gave off gay vibes or what, but at Nong Khai I had my arm round a girl ffs.Maybe you should thtop lithping?
February 17Feb 17 On 2/9/2026 at 11:49 PM, Jingthing said:Ugly old straight guys often have a bizarre tendency to way overinflate their appeal to gay men.Having a D functioning or not is not enough.Sure there are gay men who have no standards just like anyone else, but the vast majority are quite particular about what does it for them or not. Overly and oppressively so actually which can be brutal for gay men over 30 and/or not meeting with unreasonable body image expectations likely fueled by media and porn.www.michaelpezzullo.com/post/gay-men-body-image-a-therapist-s-perspective-on-insecurity-worth-and-healingThe Reality: Gay Men & Body ImageLet’s be honest: gay men & body image are closely intertwined, largely because the culture of attraction among men is highly visual. Men—regardless of sexuality—are often more visually driven when it comes to attraction. When you place men in a dating culture with other men, physical appearance naturally becomes a central metric of desirability.Not sure if that is aimed at me, but I have a hot 25yr old English girlfriend.
February 17Feb 17 4 minutes ago, sharksy said:Not sure if that is aimed at me, but I have a hot 25yr old English girlfriend.English? Girlfriend? Surely that's a typo?I thought no young English women looked at guys these days....
February 17Feb 17 10 minutes ago, Leopold Bloom said:English? Girlfriend? Surely that's a typo?I thought no young English women looked at guys these days....What I wrote is True. 23 when I met her
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