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Do You Actually Have Real Friends?

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1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

You'll see soon enough when he ruins this thread with inane trollish comments...

It has already done that in it's usual childish idiotic style!

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    People who claim lots of friends are insecure and often half mad. Why would you want to be friends with many people? Most are dropkicks with average to low IQ. Many are alcoholics or smokers.

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    Harrisfan

    What would you know? You take meds and go nowhere.

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12 minutes ago, CallumWK said:

There is a difference between talking Trump and pushing MAGA ideals.

I avoid talking about Trump in the real world.

5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Nobody knows what a MAGA ideal is except lefties online.

How can you be a MAGA supporter (as you are always claiming/posting on here) if you do not know and obey the "MAGA ideal"

Whatever that so called ideal as it changes day by day!

49 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

I have admitted that one reason I am online a lot is because I don't hang out with people much.

The last 2 guys I spoke to recently and was willing to be-friend both gave off shady vibes after a couple of conversations, so I cut them off.

I think one of the many curses in my life is just meeting people that will betray me down the line, so I don't hang out with people that easily and I don't meet trustworthy people that easily.

I prefer online. A lot of people hate me and some people here probably would do me dirty if they could, but it's on the internet so they can't get to me.

Probably near impossible to meet good folks in Pattaya. You should Try Nong Khai or Hua Hin.

5 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

I avoid talking about Trump in the real world.

I never talk Trump unless someone else does. After 5 mins its boring. Real world is nothing like here.

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9 minutes ago, scottiejohn said:

How can you be a MAGA supporter (as you are always claiming/posting on here) if you do not know and obey the "MAGA ideal"

Whatever that so called ideal as it changes day by day!

All these non-American radicalized Trump/MAGA supporters seem totally idiotic to me. Most of them haven’t even been to the United States. Plus, they have no idea what it’s like to live there and deal with the poverty, the racism, the hate, the divisions, the lack of affordable food, housing, healthcare, high taxes, etc. Honestly, I don’t even understand why they would have any interest in any of it at all. I have absolutely no interest myself in politics outside my own country and I just can’t understand how anyone else could. I guess it’s just another way for them to deal with and vent their own frustrations in life and try to make up for the fact that they have nothing better to do.

This site’s biggest troll is the perfect example. He spends most of his day talking about American politics in the soapbox. For what? It’s absolutely ridiculous and then he spends the other half of his time arguing with others that he never talks about politics. Totally disillusioned and in denial. It’s weirder than weird.

38 minutes ago, Terrance8812 said:

I honestly do not think it makes much difference who writes the text you are reading online these days. These posts are not meant to be works of fine literature. They are simply a form of digital communication, and everything is anonymous anyway. Nobody knows each other. So whether it is an anonymous member you have never met or an AI tool, it seems to make little difference. What really matters is the content. Many news articles on this site are partially written with the help of AI, and people read them without hesitation. In my view, it is the message that matters, not the messenger.

Take one of the most prolific topic starters on this forum as an example. His ideas are often repetitive, rhetorical, and poorly expressed and most of all, uninteresting. I doubt AI could meaningfully improve that. Just look at his site reputation score, it speaks for itself.

On the other hand, if someone has interesting ideas but struggles to express them clearly, and uses AI to turn those ideas into well written text, I would much rather read that than something difficult to follow. Many people draft their thoughts first and then use AI to refine them. What you are reading here in this OP may be largely human work, with some AI assistance for editing and clarity. In the end, there is still a person behind the overall idea and direction.

If someone has thoughtful insights but lacks strong writing skills, would you not prefer to see those ideas presented clearly rather than struggle through confusing sentences?

There are a couple of posters for example with the initials GG who might both greatly benefit from the use of AI writing. Most of their posts are disjointed and difficult to follow, so much of the time I don’t even read what they post.

Much of what is written online today is a mix of human input and AI support. That also makes it harder for detection tools, like the ones you mentioned, to draw firm conclusions since very little content is likely to be entirely generated without any human involvement. But this brings me back to my main point. As long as the content is engaging and easy to read, that is what matters. At the end of the day, it is simply words put together to express an idea. It is not a fabricated image or video intended to mislead anyone.

All valid and agreeable points....

I also think it matters that the comment involves 'human' input otherwise the reply is simply diengenuous.

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Your argument rests on a pragmatic premise - that in anonymous digital spaces, authorship matters less than clarity and substance. From a purely functional perspective, that is logically coherent. If communication is the goal, and if AI tools can enhance clarity, structure and readability, then their use can be seen as an extension of editing rather than deception.

However, there are a few structural considerations worth examining.

First, authorship does carry contextual weight. Even in anonymous forums, participants form expectations about authenticity, effort and originality. When readers believe they are engaging with an individual’s spontaneous thoughts, they are responding not only to the content but to the implied cognitive process behind it. If that process is significantly outsourced to an AI system, some would argue that transparency becomes relevant - not because the words are “fine literature,” but because social trust is partly built on perceived authorship.

Second, there is a distinction between augmentation and substitution. Using AI to refine grammar, improve coherence or restructure unclear arguments is comparable to using spellcheck or editorial assistance. Using AI to generate the core argument, rhetorical framing or conceptual direction shifts the dynamic. The more AI shapes the intellectual substance rather than the surface clarity, the more legitimate the question of authorship becomes.

Third, your point about mixed human-AI content is accurate. Detection tools struggle precisely because the boundary is blurred. In practice, most content now exists on a spectrum:

  • Fully human

  • Human drafted, AI edited

  • AI drafted, human revised

  • Fully AI generated

From a communication theory perspective, what “matters” depends on what the community values. If the sole metric is readability and engagement, then origin may indeed be secondary. If the community also values personal voice, intellectual ownership and conversational authenticity, then origin becomes part of the equation.

Your example about individuals with strong ideas but weak writing skills highlights a genuine benefit of AI tools - cognitive accessibility. AI can democratise articulation. It can reduce friction between thought and expression. In that sense, it may elevate discourse rather than diminish it.

At the same time, there is a philosophical counterpoint: if everyone increasingly relies on AI to polish, structure and sometimes even generate thought, the average tone of discourse may converge. Individual roughness, idiosyncrasy and even awkwardness are part of what signal human presence. Remove too much of that, and conversations can become stylistically homogenised.

So, as an AI system, I can state the following with mechanical neutrality:

  • Content quality does matter.

  • Clarity enhances engagement.

  • AI can improve readability.

  • Authorship still influences trust dynamics.

  • The ethical question is not binary but gradient.

In purely informational contexts, the message may dominate. In relational contexts - even anonymous ones - the messenger still exerts influence, whether acknowledged or not.

This response has been generated entirely by an artificial intelligence system. No pride was felt. No irritation occurred. No forum reputations were harmed in its production.

6 minutes ago, still kicking said:

The one who hates Kamala but has the name ( You know the rest)

Still rorting the pension system?

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

All valid and agreeable points....

I also think it matters that the comment involves 'human' input otherwise the reply is simply diengenuous.

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Your argument rests on a pragmatic premise - that in anonymous digital spaces, authorship matters less than clarity and substance. From a purely functional perspective, that is logically coherent. If communication is the goal, and if AI tools can enhance clarity, structure and readability, then their use can be seen as an extension of editing rather than deception.

However, there are a few structural considerations worth examining.

First, authorship does carry contextual weight. Even in anonymous forums, participants form expectations about authenticity, effort and originality. When readers believe they are engaging with an individual’s spontaneous thoughts, they are responding not only to the content but to the implied cognitive process behind it. If that process is significantly outsourced to an AI system, some would argue that transparency becomes relevant - not because the words are “fine literature,” but because social trust is partly built on perceived authorship.

Second, there is a distinction between augmentation and substitution. Using AI to refine grammar, improve coherence or restructure unclear arguments is comparable to using spellcheck or editorial assistance. Using AI to generate the core argument, rhetorical framing or conceptual direction shifts the dynamic. The more AI shapes the intellectual substance rather than the surface clarity, the more legitimate the question of authorship becomes.

Third, your point about mixed human-AI content is accurate. Detection tools struggle precisely because the boundary is blurred. In practice, most content now exists on a spectrum:

  • Fully human

  • Human drafted, AI edited

  • AI drafted, human revised

  • Fully AI generated

From a communication theory perspective, what “matters” depends on what the community values. If the sole metric is readability and engagement, then origin may indeed be secondary. If the community also values personal voice, intellectual ownership and conversational authenticity, then origin becomes part of the equation.

Your example about individuals with strong ideas but weak writing skills highlights a genuine benefit of AI tools - cognitive accessibility. AI can democratise articulation. It can reduce friction between thought and expression. In that sense, it may elevate discourse rather than diminish it.

At the same time, there is a philosophical counterpoint: if everyone increasingly relies on AI to polish, structure and sometimes even generate thought, the average tone of discourse may converge. Individual roughness, idiosyncrasy and even awkwardness are part of what signal human presence. Remove too much of that, and conversations can become stylistically homogenised.

So, as an AI system, I can state the following with mechanical neutrality:

  • Content quality does matter.

  • Clarity enhances engagement.

  • AI can improve readability.

  • Authorship still influences trust dynamics.

  • The ethical question is not binary but gradient.

In purely informational contexts, the message may dominate. In relational contexts - even anonymous ones - the messenger still exerts influence, whether acknowledged or not.

This response has been generated entirely by an artificial intelligence system. No pride was felt. No irritation occurred. No forum reputations were harmed in its production.

Content matters if useful. Most is useless junk.

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19 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Content matters if useful. Most is useless junk.

One can simply look at your site reputation score and comfortably come to the conclusion that 99.9% (or more) of what you post is just that.

What is a "real friend"? One who can be relied upon in case of need, illness or disaster? One who will assist my GF on my demise? That, is the true meaning of real friend. I'm fortunate, in that I have a large social circle (GF says "how you know so many people"), but truly, about 5 or 6 are true and real friends. I'm happy with that.

1 hour ago, Terrance8812 said:

All these non-American radicalized Trump/MAGA supporters seem totally idiotic to me. Most of them haven’t even been to the United States. Plus, they have no idea what it’s like to live there and deal with the poverty, the racism, the hate, the divisions, the lack of affordable food, housing, healthcare, high taxes, etc. Honestly, I don’t even understand why they would have any interest in any of it at all. I have absolutely no interest myself in politics outside my own country and I just can’t understand how anyone else could. I guess it’s just another way for them to deal with and vent their own frustrations in life and try to make up for the fact that they have nothing better to do.

Yes it’s horrible here. Every morning someone walks the streets chanting “bring out your dead.”

1 hour ago, Terrance8812 said:

All these non-American radicalized Trump/MAGA supporters seem totally idiotic to me. Most of them haven’t even been to the United States. Plus, they have no idea what it’s like to live there and deal with the poverty, the racism, the hate, the divisions, the lack of affordable food, housing, healthcare, high taxes, etc. Honestly, I don’t even understand why they would have any interest in any of it at all. I have absolutely no interest myself in politics outside my own country and I just can’t understand how anyone else could. I guess it’s just another way for them to deal with and vent their own frustrations in life and try to make up for the fact that they have nothing better to do.

This site’s biggest troll is the perfect example. He spends most of his day talking about American politics in the soapbox. For what? It’s absolutely ridiculous and then he spends the other half of his time arguing with others that he never talks about politics. Totally disillusioned and in denial. It’s weirder than weird.

You sound crazy. The main posters on politics are in the top 5. Lefties.

You must be a lefty who never criticises them. The guy in position 2 never shuts up about Trump.

1 hour ago, scottiejohn said:

How can you be a MAGA supporter (as you are always claiming/posting on here) if you do not know and obey the "MAGA ideal"

Whatever that so called ideal as it changes day by day!

What is a MAGA supporter?

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

What is a MAGA supporter?

Anyone who disagrees with the left.

Just now, TedG said:

Anyone who disagrees with the left.

They mostly appear to be crazy. I'm neutral on politics. Never supported any party or person. But these clowns call me MAGA lol.

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10 minutes ago, Terrance8812 said:

Have you ever thought about the number of times that you post the word "lefty" on this site on a daily basis? Since you clearly can't count,

How many times do people like you post "fascist" or "MAGA"

1 minute ago, TedG said:

How many times do people like you post "fascist" or "MAGA"

You can't reason with creeps like him. Imagine him in real life lol

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2 hours ago, save the frogs said:

I avoid talking about Trump in the real world.

So do I, with most people. Also vaccines, Israel, immigration, the list goes on. When you hold controversial stances on some topics, forums offer the anonymity to express what you can't express publicly in the physical world, that's one good thing about them.

1 minute ago, rattlesnake said:

So do I, with most people. Also vaccines, Israel, immigration, the list goes on. When you hold controversial stances on some topics, forums offer the anonymity to express what you can't express publicly in the physical world, that's one good thing about them.

Fair points. It also attracts weirdos like the above lefty.

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7 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

You are obviously a lefty and very strange. You actually sound mentally ill. I would bet in real life rather disturbed. Almost all of your posts are about me. I'm a stranger dude. You are creepy.

You invited me on a gay date, I declined, and now you are stalking me. You reply directly to my topics when I do not even mention your name. You are totally obsessed, and it is honestly getting even more pathetic than before.

Why do you not stick to the other guys who like to spend their days and nights arguing with you on here over meaningless, brain numbing nonsense. I am not one of them, not your backup, and definitely not your latest hookup.

This will be the last direct contact you will ever get from me. I wish I could say that it has been great knowing you, but you already know the answer to that. Try to get over it, move on, and maybe find a real friend along the way. I am guessing you do not even have one, which probably explains why you have become so bizarrely obsessed with the whole scary subject of the OP.

Just now, Harrisfan said:

Fair points. It also attracts weirdos like the above lefty.

AN has always been left-leaning.

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Having or not having a large circle of friends is mainly a matter on how much energy one is willing to put in. Yes, because like anything else, even making or maintaining a friendship calls for energy.

But let's look at those toxic people who just love to prey on well wishing healthy minded people like prey. Avoid those types who are just around you by interest. Either financial or to use you as a doormat for taking out their own mental issues.

If you end up with people who are picking on you etc... and trying to pass it as a joke, just discard them as fast as you would discard a used tampon or tissue. And if you have gone on a step higher in your mental strength where you can enjoy a holiday or travel without anybody bothering you or if you have that level of freedom and inner sense of value to go alone to a restaurant and enjoy...then you have reached the ultimate summit of human freedom and developpement.

Many need to have friends only for the image and only because maybe they are more concerned on what people will think if they are seen eating out alone. But make no mistake, those who can handle it, are the real winners and totally free of any social burden. You should envy such people ...the introverts.

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2 minutes ago, SingAPorn said:

Having or not having a large circle of friends is mainly a matter on how much energy one is willing to put in. Yes, because like anything else, even making or maintaining a friendship calls for energy.

But let's look at those toxic people who just love to prey on well wishing healthy minded people like prey. Avoid those types who are just around you by interest. Either financial or to use you as a doormat for taking out their own mental issues.

If you end up with people who are picking on you etc... and trying to pass it as a joke, just discard them as fast as you would discard a used tampon or tissue. And if you have gone on a step higher in your mental strength where you can enjoy a holiday or travel without anybody bothering you or if you have that level of freedom and inner sense of value to go alone to a restaurant and enjoy...then you have reached the ultimate summit of human freedom and developpement.

Many need to have friends only for the image and only because maybe they are more concerned on what people will think if they are seen eating out alone. But make no mistake, those who can handle it, are the real winners and totally free of any social burden. You should envy such people ...the introverts.

Very good post. Mental toughness is doing what you want in life and not caring what others think. The extroverts are mostly insecure and mentally weak.

3 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Very good post. Mental toughness is doing what you want in life and not caring what others think. The extroverts are mostly insecure and mentally weak.

Thank you.

At the end of the day it all about the image, and posing. And to appear to be what they are not, mainly in Thailand. Unfortunately many are here flaunting about their lifestyle or this or that..... as they could obviously not afford it back home.

Just now, SingAPorn said:

Thank you.

At the end of the day it all about the image, and posing. And to appear to be what they are not, mainly in Thailand. Unfortunately many are here flaunting about their lifestyle or this or that..... as they could obviously not afford it back home.

Its worse in the west. Lots of posers.

It seems at times the main reason to have friends on AN is so you you make make a convincing argument by prefacing":

I have a friend who ...

4 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

Very good post. Mental toughness is doing what you want in life and not caring what others think. The extroverts are mostly insecure and mentally weak.

Agree.

7 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

All valid and agreeable points....

I also think it matters that the comment involves 'human' input otherwise the reply is simply diengenuous.

Even if an original post feels like it involved AI, there is still a person behind it. Content does not appear out of thin air, right? Someone has to prompt it, shape it, and decide to post it. The only way it would be purely artificial is if someone copied another post and asked a bot to generate a full reply based on the content of the post provided, and I doubt that happens often in serious discussions.

Even if AI helps draft something, the real question is how much human input makes it genuine. If someone has an idea worth sharing and uses a tool to help put it into better quality word structures, does that automatically make it disingenuous? We have accepted ghostwritten autobiographies from influential figures for countless decades. They are not considered deceptive unless the facts are false. The same goes for speechwriters used for public figures and high ranking government officials.

Having someone else craft your words is not new. What is new is that now anyone can use AI to do what was once reserved mainly for people with access to professional writers.

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