Multiple bickering posts removed. Discuss the top and not each other.

You sound like a very decent person who is living your best life and trying to do the right thing in your love life / friendships. Don't pay attention to all the naysayers. I would say play it by ear and see how the conversation goes. Your story made me laugh by the way, I love tghe "white ladies weaving club."

On 2/17/2026 at 2:45 PM, Prubangboy said:

My ex is my best friend. And my new GF has a best friend kind of vibe about her too.

My ex went completely off men. So there’s no stress on that end. She feels bad about the breakup. She’s really happy to see me happy.

And I think this is going to be a serious relationship, so everybody may as well know everybody else in case I get hit by a car or something.

For a newcomers to my backstory:

My ex is a white American woman, age 61. My new GF is a Bangkok woman age 58.

I am getting older, and they are getting a little bit younger. No, can’t fault Thailand at all.

Any sociological insights as to how the new GF will view my ex ex-wife? We already talked it to death and there are no other shoes to drop.

Both have their own income source, although I give a little bit of money to my ex until she sells the house.

Matchmaking? A threesome perhaps?

Sounds OK to me - all of it familiar territory as well!

No surprises for you - but possibly loads for them

Enjoy yourselves.

Nice day out at the Buddha Cave. Had some B+ Khao Soy Noodles there.

My ex is a little bit freaked out about meeting her, but this meeting will happen. Perhaps with Phuket girl providing a bridge of understanding.