6 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Obviously, being rejected by a Cambodian market seller has left a mark on his psyche.

How does one deal with that? Create some scenario blaming the male Cambodians at the market?

The problem with hitting on random women is many of them have boyfriends or are married.

How many men have the courtesy to ask first?

And most men don't even care if she has a bf or she's married.

It's dog eat dog.

Yeah, you might get punched in the face for hitting on anybody and everybody at some point.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Assumptions galore. They actually think they know your life from what you mention here.

You tell people you never lie and have had all these relationships so people believed you unless you did lie. You can't have it both ways.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Assumptions galore. They actually think they know your life from what you mention here.

Awww...too hot for you here?

What you doing on the Pattaya forum? Are you a member of @newnative 's Can't Quit Pattaya club?

Just now, Rockyroad said:

You tell people you never lie and have had all these relationships so people believed you unless you did lie. You can't have it both ways.

Having a lot of relationships doesn't mean they were failures. I've explained this many times yet it seems to fly over a few heads here. Maybe its those who rarely had any real relationships besides P4P or are misogynists that don't treat women well so haven't a clue how a man does. That all relationships end unless you stay married until death, and that most people aren't a good match for each others and parting doesn't mean it's a failure but a release to find a better match.

4 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

The problem with hitting on random women is many of them have boyfriends or are married.

How many men have the courtesy to ask first?

And most men don't even care if she has a bf or she's married.

It's dog eat dog.

Yeah, you might get punched in the face for hitting on anybody and everybody at some point.

Best not to ask them out straight away. Talk to them for a while. You will soon find out if they have a boyfriend or husband.

3 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

The problem with hitting on random women is many of them have boyfriends or are married.

How many men have the courtesy to ask first?

And most men don't even care if she has a bf or she's married.

It's dog eat dog.

Yeah, you might get punched in the face for hitting on anybody and everybody at some point.

I had a good friend that hit on multiple women daily. He was turned down most times but the odds had him ending up with many partners, some of whom he slept with. That was his game and he knew it well, as did all of us around him. He did get punched in the face once. He hit on a woman and was sitting in his car when the boyfriend came up to his window and cheap shot him and broke a tooth.

Edited August 1Aug 1 by fredwiggy

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Having a lot of relationships doesn't mean they were failures. I've explained this many times yet it seems to fly over a few heads here. Maybe its those who rarely had any real relationships besides P4P or are misogynists that don't treat women well so haven't a clue how a man does. That all relationships end unless you stay married until death, and that most people aren't a good match for each others and parting doesn't mean it's a failure but a release to find a better match.

Yet you are a Christian. You are a sinner are you not?

1 minute ago, Rockyroad said:

You tell people you never lie and have had all these relationships so people believed you unless you did lie. You can't have it both ways.

It's sooo important that you see him in the way that he wants you to see him. Cannot accept any perspective. He sees everything as it is. All other perspectives are invalid. Very humble guy...

Some people really care about the image they hope to project, on a forum. It means so much to them.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

Yet you are a Christian. You are a sinner are you not?

We all are sinners.Some more than others and some a lot more dangerous than others.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Having a lot of relationships doesn't mean they were failures. I've explained this many times yet it seems to fly over a few heads here. Maybe its those who rarely had any real relationships besides P4P or are misogynists that don't treat women well so haven't a clue how a man does. That all relationships end unless you stay married until death, and that most people aren't a good match for each others and parting doesn't mean it's a failure but a release to find a better match.

Accusing your ex of being a narcissist, whilst behaving like a narcissist, probably didn't help your cause.

Accusing others of assuming, whilst making more assumptions that most, if not everyone, was just the icing on the cake.

No one believes your version.

Perhaps you fail to understand how your behaviour here might have an impact on that.

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

that don't treat women well so haven't a clue how a man does.

But they all leave you(unless you pay them). Are you telling us that you treat them so good, that they leave?

That's obviously delusional, isn't it?

3 minutes ago, Grecian said:

For me, not at all. She's a 6.5 and he's the same, though his glasses might be hiding something.

Imagine if everyone were judged only by looks. A lot of older Western men would never make it past passport control in Thailand.

It does make me wonder what some of you guys actually look like, considering how freely you use such degrading language about others.

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

As soon as I saw the picture, I said maybe a 6 for her, 4 for him, which doesn't mean anything as he's a comedian and anyone who's in the limelight will always have good looking women following them.

Comedians usually have a great sense of humor, which certainly helps. They also tend to score above average on measures of creativity and verbal intelligence, and success naturally attracts more interest from the opposite sex. Simple as that.

Compared to those factors, how they actually look, apart from being worth millions, often becomes far less significant.

Tell him he's repeating the same lies and assumptions as usual, not taking into account it's him that's the one no one believes here, that my truths are truths, and we know nothing about him besides these lies, insults, exaggerations and deflections, which makes him the perfect narcissist. That a narcissist doesn't know what being one means is more evidence.

Accusing a family man of being one while he hits on women while having a girlfriend further emphasizes that evidence.

That he still can't remember the facts I've said all along but defers to his own made up narrative of someone he's never met, this after I told everyone here I'm the one who divorced my ex's, not the other way around, and I got custody of the children, something very hard for a man anywhere to do, along with being the opposite of what a narcissist does regarding family.

Education seems to have passed him by, but those deflections keep coming.

Let's see more deflections, assumptions or exaggerations come, as they always do. At least until he's warned or banned once again, and he has to figure out a new username to use.

Edited August 1Aug 1 by fredwiggy

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Imagine if everyone were judged only by looks. A lot of older Western men would never make it past passport control in Thailand.

It does make me wonder what some of you guys actually look like, considering how freely you use such degrading language about others.

Comedians usually have a great sense of humor, which certainly helps. They also tend to score above average on measures of creativity and verbal intelligence, and success naturally attracts more interest from the opposite sex. Simple as that.

Compared to those factors, how they actually look, apart from being worth millions, often becomes far less significant.

Making a woman laugh is one of the best ways to have them get close.

19 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

The problem with hitting on random women is many of them have boyfriends or are married.

How many men have the courtesy to ask first?

And most men don't even care if she has a bf or she's married.

It's dog eat dog.

Yeah, you might get punched in the face for hitting on anybody and everybody at some point.

What is the first question a Thai lady usually asks when you meet her randomly?

Just now, Hummin said:

What is the first question a Thai lady usually asks when you meet her randomly?

You have girlfriend (wife)? Where you living? This your daughter? Where you from? Where you stay? You speak Thai? One or the others here.

9 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Tell him he's repeating the same lies and assumptions as usual, not taking into account it's him that's the one no one believes here, that my truths are truths, and we know nothing about him besides these lies, insults, exaggerations and deflections, which makes him the perfect narcissist. That a narcissist doesn't know what being one means is more evidence.

Accusing a family man of being one while he hits on women while having a girlfriend further emphasizes that evidence.

That he still can't remember the facts I've said all along but defers to his own made up narrative of someone he's never met, this after I told everyone here I'm the one who divorced my ex's, not the other way around, and I got custody of the children, something very hard for a man anywhere to do, along with being the opposite of what a narcissist does regarding family.

Education seems to have passed him by, but those deflections keep coming.

Let's see more deflections, assumptions or exaggerations come, as they always do. At least until he's warned or banned once again, and he has to figure out a new username to use.

Family men don't have 100 relationships though. You are more like a swinger.

6 minutes ago, Hummin said:

What is the first question a Thai lady usually asks when you meet her randomly?

In 7/11 - Cook?

In a market - Sawadee Kha

23 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Find a Thai friend to talk to.

Who are you trying to impress. Just my walk/jog group has 35 members. See them daily. I am also friends with a lot of my wife's friends and employees. I have lived in the same district of Bangkok for the last 35 years. I feel at home here Rocky. I am happy.

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You have girlfriend (wife)? Where you living? This your daughter? Where you from? Where you stay? You speak Thai? One or the others here.

The two most two frequently asked questions are whether you have a girlfriend or wife, and where you are from.

7 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Family men don't have 100 relationships though. You are more like a swinger.

No, those were before i got married and in between marriages. Some were mutual one or few night stands, like I said, and the others were girlfriends. When I'm with my children, I haven't brought but a couple of women around them, like my 5+ year one now.

52 minutes ago, marin said:

Northern part of Bangkok. I have used the term over 40 years, picked it up as I enjoyed visiting them when first coming as a tourist. I was always up early. Its what my English speaking taxi driver used back then,

Okay, got it.

Will throw the kadnam thing at the wife when she gets back,

7 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

In a market - Sawadee Kha

This is the question you’re asked by women, “sawadee kha?” as in questioning themselves as to why they’re greeting you?

15 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Tell him he's repeating the same lies and assumptions as usual, not taking into account it's him that's the one no one believes here, that my truths were truths, and we know nothing about him besides these lies, insults, exaggerations and deflections, which makes him the perfect narcissist. That a narcissist doesn't know what being one means is more evidence.

Accusing a family man of being one while he hits on women while having a girlfriend further emphasizes that evidence.

That he still can't remember the facts I've said all along but defers to his own made up narrative of someone he's never met, this after I told everyone here I'm the one who divorced my ex's, not the other way around, and I got custody of the children, something very hard for a man anywhere to do, along with being the opposite of what a narcissist does regarding family.

Education seems to have passed him by, but those deflections keep coming.

Let's see more deflections, assumptions or exaggerations come, as they always do. At least until he's warned or banned once again, and he has to figure out a new username to use.

Tell whom? Who is supposed to do the telling?

Can you not see the mental gymnastics you perform? Can you not see how childishly you behave when you cannot get your own way?

This is you. It's you here. It's you in relationships. How can you claim to be good with women, when you cannot even keep it together in a challenging dialogue?

You chose poorly due to your own ego. You refuse to take any responsibility for your relationship failures.

Many here see a side of you that you refuse to acknowledge.

1 minute ago, novacova said:

Okay, got it.

Will throw the kadnam thing at the wife when she gets back,

This is the question you’re asked by women, “sawadee kha?” as in questioning themselves as to why they’re greeting you?

What would you like?

Me- Phet mai? Them -This one mai phet

Me - tao rai? Them sip baht

Me - song, sahm

Khorp Khun Khrup

Khorp Khun Kha

How bout a root? Lol

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

The two most two frequently asked questions are whether you have a girlfriend or wife, and where you are from.

Might be frequent, but not the first which are usually “where are you going?” meaning, where are you taking me?, and “have you eaten rice yet?” meaning feed me and we’ll go from there.

Edited August 1Aug 1 by novacova

13 minutes ago, marin said:

Who are you trying to impress. Just my walk/jog group has 35 members. See them daily. I am also friends with a lot of my wife's friends and employees. I have lived in the same district of Bangkok for the last 35 years. I feel at home here Rocky. I am happy.

Nobody on here cares.

Tell him again he's wrong as usual, meaning every single time. Tell him also that he's up against a person who studies psychology, that his mannerisms are expected long before he speaks, and that every one of his go to lines I knew decades before i ever joined this forum.

Tell him he knows nothing about me besides what I've said here, and that he constantly turns the truth I've said around for whatever weird reason his personality type conjures up. In my experience it's usually jealousy because he cannot fathom that men can treat women well and have them turn on you, likely because he hasn't had many relationships with normal women but naive locals and P4P.

That I know I chose poorly a couple of times but harping on those couple doesn't come near all the great relationships I had with women without children involved.

Tell him to read everything I say again, then take time to see the error of his ways, not only with me but everyone else on this forum he insults and deflects conversations with, which is reason one I won't interact directly with a supposed grown man acting like a spoiled teenage boy. That it's impossible to have a challenging dialogue with someone who actually thinks he's superior to all others here, while that superiority complex is a facade, hiding an inferior character.

Edited August 1Aug 1 by fredwiggy

3 minutes ago, novacova said:

Might frequent, but not the first which are usually “where are you going?” meaning, where are you taking me?, and “have you eaten rice yet?” meaning feed me and we’ll go from there.

You are talking about the red light districts now 😘

and yes, there is a whole different set of questions that comes up. How long are you staying in Thailand? Do you speak Thai? Where are you from? Have you been here before,,,,,,,

6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Tell him again he's wrong as usual, meaning every single time. Tell him also that he's up against a person who studies psychology, that his mannerisms are expected long before he speaks, and that every one of his go to lines I knew decades before i ever joined this forum.

Tell him he knows nothing about me besides what I've said here, and that he constantly turns the truth I've said around for whatever weird reason his personality type conjures up. In my experience it's usually jealousy because he cannot fathom that men can treat women well and have them turn on you, likely because he hasn't had many relationships with normal women but naive locals and P4P.

That I know I chose poorly a couple of times but harping on those couple doesn't come near all the great relationships I had with women without children involved.

Tell him to read everything I say again, then take time to see the error of his ways, not only with me but everyone else on this forum he insults and deflects conversations with, which is reason one I won't interact directly with a supposed grown man acting like a spoiled teenage boy. That it's impossible to have a challenging dialogue with someone who actually thinks he's superior to all others here, while that superiority complex is a facade, hiding an inferior character.

Grow up and tell him yourself. You act like a spoilt brat 14yo.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

Grow up and tell him yourself. You act like a spoilt brat 14yo.

Take a gander at all your replies to all members here and see if the shoe fits you. Guess you don't understand why I posted that the way I did. I did come back to answer you earlier even though I wasn't going to anymore, but you can't help yourself, and will always fail to see this, no matter what any others here say.