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Eek...................Constructive suggestion, A friend of mine from Burnley always says the girls with flat heads do well.

( In Burnley at least )

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This is another young lady from Burnley. Her winning smile ensures constant companionship.

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:D:D:o How the hel_l can someone smile carrying those things around?

Eeek, the best way is to let things come naturally. Have a good laugh, talk, then a nice long bath together, eat good food, massage.

Whatever tickles your fancy.

:D:D:DHow the hel_l can someone smile carrying those things around?

Eeek, the best way is to let things come naturally. Have a good laugh, talk, then a nice long bath together, eat good food, massage.

Whatever tickles your fancy.

Maybe she have a couple of studs nearby, just waiting to assist whenever she wants to leave her chair and do "something else" :o

Jeeeeeeeezz If they can walk and talk, that woman should be on the stage !!!

I know that I am going to piss everyone off, but what's new?

If I were dealing with some young, semi-virgin girl that I was madly in love with, I could deal with eek's situation, but it would be very difficult if she were in her late 20s or older. I think that most men would think that the lady was playing games, rather than just needing to be reassured.

Part of the whole women's lib thing is to think of grown women as being much less fragile than we did in the past.

My suggestion is if you are over 22 to to just give it up and cut all the dramatics before this guy starts thinking that you are way too much work. Good men are not easy to find in Thailand! :o

Semi virgin?

What's that General? Only had sex twice?

Once with the Green Bay Packers and once with the Harlem Globe Trotters? :o

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Aff bloody ell, i had one cathartic moment where i overthought a situation and didnt want to confront or make a deal out of something bugging me, so i blabbedblabbed a crappy dear abby nonesense type rambling in a moment of pms rash judgement for feedback (be-it sensible or otherwise). I rebuffed a guy 2 times cuz i didnt want him diving straight in and pawing my 'bits' cuz i was starting to feel like a rubber doll, what do u guys expect? You want your women to be into it right? Not just lying there thinking of "insert country here" and looking like a Stepford wife..right? At least, for me, i prefer to have an enjoyable and fun sex life with someone i am with. Anyway, after two rebuffs and a those subtle suggestions all has been back on track since without any need for drama, discussion, or disclosure. He seems be happy about it, as am I. Only brought it up/posted about it because i was musing/mulling over it and wondered about the best approach.

I didnt realise you all had non-hiccup perfect sex lives. :o

.....*and breath*

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My suggestion is if you are over 22 to to just give it up and cut all the dramatics before this guy starts thinking that you are way too much work. Good men are not easy to find in Thailand! :D

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Very true UG.

Thing is, I may sound like hard work when people are only reading the occasional emo stuff (crazy monkeys occasionally invade my brain and make me post my thoughts..lalala). I believe im fun to be around, rather than hard work. Dramatics are not my style. But, i totally agree, good men are not easy to find..in all places, and yes, i think especially here. ..But i also think good women are hard to find too. :D

I'm just afraid that after the long wait in the beginning, he might feel like Boot Camp is over and that you should trust him more by now. Of course, I am just trying to give you possibilities because I don't know either of you, but you certainly seem like a good and fun person! :o

the sooner both get into it the sooner you know whether it's going to work or not. If it works you'll be thinking why did you waste time. If it doesn't work you'll be thinking the same thing. Why waste time ? Better to know.

Given the above waiting is simply not rational. I think wanting to wait is almost exclusively female but I'm not sure if it's instinct or learned behaviour. Both perhaps.

If, after getting into it you now find it all a bit unsatisfactory then it's nothing to do with when you got into it. It's all about expectations and technique. The earlier you start the earlier you can work on them too. If anything unsatisfactory regarding intimacy can't be sorted early when each is most open to compromise it sure will be harder to sort it later in the relationship.

All in all I don't see any rational arguments for waiting. In some cases it's actually easier to communicate intimate thoughts with someone who is almost a stranger. (Why are one night stands usually so steamy ?) Such intimate openness early can carry through if the relationship becomes longer and be very beneficial as it is sometimes harder to create that intimate openness later when it might appear that "ground rules" regarding taboos may have been unconsciously established earlier.

As for Eek's initial problem, it's up to you to work with your partner on their technique. After all, it's your body and I'm yet to meet a mind reader.

Semi virgin?

What's that General? Only had sex twice?

Once with the Green Bay Packers and once with the Harlem Globe Trotters? :D

Just been half way in?..................................... :o

Semi virgin?

What's that General? Only had sex twice?

Once with the Green Bay Packers and once with the Harlem Globe Trotters? :D

Just been half way in?..................................... :o

Nope, Essex girl who only drops em for men from detatched houses.

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This thread has become udderly ridiculous. :o

This thread has become udderly ridiculous. :o

I agree. :D

This thread has become udderly ridiculous. :o

I agree. :D

But we like it :D ................................................................................

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don't we :D

This thread has become udderly ridiculous. :o

I agree. :D

But we like it :D ................................................................................

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don't we :D

but why did nobody talk about udders (a most interesting topic) :D

That photo above should close the whole conversation about udders.... I'm still having nightmares. Attacked by the big boobies.

Makes a change from pineapples :o

yeah nothing worse than a smack in the ear with a sharp pineapple unless it is a poke in the eye with a blunt fish

:D

CB

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