What Am I Doing Wrong?

[thenervoussurgeon]

I really am worried that there is something wrong with me ,i've been married now for 18 years or so and my wife has never asked me for money for the sick buffalo ,or to pay medical bills for any of the familly ,when i go out with the her familly its always a fight to pay for anything and no one in the familly has ever ripped me off ,I know that all of these things should be happening and only the other day when i replied to a newspaper comments page i was reliably informed by a woman in England that i was just a walking atm and that no Thai woman EVER marries a foreigner for love and only want us for our money,so please tell me what i did wrong

Ps does her wanting shoes all the time count ,and my son always wanting the latest mobile?

[BlueScouse]

Nothing wrong with you.You are completely normal.

I didn't even have a job when I was married 22 years ago.

[arthurwait]

Tell her to buy her own shoes.

[thenervoussurgeon]

Tell her to buy her own shoes.

Can i get you to buy them for me?

[BigJohnnyBKK]

You're very lucky, and I suspect so is she. . .

[norrona]

taking notice of a probably, sour faced, divorced, overweight English woman is probably what you are doing wrong

[edwinclapham]

I havent been married as long as you NS but I have a very similar situation. No demands in fact she has given me more if the cards were on the table.

There is nothing wrong with you at all mate!

[arthurwait]

Tell her to buy her own shoes.

Can i get you to buy them for me?

Buy some hideously ugly ones she can't stand and I'm sure she will.

[Semper]

Introduce your son to public telephones.

[edwinclapham]

taking notice of a probably, sour faced, divorced, overweight English woman is probably what you are doing wrong

Very unfair generalisation there. There are some great lasses around just maybe you have a preference for Asian girls, no harm there!

[CharlieH]

Waht are you doing wrong ? - paying attention to that sort of comment, you know in your heart what's right, go with that and sod 'em all.

Its your life, your choices, so live it your way its obviously worked well for 18 years. Ask me you got it RIGHT !

[h90]

she wants shoes....what a rip off! In that climate shoes aren't necessary. Every couple of month coming with new excuses for buying new flip flops is pure Farang rip off.

[TommoPhysicist]

Another troll post, geez man, try and make the trolls more credible!

[barefoot1988]

be worried. its a extremely 18 years long bait being laid out

[norrona]

taking notice of a probably, sour faced, divorced, overweight English woman is probably what you are doing wrong

Very unfair generalisation there. There are some great lasses around just maybe you have a preference for Asian girls, no harm there!

Probably!

[arthurwait]

Tell her to buy her own shoes.

Can i get you to buy them for me?

Buy some hideously ugly ones she can't stand and I'm sure she will.

Sorry I read that as she not you.

[Naam]

does her wanting shoes all the time count

if she wants only shoes without matching handbags and belts then there is something very wrong... with her.

[nietzche]

It's quite simple. Western women are pissed off that Asian women (and I don't' just mean Thai's) are taking all of the western men.

Same situation in the U.S. Thousands of attractive young Chinese women are snapping up all of the successful men.

I've sat and listened to white women complain about how they don't like the fact that Asian women are stealing all of the men. Some say it's because Asian women "do what they are told" blah, blah, blah.

As a man who has dated about a dozen Asian women (Chinese, Thai, Japanese), it's simple: I don't want a woman who wants to be more like a man than a woman.

Asian women care about how they look before they leave the house. They also care about what they eat and stay out of the sun (they know excessive tanning makes you look 50 by the time your 30).

White women (from my experience) eat like shit, don't care about wearing sweat pants when they leave the house, and spend their entire 20's laying out on the beach. By the time they hit 30, most look like a bag of dirty laundry.

I have spent ten times more dating American women then I have any Asian.

You are doing nothing wrong. It all comes down to jealousy on the part of western women.

Like the world economy: Western women stocks have tanked on the market, and Asian women stocks are rallying!!

[metisdead]

A flame post has been removed.

[Kilgore Trout]

Either this is a troll post or a smug post as I highly doubt you actually think there is something wrong with you.

Bad things happen to good people, good things happen to bad people, bad things happen to bad people and good things happen to good people.

If you do have such a great life, don't tempt fate by being a jerk.

[Ohyesuare]

What is wrong with you is that even though you say you have a good wife who isn't taking advantage of you, this isn't good enough for you and you feel the need to go and brag about it (no matter how you word it, you ARE bragging). Enjoy your wife and your life and know that you definitely aren't the only one who has a genuine relationship in Thailand, but others are happy enough they don't need validation or praise about it.

[Semper]

My wife always ask me for more money. What's the wrong with me?

[nocturn]

what are you doing wrong? either than being both smug and dull, absolutely nothing.

[thenervoussurgeon]

_{To all those who said i was a troll or smug ,cant you tell a light hearted post when you read one ? it was just showing that most of us are in happy relationships and that the ones who moan are really the "vocal" minority ,you ought to get out a bit more boys and lighten up.}

[theblether]

_{To all those who said i was a troll or smug ,cant you tell a light hearted post when you read one ? it was just showing that most of us are in happy relationships and that the ones who moan are really the "vocal" minority ,you ought to get out a bit more boys and lighten up.}

Dont mention a buffalos on your OPs..........it raises too many bad memories for people.

[maxme]

My wife always ask me for more money. What's the wrong with me?

And your wife will reply: "Nothing at all!"

[edwinclapham]

_{To all those who said i was a troll or smug ,cant you tell a light hearted post when you read one ? it was just showing that most of us are in happy relationships and that the ones who moan are really the "vocal" minority ,you ought to get out a bit more boys and lighten up.}

I took your post in the spirit it was written! Nothing trollish or smug about it! I dont particularly think you are in the minority, thousands of very contented farang/thai marriages around from a broad spectrum of age groups.

I notice someone decrying western women as being dour etc etc, this evening but I certainly see a fair few male posters who fit this description perfectly.

[samsiam]

At least he did not start a bubble thread and that his wife took the pajero and vanished.

[geriatrickid]

It is quite obvious that you have not paid attention to the TVF experts on wife husbandry.

Your wife should be barefoot and in the kitchen or on standby ready to fetch you a Leo beer, the beer of the TVF expert.

[theblether]

_{To all those who said i was a troll or smug ,cant you tell a light hearted post when you read one ? it was just showing that most of us are in happy relationships and that the ones who moan are really the "vocal" minority ,you ought to get out a bit more boys and lighten up.}

I took your post in the spirit it was written! Nothing trollish or smug about it! I dont particularly think you are in the minority, thousands of very contented farang/thai marriages around from a broad spectrum of age groups.

I notice someone decrying western women as being dour etc etc, this evening but I certainly see a fair few male posters who fit this description perfectly.

+1

The best way to irritate your ex wife is to get a younger replacement, the best way to have your ex-wife tip over into a rage of hatred is to get a younger and far far more beautiful replacement, the best way to irritate Western women of just about any age is to date and or marry one of these gorgeous Asian girls.

They cant handle the competition and the only way they can react is to demean the competition. Throw in a few slurs and hope they stick.........you will find that is the modus operandi for many Western women in regard to Thai and Asian women, to demean them.

Some Western women need to have a think about what they are saying.