Semper Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 So many fat, bald and smelly guys to choose from and what do they do............choose a clean, nice smelling girl. Just can't understand it. try shaving,wear a wig and and have a shower,then next time your out you might have better luck. Will do, but how to lose the belly - it's difficult as you know. Tell them it's your moneybelt under your shirt. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattayarag Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 There's a bar in a Walking Street side soi that gets no publicity yet is ram jammed with stunners. Basic sort of place, open fronted shop house with little or no signage, no fancy lighting, worn tables and chairs. Fell in there one night in a rain storm and couldn't believe my luck or so I thought. Turned out it was/is a girl on girl bar and what made the place more interesting was a number top of the line dancers from the Street were sitting in there with partners. I wanted to take photos of the lot of them chickened out. Reckon I'd have got battered!!!! No katoeys, just beautiful Thai girls. Very clique and got little or no response/ eye contact from them, In fact it was almost frosty. I guess the bar is THEIR place and 'dicks' just remind them of their day job. Lasting memory, how beautiful many of the girls were. Point of the post. There seems to be an active girl on girl night scene that's flying under the monger radar. Ed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vale Tudo Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 "I've seen a few around, and they invariably have drop dead gorgeous girlfriends. What "magic" do they have to achieve this?" A foot long tongue and they can breathe through their ears? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rooo Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I am a lesbian. I only like girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scully Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I am a lesbian. I only like girls. Nothing wrong with that Rooo. We all know you're gay now 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 There's a bar in a Walking Street side soi that gets no publicity yet is ram jammed with stunners. Basic sort of place, open fronted shop house with little or no signage, no fancy lighting, worn tables and chairs. Fell in there one night in a rain storm and couldn't believe my luck or so I thought. Turned out it was/is a girl on girl bar and what made the place more interesting was a number top of the line dancers from the Street were sitting in there with partners. I wanted to take photos of the lot of them chickened out. Reckon I'd have got battered!!!! No katoeys, just beautiful Thai girls. Very clique and got little or no response/ eye contact from them, In fact it was almost frosty. I guess the bar is THEIR place and 'dicks' just remind them of their day job. Lasting memory, how beautiful many of the girls were. Point of the post. There seems to be an active girl on girl night scene that's flying under the monger radar. Ed Where and how many years ago? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizardtongue Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I have been fortunate enough to have had a conversation with a few 'Toms' and their respective partners, I will at this point admit that my motives were not totally honorable, however I did glean some information as to 'why' it appears that some of the younger generation are fed up with their Thai male counterparts infidelities, so go in for a bit of tickling the little man in the boat instead. I will confess that is as far as I have got, my continuous offers of assistance purely on the grounds of research have fallen on death ears 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I don't know what it is that annoys me so much but I can't stand the Tom boys. Have no tolerance whatsoever for it. I don't have a problem with them, myself. I'd just like to know their secret to attracting gorgeous sexy girl friends. Pretty simple answer really. All sorts of folks, regardless of the sexual direction are attracted to all sorts of other folks. I grew up in a very small city. There was a disco on Saturday evenings. In one corner there was lesbian group led by a very masculine big framed, big boobed lady who wore mens' industrial overalls everywhere and noisily guzzled beer direct from the bottle and lots of it. She had a mans typical haircut, no make up, she was loud and she was totally harmless and always the first to offer any help. Her nickname was 'sister george'. She continuously slapped her very dainty, very sweet, very beautiful girl friend on the back, close to breaking her ribs. Was she really violent? No. this was what she saw as affecton. In other moments he was so gentle with her beautiful partner. The feminine one was a nursing sister. They were very much in love with each other, they had a wondeful caring relationship already together for quite a few years. I wonder where they are now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 It is like American politics. They win because of the alternative. You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Berkshire Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 For a lot of younger straight girls, the tom-dee relationship is a safe 'time killing' relationship before they are of marrying age. Safe as is former 'dees' usually aren't considered 2nd hand or damaged goods to local fellows. For older straight girls, again the tom-dee relationship is a convenient and 'safe' escape from what would otherwise be a lonely 'over the hill' existence. Naturally mixed in there would be legitimate lesbians. :-) Best answer. And to be frank, there would be many more "tom-dee" type relationships in the west if it was socially acceptable. Many young farang women have fantasized about lesbian relationships, but simply couldn't deal with the stigma. Thailand is tops when it comes to tolerance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokie36 Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I am a lesbian. I only like girls. I reckon you've been ebjoying a liberal labiation.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soi41 Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I have been fortunate enough to have had a conversation with a few 'Toms' and their respective partners, I will at this point admit that my motives were not totally honorable, however I did glean some information as to 'why' it appears that some of the younger generation are fed up with their Thai male counterparts infidelities, so go in for a bit of tickling the little man in the boat instead. I will confess that is as far as I have got, my continuous offers of assistance purely on the grounds of research have fallen on death ears If your tongue is anything like your avatar, one should think, you would have been a welcome third wheel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chiangmaikelly Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 For a lot of younger straight girls, the tom-dee relationship is a safe 'time killing' relationship before they are of marrying age. Safe as is former 'dees' usually aren't considered 2nd hand or damaged goods to local fellows. For older straight girls, again the tom-dee relationship is a convenient and 'safe' escape from what would otherwise be a lonely 'over the hill' existence. Naturally mixed in there would be legitimate lesbians. :-) Best answer. And to be frank, there would be many more "tom-dee" type relationships in the west if it was socially acceptable. Many young farang women have fantasized about lesbian relationships, but simply couldn't deal with the stigma. Thailand is tops when it comes to tolerance. Ya a lot of girls take toms home top meet mom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I am a lesbian. I only like girls. I reckon you've been ebjoying a liberal labiation.... Come on now, print English here, not Scottish. ............................ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rancid Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 Toms are amusing, they all look the same: short, fat and same semi-punk hairstyle. They may roll with some beauties however suspect it is a short term arrangement. You can't bonk everry girl in the world so who cares who is picking up the slack. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rooo Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I am a lesbian. I only like girls. I reckon you've been ebjoying a liberal labiation.... I understand what you are saying, but what do you mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meatballs Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I've never undestood the lesbian thing. As far as I know, women arent capable of having sex drives. Is it just a feminist rejection of traditional relationships? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payboy Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I am a lesbian. I only like girls. I reckon you've been ebjoying a liberal labiation.... I understand what you are saying, but what do you mean? Smokie pretending to be a cunning linguist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cbrer Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I've seen a few around, and they invariably have drop dead gorgeous girlfriends. What "magic" do they have to achieve this? They can speak Thai. They're not a Thai man. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bung Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 From my understanding the Toms have money and their girlfriends reap the benefits. It's often non sexual, the tom enjoying to attention and the GF enjoying someone spending money on them. Others are experimenting and who can blame them given the choice of the male species here in their age group. Good safe fun, no pregnancy and a guy running off leaving them with a baby to take care of. Why not? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokie36 Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I am a lesbian. I only like girls. I reckon you've been ebjoying a liberal labiation.... Come on now, print English here, not Scottish. ............................ An ah thocht ye liked a big mac eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onthemoon Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 there isn't the religious-cultural taboo to challenge same-sex relationships in Thailand, in fact everything's geared towards "satisfaction today and let tomorrow sort itself out". add to that the fact that a woman who is into women will always have a charm advantage (knowing what women respond to) and it's clear that the only reason we don't see more of it is that there are just too many women in this country. at first the discovery that a lot of Thai women can swing both ways leads male minds to all sorts of delightful scenarios, but as with all free lunches, that doesn't exist either. Thais world champions at the art of jealousy. Thai people try themselves out, this is true for men more than more women. I know many Thai males who have relationships with males in their early twenties, and I am glad to hear that Thai females do the same. Of course, the male who is into males will always have the "charm advantage" too, as only a man can understand a man. This may be off-topic here though. I am only bringing it up to support your first sentence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onthemoon Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 For a lot of younger straight girls, the tom-dee relationship is a safe 'time killing' relationship before they are of marrying age. Safe as is former 'dees' usually aren't considered 2nd hand or damaged goods to local fellows. For older straight girls, again the tom-dee relationship is a convenient and 'safe' escape from what would otherwise be a lonely 'over the hill' existence. Naturally mixed in there would be legitimate lesbians. :-) Where did you get this piece of wisdom from? My bet is that you have never met any tom or dee. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tombkk Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 understand were you are coming from,there is some beautiful ladies in cnx,but the one i saw last night with her tom in a resturant,was exceptional.still in love with it now. The beauties in Chiang Mai often aren't girls. He didn't mean those. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cbrer Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 Coz the men are going around in bras and make-up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tombkk Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 A few anti-lesbian posts and replies have been removed from sight. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tingtongfarang Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 Where can we see relevant pictures? This movie got me into trouble with a gf, Her 14yo daughter is a tom and i had downloaded Yes or No with english subs...i later gave it to her daughter on a thumb drive and she was over the moon as she had been searching the DL a long time,Seems the mother accepts in some strange way that her daughter is a tom but aint pleased, She lives in hope its just a passing phase, But the mothers brother is a ladyboy and she has no problem with that, I used to think this was just a weird family but the more i look around the more normal it seems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 I am a lesbian. I only like girls. I reckon you've been ebjoying a liberal labiation.... Come on now, print English here, not Scottish. ............................ An ah thocht ye liked a big mac eh? Hoots mon. .................. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onthemoon Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 Where can we see relevant pictures? This movie got me into trouble with a gf, Her 14yo daughter is a tom and i had downloaded Yes or No with english subs...i later gave it to her daughter on a thumb drive and she was over the moon as she had been searching the DL a long time,Seems the mother accepts in some strange way that her daughter is a tom but aint pleased, She lives in hope its just a passing phase, But the mothers brother is a ladyboy and she has no problem with that, I used to think this was just a weird family but the more i look around the more normal it seems. Welcome to a normal Thai family. The Adams Family are often called a dysfunctional family, but they are not: They are supportive of each other. So are Thai families, even though it may be difficult to understand for us, sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbrain Posted October 13, 2012 Share Posted October 13, 2012 They're lesbians. I guess I'm also a Lesbian, at least I like girls and for sure I look like a man, but I don't have a gorgeous bird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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