Just tossed GF #4 out in a month

[Tmymaimee]

Well, as the title says…girlfriend #4 was tossed today via WhatApp. Beautiful (and not just by my standards), 27, non bar, internet date. Everything perfect for a few weeks of dating and then she decides to sleep with me for the first time. Next morning after 2nd round of sex, right out of the blue she asks me for money. She says she wants to quit her job (20,000 / month), move in and look after me. Price = 30,000 baht per month which included 5000/month for her mom, 10,000 for saving and the rest for groceries and so on. Her point was she didn't want to always have her hand out.

To give her credit, she did pay her own way while we were dating (at the same time I was banging the earlier girlfriends). Hey, if she won't put out on the first date, I'm sure as hell not going home empty handed.

I texted her and said better to not quit your work as I don't "take care" and why should I pay her when I never had to pay a girlfriend back home. This 30,000 of course would not include jewellery, holidays, special 1 time purchases and so on. What also pissed me off was right after asking for this, she rolled over to sleep until the text was received. My last girlfriend at least woke up to iron my clothes and get me on my way and a kiss goodbye. And she worked and never asked for money.

Some things just astound me. A Thai girl will move in with a guy after 1 night of sex. She feels no shame in asking for money right after I cum as if I will agree to anything when I feel good. And she thinks she can just freeload through life because she is a beautiful girl and so many other men are willing to offer her up to 20,000 a day for sex (I've seen the texts). I feel bad for the poor sucker that hooks up with her long term.

[Morakot]

while we were dating (at the same time I was banging the earlier girlfriends

Hence she made you the "irresistible" offer of 30K a month, so you had an easy way out.

[Banzai99]

I always shag on the first date.

[uptheos]

"so many other men are willing to offer her up to 20,000 a day for sex (I've seen the texts)"

From her mates, the oldest trick in the book and you bought it.

[Nautilus05]

Help me out with an analogy.

Someone bragging they can get laid lots in Thailand is the same as...

[OxfordWill]

After 12 years I can say hand on heart I've not had this problem. I wonder what's different in your situation? You must be putting out some kind of vibe, or be a lot older.

[Tmymaimee]

WHo said anything about sex on the first date? 6 weeks from when we met until we slept together. No hint of "take care" or me expected to pay for her at anytime up until we slept together. Just looking for a normal girl with a normal job who loves sex, is hot and willing to pay her own way in life. Is that really too much to ask in a city of 12 million people? Thai guys get it all the time, even the unemployed losers. What makes me so different to them except for the colour of my skin?

[uptheos]

Help me out with an analogy.

Someone bragging they can get laid lots in Thailand is the same as...

Pretty difficult eh?

[seajae]

maybe you should start thinking with your big head and not your little head

[cooked]

Sorry.

I swore not to use the word scumbag so I won't.

[Tmymaimee]

Help me out with an analogy.

Someone bragging they can get laid lots in Thailand is the same as...

I don't want to get laid lots….that's got nothing to do with the point of my post. Its more about a lack of normal quality girls that are willing to date a 42 year old (not fat).

[uptheos]

WHo said anything about sex on the first date? 6 weeks from when we met until we slept together. No hint of "take care" or me expected to pay for her at anytime up until we slept together. Just looking for a normal girl with a normal job who loves sex, is hot and willing to pay her own way in life. Is that really too much to ask in a city of 12 million people? Thai guys get it all the time, even the unemployed losers. What makes me so different to them except for the colour of my skin?

Thai's are the preferred partner, all things being equal.

Others are also rans, but get a prize often the booby. (as opposed to boobs)

[Tmymaimee]

"so many other men are willing to offer her up to 20,000 a day for sex (I've seen the texts)"

From her mates, the oldest trick in the book and you bought it.

Ah no….it was guys from internet dating sites. You want to know what they looked like? I saw their profiles…..mid 50s, officer manager type of look, actually pretty normal which surprised me as why would they have to offer that kind of money? You could see a guy in a wheelchair or disfigured having to ante in 20K but not a normal looking older guy.

[Tmymaimee]

WHo said anything about sex on the first date? 6 weeks from when we met until we slept together. No hint of "take care" or me expected to pay for her at anytime up until we slept together. Just looking for a normal girl with a normal job who loves sex, is hot and willing to pay her own way in life. Is that really too much to ask in a city of 12 million people? Thai guys get it all the time, even the unemployed losers. What makes me so different to them except for the colour of my skin?

Thai's are the preferred partner, all things being equal.

Others are also rans, but get a prize often the booby. (as opposed to boobs)

Why would a hard working, good looking Thai girl choose to date an unemployed Thai man rather than a farang with money who dresses well, can speak Thai and takes care of himself (albeit 15 years older than the Thai guy). I don't see the logic.

[JLCrab]

The new (as of 14 MAR 2014) ThaiVisa Forum rule #2 states that you cannot post "material which is knowingly or can be reasonably construed as false". That doesn't mean that anything you post has to be true.

[chiang mai]

Alternatively, the OP comes from farangland without any understanding of the local culture or the needs of local people. All of a sudden he hitches up with a local lass, expecting the rules to be the same as back home and gets upset when he finds out this is not Kansas. What more can be said, the lady is surely not to be blamed for trying.

[uptheos]

WHo said anything about sex on the first date? 6 weeks from when we met until we slept together. No hint of "take care" or me expected to pay for her at anytime up until we slept together. Just looking for a normal girl with a normal job who loves sex, is hot and willing to pay her own way in life. Is that really too much to ask in a city of 12 million people? Thai guys get it all the time, even the unemployed losers. What makes me so different to them except for the colour of my skin?

Thai's are the preferred partner, all things being equal.

Others are also rans, but get a prize often the booby. (as opposed to boobs)

Why would a hard working, good looking Thai girl choose to date an unemployed Thai man rather than a farang with money who dresses well, can speak Thai and takes care of himself (albeit 15 years older than the Thai guy). I don't see the logic.

See thread running on Thai logic.

[chiang mai]

The new (as of 14 MAR 2014) ThaiVisa Forum rule #2 states that you cannot post "material which is knowingly or can be reasonably construed as false". That doesn't mean that anything you post has to be true.

My worst fear has been realized, Crab is now a mod., is there no escape in this cruel world.

[uptheos]

"so many other men are willing to offer her up to 20,000 a day for sex (I've seen the texts)"

From her mates, the oldest trick in the book and you bought it.

Ah no….it was guys from internet dating sites. You want to know what they looked like? I saw their profiles…..mid 50s, officer manager type of look, actually pretty normal which surprised me as why would they have to offer that kind of money? You could see a guy in a wheelchair or disfigured having to ante in 20K but not a normal looking older guy.

I understand.

Hook, line and sinker come to mind.

[AlexRRR]

Some of you guys have been living in Thailand too long.............................no not normal even for a Thai girl to have her hand out.

[ABCer]

There is a silly old song going like: " Love and marriage, love and marriage go together like horse and carriage..."

If you substitute the words for "sex and money" you will get it just about right for some Thai girls.

No wonder that even the girls who do not speak English clearly articulate "no money - no honey".

[chiang mai]

Refreshing to have constructive input from so many seasoned long term expats in Thailand.

[JLCrab]

The new (as of 14 MAR 2014) ThaiVisa Forum rule #2 states that you cannot post "material which is knowingly or can be reasonably construed as false". That doesn't mean that anything you post has to be true.

My worst fear has been realized, Crab is now a mod., is there no escape in this cruel world.

Relax. Not so. Just my way of saying what ever is posted might be total fantasy.

[namdocmai]

4 in a month? Dude you must be a serious man! Why not make it 5 then? Easy won easy gone.

[sustento]

This place gets more like the wooden portal every day.

[impulse]

Just think how hacked off she is. Passed all the qualifying rounds, gave it her best for the final interview and still didn't get the gig.

[Bangkokhatter]

OP, why don't you spend some time and look back at all the threads you have posted, all the replies you posted to others comments and there you will find the answer to your problems

[thepool]

Yet another really classy thread

[Tmymaimee]

It would save everyone so much trouble if the girl could just tell you upfront on day one about her expectations rather than wait until you've slept together. Just a complete waste of my time in hindsight.

[HooHaa]

OP, why don't you spend some time and look back at all the threads you have posted, all the replies you posted to others comments and there you will find the answer to your problems

or the measure of his success.

It is a either a brilliantly contrived persona that has eluded banning and survived moderator cull, while generating huge traffic ( which may be why he is still here), or it is the shameless account of a feckless waste of skin being let loose on thai womanhood.

either way it is like traffic accident, i am content to watch, but other than this one post, but will mst certainly not exercise any effort to feed either his ego or his delusion.

have at 'er big boy. the training wheels are off.