gigman Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I guess it all depends on how serious you are with the girl. ********************** I think this way ...she is not serious about you but you are probably yes. To be honest I already tasted similar scenarios by myself in past. 100% same like yours scenario mate until I did found one who actually is not willing to come to Aus at all....... 1.She said she can not afford it even if I pay half.... 2.She said that she is affraid of being in different culture even on vacation because that much she knows from media and how farangs are behaving in Thailand she must know me better. Now when she finaly know me better and madly in love with me ...she would like to save some money for herself to feel independent on trip like that but she still say "I am not ready" As you see there is a lot of different ladies in los. You are still young and have huge potential in your life. Don't waste you feelings on such ladies who don't have decency to understand others. They are purely after easy life . Beside...woman wants to be on same level as a man hence ok treat it 50/50 If not then look fir another one There is tons of it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BradinAsia Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Oh come on guys, who pays is realistically going to be what kind of a budget someone is on. Everybody here isn't a old codger living with a guaranteed pension every month, a student living on a loan isn't going to be able to pay for everything. The girl has a job, so she can pay also. Who said the trip was for him, are you really going to imply that she wouldn't enjoy a trip to Europe? You gotta be kidding me. My vote says she pays her own way in this situation . I wouldnt pay hard earned money to visit europe, especially if I was making a thai wage. I agree. What is there worth seeing in Europe if you've already seen it once? Why not invite your family and european friends to visit you in Thailand -- for them a lower cost than traveling in Europe and more fun here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BradinAsia Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I guess it all depends on how serious you are with the girl. ********************** I think this way ...she is not serious about you but you are probably yes. To be honest I already tasted similar scenarios by myself in past. 100% same like yours scenario mate until I did found one who actually is not willing to come to Aus at all....... 1.She said she can not afford it even if I pay half.... 2.She said that she is affraid of being in different culture even on vacation because that much she knows from media and how farangs are behaving in Thailand she must know me better. Now when she finaly know me better and madly in love with me ...she would like to save some money for herself to feel independent on trip like that but she still say "I am not ready" As you see there is a lot of different ladies in los. You are still young and have huge potential in your life. Don't waste you feelings on such ladies who don't have decency to understand others. They are purely after easy life . Beside...woman wants to be on same level as a man hence ok treat it 50/50 If not then look fir another one There is tons of it. +1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BradinAsia Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Got super drunk before christmas and bought ex falang gf bussiness class to come see me here in thai Obv massive regret next day when i woke up. Had the best holidays ever with her and thai gf sleeping same bed. So stop beeing a cheap <deleted> and buy your gf a plane ticket. Can prob find offers for like 500€ or so 2 way if you know where to look. Oh and stop listening to old rusty expats on tv lol. YOLO bro. My suggestion to the OP, don't listen to anyone who advises throwing money at women. In Japan, they have a term of derision for such guys -- it roughly translates as "The space under their nose is too long." Such blokes are seen as naive and gullible and they attract all the wrong kind of ladies. Sensible guys take a more calm and conservative approach and in the long run the best type of ladies will appreciate their good sense and practical judgment. Of course, if you have money to burn and just need a bed warmer for the night, that's an option too, but don't ever look at such a lady as a "keeper." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamiesilver Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Whats the point in her dating a Farang if you arent going to pay for her? She may as well get a Thai BF.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 sounds to me like the OP on borrowed time ......................no money no honey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Well, you said you couldn't afford it - and if you are to be taken at your word, why is it even up for discussion… a misunderstanding, I guess? That happens - wait until you get to sin sod... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dutchisaan Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 OP, before you talk about the airfare, did you spend any time about getting her a visa? No, I don't think so, because you never had a question about this. Troll! Sent from my iPad using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spidermike007 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I think the OP is looking for some sympathy , anyone know where it can be found? I agree, and no, I have no idea where any can be found. And he must be a bit of a Brad Pitt type, to get away with not offering any financial support to his woman. There is a time and a place for all rules to be broken. Just suck it up, be a man, and buy her the ticket. You can always split the cost of the $20 sandwiches, once you are there. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inepto Cracy Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I think the OP is looking for some sympathy , anyone know where it can be found? Point her to the front door and find another more genuine lady, not some money grabber. Time to check out and run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueSkyCowboy Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 "My girlfriend has been planning a trip to Europe with me for a while." I think you statement is misleading, and it is you that perhaps suggested or even invited that she come to Europe with you...hence why she was under the impression. After all, it's your decision if you want her to come to Europe with you...not hers. So, you opening comment is false. Yes, you are unreasonable...and get used to having to provide some financial support if you want a Thai girlfriend. Buy the ticket. It sounds like you are getting free sex already. Pretty good in Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mango66 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 germans usual split even the expenses for a bottle nam pau , 5 thb each ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robblok Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Whats the point in her dating a Farang if you arent going to pay for her? She may as well get a Thai BF.. Believe it or not some Thai girls like handsome (not bar girl handsome we are all like that) farangs. Kinda like some guys prefer Asian girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrowsdawdle Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 "My girlfriend has been planning a trip to Europe with me for a while." I think you statement is misleading, and it is you that perhaps suggested or even invited that she come to Europe with you...hence why she was under the impression. After all, it's your decision if you want her to come to Europe with you...not hers. So, you opening comment is false. Yes, you are unreasonable...and get used to having to provide some financial support if you want a Thai girlfriend. Buy the ticket. Nah, nah, nah...wait a minute now. This is so simple and men who need to buy companionship ought not be listened to. She wants to visit Europe, right? Could she go without out you? Case closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nithisa78 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A1Str8 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Get a proper gf instead of one who's with you coz you pay for things then gets mad if this illusion is destroyed. And tell her that you thought she would pay for your ticket. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianj1964 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 If you dont like it dont date a thai girl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 <deleted> at first I was like , but u may have a point Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieH Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Post removed 7) You will respect fellow members and post in a civil manner. No personal attacks, hateful or insulting towards other members, (flaming) Stalking of members on either the forum or via PM will not be allowed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wilgoster Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 In a quiet moment, youngster, look into your own heart and ask the question. Then listen for the answer. Meantime you can enjoy reading ripples here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JDGRUEN Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Does she have a Visa ? Hard to get sometimes ... Somewhere in getting the visa - seems that there would have been a discussion about who is the guest and who is the host... ??!?!?!!!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianj1964 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Does she have a Visa ? Hard to get sometimes ... Somewhere in getting the visa - seems that there would have been a discussion about who is the guest and who is the host... ??!?!?!!!? you are correct, my wife is thai and very few countries allow her in without a visa, tho countries that are covered by the shenghen agreement will allow her to cross borders i am led to believe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 (edited) I think the OP is looking for some sympathy , anyone know where it can be found?The gay forum, or the ladies' forum are normally more supportive, but he might struggle to make it relevant; unless I've made a gross faux pas in my assumption that he's a bloke (I was about to say 'gentleman' but that would cross the line between politeness and sarcasm). SC Edited January 6, 2015 by StreetCowboy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nuddy Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 There are no free lunches as I suppose there are no free bonks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RBOP Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I would advise you check all the hoops you and her have to go through for her to get a visa. Your whole trip has to be planned showing every single day what and where you are going and staying. You will need to show tickets and hotel bookings or letters from your parents if your staying with them. She is working and will need a letter from her employer allowing her time off and guarantee her job is waiting for her when she returns. You will have to also show you have the funds to support her while travelling in Europe. You both sound quite young which makes it even harder to get a visa. Good luck. Anyway, she'll get over it if you tell her you cant afford it or you should get a girl friend that doesn't think Farang's are walking ATMs. Good luck with that one too 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 If you're not willing to pay her ticket (and sort out her visa) it doesn't seem like much of a relationship, and you miight as we'll just limit it to carrying on taking advantage of her for cheap sex whenever you are in Thailand, for as long as you can get away with it SC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtof2 Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 Whats the point in her dating a Farang if you arent going to pay for her? She may as well get a Thai BF.. Size? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luckynero Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 She's probably pissed of to see that her milk cow,(you), is not as productive as she was hoping for... If u don't mind having a fake relationship, enjoy.. If u want a real one.. Love and other niceties.. Get a real girlfriend.. Am I the only one getting tired of these stupid questions? Like how much to pay for my gf for this and that... Can't u see that love shouldn't be a cattle market? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tifino Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 hmmm, we're doing Europe in 6 months time, for 3 months. I just paid the basic travel costs to the agent so far at AU6000. This all works great for us... I pay.Missus tells all her Thai friends, sisters etc that she paid it all...The point is that we are going no matter what - and wherever the money came from only matters to those HiSo's who want to keep thinking the dumb farang is poor, always poor, and missus is supporting him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smotherb Posted January 6, 2015 Share Posted January 6, 2015 I think the OP is looking for some sympathy , anyone know where it can be found? Yes, between syphilis and and sycophant in the dictionary. Your dictionary should start listing the words alphabetically; "sycophant" comes before "syphilis," which comes after "sympathy." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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