JJGreen Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Been using Tinder in Thailand for a few months now. I’m not a bad looking guy, have all my hair and teeth. I’m inundated with Thai women matching with me…but no farang women. I have taken to swiping right for every farang women I see for a month, just as a test…and still not one is interested in me.Guys tell me Farang women can’t get a date here because guys aren’t interested in them, but I think it’s because they aren’t interested in us Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Worth a try....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fabricus Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 I've discussed this with more than thirty farang women on Tinder. All were stunningly attractive (three were former models); seven had studied at Cambridge University and four had MBAs from Harvard. The feedback in all cases was the same: they didn't want to contact you as they figured they might distract you from your preparations for the soon-to-be-announced POTY contest. They asked me to wish you good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 I've discussed this with more than thirty farang women on Tinder. All were stunningly attractive (three were former models); seven had studied at Cambridge University and four had MBAs from Harvard. The feedback in all cases was the same: they didn't want to contact you as they figured they might distract you from your preparations for the soon-to-be-announced POTY contest. They asked me to wish you good luck! I haven't yet seen a stunningly attractive one...your area must be better than mine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JHolmesJr Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Try Grindr. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 Try Grindr.Is that for gay guys? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jingthing Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Being in Thailand maybe they think you're damaged goods ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anthony5 Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 farang women aren’t interested in me Lucky bastard. By the way, I also have all my hair and teeth, but they are synthetic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Be careful - you might get what you are looking for....Run Forrest run..... Quit while you're still ahead..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 Being in Thailand maybe they think you're damaged goods ...There is a little frailty in most of us Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandman77 Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 It's same here in farang land in Thailand you can build a harem within days on tinder but also in farang land no farang woman match only black women from Africa match with me here no joke !Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lex Talionis Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Question: what's your age? And what is the age range you put in for the women (girls more likely) you're looking for? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 Question: what's your age? And what is the age range you put in for the women (girls more likely) you're looking for?10 years below and 4 years above my age... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
returnofthailand Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 what's wrong with Thai women? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirineou Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 They are probably all lesbians. I know any woman that is not interested in me is definitely a lesbian in denial . I new this one who to cover it up went as far as date other guys, marry one of them , and go on to have children!! But I wasn't fooled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peterw42 Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 Tinder has a reputation as a pick up app, western men in Thailand have a reputation as "here for a good (short) time". You dont mention what you are looking for on tinder ? Hookups or something longterm ? If you are honest , in your profile, you may have better luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peterw42 Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 58 minutes ago, sirineou said: They are probably all lesbians. I know any woman that is not interested in me is definitely a lesbian in denial . I new this one who to cover it up went as far as date other guys, marry one of them , and go on to have children!! But I wasn't fooled. I knew one that took out a restraining order, just to pretend she wasn't interested Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eldragon Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 I chatted with a foreign woman on Tinder once. We exchanged Line IDs and even talked about meeting. But then I got cold feet b/c I remembered she wasn't a Thai girl and I might actually need to hold an intellectual conversation with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 I don't get any interest from Thai girls Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 11, 2016 Author Share Posted September 11, 2016 I don't get any interest from Thai girlsInteresting. Usually a pulse is all you need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 You could change your gamble & approach ----------> go for bloke Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 11, 2016 Author Share Posted September 11, 2016 You could change your gamble & approach ----------> go for bloke There is no shortage of Ladyboys available and willing to match in Tinder...if that counts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dick dasterdly Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 Not many single, young Western women move to Thailand - and those that do will only consider someone around their own age and 'attraction level'. There are more (but still very few) older Western, single women in Thailand - but they are likely to be relatively wealthy. i.e. they can live on their own income, without needing a man to support them. I could go on as to the reasons why most older Western women here are not interested (I'm assuming that the OP is not young) - but let's face it, no-one is interested as it doesn't fit their beliefs about Western women . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 11, 2016 Author Share Posted September 11, 2016 Not many single, young Western women move to Thailand - and those that do will only consider someone around their own age and 'attraction level'. There are more (but still very few) older Western, single women in Thailand - but they are likely to be relatively wealthy. i.e. they can live on their own income, without needing a man to support them. I could go on as to the reasons why most older Western women here are not interested (I'm assuming that the OP is not young) - but let's face it, no-one is interested as it doesn't fit their beliefs about Western women [emoji3].Interesting my 40s...not so young Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dick dasterdly Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 1 minute ago, JJGreen said: Interesting my 40s...not so young Hate to break this to you - but no, its not when it comes to 'normal' dating. i.e. Young people go through numerous dating partners - its fun. Once you're in your 40s its nowhere near as easy or simple as (quite apart from the age) the assumption is that you've either been married before (and have baggage) or, why haven't you been married previously? Obviously a touch simplistic, but hopefully you get my point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 11, 2016 Author Share Posted September 11, 2016 Hate to break this to you - but no, its not when it comes to 'normal' dating. [emoji4] i.e. Young people go through numerous dating partners - its fun. Once you're in your 40s its nowhere near as easy or simple as (quite apart from the age) the assumption is that you've either been married before (and have baggage) or, why haven't you been married previously? Obviously a touch simplistic, but hopefully you get my point.Sure...i get your pointsI have no problem with thai women wanting to date though...my profile message is probably more appealing to Thai women though I haven't thought about that until now.Which reminds me....for the western women in general; the style of photos and profile message and bio about themselves is vastly different than the Thai women. This is Tinder only...in have not looked at other Apps.The Western women in their 40s would have the same issues you mention also...post age 35 baggage can be there...questions, etcetera .I don't even want to date any of them...it has become more of an experiment to see if any match back with me...Coming back to something I mentioned in the OP...maybe western women don't want to date western guys here in general...Farang guys here harp on about how western women can't get a date here as if the guy is withholding their willingness to date...or the guy has the say so in whether they can date.Maybe after a certain age farang guys here aren't appealing to the Western women....Under 30s.....thats a different ballgame altogether Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fabricus Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 1 hour ago, dick dasterdly said: Once you're in your 40s its nowhere near as easy or simple as (quite apart from the age) the assumption is that you've either been married before (and have baggage) or, why haven't you been married previously? True. A man in his forties who's never had a longterm relationship or isn't a father is regarded (rightly) as an oddity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dick dasterdly Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 1 hour ago, JJGreen said: Sure...i get your points I have no problem with thai women wanting to date though...my profile message is probably more appealing to Thai women though I haven't thought about that until now. Which reminds me....for the western women in general; the style of photos and profile message and bio about themselves is vastly different than the Thai women. This is Tinder only...in have not looked at other Apps. The Western women in their 40s would have the same issues you mention also...post age 35 baggage can be there...questions, etcetera .I don't even want to date any of them...it has become more of an experiment to see if any match back with me... Coming back to something I mentioned in the OP...maybe western women don't want to date western guys here in general... Farang guys here harp on about how western women can't get a date here as if the guy is withholding their willingness to date...or the guy has the say so in whether they can date. Maybe after a certain age farang guys here aren't appealing to the Western women.... Under 30s.....thats a different ballgame altogether Re. the emboldened part - REALLY???? You're playing a game to see whether Western women are interested in you..... To look on the bright side - you now know they have no interest in you at all . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJGreen Posted September 11, 2016 Author Share Posted September 11, 2016 Re. the emboldened part - REALLY???? You're playing a game to see whether Western women are interested in you..... To look on the bright side - you now know they have no interest in you at all [emoji4].Yes really...i dont want to date them. I have some good western female friends. I don't need moreI wouldn't call it a game. More of a social experiment.I might change my profile message and see what happens Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 2 minutes ago, JJGreen said: Yes really...i dont want to date them. I have some good western female friends. I don't need more I wouldn't call it a game. More of a social experiment. I might change my profile message and see what happens Perhaps the western birds all sussed you out............ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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