Asking a Thai girl out

[Nice Boyd]

Have Line app on your phone and get her QR code, Ez

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

3 hours ago, transam said:

My Thai lady friend Thai husband was thirty years older than her, my Thai step daughter is twenty eight, good looking, single and has a Thai bloke who is forty seven chasing her and she is thinking about it..This is LOS, not farangland...

Money and possible security is the reason, it brings them around

All women are selling it only the price is different.

In the UK you need to be 25 years old and a millionaire. In Thailand, 75 years old and a UK state pension will do the job.

[AsiaHand]

Of Course like all women you first start by finding an excuse to open your wallet, say by showing her your embossed business card..Then in causal conversation let flash a few hundred dollar bills .From then on it easy..The more fat or older you are may require a bit more money showing.

[digger70]

Next time you see her ask her if she got the time,,,,, if she says yes then you ask ,,,You're Place or Mine,,,,,   ?

[smotherb]

3 hours ago, transam said:

OP, go for it...If she actually spoke to you then I reckon you maybe half way there...Just keep your eyes wide open and not dive into the deep end if you are not a good swimmer....

Well, maybe I should take your advice. As I have said before, I live near a university and frequent a coffee shop there. Young coeds, some very nice-looking, come up to me just to talk English, I thought. So, now you tell me I may be half-way there.

 

I think speech, in many respects, is quite similar to a smile. You give one, you get one in return. Just last week, I was in line to order a pretzel at Auntie Ann's and this very tall, very cute, very young Thai woman was behind me. I smiled, she smiled; I remarked how tall she was and asked her if her father was tall. We had a very nice conversation. It seems that her whole family were tall. She loved basketball, worked in a bank and was single. As we were talking, her younger sister came up and I almost fell to the floor. Drop-dead gorgeous tall slender smooth-skinned lovely. She too spoke decent English. We shared a table, ate our pretzels and bid adieu.  I'm sure BritManToo would have told me to take them to a hotel.

 

However, I digress. AlphaCanadian, just start a conversation. It is easy, if you have something to say. And, if you can stop drooling while talking to them, the nice ones will not run away.

[ujayujay]

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Depends how old you are to what chance you have. Thai girls generally want someone around their own age, of course money talks sometimes

100% Correct?

[jenny2017]

Tell her that you'd love her too much. It worked for countless idiots, aeeh foreigners who frequented barbeers. 

[wolf81]

5 hours ago, BritManToo said:

In 7-11,

You: "Hello, do you like beer or wine coolers"

Her: "I like those" (pointing)

You: "Great, we'll take them back to my room"

 

I've always assumed if they talk to me they're already up for a shag.

(1,000bht on the bedside table after)

You're a generous man.

[duanebigsby]

5 hours ago, BritManToo said:

In 7-11,

You: "Hello, do you like beer or wine coolers"

Her: "I like those" (pointing)

You: "Great, we'll take them back to my room"

 

I've always assumed if they talk to me they're already up for a shag.

(1,000bht on the bedside table after)

You've always assumed young Thai women who talk to you are whores?

Sad.

[jenny2017]

10 minutes ago, duanebigsby said:

You've always assumed young Thai women who talk to you are whores?

Sad.

Not just that. Assumed that they also want to see his tiny room. 

 

OP, rent a nice Lamborghini and you'll be successful. ?

Edited August 11, 2018 by jenny2017

[Wake Up]

Telling her she is suay mak thiisuit will get you an answer quickly. Good luck. 

[smotherb]

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

4 hours ago, transam said:

My Thai lady friend Thai husband was thirty years older than her, my Thai step daughter is twenty eight, good looking, single and has a Thai bloke who is forty seven chasing her and she is thinking about it..This is LOS, not farangland...

Money and possible security is the reason, it brings them around

I have been both young and old in Thailand, Vietnam, and the Philippines. I have many women friends. I like women; not just for sex, but as people. Women seem to notice that and they talk to me.  I believe women seek compatibility, a soul mate, in a relationship. Part of that compatibility may be age, but it also extends to shared values, common interests, admirable traits and deeds; not to mention the more basic of attractions; such as looks, personality, humor, the ability to dance; yes, and even being good at sex. I have known many May-December relationships between Southeast Asian (Thai, Viet, Pina) ladies and Westerner men which have lasted and are not based on money.

[scubascuba3]

I have been both young and old in Thailand, Vietnam, and the Philippines. I have many women friends. I like women; not just for sex, but as people. Women seem to notice that and they talk to me.  I believe women seek compatibility, a soul mate, in a relationship. Part of that compatibility may be age, but it also extends to shared values, common interests, admirable traits and deeds; not to mention the more basic of attractions; such as looks, personality, humor, the ability to dance; yes, and even being good at sex. I have known many May-December relationships between Southeast Asian (Thai, Viet, Pina) ladies and Westerner men which have lasted and are not based on money.

Yes if money isn't involved its clear its genuine [emoji818]

[jenny2017]

19 minutes ago, Wake Up said:

Telling her she is suay mak thiisuit will get you an answer quickly. Good luck. 

That would only show his poor Thai skills. 

[sirineou]

12 minutes ago, smotherb said:

I have been both young and old in Thailand, Vietnam, and the Philippines. I have many women friends. I like women; not just for sex, but as people. Women seem to notice that and they talk to me.  I believe women seek compatibility, a soul mate, in a relationship. Part of that compatibility may be age, but it also extends to shared values, common interests, admirable traits and deeds; not to mention the more basic of attractions; such as looks, personality, humor, the ability to dance; yes, and even being good at sex. I have known many May-December relationships between Southeast Asian (Thai, Viet, Pina) ladies and Westerner men which have lasted and are not based on money.

  Excellent post my friend could not agree more!! 

Relationships are complex endeavors and involves many components working together to be successful. Anyone who attempting to does not recognize that is sure to fail.

[observer90210]

1) Chat her up and make her laugh or giggle - if a girl laughs at our stupid jokes, means she is interested

 

2) take her out for something simple..no big dinner...just some drinks and snacks in a nice place and put a stop to the rendez-vous after a few hours. At this stop don't try to kiss her or groch her  ! Get her cell number. Ask her questions on her lifestyle etc as if you were interviewing her a bit, but be casual, cheeky and playful.

 

3) Make a second date a few days later, same thing in another place, no fancy dinner or anything to flashy,..just some drinks in a lovely place. End the meeting after one or two hours. Chit chat, make her laugh and make her feel that she is just another gal on the line for you at this stage, but don't brag about your past sex friends and don't squint at the other busty hotties in the bar.

 

4) 3rd date..this is the date.....dinner, be funny, talk smart a bit, don't boast, be cool,  get her drunk, kiss her on the mouth, grouch her titties and do your best to get her at your place for sex. If she says no, never mind as you have already kissed her on the mouth and groched her a bit ?..it will be fine next time.....if not...try once again and if still no sex, repeat from point 1 with another girl.

 

Case Closed - next one !!

Edited August 11, 2018 by observer90210

[jenny2017]

2 minutes ago, observer90210 said:

1) Chat her up and make her laugh or giggle - if a girl laughs at our stupid jokes, means she is interested

 

2) take her out for something simple..no big dinner...just some drinks and snacks in a nice place and put a stop to the rendez-vous after a few hours. At this stop don't try to kiss her or groch her  ! Get her cell number. Ask her questions on her lifestyle etc as if you were interviewing her a bit, but be casual, cheeky and playful.

 

3) Make a second date a few days later, same thing in another place, no fancy dinner or anything to flashy,..just some drinks in a lovely place. End the meeting after one or two hours. Chit chat, make her laugh and make her feel that she is just another gal on the line for you at this stage, but don't brag about your past sex friends and don't squint at the other busty hotties in the bar.

 

4) 3rd date..this is the date.....dinner, be funny, talk smart a bit, don't boast, be cool,  get her drunk, kiss her on the mouth, grouch her titties and do your best to get her at your place for sex.

 

Case Closed - next one !!

 I'd first try to find out if she's in a serious relationship and if so I'd let my fingers off her. 

[PerkinsCuthbert]

1 hour ago, Nice Boyd said:

My gf 32 years younger, and I have a 19 year old hounding me 43 years younger , Uni girl

I'm sixty-nine, my last girlfriend was eighteen. Mind you, I had to pay her two thousand Baht to stay the night, then she moved to the Yemen - or so she said....

[chopin2]

5 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Depends how old you are to what chance you have. Thai girls generally want someone around their own age, of course money talks sometimes

So, if op is 20 and the really cute girl he met is 25-30, he can just forget her. Got plenty of time so find someone his on age though?

[jenny2017]

2 minutes ago, chopin2 said:

So, if op is 20 and the really cute girl he met is 25-30, he can just forget her. Got plenty of time so find someone his on age though?

Not true. Also, Thai girls love to have sex with younger partners. 

[thesetat2013]

me fan my? (wait for reply) my me means she is single and available/ me fan means she has boyfriend. if she is single say ow my! 

always worked for me haha... 

Edited August 11, 2018 by thesetat2013
added details

[cyberfarang]

3 hours ago, dotpoom said:

More and more I am convinced that "social media" is causing people to lose the ability to "think for themselves".

  I come across daily, questions on how to do common everyday stuff ....stuff that most people used to figure out themselves.....

  I remember someone commenting in a discussion one time on how some people seemed to have the gift of "mental telepathy". He reckoned that we all had this ability in the distant past (like the ability to "sense" when a loved one was in danger no matter where they were..stuff like that) but since modern ways of communicating with each other devoleped more and more...we ceased using this function/ability and eventually lost it. Things like mail delivery, phones, telegraphs and of course ...now the computer.

   It leads me to ask....where will mankind be in another 50 or 100 years concerning our ability to "think for ourselves" if we continue making the progress we are making in development at this lightening pace.

  Will we be asking ..."How does one use a bum gun"?....Ohh!, sorry,.. we have reached that point already (I remember someone asking it on here last year).

Good post and what I`ve been thinking for years.

 

If the OP is young hansum man, he could simply just ask the girl out for a date. If he smiles and puts on the charm, I`d doubt he`d have any problems.

 

But guys like me in their early 60s, would stand no chance of chatting up 7/Eleven girls in their 20s. So the title question of this thread is not an option for me, unless I pulled up outside the store in a gold plated Mercedes speaking to my agent on a cellphone, shouting, sell, sell, sell. 

[richard_smith237]

13 minutes ago, observer90210 said:

1) Chat her up and make her laugh or giggle - if a girl laughs at our stupid jokes, means she is interested

 

2) take her out for something simple..no big dinner...just some drinks and snacks in a nice place and put a stop to the rendez-vous after a few hours. At this stop don't try to kiss her or groch her  ! Get her cell number. Ask her questions on her lifestyle etc as if you were interviewing her a bit, but be casual, cheeky and playful.

 

3) Make a second date a few days later, same thing in another place, no fancy dinner or anything to flashy,..just some drinks in a lovely place. End the meeting after one or two hours. Chit chat, make her laugh and make her feel that she is just another gal on the line for you at this stage, but don't brag about your past sex friends and don't squint at the other busty hotties in the bar.

 

4) 3rd date..this is the date.....dinner, be funny, talk smart a bit, don't boast, be cool,  get her drunk, kiss her on the mouth, grouch her titties and do your best to get her at your place for sex. If she says no, never mind as you have already kissed her on the mouth and groched her a bit ?..it will be fine next time.....if not...try once again and if still no sex, repeat from point 1 with another girl.

 

Case Closed - next one !!

 Step #4 seems a bit like date rape!! 

 

You have to get a girl drunk before she allows you to next base? 

[AlexRich]

I feel you have something in common with her by all means ask her out ... I only hope your not 70 years old and she’s 22? 

[smotherb]

30 minutes ago, observer90210 said:

1) Chat her up and make her laugh or giggle - if a girl laughs at our stupid jokes, means she is interested

 

2) take her out for something simple..no big dinner...just some drinks and snacks in a nice place and put a stop to the rendez-vous after a few hours. At this stop don't try to kiss her or groch her  ! Get her cell number. Ask her questions on her lifestyle etc as if you were interviewing her a bit, but be casual, cheeky and playful.

 

3) Make a second date a few days later, same thing in another place, no fancy dinner or anything to flashy,..just some drinks in a lovely place. End the meeting after one or two hours. Chit chat, make her laugh and make her feel that she is just another gal on the line for you at this stage, but don't brag about your past sex friends and don't squint at the other busty hotties in the bar.

 

4) 3rd date..this is the date.....dinner, be funny, talk smart a bit, don't boast, be cool,  get her drunk, kiss her on the mouth, grouch her titties and do your best to get her at your place for sex. If she says no, never mind as you have already kissed her on the mouth and groched her a bit ?..it will be fine next time.....if not...try once again and if still no sex, repeat from point 1 with another girl.

 

Case Closed - next one !!

Nah, be smooth. The laugh or giggle bit is not bad, but it does little good to do stand-up. Start with small talk; find a common interest, perhaps something she was doing when you first saw her. Ask her for coffee right then. Now is the time for the giggle bit; then get serious. Ask her if she does oral on the first date. If she says no, say, "Well, what about the last date, because that is what this is going to be."

[rasg]

6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

In 7-11,

You: "Hello, do you like beer or wine coolers"

Her: "I like those" (pointing)

You: "Great, we'll take them back to my room"

 

I've always assumed if they talk to me they're already up for a shag.

(1,000bht on the bedside table after)

Classy.

 

If you don't ask, you don't get. Ask her out for food. It's not difficult!

[smotherb]

28 minutes ago, cyberfarang said:

Good post and what I`ve been thinking for years.

 

If the OP is young hansum man, he could simply just ask the girl out for a date. If he smiles and puts on the charm, I`d doubt he`d have any problems.

 

But guys like me in their early 60s, would stand no chance of chatting up 7/Eleven girls in their 20s. So the title question of this thread is not an option for me, unless I pulled up outside the store in a gold plated Mercedes speaking to my agent on a cellphone, shouting, sell, sell, sell. 

'O ye, of little faith.

[jenny2017]

1 minute ago, smotherb said:

Nah, be smooth. The laugh or giggle bit is not bad, but it does little good to do stand-up. Start with small talk; find a common interest, perhaps something she was doing when you first saw her. Ask her for coffee right then. Now is the time for the giggle bit; then get serious. Ask her if she does oral on the first date. If she says no, say, "Well, what about the last date, because that is what this is going to be."

Ask her if she does oral on the first date? What a romantic view of Thai girls. Sorry, but not all girls/ women are up for that, especially not when it's an older foreigner on Viagra. 

[gaff]

Show your bank book ❤️

 

 

[gaff]

28 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 Step #4 seems a bit like date rape!! 

 

You have to get a girl drunk before she allows you to next base? 

 

If I could find her already dead it would be even better/easier, so no need to listen to her stupidity which the most shared spec of all women here, highly educated or not.