Separation and Abandonment

[NoshowJones]

31 minutes ago, catman20 said:

good luck to you, but as you said in the first sentence.   Nothing is guaranteed in life except death and taxes. maybe you were 1 of the lucky ones but for every one like you there is shed loads of blokes that have been taken to the cleaners and gone back home pot less. ill stay single thank you.

If you are unattractive, but with lots of money and you fall for the charms of the first bargirl you meet, it's odds on what is likely to happen. If you are not unattractive and you meet a well educated, very attractive girl with a good job, having been with other Thai girls before that, and made three trips from your home country to be with her before you decide you want to marry her and live with her in Thailand, then the odds increase greatly on your'e relationship lasting.

[catman20]

5 hours ago, possum1931 said:

If you are unattractive, but with lots of money and you fall for the charms of the first bargirl you meet, it's odds on what is likely to happen. If you are not unattractive and you meet a well educated, very attractive girl with a good job, having been with other Thai girls before that, and made three trips from your home country to be with her before you decide you want to marry her and live with her in Thailand, then the odds increase greatly on your'e relationship lasting.

mate ! what is it with getting married, grow up. there are good and bad people out there nothing to do with jobs or education, she either a wrongern or not. all u guys need to get real and wake up BIG TIME ! there are loads of good girls out there but u lot need to stop punching above your weight

[Aussieroaming]

9 hours ago, catman20 said:

good luck to you, but as you said in the first sentence.   Nothing is guaranteed in life except death and taxes. maybe you were 1 of the lucky ones but for every one like you there is shed loads of blokes that have been taken to the cleaners and gone back home pot less. ill stay single thank you.

Yeah and I can safely assume that many men got roĺled by the western ex before ever arriving in TH. I will stick with my current wife for as long as she puts up with me and she deserved her share of whatever assets we have gained together if it ever goes pitong. Not too many ex's that dont go for the throat in a financial settlement, Thais and western inclusive. 

[catman20]

4 hours ago, Aussieroaming said:

Yeah and I can safely assume that many men got roĺled by the western ex before ever arriving in TH. I will stick with my current wife for as long as she puts up with me and she deserved her share of whatever assets we have gained together if it ever goes pitong. Not too many ex's that dont go for the throat in a financial settlement, Thais and western inclusive. 

Yeah and I can safely assume that many men got roĺled by the western ex before ever arriving in TH.

 

then get rolled again here in TH. i must be missing something all this getting rolled seems to be very popular. 555

[NoshowJones]

8 hours ago, catman20 said:

mate ! what is it with getting married, grow up. there are good and bad people out there nothing to do with jobs or education, she either a wrongern or not. all u guys need to get real and wake up BIG TIME ! there are loads of good girls out there but u lot need to stop punching above your weight

You want to take a good look at yourself before you tell anyone to grow up. So especially for you I will try to explain a bit better.

Yes, there are lots of good girls out there, and bargirls among them, but, if you are the fat, unattractive guy, you will mainly, I said mainly, have to rely on your money, and a girl out of the bar to settle down with, and the chances of your relationship succeeding will be very low. I said very low.

If you are not the fat, unattractive guy, and go out with several girls, ones you have met in a shop, office, even in a reputable club etc, meet their families, see their life style, have a decent education, then that relationship stands a far better chance of succeeding. I said far better chance.

Now is that plain enough for you too understand?

[BritManToo]

7 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

but, if you are the fat, unattractive guy, you will mainly, I said mainly, have to rely on your money,

This sounds a bit like victim blaming to me.

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, catman20 said:

Yeah and I can safely assume that many men got roĺled by the western ex before ever arriving in TH.

 

then get rolled again here in TH. i must be missing something all this getting rolled seems to be very popular. 555

The 'rolling' here is much cheaper than the 'rolling' back in the UK. 

[NoshowJones]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

This sounds a bit like victim blaming to me.

It is nothing to do with blame, a person has the right to live his life as he sees fit, within reason of course, I don't see where I am blaming anyone, I am just pointing out my opinion and experience about relationships with Thai girls.

[catman20]

7 hours ago, possum1931 said:

You want to take a good look at yourself before you tell anyone to grow up. So especially for you I will try to explain a bit better.

Yes, there are lots of good girls out there, and bargirls among them, but, if you are the fat, unattractive guy, you will mainly, I said mainly, have to rely on your money, and a girl out of the bar to settle down with, and the chances of your relationship succeeding will be very low. I said very low.

If you are not the fat, unattractive guy, and go out with several girls, ones you have met in a shop, office, even in a reputable club etc, meet their families, see their life style, have a decent education, then that relationship stands a far better chance of succeeding. I said far better chance.

Now is that plain enough for you too understand?

OK i understand now................................your ones different 

[catman20]

7 hours ago, BritManToo said:

The 'rolling' here is much cheaper than the 'rolling' back in the UK. 

 agreed