i gotta get out of this place if it's the last thing i ever do

[bwpage3]

It's amazing, she just turned and all these things happened overnight?

 

Perhaps she was this way before you met her which in that case is a miracle it lasted 7 years

 

If you fall for being a Thai Woman's ATM, then shame on you.

 

She already had 2 kids meaning she gave her first love away before she met you and now you are the one paying for it and receiving nothing

 

If you are only paying for the relationship, you don't have a relationship.

 

Didn't you see that years ago?

 

Time to move and put Thailand in the rear view mirror

[LukKrueng]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

You're right, but I would value the young pussy at 5M, and the old pussy at 1M.

OR, it could be a buy one, get one free deal, in which case 6M for the young pussy.

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with her 2 kids

How young could she be? not 5M worth if you ask me....

[HuskerDo]

43 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Many Thais try that. And many farangs try something similar.

All that fleecing works only with people who let it happen. And the OP in this case let it happen since forever and now he is somehow surprised about his current situation. The current situation only happened because he let it happen. He could have done something, anything, a long long time ago.

The next time you see her why not tell a story and see her reaction? The story? Tell her you weren't feeling well so you went to the doctor and he told you that you have advanced HIV and that you most likely contracted it years ago. Tell her you apologize for probably infecting her as well. That will blow not only her mind but anyone she's shared her body with while you were busy building her a dream home. Then while she's in the midst of freaking out do as someone else mention... bulldoze the house. That ought to help give you some closure. ????

 

 

[Hummin]

2 hours ago, unamazedloso said:

a lot of thai women dont understand morals. Givem nothing. My wife now is a good honest women. The girlfriends before are horrors. Disgusting whores in good girls clothing most of them. I dont need to pay for "it" and pretty poor actually so im lucky there.. Get away and dont look back for your own peace of mind. Aus is good. The more im in aus the more i miss it. If i could afford to take the family and setup things again at an old age i would but we holiday there once a year which is ok. Foreigners seem to be brought up wellfor the most part. brought up with constant brainwashing of good and evil and empathy  Thais are brought up with Buddhism. nuf said.....

Some people do not have moral, but who are we coming over here with cash, and buy happy life? What kind of moral is that? 

 

Some getting a housekeeper, some getting a daughter, some getting a nurse, and some thinking that is love? 

 

There is no moral in war and love I was told once 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Ajarnbrian said:

If you married an educated Thai lady who you took time to get to know and you were careful with your money at first, then much sympathy. If you were bonking another bar girl from Buriram, splashed your money around and didn`t do any character checks, no surprise at all.

It's always funny when some people think, or at least write, that educated Thais are somehow better. Some are good people but some girls from Buriram are also nice and honest. And then there are greedy rich and greedy poor people. Often the rich have more experience with being greedy so they know better how to get richer.

Just look at all the rich and well educated Thai politicians. Yeah, they are all such wonderful honest people. 555

A guy who has lots of money will always find women who are happy to take that money. All of them from any social group. And if the guy closes his eyes and doesn't look at reality then he shouldn't be surprised about whatever happens.

[PMZ]

On 1/11/2019 at 12:48 PM, richard_smith237 said:

I'm sorry things haven't worked out for you...  sometimes its just a sh!t show... other times a great deal of luck is involved... other times its simply crappy decision making.... and other times 'someone' in the relationship has changed... and on and on and on... 

 

I was here for 13 years before I met someone I'd even remotely consider settling down with... Previous girl friends were all quite decent, but just not 'right' enough, one was a complete disaster but had me completely sucked in (she was from a very wealthy family, so money was never the issue, but she was just a complete nut-job... exciting, but mentally exhausting.... I'm glad I dodged that bullet when I decided enough was enough and pulled the plug) ...  after 10 years (I think) into Marriage.... I, of course, think 'mine is different' and I do believe that, but don't we all...  in reality we never know whats down the line...  

 

....and that could happen in any country...  it would appear to be more common here because of the vast gulf in socio-economics, culture and in a number of cases moral compass...  That said there are scores of hugely successful relationships here and as with any relationship it sometimes requires effort on both sides to ensure success.... when one side has given up that's pretty much it.... 

 

In your case, Marco kok prong... I suspect your missus chose to settle with you for financial security as many do... and at some point that lifestyle wore thin..  I'm sorry that seems the case, it seems you are now on to better things... Good luck... 

Great post, lucid, sensible and considered. Somewhat of a rarity on here. Many thanks

[Dumbastheycome]

Just stump up with another  5 mill and tell the same story again somewhere else if  you  wish.

 

[HerbalEd]

On 1/11/2019 at 12:26 PM, Mavideol said:

somebody posted something similar some time ago..... same advise, Run Forrest, Run, they don't appreciate us and all the good we do for them and their relatives, they call us heartless ATM's

Maybe it's you. I'm ever amazed how many men - even farangs in Thailand - don't know how to handle their women and make them happy -- or, if the woman is irreparable, how to quickly end the relationship instead of continuing to suffer disrespect and unhappiness. 

 

Edited January 12, 2019 by HerbalEd

[HuskerDo]

2 minutes ago, HerbalEd said:

Maybe it's you. I'm ever amazed how many men - even farangs in Thailand - don't know how to handle their women and make them happy -- or, if the woman is irreparable, how to get out of the relationship much sooner than later. 

 

Good point Ed. If men would treat women with respect and dignity in all counties I suspect things would be far better for them. Possibly it's just a male reaction to just want to "take care" of a woman thus spending extravagantly on her to the point she expects it. I wonder if there would be as many issues for farangs in Thailand if they explained to the women up front that they have little money(which may or may not be true) but will treat them well and never cheat on them. On the other hand many men come here to prey on these beautiful ladies and once it happens to her she thinks all farangs are the same. Respect and dignity go a long way folks.

[Olmate]

5 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

Good point Ed. If men would treat women with respect and dignity in all counties I suspect things would be far better for them. Possibly it's just a male reaction to just want to "take care" of a woman thus spending extravagantly on her to the point she expects it. I wonder if there would be as many issues for farangs in Thailand if they explained to the women up front that they have little money(which may or may not be true) but will treat them well and never cheat on them. On the other hand many men come here to prey on these beautiful ladies and once it happens to her she thinks all farangs are the same. Respect and dignity go a long way folks.

Does that include telling her you have HIV? What a strange person you are spouting dignity!

[HuskerDo]

2 minutes ago, Olmate said:

Does that include telling her you have HIV? What a strange person you are spouting dignity!

Two totally different situations Olmate. I mentioned the HIV "story" as a way to teach the cheating woman a lesson. She was taking advantage of the poor guy and using him. My point is that if men would treat women with respect and not use money as the most important thing in a relationship they might have more success with the relationship. Many women might not know the feeling of being "respected". That in itself might cause a reaction in her that keeps her happy and loyal for life. 

[Ks45672]

On 1/11/2019 at 12:51 PM, Old Croc said:

She got the goldmine you got the shaft.

She's also getting the shaft  from the other farang as well as the goldmine.... Anther farang outsmarted by a Thai woman lol 

[The Theory]

“you could have had sex with every woman in Pattaya like I did.”

 

 

That had happened many years ago I bet. 

When Pattaya was real Pattaya. 

[Ks45672]

4 hours ago, GarryP said:

But that is the problem. She has already started eating the rug according to the OP.

I could forgive a bit of rug munching 

[Olmate]

10 minutes ago, HuskerDo said:

Two totally different situations Olmate. I mentioned the HIV "story" as a way to teach the cheating woman a lesson. She was taking advantage of the poor guy and using him. My point is that if men would treat women with respect and not use money as the most important thing in a relationship they might have more success with the relationship. Many women might not know the feeling of being "respected". That in itself might cause a reaction in her that keeps her happy and loyal for life. 

One set of values for you then, lie if it suits the occasion,but your not really a liar? Teach the woman a lesson? Mmmm got the picture!

[HuskerDo]

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Sorry, I'm at the age when talking about the sex I previously had is all that's left to me.

A bit like the OP.

I assumed you were old based on a lot of your responses.

[HuskerDo]

6 minutes ago, Olmate said:

One set of values for you then, lie if it suits the occasion,but your not really a liar? Teach the woman a lesson? Mmmm got the picture!

No, you don't get the picture but that's ok Olmate. Have a great rest of the day.

[geriatrickid]

On 1/11/2019 at 12:35 AM, NCC1701A said:

you could have had sex with every woman in Pattaya like I did.

Are you certain they were all women? It is Pattaya, after all.  ????

 

[Olmate]

Just hope you don’t say similar on the CM forum, wouldn’t go down well, anyway back to work Do.

[HuskerDo]

Oh well. If you have to "self censor" the things you want to say in a forum to ensure "no one" is offended then there would be zero posts. 

 

Have a great day Olmate. 

[marqus12]

If this story is true then he did everything wrong.

So before he move to a wood cabin and live like a unabomer in the hope

that netfix will make a movie about him maybe it's better to start acting

like a man...  go to the nearest town and bring a whole car of whores

and a bucket of Viagra to work out in the pool with them .

 

Because if a woman behaves in this way, it means that the man is dominated by her and it's time to start taking control.

 

ps .probably will not help much if the house is standing on her mummy's land 

 

 

Edited January 12, 2019 by marqus12

[manarak]

OP could send me her line ID ...

[theguyfromanotherforum]

Here's an idea. Stop hooking up with.... erm.... hookers.

 

None of my wife's friends behaves this way.

[manarak]

3 minutes ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

None of my wife's friends behaves this way.

yeah, I'm envious too.

[theguyfromanotherforum]

11 minutes ago, manarak said:

yeah, I'm envious too.

 

Yes.

 

Well you can imagine you are an alpha male having a fantastic sex life with prostitutes who are after your wallet, or just settle down in Thailand and accept the reality you are no game at all. I mean, Marko there kept bragging for months how he had a bi girlfriend, but now the truth comes out that he hasn't gotten any in 6 months.

 

 

It's mostly the same same stories here. I'm banging so many chicks here (with a help of a blue pill). You aren't paying for it, your wife must be ugly. Your life is sooo boring. 

 

I was screwing more Thai women in Canada than here and I'm absolutely fine with this fact. I wouldn't want any of your "exciting" women near me. They are absolutely not interested in old men. Fact.

 

 

 

 

 

[BritManToo]

23 minutes ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

Well you can imagine you are an alpha male having a fantastic sex life with prostitutes who are after your wallet, or just settle down in Thailand and accept the reality you are no game at all. I mean, Marko there kept bragging for months how he had a bi girlfriend, but now the truth comes out that he hasn't gotten any in 6 months.

How much did you get for the 6 months you were in Canada, and your wife was in Thailand?

I'm thinking as much as Marko!

Edited January 12, 2019 by BritManToo

[BritManToo]

3 hours ago, LukKrueng said:

How young could she be? not 5M worth if you ask me....

I once met a really pretty 22 year old that had 4 kids.

[BritManToo]

3 hours ago, bwpage3 said:

If you are only paying for the relationship, you don't have a relationship.

I'm happy to pay for the sex, you can keep the relationship.

[HuskerDo]

30 minutes ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

 

Yes.

 

Well you can imagine you are an alpha male having a fantastic sex life with prostitutes who are after your wallet, or just settle down in Thailand and accept the reality you are no game at all. I mean, Marko there kept bragging for months how he had a bi girlfriend, but now the truth comes out that he hasn't gotten any in 6 months.

 

 

It's mostly the same same stories here. I'm banging so many chicks here (with a help of a blue pill). You aren't paying for it, your wife must be ugly. Your life is sooo boring. 

 

I was screwing more Thai women in Canada than here and I'm absolutely fine with this fact. I wouldn't want any of your "exciting" women near me. They are absolutely not interested in old men. Fact.

 

 

 

 

 

Well said!

[theguyfromanotherforum]

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

How much did you get for the 6 months you were in Canada, and your wife was in Thailand?

I'm thinking as much as Marko!

 

Nothing. I wouldn't cheat and most women wouldn't be interested in me anyway - I'm 45. I was talking about time when I was younger and not married.