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3 hours ago, NCC1701A said:

five years in Thailand and I have never had a bad experience with immigration. NOT ONE. Nothing has changed for me.

 

But reading TV now I am sure I am going to be deported the next time I do my 90 day reporting.

And I am running evacuation drills in the middle of the night. :clap2:

 

"WAKE UP! You got five minutes to load those bags into your pickup honey! Drive me to the border!"   :cheesy:

But NOT Poipet border lol!! ????

You will be doubled deported and hurt badly. And you will still have to pay a large fine for it. 

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8 hours ago, totally thaied up said:

My Father-in-law told me we change about every five years in the 'state of persons' we really are. I think he is correct.

 

My wife and I go home to Australia after me living full time in Thailand for four years on Wednesday for a period of three months. I need to go home to mend a few fences with people and not neglect everyone as I have done for so long as in some ways. I feel some things in Thailand have changed and I need a 'time out' to look back at things to see how they are.

 

My biggest worry is to be in my 60's and 70's and be refused health coverage. If I start to prepare things now, it is something I can do over a few years as in move. There is no fear in this post as I have lived here in Thailand now for 10 years and do love the place. I have seen a winding down of many fellow farangs over the years and I think it is the fact of getting older and wondering about the 'what if's' are going to get you. What if this happens -- What if that happens.

 

I do have the money to stay here till I die but I am also looking at what will be best for me in my later years in life. My wife will look after me and for that, I am lucky but for all of us, we are so different in character that these issues will all affect us differently. I do not really want to go from Thailand but while I am young enough to have a look with my wife at something different for a few months, I will use this break to see how much Australia has changed. I may be running back here real quick after three months with my tail in between my legs saying, ''Lord what was I thinking'' as in reality, I do not know what I am returning too and that has me slightly stressed.

Good for you..I shall be interested to see what you make of Oz.

 

Don't forget to factor in the reverse culture shock.It is often talked about and was very real for me for about three months until things settled down.

 

On the other hand it was all a bit of a whirl of doctors,hospitals and medical interventions I suppose-and it took me a while to get my bearings.

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My thoughts exactly. I'm two years younger than you, been here retired for eight years. I first came to Thailand in 1977 in the Peace Corps, during which time I learned to speak, read and write Thai. I have often thought that the people who say Thais hate us think so due to the frustration of being unable to communicate. (Hint, tones matter.) But, like you, I'm evolving. I often have friendly conversations and come away thinking Thai people are wonderful, but the feeling of not being fully accepted is definitely there.

 

A few years ago, a woman was the Minister of Tourism and Sports. I forget her name. She came to Chiang Mai to hold listening sessions. I attended and reported here in TV. She was a little tone-deaf in that she couldn't stop referring to us long-term residents as "tourists," as if there's no difference. Anyway, her reward for reaching out to understand was that she was replaced within a very short time. No good deed . . .

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14 hours ago, Gecko123 said:

After having lived in Thailand for 16 years, I don't think I could transistion to another country without recharging my batteries back in the States for a while. After being gone so long, the US will probably feel like a foreign country in and of itself. I'm thinking get myself a $1500/mo to $2000/mo apartment or condo, and travel a bit in Europe, Mexico, while rebuilding relationships with family and friends which admittedly, I've badly neglected.

Try Cambodia, same as living in Issan, if you lived in Sisaket they even speak the same language (Khmer)

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14 hours ago, Gecko123 said:

So, unless there's a collapse in the housing market bubble (which I'm kind of praying for), I've kind of resigned myself to renting, at least initially.

 

So you are praying for a bubble to burst which will have millions people affected with many of them, no doubt losing their homes just because you decided to live your life in Thailand while others have actually stayed and contributed?

 

Yea, that's really nice of you. It makes you look like a really nice guy.

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14 hours ago, Enoon said:

 

You have evolved.

 

It is as much about you as it is about Thailand.

 

When I was a teenager I declared that I was always going to be the person I was then.

 

I never imagined that life could be about looking back at a series of different "persons".

 

Good luck (although I doubt that you need it).

 

 

I am wonderingabout this evolved stuff...........I seem to be evolving or getting too involved or trying to not get involved, but wondering if we should just stick our heads in the sand or if we can or cannot do anything or.........I enjoyed the post and writing and hope to take on some more discussions as my expereinces are much shorter though almost go back that far.........never would have imagined moving or living here but now that looks more possible or not daily but then CHOICES and the immigration issues around the world as well as politics - used to work and not spend as much time and still not enough........well getting some issues arising back home and trying to salvage a bad situation in Argentina -- open to help and conversations as time allows..........  and luck is part of life I am sure or at least thinking.

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6 hours ago, madmen said:

Who cares. Im in a farang ghetto lower sukhimvit and have zero to do with thais unless Im ordering drinks, food or an hourly rental. Thais do not exist in my world and thats perfect as I live my life exactly as I did in the west but with better climate and cheaper women.

 

I have no sympathy for those that moved to a thai ghetto and are trying to fit in. Your an alien, what did you expect?

I'm with you on this, I don't require my servants to love me, they just need to serve.

Although I live in a Thai area, I don't speak to them, same as I didn't speak to my English neighbours in the UK.

Hello, as I pass by, is about as close as I ever get.

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15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

 I never bother, entry card is all they get.

And how does that work for you when you need an extension, resident certificate etc. Or one day when they shut you down for doing to many tourist visa's.

 

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13 hours ago, beautifulthailand99 said:

So true - move to a place with a good level of Farang you won't feel so out of place. I overwinter in Jomtiem now with my missus in a second-hand condo on the 15th floor with sea-views for 1.3m. Baht buses take you everywhere you need to go and you will be welcome or at least ignored. You can rent a reasonable place for 10k a month. Don't chuck in the towel before you've given a 'half-way' house a go. Plus clean air and sea-breezes........

 

As for ordinary Thais I have some sympathy for their plight, deprived of their beloved King and a democratic vote and hope things are pretty tough right now. In Jomtien they see crowds of rude Russians and hordes of noisy Chinese making merry why they are consigned to seemingly being second class citizens in their own country. Some local resentment is to be expected. The whole world seems to be getting angry. We met an almost toothless elderly coconut salesman at the market with his friend selling them at 20 baht a pop with a smile and we got chatting and he remarked he didn't know why Thai people robbed the farang so much around here and got a bad name for his country. We left with laughter and smiles all round - there are still plenty of good guys left and you seem like one of them.  A change is as good as a rest. 

Well said. A change can do you a world of good. 

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For West Coast Americans, retirement in Mexico is a great option. Oaxaca, Guadalajara, Cancun, Veracruz, Los Cabos, Puerto Vallarta, and similar beautiful areas are just a few hours fly to USA destinations, the living costs now similar to Thailand, with easy immigration rules and services, and affordable health insurance for foreigners. If my Thai wife was willing to move there, no doubts I will move now with 10 pesos for a dollar and real estate in its lower value ever.

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13 hours ago, NCC1701A said:

have you been to Hua Hin? you should come to visit for a solid month. A bit more like California or Florida as far as hospitals, malls, shops. The Thais are used to Farangs here. They call it "White Town". No cop would stop and ask you where are you from. No drug tests and anything like that.

 

I live like a king on just my SS alone. Sometimes when I travel I add in a few extra hundred dollars for a big party. ???? 

 

I watched my mom and dad age in the USA. They lived to be 89 and 92. I am in 63 and have zero health issues except for some IBS. 

People live a long time in my family. So I expect to live until at least 80.

 

It was expensive as hell to get my parents home care.  Like $30 A HOUR! and they had it running around the clock and then assisted living.

That is why I came to Thailand. All you have to do is give a Thai the incentive to keep you alive and they will.

But you have to be start about it.

 

also the USA you know was destroyed about 20 years ago. you will not be able to speak your mind about anything. 

 

I saw the brainstorming and the wife has an idea and I want or will support it. If you are interested there is a way.......and that is the short version from a guy who can or is long winded and old at times too.......66 and......Mom went fairly young and Dad at 89..........it is definetly a slippery slope. 

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25 minutes ago, Peterw42 said:

And how does that work for you when you need an extension, resident certificate etc. Or one day when they shut you down for doing to many tourist visa's.

I never visit immigration, had enough of them, their corruption and their insulting ways a few years back.

They have computers, any need to show, divorce certificate, custody order, birth certificates, house papers more than once (ever) is nothing more than pure harassment.

 

I have 90 day non-os to look after my Thai children, I'm not a tourist, I've never had a tourist VISA.

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11 hours ago, totally thaied up said:

My Father-in-law told me we change about every five years in the 'state of persons' we really are. I think he is correct.

 

My wife and I go home to Australia after me living full time in Thailand for four years on Wednesday for a period of three months. I need to go home to mend a few fences with people and not neglect everyone as I have done for so long as in some ways. I feel some things in Thailand have changed and I need a 'time out' to look back at things to see how they are.

 

My biggest worry is to be in my 60's and 70's and be refused health coverage. If I start to prepare things now, it is something I can do over a few years as in move. There is no fear in this post as I have lived here in Thailand now for 10 years and do love the place. I have seen a winding down of many fellow farangs over the years and I think it is the fact of getting older and wondering about the 'what if's' are going to get you. What if this happens -- What if that happens.

 

I do have the money to stay here till I die but I am also looking at what will be best for me in my later years in life. My wife will look after me and for that, I am lucky but for all of us, we are so different in character that these issues will all affect us differently. I do not really want to go from Thailand but while I am young enough to have a look with my wife at something different for a few months, I will use this break to see how much Australia has changed. I may be running back here real quick after three months with my tail in between my legs saying, ''Lord what was I thinking'' as in reality, I do not know what I am returning too and that has me slightly stressed.

Good to see a topic with well meaning, if slightly pessimistic responses.

 

Every place changes and in Australia the "newer" crew have gone in for virtue signalling with a tendency to avoid/shout down other or independent viewpoints.

That is reality elsewhere as well, but it is still a great country and lifestyle. One hopes it does not get given away/surrendered by folk who think other folk from a completely different outlook will appreciate the opportunity to integrate.

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@Gecko123 - You mentioned: " Another thing that I realized when pondering purchasing a home, is that after 16 years in Thailand, getting a mortgage might be a little tricky, even though on paper, I probably could qualify." - For what it is worth, I think the biggest issue in being able to qualify for a mortgage will be your age. I think after a certain age banks no longer offer mortgages because of life expectancy. The cut off might be somewhere around the age of 65. Or they may only grant a mortgage if a very large down payment is made of well over 50%. I am no expert on this, but you may want to look into further if you are intent on ever buying a property in the US on credit. Best wishes.

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