Tayaout Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 4 minutes ago, ZenBen said: Last logged in: 5 hours ago ???? You should talk with her. Like I said I had a girlfriend who kept her account because she had friends and a boring shopping mall job. She was a decent girl and we stayed together for 3 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZenBen Posted September 29, 2019 Author Share Posted September 29, 2019 (edited) 4 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said: Hi young padawan as you write you just ''sleep'' together i presume she is trying on the sites to find someone to have sex with. 55 More seriously do you live in her house'condo or in your? If you are at your home and she acts like this, is simply a total lack of respect for you you can resolve it whit a deal, next time you see her doing that in your home wneh you aare here, you break her phone (And of course if she does it, do what you have promised) but it not going very far with your relationship or you can try to find someone else who realy respect you. It is as simple as that. you We do not live together. She says she lives with her parents 20 minutes away, we meet up 1-2 times per week because she works a lot at a restaurant. She did invite me to that restaurant once, so I can confirm she works there. I will think about what to do, thanks for the input guys. Edited September 29, 2019 by ZenBen 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 1 hour ago, SteveK said: If she's 23, Thai and attractive, she mostly likely knows what websites to use to get many, many thousands of baht, often without even meeting anyone! Wow, so much assumption and so fast, not nice. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingofthemountain Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 9 minutes ago, ZenBen said: Last logged in: 5 hours ago ???? Sorry dude probably time to move no regrets. a lot of fish in the sea be ready for the next one 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mauGR1 Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 33 minutes ago, colinneil said: What nonsense, when i told my wife ( then girlfriend ) i loved her, went back to the UK FOR A FEW MONTHS, SHE BUILT A HOUSE FOR US. Yes she built and paid for a house, not me. Hi Colin, glad to hear that, but it seems the exception rather than the rule. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kingofthemountain Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 7 minutes ago, ZenBen said: We do not live together. She says she lives with her parents 20 minutes away, we meet up 1-2 times per week because she works a lot at a restaurant. She did invite me to that restaurant once, so I can confirm she works there. I will think about what to do, thanks for the input guys. Are you sure 100% she sleeps in her parents house the others nights of the week? She could be juggles with 2 or 3 guys like you never underestimate the thai girls 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichardColeman Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 I met my wife of 4 years on Thaifriendly, a school teacher from Nan, so I can't dish what we know already is pot luck. But with regards to Thaifriendly coming up on any device, if you have been using it alot then it will come up when you start typing. For example, when I type in Thai on my www. thai friendly shows first, even if i want to go to come to thaivisa.com !!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZenBen Posted September 29, 2019 Author Share Posted September 29, 2019 2 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said: Are you sure 100% she sleeps in her parents house the others nights of the week? She could be juggles with 2 or 3 guys like you never underestimate the thai girls That's impossible to check unfortunately. I think I will probably start looking for someone else soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mauGR1 Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 (edited) 43 minutes ago, TallGuyJohninBKK said: One quick thing to do if you're at all tech minded is to borrow her phone briefly, go into the browser and clear the search history, and THEN see what's popping up thereafter. That would provide your answer. Well, tbh, if i had to resort on spying on my gf's phone, i'd rather end the relationship. Jealousy is a bad monster. Edited September 29, 2019 by mauGR1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bkk6060 Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 OP grow up and realize sex is not a commitment here. Based on your comments/observations she is seeing other guys. Probably many. As you should be seeing many girls. Some are very naive about these dating sites here. I would bet many of the cute girls on those sites have more dates then a young cutie on Soi 6 or even Beach Road. 98% of the attractive ones are not special relationship seekers. Sorry... 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Stevemercer Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 My wife says she uses these dating websites to help improve her English. Her friends are always asking her to talk with their 'boyfriends' because their English is poor or they couldn't be bothered. I'm sure your girlfriend has similar good reasons. It may be that her friends all do it, as a kind of half-serious game, and she doesn't want to get left behind. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elkski Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 Ben, what are you wanting? She was probably dating other guys or had several lovely conversations going when you met. Some maybe living in other countries and planning to visit her. Maybe their lives look better than yours? If your working in BKK and so young it's hard to imagine you could compete with an older man in terms of support. Remember in thailand support is a big part of love. I had a gal here in USA who asked me on the second date am I going to stop using the dating site I met her on? I felt like I could do better and I told her I was not closing my account. She stuck around until I took a roadtrip to the Pacific NW without her. I actually didn't see anyone on that trip. I just needed a trip and to be single in case. Just enjoy life. Safe sex. When you find the right one you will latch on and the other will join you or hurt you. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post welovesundaysatspace Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 (edited) Some things are the same in Thailand and in the West: One of these things is that people are different. No one will be able to give you a guarantee that every Thai girl is x, y, and z. You will meet many westerners who try to do so, but that is because they were lucky or unlucky enough to only experience a certain kind of Thai girl for whatever reason. Another of these things is that you cannot and should not assume when it comes to dating and relationship. You’ve been dating for a while, but different people mean different things when they’re dating. Some might be looking for a no strings attached thing; some even have multiple of these. For some others, dating might mean a lot and they’re actually looking for a serious relationship. I have met different types and even I have looked for different things depending on my personal situation and the girl. Why do you assume or expect you’re in a committed exclusive relationship? And that she’s not supposed to use dating sites anymore? Did you ever talk about this? Her expectations might be different than yours. The only way to find out is to gauge whether she might be interested in a committed relationship and then carefully having “the talk” about what that actually means for both of you. You should be able to see how she treats you and whether you’re more a gik for her or potentially more. Likewise, you should also be able to see whether she’s actually girlfriend material for you or just a good fxxx turning your head upside down. Dating sites are not exactly known to be for relationship seekers. I’m not saying it’s not possible but you know what Tinder & Co. are being used for primarily. Again, that doesn’t mean it’s the case here. Just factor it into your thoughts. Edited September 29, 2019 by welovesundaysatspace 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rumak Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 33 minutes ago, Stevemercer said: My wife says she uses these dating websites to help improve her English. Her friends are always asking her to talk with their 'boyfriends' because their English is poor or they couldn't be bothered. I'm sure your girlfriend has similar good reasons. It may be that her friends all do it, as a kind of half-serious game, and she doesn't want to get left behind. uh.... ok ???? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 Do plenty of farang men play the field, and often whilst telling the 'main' girl they don't do that? The answer is YES. Like many things in life it's a double sided coin. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TallGuyJohninBKK Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 40 minutes ago, Stevemercer said: My wife says she uses these dating websites to help improve her English. Her friends are always asking her to talk with their 'boyfriends' because their English is poor or they couldn't be bothered. That's a bit kinky.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 1 hour ago, kingofthemountain said: Are you sure 100% she sleeps in her parents house the others nights of the week? She could be juggles with 2 or 3 guys like you never underestimate the thai girls and never underestimate the dance the farang might also be playing... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirineou Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 1 hour ago, ZenBen said: That's impossible to check unfortunately. I think I will probably start looking for someone else soon. You are overthinking this. She is probably not sure of you yet and keeping her options open, or limply innocent window shopping. Talk with her, express your concerns and see what she says. If I had taken TVF advise or listen to all the negativity here I would never have being with my , married to for over 10 years now, lovely,loving wife that some times I cant stand but most of the time dont know how I ever lived without. Life is a chance, and you need to take your own chances, Forget everything everyone has said in this forum including mine, figure things on your own, 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post olfu Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 Switch to Philippine's girls--most of them claiming being virgins even some with kid and when I asked how come you have a kid and claim being a virgin the answer was--because it was an accident. 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Pravda Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 Guy, I've been on these dating sites for a few months now. Although I'm a one girl man, tindering around is addictive. I just can't help it, so can you imagine a half attractive girl? Even hookers are addicted to it. I had a 22 year old pay me lunch and asked me to be her boyfriend because she was lonely and bored with her "job". I swear to God. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skallywag Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 (edited) 4 hours ago, ZenBen said: we have been together for 2-3 months....since we started sleeping together Less sleep, more action is my only advice, while you are still young Edited September 29, 2019 by Skallywag 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skallywag Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 8 minutes ago, Pravda said: I had a 22 year old pay me lunch and asked me to be her boyfriend because she was lonely and bored with her "job". I swear to God. You had me until your oath to a mythological deity was your means of conviction 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 4 hours ago, ylmiri said: I like the expression "they get a deer in the head light look on their face". , however I often wonder why the deer stare at the head light. Is it trying to commit suicide? They will sometimes get startled & run toward day light for safety only it's headlights....If headlights hit them abruptly they can freeze in their tracks.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Isaanbiker Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 6 hours ago, Blue Muton said: This post introduces a brand new addition to the Kellersphere and was brought to you by Kellerstainment Enterprises Inc. That was funny. But you're right, it's a Keller project. Must be. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isaanbiker Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 2 hours ago, Pravda said: Guy, I've been on these dating sites for a few months now. Although I'm a one girl man, tindering around is addictive. I just can't help it, so can you imagine a half attractive girl? Even hookers are addicted to it. I had a 22 year old pay me lunch and asked me to be her boyfriend because she was lonely and bored with her "job". I swear to God. You swear to god.....???? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isaanbiker Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 2 hours ago, olfu said: Switch to Philippine's girls--most of them claiming being virgins even some with kid and when I asked how come you have a kid and claim being a virgin the answer was--because it was an accident. Wasn't holy Maria a virgin? Aren't they Christians? Well... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tifino Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 the surreal thing, is that: To She - it is on the Side yet To He, back at home - It is Behind his back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunnyboy2018 Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 Dont date. Use P4P. This is Thailand not the West. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post shy coconut Posted September 29, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted September 29, 2019 Don't take her to Pattaya again, put her up in a 4* hotel, give her golf lessons, pay her 15 grand up front, and if you do have a row with her In restaurant, wear something waterproof. Life is about learning, try not to repeat past mistakes. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shy coconut Posted September 29, 2019 Share Posted September 29, 2019 1 hour ago, pgrahmm said: They will sometimes get startled & run toward day light for safety only it's headlights....If headlights hit them abruptly they can freeze in their tracks.... The deer up here in the Scottish Highlands tend to run uphill when I startle them, even if that means rushing out Infront of me from a safe nearside verge. They really are quite stupid creatures. There's a lot of young/ juvenile ones down at low level at the moment as it's rutting season and the big lairy stags are up in the hills butting heads and will do considerable damage to anyone that gets in the way of their quest, including people. Apologies for going off topic, ludicrous as it is... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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