1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

You're in Thailand, maybe you should learn to speak Thai?

How would that help with Thai women, from my experience most have no desire or ability to communicate these concepts that britman 2 mentioned, and almost all will want money to send to those in the bonnies, they say.  Learing to speak thai language is a two edged sword, just opening yourself up to more woe.

Some girls work in some places not because they like it but because i.e. the older sister decided she should work there. 

If you are lucky she wants out of that job and wants someone to take care of her. And maybe she is interested in a nice guy and not so much in big money.

If you like her go ahead. You will soon find out what she wants.

Keep an open mind and look what you really see - and not what you want to see.

It's always a bonus if you can understand Thai. Of course you don't have to say that you can and listen to what people say. Something I have done many times. Can be very amusing.

 

16 minutes ago, IraqRon said:

How would that help with Thai women, from my experience most have no desire or ability to communicate these concepts that britman 2 mentioned, and almost all will want money to send to those in the bonnies, they say.  Learing to speak thai language is a two edged sword, just opening yourself up to more woe.

 

2 hours ago, baansgr said:

If we could go out together and enjoy a meal or watch a movie and discuss it afterwards. If she can cook and clean as good as me

Geez. Wow. 

 

What are you doing Saturday night?

If she is that cute and doing special, then you have to realize that she is making a good living - and nobody ever likes to take a pay cut... be prepared. 

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

You're wrong, I've been meeting 9s and 10s this past year in Vietnam and Cambodia.

???????? I dont think so

40 minutes ago, IraqRon said:

How would that help with Thai women, from my experience most have no desire or ability to communicate these concepts that britman 2 mentioned, and almost all will want money to send to those in the bonnies, they say.  Learing to speak thai language is a two edged sword, just opening yourself up to more woe.

Personally.

I've never met a woman I wanted to talk with, in any language.

But my reply was to a guy that felt the need to talk before he bedded.

It takes all sorts!

 

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Personally.

I've never met a woman I wanted to talk with, in any language.

 

That's sad.

 

I talk with my Thai wife a lot.

 

Usually it's after she has declared "hiu kaao" or "mai mii dang".

2 minutes ago, SteveK said:

"mai mii dang"

I have no idea what than means ...... not red? or I'm broke?

money would be 'tang' short for 'satang'.

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

I have no idea what than means ...... not red? or I'm broke?

money would be 'tang' short for 'satang'.

Transliterative error then, they are abundant in Thailand. 

Common wants, money or food...55555

2 hours ago, parafareno said:

thai girls are some of the hottest girls in the world.....i see super hot girls every day when i ride bts or walk around......i dont know what you guys look at....

I look at Western men riding on the BTS staring at young local girls , see the uncontrollable lust in their eyes , see them having to adjust their groin area when their lust becomes uncontrollable , then watch them when they spot another beauty and begin leering at her , thats what I watch

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1 minute ago, sanemax said:

I look at Western men riding on the BTS staring at young local girls , see the uncontrollable lust in their eyes , see them having to adjust their groin area when their lust becomes uncontrollable , then watch them when they spot another beauty and begin leering at her , thats what I watch

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Geez, that doesn't sound like much fun... even just looking out the window would be better... 

8 minutes ago, sanemax said:

I look at Western men riding on the BTS staring at young local girls , see the uncontrollable lust in their eyes , see them having to adjust their groin area when their lust becomes uncontrollable , then watch them when they spot another beauty and begin leering at her , thats what I watch

.

 

 

Take a book out with you, it may help avoid your voyeurism.

12 minutes ago, kenk24 said:

Geez, that doesn't sound like much fun... even just looking out the window would be better... 

It gives me a sense of superiority .

I look at the leerers staring at females and then look at myself in the reflection and think to myself , I'm not that bad after all 

13 minutes ago, sanemax said:

I look at Western men riding on the BTS staring at young local girls , see the uncontrollable lust in their eyes , see them having to adjust their groin area when their lust becomes uncontrollable , then watch them when they spot another beauty and begin leering at her , thats what I watch

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Whatever floats your boat. I would rather read a book.

10 minutes ago, sanemax said:

It gives me a sense of superiority .

I look at the leerers staring at females and then look at myself in the reflection and think to myself , I'm not that bad after all 

 

 

Definitely take a book......????

7 minutes ago, sanemax said:

It gives me a sense of superiority .

I look at the leerers staring at females and then look at myself in the reflection and think to myself , I'm not that bad after all 

Maybe you are just gay, looking at mens groins? ????

 

And to answer the question, the profession of a girl would not be one of my first criteria for a date. Only will it be really a date or an escort rental agreement? 

 

   I do not date  massage girls, 

        however that said , i do use the services of  massage ladies , weekly .

            Tis on my bucket list , and keeps boredom away . 

           PS ,   better  than reading a book, imho ...

 

 

45 minutes ago, sanemax said:

I look at Western men riding on the BTS staring at young local girls , see the uncontrollable lust in their eyes , see them having to adjust their groin area when their lust becomes uncontrollable , then watch them when they spot another beauty and begin leering at her , thats what I watch

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They have opened a new BTS line in the UK? Learn something everyday.

12 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

They have opened a new BTS line in the UK? Learn something everyday.

No they havent .

I was kind of talking about when I was in Bangkok

57 minutes ago, sanemax said:

I look at Western men riding on the BTS staring at young local girls , see the uncontrollable lust in their eyes , see them having to adjust their groin area when their lust becomes uncontrollable , then watch them when they spot another beauty and begin leering at her , thats what I watch

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Whatever floats your boat.

11 minutes ago, sanemax said:

No they havent .

I was kind of talking about when I was in Bangkok

ok ..understand.

 

Back on topic I have dated a massage girl on a number of occasions and we had a great time. When you get massage girls, or bar girls for that matter, away from their work environment you mostly ( not 100% of them!) find they are normal, nice people who are doing what they have to do to survive. They have the same dreams and aspirations as any other girl/lady.

And I would have no problem doing so again. 

People need to understand that having sex to a Thai lady is as natural as taking a <deleted>. They don't have the Judeo-Christian guilt complex that many of us were force fed from birth.

Many don't have anywhere as near as much sex as some posters believe. Some bar girls are flat out getting laid once a fortnight. Massage girls a bit more often, maybe a few times a day for a really good looker. But that means absolutely nothing to them except an increase in income.

 

1 hour ago, sanemax said:

It gives me a sense of superiority .

I look at the leerers staring at females and then look at myself in the reflection and think to myself , I'm not that bad after all 

But in this act you are also looking at the girl whilst also looking at the creepy guy who's looking at the girl. Methinks you do protest too much. 

18 minutes ago, beautifulthailand99 said:

But in this act you are also looking at the girl whilst also looking at he creepy guy who's looking at the girl. Methinks you do protest too much. 

Although I am just observing human nature , rather than leering at females

Three "professional" girls I would not date in Thailand: massage girls, hair stylists and bar girls.

1 hour ago, sanemax said:

I look at Western men riding on the BTS staring at young local girls , see the uncontrollable lust in their eyes , see them having to adjust their groin area when their lust becomes uncontrollable , then watch them when they spot another beauty and begin leering at her , thats what I watch

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Oooh, aaah, that sounds realllly creeepy.  Tell me more.... use your jazz voice.  Yeh, that's it.  Little to the left.

1 hour ago, sanemax said:

I look at Western men riding on the BTS staring at young local girls , see the uncontrollable lust in their eyes , see them having to adjust their groin area when their lust becomes uncontrollable , then watch them when they spot another beauty and begin leering at her , thats what I watch

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I thought you were in the UK. Do you have a Tardis?

I'd be careful watching other guys adjusting their groin area. Some might take it the wrong way.

16 minutes ago, sanemax said:

Although I am just observing human nature , rather than leering at females

Holier than thou does tend to spring to mind.

10 minutes ago, RoadWarrior371 said:

Oooh, aaah, that sounds realllly creeepy.  Tell me more.... use your jazz voice.  Yeh, that's it.  Little to the left.

You need to look somewhere whilst on the BTS , cannot stand there with your eyes , closed, you may miss your stop