I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

Don't worry about it, it's a cultural thing!

Yes, but not in bars or massage parlours.

Just now, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

Yes it is possible to find good /honest Thai ladies, there are lots of them.

If you can only find the ones you mention above, then you are looking in the wrong places.

I always thought my wife was Thai but obviously not, according to the OP's list of Thai women's characteristics..

8 minutes ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence

It's up to you!

1 minute ago, MartinL said:

I always thought my wife was Thai but obviously not, according to the OP's list of Thai women's characteristics..

 

Mine too, but she's hardly a "girl".

7 minutes ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met

So that would be how many out of the 50+ million population..?

 

In answer to your first question "I don't know if its me"-----Trust me , that's a YES.......

10 minutes ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

I wonder how many Thais look at farangs who meet girls like that:

- cheep Charlies

- pretend to have high self-confidence and self-esteem

- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- want a girl who does everything for him
- no interest in professional work

20 minutes ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

My ex-wife to a tee... but than again, you can find the same in almost every society around the world...

Perhaps you can only attract the  'lower rung" of the Thai girl ladder ? What do you have to offer ? (besides being exceedingly hand-sum and rich ?)

8 minutes ago, ezzra said:

My ex-wife to a tee... but than again, you can find the same in almost every society around the world...

Why in the world did you marry her then ?

15 minutes ago, ezzra said:

My ex-wife to a tee... but than again, you can find the same in almost every society around the world...

Particularly if you are shopping in bargain stores.  With particular emphasis on the  syllable "BAR." 

38 minutes ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

Not sure if I should laugh or cry at this point.

The answer is always within... YOURSELF.

Swim in the sewers and you will find snakes...Ive met very nice ones..one works at a flower shop, another is a teacher in BKK, another runs her own food stall, another at a bubble tea shop, depends where you look..Ive even met many nice ladyboys..all boils down to respect to me...the rule is dont ever ask me for money, or lie to me

 

Things I avoid or consider a flag...tattoos(I dont like them on anyone), smoking, drinking alot, the way they speak, dress, behavior in public, english ability and where it was learned, work ethic, her thoughts about money, etc...

16 minutes ago, tonray said:

(besides being exceedingly hand-sum and rich

What can I say??....More so the former, much less the latter   ????

Maybe learn to speak Thai first before you get involved with Thai women. Are you hanging around bars and with shady foreigners ? The so called experts .

46 minutes ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

Change your name!

The good ones are mostly not at Gogo's, massage shops, or tourist area bars.

And, the "Bangkok good job business girls" mostly in big debt meet your profile as much if not more then any of them.

 

The rural areas is where to find them in my opinion.  Got to get out and explore/spend time away from the popular tourist areas.

37 minutes ago, MartinL said:

I always thought my wife was Thai but obviously not, according to the OP's list of Thai women's characteristics..

Mine also, sadly passed away, she was a Dr. of Medicine, most genuine and caring/loving person I have ever known, perfect English, great communicator/conversationalist and companion, great mother to our only son, she spent much of her spare time running clinics for poor folks and hill tribe folks. 

49 minutes ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

 

Either a troll post of a dedicated sex tourist. Grow up, get a bigger vision of the world around you, you can meet folks like you describe (F and M) in every country on the globe. 

 

 

53 minutes ago, Boomer6969 said:

Yes, but not in bars or massage parlours.

Please don't stereotype. I met my hardworking, unselfish, caring, strong and self confident Thai wife, in a massage parlour!

 

By viewing this issue through your rather narrow perception, I suspect you're making the same mistake as the O/P.

 

1 hour ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

You forgot lying, 

1 hour ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

Of course "most" Thai girls are not like this.  But it's apparent that most of the Thai girls that YOU associate with are like this.  Surely you can see that this is more a reflection of you as a person.

 

To your last question, I'm sad to report that it's not possible for you.  For the rest of us, most certainly.

Just now, Berkshire said:

Of course "most" Thai girls are not like this.  But it's apparent that most of the Thai girls that YOU associate with are like this.  Surely you can see that this is more a reflection of you as a person.

 

To your last question, I'm sad to report that it's not possible for you.  For the rest of us, most certainly.

Just to add, as anyone who has lived in Thailand for any reasonable length of time can tell you, Thai women are the backbone of labor in this country. Most work incredibly long hours, whether in a professional occupation or not, many commute long distances to maintain a job to help their parents, family. 

1 hour ago, Zagor said:

I don't know if it's up to me or pure coincidence, but all the Thai girls / women I met had the traits listed below. Age from 18 to 60, different occupational profiles. Interestingly, Thai girls in America and Europe, whether pure Thai or semi-Thai, have the same characteristics. What I am talking about is the following:
- gold digger
- low self-confidence and self-esteem
- propensity to cheat
- selfishness
- laziness

- the need for others to take care of her
- no interest in professional work.

Is it possible to find a Thai girl, but with opposite traits?

Actually, you've described my former Australian partner quite well.

1 minute ago, tonray said:

Just to add, as anyone who has lived in Thailand for any reasonable length of time can tell you, Thai women are the backbone of labor in this country. Most work incredibly long hours, whether in a professional occupation or not, many commute long distances to maintain a job to help their parents, family. 

Confirmed.

3 minutes ago, tonray said:

Just to add, as anyone who has lived in Thailand for any reasonable length of time can tell you, Thai women are the backbone of labor in this country. Most work incredibly long hours, whether in a professional occupation or not, many commute long distances to maintain a job to help their parents, family. 

Spot on, my GF is a very hard worker. Up every morning at 5 am to start cooking for the family.

People tend to find what they're looking for.

 

Generalizing entire swathes of a population by color/sex/religion/race has a name...racist would be accurate, but I'm not sure whether you're being racist or just sexist. Either one is bad enough really.

 

Then again, considering you used 'is' instead of the correct plural 'are' in the title of your racist/sexist rant, what else could one expect?

Just now, Lacessit said:

Spot on, my GF is a very hard worker. Up every morning at 5 am to start cooking for the family.

has always been the trouble with a keeper.....studying too much or working too much...hard to get a day off.....

 

too much or never enough...trying to find the right balance!