Popular Post swissie Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 Let's assume you are a Farang living in Thailand. You have gotten older and so has your Thai wife. While sitting on the front porch, enjoying a peaceful sunset, have you ever considered exchanging your current Thai wife for a "newer model"? Granted, that you would not suffer ruinous financial consequenses by doing so? Or rather go the traditional Thai way: Get a Mia Noi on the side? Or rather stay put and be satisfied with what you've got? Not wanting to go thru another round of this Love Circus at my age, with all it's up's and down's? -------------------------- - I live near a registry office. I see many young happy newlyweds walking by. I often wonder, if they realise what life changing "contract" they just signed. Also: There is software available, that projetcts a current picture of a person up to the age of 65. Looking at the result, one might be more hesitant to swear "until death do us part". PS: I consider this thread as "incomplete" until "GammaGlobulin" has voiced his opinion concerning this matter. ???? 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post VocalNeal Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 Better the devil you know.... If you need temporary companionship there are rentals available. 27 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post HeijoshinCool Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 (edited) . Get a dog. I've actually been quite successful at teaching her how to massage my back by walking on it. Just need to fatten her up. What more could you want? On the downside, she too whines, but only when she needs to pee. . Edited September 12, 2021 by HeijoshinCool 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kinnock Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 Just been shopping in Tops and Big C and I couldn't help noticing that even after 11 years together - she was still the hottest looking girl in the mall. She's aging so well, that by the time her looks may start to fade, my eyesight will be too dim to notice. I even snapped a few phone photos while she was browsing the fruit aisle, as I just liked the way she looked in her Thai standard denim shorts. So no ..... I'll not be looking for a trade in 21 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RichardColeman Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 23 minutes ago, swissie said: While sitting on the front porch, enjoying a peaceful sunset, have you ever considered exchanging your current Thai wife for a "newer model"? Do you ever look at the wife and wonder if she is thinking the same thing ? 12 7 32 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted September 12, 2021 Author Share Posted September 12, 2021 16 minutes ago, VocalNeal said: Better the devil you know.... If you need temporary companionship there are rentals available. Mia Nois are longer term rentals. In rural Thailand short term rentals are possible but harder to come by. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted September 12, 2021 Author Share Posted September 12, 2021 6 minutes ago, RichardColeman said: Do you ever look at the wife and wonder if she is thinking the same thing ? I did. But most Farangs probably don't. Therefore the occasional "surprise-drama". 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CharlieH Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 I wouldnt want to go through all that stuff again. If I felt the need it would be short term rental, rinse and repeat. Simple transaction no ties. They are readily available if you know where and how to look. Mia noi is dangerous and threatening to the established relationship. (IMHO) 21 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post swissie Posted September 12, 2021 Author Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 9 minutes ago, CharlieH said: I wouldnt want to go through all that stuff again. If I felt the need it would be short term rental, rinse and repeat. Simple transaction no ties. They are readily available if you know where and how to look. Mia noi is dangerous and threatening to the established relationship. (IMHO) A Mia Noi situation can only be maintained with the approval of "the wife". Her stll remaining as the main beneficiary of the financial resources of the Farang. To keep any Mia Noi situation secret in rural Thailand for any lenght of time is impossible. 11 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 I thought about such a new model. The big question is obviously if life with a new model would be better even after the first or second year. Or would it be necessary to get another new model again and again. Most of the time I am happy with the existing model, I guess more than 90% of the time. And I guess it wouldn't be easy to find a new model with a higher happiness factor. So for now I keep the existing model and sometimes I have a drink or two with a temporary replacement. ???? 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CharlieH Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 9 minutes ago, swissie said: A Mia Noi situation can only be maintained with the approval of "the wife". Her stll remaining as the main beneficiary of the financial resources of the Farang. To keep any Mia Noi situation secret in rural Thailand for any lenght of time is impossible. I would suggest that the Mia noi is more likely to become a problem because you are seeing the same female, building a relationship and thereby an increasing threat to the stability of Mia Luang. Whereas a short term or one night stand is no threat at all its a simple transaction and finished. Big difference in those scenarios and the latter is no long term threat at all. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted September 12, 2021 Author Share Posted September 12, 2021 15 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: I thought about such a new model. The big question is obviously if life with a new model would be better even after the first or second year. Or would it be necessary to get another new model again and again. Most of the time I am happy with the existing model, I guess more than 90% of the time. And I guess it wouldn't be easy to find a new model with a higher happiness factor. So for now I keep the existing model and sometimes I have a drink or two with a temporary replacement. ???? Yep. Will the "new model" be better than the old. Only time will deliver the answer. Funny, 5 years ago my Thai wife and I divorced, strictly for financial reasons. (Long story). In the meantime we are the best of friends. Much closer than we ever were before. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CharlieH Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 5 minutes ago, swissie said: Yep. Will the "new model" be better than the old. Only time will deliver the answer. Funny, 5 years ago my Thai wife and I divorced, strictly for financial reasons. (Long story). In the meantime we are the best of friends. Much closer than we ever were before. I admire that and think you are both very fortunate as most break ups are total train wrecks! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JustAnotherHun Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 I prefere to rent. One mistake is enouh. 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post swissie Posted September 12, 2021 Author Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 8 minutes ago, CharlieH said: I would suggest that the Mia noi is more likely to become a problem because you are seeing the same female, building a relationship and thereby an increasing threat to the stability of Mia Luang. Whereas a short term or one night stand is no threat at all its a simple transaction and finished. Big difference in those scenarios and the latter is no long term threat at all. Right on. The problems start when the Mia Luang starts to feel threathend in (mostly) a financial way. This will likeky turn the entire "Thai-Family" aginst the Farang. In rural Thailand, this is probably the worst situation that a Farang can find himself in. Unless his main financial resources have never been "locked-in" in Thailand. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Maha Sarakham Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 Rent, just get it out of your system until it too becomes boring. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted September 12, 2021 Share Posted September 12, 2021 5 hours ago, CharlieH said: I would suggest that the Mia noi is more likely to become a problem because you are seeing the same female, building a relationship and thereby an increasing threat to the stability of Mia Luang. Whereas a short term or one night stand is no threat at all its a simple transaction and finished. Big difference in those scenarios and the latter is no long term threat at all. Obviously you are right. But for whatever reason do most wives and long term girlfriends don't understand this simple concept. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zzaa09 Posted September 12, 2021 Share Posted September 12, 2021 1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said: Obviously you are right. But for whatever reason do most wives and long term girlfriends don't understand this simple concept. Nor would guys if the situation and roles were reversed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tonray Posted September 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 12, 2021 7 hours ago, HeijoshinCool said: Get a dog. Just wait until she demands you build her a house for her and her pups from another sire. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thaibeachlovers Posted September 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 13, 2021 The OP puts me in mind of 2 cases. The first was at an airport when I saw an elderly white man with an elderly Indian lady that I took to be his wife. She was probably a great beauty when he married her, but when I saw them, his revulsion at just being with her was patently obvious. The second was a western friend that married a Singaporean girl and took her to his country. When he was courting her she was a lovely vivacious woman that any western man would be proud to have as a wife. Many years later I met him again and he invited me to their home. It was obvious that he could barely have her in the same room. I don't know what happened to change the lovely girl into the cowed, sad woman she became, but it was so very sad to see what became of their marriage. To be clear, the guy was not a bad man, and I can't imagine him physically abusing her. However, none of us would ever get married if we knew it would turn to <deleted>, would we? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thaibeachlovers Posted September 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 13, 2021 7 hours ago, Maha Sarakham said: Rent, just get it out of your system until it too becomes boring. What if it never becomes boring? 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maha Sarakham Posted September 13, 2021 Share Posted September 13, 2021 9 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: What if it never becomes boring? There is always a newer and shinier model on the horizon. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thaibeachlovers Posted September 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 13, 2021 1 hour ago, Maha Sarakham said: There is always a newer and shinier model on the horizon. Shinier IMO usually indicates higher maintenance. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toofarnorth Posted September 13, 2021 Share Posted September 13, 2021 19 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: Shinier IMO usually indicates higher maintenance. Ah but maybe better performance and reliability , Are we talking about cars or women here ? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post schweizer Posted September 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 13, 2021 If you do decide to go down that track, just remember to lock away all knives and the liquidizer when you sleep ???? 3 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post theonetrueaussie Posted September 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 13, 2021 Just like a motorbike, better to trade the old one in and get a new one every 2-3 years ???? 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rskdev21 Posted September 13, 2021 Share Posted September 13, 2021 Quote from original poster. "Also: There is software available, that projects a current picture of a person up to the age of 65. Looking at the result, one might be more hesitant to swear "until death do us part". What is the name of that software please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Parsve Posted September 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 13, 2021 The question and most of the answers here show just one thing. Your mind have still not grown up. The look, of a woman or a man, is only one part of a partnership and definitely not the most important for a good relation. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted September 13, 2021 Share Posted September 13, 2021 8 hours ago, zzaa09 said: Nor would guys if the situation and roles were reversed. Because it seems few females like the idea of f@$% and forget. Many men don't even remember her name on the next day - if they ever bothered to ask her for her name. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted September 13, 2021 Share Posted September 13, 2021 5 minutes ago, Parsve said: The question and most of the answers here show just one thing. Your mind have still not grown up. The look, of a woman or a man, is only one part of a partnership and definitely not the most important for a good relation. And why are most guys interested in pretty young girls? Because they want to talk about school or university? No! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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