I'm not tipping anymore I don't give a

[BangkokReady]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Why would you want to waste time speaking to a woman you don't find attractive?

I'm very extroverted and I enjoy talking to women.  It doesn't need to be leading to anything more than polite conversation.

 

I know this seems weird to many people, but that's life. ????‍♂️

[Bert got kinky]

29 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Why would you want to waste time speaking to a woman you don't find attractive?

 

 

I used to talk to my ex-wife.

 

[BritManToo]

2 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

I'm very extroverted and I enjoy talking to women.  It doesn't need to be leading to anything more than polite conversation.

 

I know this seems weird to many people, but that's life. ????‍♂️

Have you ever thought you might be gay?

[BangkokReady]

31 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Have you ever thought you might be gay?

No.  It's probably more a parental thing.

[Thujone]

It never crosses my mind to tip.

[TravelerEastWest]

22 hours ago, possum1931 said:

That is America's fault, the employers should not be so greedy and pay their workers a decent wage. There is no way I was going to pay 20% of my holiday money on tips in any country.

Well in the old days I think 15% was a standard tip in America - but the main point is in America you have the freedom to tip as much as you want for good service and very little or none at all for bad service. I am not sure what you mean by being greedy as customers will always pay directly or indirectly.

 

If service is good and there is a no tip system I think that often (at least in larger restaurants) a service charge is included so you would be paying part of your holiday money automatically... Not sure about 20% but I rarely go to restaurants so I really dont know what you are talking about.

Edited June 26, 2022 by TravelerEastWest

[spidermike007]

There are some things in this life worth bringing to the world's attention, and some things better left unsaid. 

 

Being stingy, and having a closed heart is not one many of us would care to share. Especially, when we have been as fortunate as alot of us have been, in this lifetime, and are surrounded by people earning meager sums of money, and performing services for us, with a good attitude. 

[BritManToo]

10 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

Being stingy, and having a closed heart is not one many of us would care to share.

A being foolish with money is much worse! 

[NoshowJones]

1 hour ago, TravelerEastWest said:

Well in the old days I think 15% was a standard tip in America - but the main point is in America you have the freedom to tip as much as you want for good service and very little or none at all for bad service. I am not sure what you mean by being greedy as customers will always pay directly or indirectly.

 

If service is good and there is a no tip system I think that often (at least in larger restaurants) a service charge is included so you would be paying part of your holiday money automatically... Not sure about 20% but I rarely go to restaurants so I really dont know what you are talking about.

I was reading an article about America and it's customs before I went there for the first time, and it said in it that we should expect to pay 20% of our spending money on tips, so with me being me I was put on the defensive side.

[spidermike007]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

A being foolish with money is much worse! 

Most of us would agree. But, certainly giving 20 baht to a hard working waitress, or 15 baht to a Panda or Grab delivery guy is fair and within reason. It makes alot more difference to them, than it does to us, is the general point. And having an open heart does contribute to our well being too. 

[BritManToo]

50 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

Most of us would agree. But, certainly giving 20 baht to a hard working waitress, or 15 baht to a Panda or Grab delivery guy is fair and within reason. It makes alot more difference to them, than it does to us, is the general point. And having an open heart does contribute to our well being too. 

Why miss out the shelf stacker in Tesco or the counter girl in KFC?

How about the swimming pool attendant or the guy serving in the booze shop? 

Do they earn more, are they less deserving?

Edited June 26, 2022 by BritManToo

[georgegeorgia]

8 hours ago, Thujone said:

It never crosses my mind to tip.

You don't tip at all then??

 

[Will B Good]

4 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

You don't tip at all then??

 

Mental.....we tip everybody all the time.....not much, 20/50/100 baht, but it just helps the world go round.

 

There is a guy who shifts garden waste from the next village along from us. Everytime we see him we stop the car and give him 20 baht.....pennies I know....but every little bit helps.

Edited June 26, 2022 by Will B Good

[georgegeorgia]

5 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

Mental.....we tip everybody all the time.....not much, 20/50/100 baht, but it just helps the world go round.

 

There is a guy who shifts garden waste from the next village along from us. Everytime we see him we stop the car and give him 20 baht.....pennies I know....but every little bit helps.

I guess not everyone can afford to tip though, some people save a  year to o go on a holiday ,they might work in a factory in the UK or Australia working Monday to Friday on basic wages so they can't afford to tip everyone 

[Will B Good]

1 minute ago, georgegeorgia said:

I guess not everyone can afford to tip though, some people save a  year to o go on a holiday ,they might work in a factory in the UK or Australia working Monday to Friday on basic wages so they can't afford to tip everyone 

20 baht...seriously?

[Thujone]

57 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

You don't tip at all then??

 

No.

I pay the price advertised.

I'm not a charity.

[ravip]

7 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Why miss out the shelf stacker in Tesco or the counter girl in KFC?

How about the swimming pool attendant or the guy serving in the booze shop? 

Do they earn more, are they less deserving?

Who excluded them?

Tipping is not compulsory. No one needs to feel guilty. 

Hoarding your wealth also is one's own choice. 

 

Nothing to feel guilty about anything. 

Each to his own...

 

Edited June 26, 2022 by ravip

[TravelerEastWest]

I agree that you don't legally have to tip.

 

But sometimes it is customary such as a 15% plus tip in America for good service at a restaurant.

 

 

[spidermike007]

17 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Why miss out the shelf stacker in Tesco or the counter girl in KFC?

How about the swimming pool attendant or the guy serving in the booze shop? 

Do they earn more, are they less deserving?

Now you are just baiting us, and being obstinate. That is not your normal self. It will all work out, I can assure you. 

[SymS]

I've never had that experience in Thailand, but when I traveled in Cambodia tip was often expected or they would even get angry. I started to call it the land of the $1 smile ????

[jack71]

On 6/23/2022 at 5:21 AM, georgegeorgia said:

A massage woman half way through the massage

duh... she obviously wants to give you a happy ending. You are clearly a newbe to thailand

[Stubby]

I'm a regular tipper, but only to low-income workers who are paid from the neck down. I usually give my laundry lady twice what she asks, for slaving over a hot iron smoothing out my clean rags. Heck, I even tip the poor fuel pump attendants. 
 

It seems that the OP wants recognition and praise for throwing a few shekels at low-paid menial workers. If that's your reason for tipping, may I suggest you put your hand back in your pocket and stop whining about something you're not obliged to do?
 

It's just a thought.

Edited June 27, 2022 by Stubby

[Calvin1976]

Ordering Grab Food for lunch every working days, tips from 30 to 50 baht by apps depends on the distance of travel.

Just to appreciate their effort and hope can make their day, never expecting anything in return.

 

Aircon service man will always come next day after I called when my aircon leaked.

Service fee 600 baht but I always give 1,000 baht.

Worth it, he solved my problem as I expected/needed. 

[Lemsta69]

3 hours ago, Stubby said:

I'm a regular tipper, but only to low-income workers who are paid from the neck down. I usually give my laundry lady twice what she asks, for slaving over a hot iron smoothing out my clean rags. Heck, I even tip the poor fuel pump attendants. 
 

It seems that the OP wants recognition and praise for throwing a few shekels at low-paid menial workers. If that's your reason for tipping, may I suggest you put your hand back in your pocket and stop whining about something you're not obliged to do?
 

It's just a thought.

I saw this the other day on the Khao San Road. well the next street along to be precise. a somewhat overweight older gentleman, ie. not a smelly bagpacker, received his change. he took all the 20 baht notes and left some shrapnel but by that time the "Nong" had walked away. so he shouted out to her and made a big show of re-opening the check folder to show her that he'd left ten baht or whatever. what a winner.

[Lemsta69]

14 minutes ago, Calvin1976 said:

Ordering Grab Food for lunch every working days, tips from 30 to 50 baht by apps depends on the distance of travel.

Just to appreciate their effort and hope can make their day, never expecting anything in return.

 

Aircon service man will always come next day after I called when my aircon leaked.

Service fee 600 baht but I always give 1,000 baht.

Worth it, he solved my problem as I expected/needed. 

you have good heart ????

[stereolab]

On 6/24/2022 at 10:17 AM, spidermike007 said:

For me personally, I would rather tip and help out where I can, within Thai society. I am not a supporter of the temples, and do not really see the great service they are providing for the people. Perhaps you can clue me in, if I am wrong about this. 

You are not wrong, generally speaking they provide little to local communities. Have a look and see how the top Monk in a temple actually lives, they are treated like Gods.  Each temple has one key goal, and that is to acquire more land to build larger, fancier buildings than their rival temple. 

[Olmate]

3 hours ago, stereolab said:

You are not wrong, generally speaking they provide little to local communities. Have a look and see how the top Monk in a temple actually lives, they are treated like Gods.  Each temple has one key goal, and that is to acquire more land to build larger, fancier buildings than their rival temple. 

Been to Vatican City lately? 

[LaosLover]

5 hours ago, stereolab said:

You are not wrong, generally speaking they provide little to local communities. 

 

-They provide little to YOU. The community accrues merit via gifts to the temple.

 

When I wanted to visit a remote meditation center outside of Mae Hong Son, the driver was happy to give me a reasonable price.

 

By delivering me and my donation, he too would be accruing merit. He also brought along a box of soap powder. My karma-driven appearance before him was a merit-multiplier, and had the opportunity been let to pass, a merit deficient.

 

I researched Buddhism in Laos for a while and they have the most beautiful, folk art-funky temples in Asia. A lot of them are being redone in a more modern Thai-style via Thai donations. Middle class Thai's accrue merit by giving their poorer brethren a "nicer" temple.

 

Lao people also like a nicer temple. My well-intentioned Westerner idea's about historic preservation and the beauty of the folk art style are not relevant at all to Thai and Lao Buddhists.

 

Nor, respectfully, is your assessment of what the temples do and don't provide.

 

There's one in every town, these poor people are voting with their wallets on their worth, and have done so for centuries.

[stereolab]

2 hours ago, LaosLover said:

 

-They provide little to YOU. The community accrues merit via gifts to the temple.

 

When I wanted to visit a remote meditation center outside of Mae Hong Son, the driver was happy to give me a reasonable price.

 

By delivering me and my donation, he too would be accruing merit. He also brought along a box of soap powder. My karma-driven appearance before him was a merit-multiplier, and had the opportunity been let to pass, a merit deficient.

 

I researched Buddhism in Laos for a while and they have the most beautiful, folk art-funky temples in Asia. A lot of them are being redone in a more modern Thai-style via Thai donations. Middle class Thai's accrue merit by giving their poorer brethren a "nicer" temple.

 

Lao people also like a nicer temple. My well-intentioned Westerner idea's about historic preservation and the beauty of the folk art style are not relevant at all to Thai and Lao Buddhists.

 

Nor, respectfully, is your assessment of what the temples do and don't provide.

 

There's one in every town, these poor people are voting with their wallets on their worth, and have done so for centuries.

I am not sure how many our very large village has, it is around 14 in the immediate area, overkill. I have 2 BIL as Monks, both senior.  This is my experience, I have no time for any religious beliefs.

[LaosLover]

I live in the extreme Bible Belt of America. My town of 70 people has 3 churches. The diff with Thailand is that their temples will be fairly full and my 3 churches will have 6 people in them -all with very white hair.