Where to meet Hiso Thai women?

[DrJoy]

4 hours ago, DJ54 said:

7/11

No.

 

Chaengwattana Immigration Office

[VocalNeal]

5 minutes ago, DrJoy said:

Gibberish, also called jibber-jabber or gobbledygook, is speech that is (or appears to be) nonsense.

 

[SiSePuede419]

19 hours ago, coloneloftruth said:

The unexplained 'interference' is what I'm looking a partner to help with. Somebody with resources to call in favors, threaten, good lawyers, etc,

Sounds like uhhh quite an "operation" you have going there, pal.

 

 

[CrunchWrapSupreme]

Put on a shirt and tie. Go hang around a private school or lower tier intl school around 4 pm, as school's getting out. DON'T go to Harrow or BKK Patana, they are TOO hi-so, and all their kids have private drivers. At the lower tier schools, you can see BMWs and Benzs with hi-so moms or other family members picking up their kids.

 

Indeed, it was one of them who saw me walking home one day and gave me a ride. She'd just dropped off a kid for an after school activity. She was quite interested in getting a convo going about my work, the traveling I've done, my experiences in Thailand. Lovely lady. I reckon it would've been absolutely no problem to get her Line ID for coffee later, or heck, perhaps even "Uh, would you like to come up for some tea?" But I had the wife waiting. Haha.

 

Thus, if you look halfway decent, got decent convo skills, you should be able to pick up a hi-so lady for some, er, social activities, and likely more. Older Thai women have quite an APPETITE, I can personally attest. If she's a mom it'll just be a fling, but if you happen to get someone's single aunt, perhaps something longer term. But in any case, as others have noted, don't expect this to move into marriage and your ascension into the upper echelons of Thai society. Ain't happening, man.

[CrunchWrapSupreme]

Here are some famous Thai people. #2 is in a pop group, with an American dad. #4 is a former Miss Universe, with an Australian dad. So yeah, some farangs certainly do get with hi-sos. But they were already ridiculously loaded and connected in their own respective countries, and didn't expect such from Thailand.

 

 

[Jimjim1]

22 hours ago, VocalNeal said:

Where is his country

Given his use of the word Normalcy instead of the correct English Normality it would be pretty safe to assume he is American I would think.

[scorecard]

16 hours ago, scorecard said:

Hi-So girls/ladies .... can you cope? 

 

Most come from a lifestyle of wealth, overspending by their parents, often the girl owns a house and 3 condos and 2 or 3 expensive cars, regular trips to Europe, Japan, Sth. Korea (probably flying business class) all paid for by daddy/mummy. And an expectation of regular expensive jewellery etc., from the bf and an expectation of instant attention. And maids, drivers, cooks, etc.

 

And do you have an expensive car?

 

Why all the above?  Simple answer; 'to keep up with the Joneses', which in this society is extremely important.

 

Can you cope? Do you want to cope with the above?

 

Your choice of course. 

And I add more: how do you fell about the girl talking abruptly / demanding / impolitely to your personal staff at your own condo/house. If it's a condo talking the same to the lobby / cleaning staff in the hallways etc?

 

The 'I want now' appraoch, 'what the car isn't washed/cleaned yet, I already told you 5 minutes ago, I want the car washed, why are you always so lazy' (this probably in the midst of the maid taking care of 3 other 'I want now' demands'.

 

Being demanding / expecting instant attention at restaurants / shops (regardless of the fact she can see the waiter / shop assistant is at that moment in the midst of taking care of another customer)?

 

An example: many years back a friend was the coordinator at an expensive language school in Bkk. Sweet twenty five year old hi-so girl came in, booked/paid for a number of private lessons, met the teacher (teacher also approved by her surly big brother who was with her) driver also with her to carry her several Gaysorn Plaza shopping bags (well known very expensive plaza all hi-so oriented very expensive shops).

 

School staff explained several timesthat she must be on time because when the teacher finishes her lesson the teacher has 5 minute break and starts the next lesson with another student.

 

School has seen this before and insists she and big brother sign the school contract which shows that each rule has been explained that the rules have been explained and they are understand (a tick alongside each rule).

 

First lesson she was 2 hours late, swans in and talks over the top of the staff attending to other/prospecting students. 'Where is my teacher?'

 

Snr staff member tells her 'your teacher waited for a while then started his next lesson and now he's gone outside to conduct lessons at a company office, he won't be back today'.

 

Her response, with tears. 'that's not fair because right now our family only has one driver'. She flounced out, driver with a big smirk following her. Never came back. 

 

Are you OK with these types of behaviors and attitudes 24/7?

 

Quite a few hi-so girls fit this portrayal. 

Edited February 8, 2023 by scorecard

[Pouatchee]

Where to meet Hiso Thai women?

                                                TROLL

 

With a capital 'T'. This guy comes on here blabbering how rich he is, how he wants Thai mafia connections to 'threaten' people. Why hasn't this post been reported and shut down? 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

21 hours ago, KhunLA said:

I can only be with a like minded 'retired' person, or one willing to be, as I'm way too needy ... ????

LOL. I wanted one that went to work, as I like my own space.

 

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, Pouatchee said:

Where to meet Hiso Thai women?

                                                TROLL

 

With a capital 'T'. This guy comes on here blabbering how rich he is, how he wants Thai mafia connections to 'threaten' people. Why hasn't this post been reported and shut down? 

 

Sometimes this sort of thread is the one worth posting on. We don't have to believe the OP.

[FritsSikkink]

5 hours ago, CrunchWrapSupreme said:

Put on a shirt and tie. Go hang around a private school or lower tier intl school around 4 pm, as school's getting out. DON'T go to Harrow or BKK Patana, they are TOO hi-so, and all their kids have private drivers. At the lower tier schools, you can see BMWs and Benzs with hi-so moms or other family members picking up their kids.

 

Indeed, it was one of them who saw me walking home one day and gave me a ride. She'd just dropped off a kid for an after school activity. She was quite interested in getting a convo going about my work, the traveling I've done, my experiences in Thailand. Lovely lady. I reckon it would've been absolutely no problem to get her Line ID for coffee later, or heck, perhaps even "Uh, would you like to come up for some tea?" But I had the wife waiting. Haha.

 

Thus, if you look halfway decent, got decent convo skills, you should be able to pick up a hi-so lady for some, er, social activities, and likely more. Older Thai women have quite an APPETITE, I can personally attest. If she's a mom it'll just be a fling, but if you happen to get someone's single aunt, perhaps something longer term. But in any case, as others have noted, don't expect this to move into marriage and your ascension into the upper echelons of Thai society. Ain't happening, man.

You have no clue about HiSo women and will never be able to pick one up.

[FriendlyFarang]

23 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

If the female has her own money, is educated, well placed in society etc she’s only going to be interested in you as a foreigner because she likes you, you have game, you look good etc etc...  It's more similar to a relationship many would be in back in their home countries. 

Hahaha, good joke. You obviously have no experience with this type of woman.

It doesn't matter how much money they have, one basic requirement which still applies to nearly all of them: They want a guy who makes more money then they do.

So let's say they make a million per month, probably 95% of them would expect that their future husband makes at least two.

 

 

I do regularly meet well off women, and one thing that stands out compared to the girls in 7/11 etc.:

Not once has such a well of woman asked me if I could introduce her to a farang friend of mine, while minimum wage workers ask me this all the time.

Most of them never thought about having a Farang boyfriend or husband, because basically all foreigners that they see are below them socioeconomic wise.

Edited February 8, 2023 by FriendlyFarang

[hello55060]

They won't touch you. 

 

Best you can do is fine one with a "normal job". Surprisingly they do exist. Despite what everyone says. In over 10 years in Asia I've never dated a girl who didn't have a real job. They are not crazy and actually normal and not going to suck all your money in a few years. I am happily married for over 5 years and have 2 kids with a one. Albeit she's Chinese and not Thai. The point is, she would do anything for me. Like literally anything if I asked her and needed help or something. I wouldn't swap that for anything. My sinsod cost me 0 baht.

 

I dated a few Thai girls and they were all good experience also and showed a lot of care for me. I just couldn't give the same feelings back, like I found I have with my wife. However as I said they were all good and not one was drama or a nasty breakup. They all had decent jobs, self sufficient, wouldn't have asked me for a sinsod. Most of foreigner bad experiences are the ones who mix with girls inaround the party/bar scene. 

 

A rich hiso Thai girl wouldn't pi$$ on you if she saw you on fire. Let alone stop to waste her oxygen to talk to you.  

 

Find one you trust. Don't be as shallow as those gold digger Thai girls. 

 

Money can't buy love.

Edited February 8, 2023 by hello55060

[bbi1]

On 2/7/2023 at 11:08 AM, coloneloftruth said:

Maybe you're right, and I'm confused the difference between 'good family' and 'hiso'. The unexplained 'interference' is what I'm looking a partner to help with. Somebody with resources to call in favors, threaten, good lawyers, etc, whatever it takes for normalcy to prevail I guess so maybe I should have just said background of wealthy. 

 

Not to brag, but I think I would stand a good chance. Looking at my resume you would probably ballpark around 25 million, although only a fraction was spent for that appearance. Into things money can't buy obviously, or I would have the resources to handle on my own.

I suggest you go door knocking in Thong Lor at all the hi-so condos and houses with a suitcase of cash. That's the only way for you to snag those hi-so girls.

Edited February 8, 2023 by bbi1

[richard_smith237]

30 minutes ago, FriendlyFarang said:

On 2/7/2023 at 12:47 PM, richard_smith237 said:

If the female has her own money, is educated, well placed in society etc she’s only going to be interested in you as a foreigner because she likes you, you have game, you look good etc etc...  It's more similar to a relationship many would be in back in their home countries. 

Hahaha, good joke. You obviously have no experience with this type of woman.

You couldn’t be further from the truth with that response !!!

 

 

[richard_smith237]

28 minutes ago, hello55060 said:

A rich hiso Thai girl wouldn't pi$$ on you if she saw you on fire. Let alone stop to waste her oxygen to talk to you.  

Don’t be daft...  there are plenty of western guys who have dated and married women other Thai’s would describe as hi-so....  

 

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

Don’t be daft...  there are plenty of western guys who have dated and married women other Thai’s would describe as hi-so....  

 

Then you have to be in position to meet Hi So ladies. Definition Hi So is vague, but to get in to the higher society in Thailand, is not done by just being a nice guy. 

[hello55060]

2 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Don’t be daft...  there are plenty of western guys who have dated and married women other Thai’s would describe as hi-so....  

 

Depends on what their definition of "hiso is" some people seem to confuse it with middle/upper class. 

[richard_smith237]

1 hour ago, hello55060 said:

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

Don’t be daft...  there are plenty of western guys who have dated and married women other Thai’s would describe as hi-so....  

 

Depends on what their definition of "hiso is" some people seem to confuse it with middle/upper class. 

Its a valid point, there is no ‘specific qualifier’ for what is ‘hi-so’..... 

 

For the term I use it in its not just wealthy, but wealthy with connections at a very high level, well educated etc...

 

Example: 

I know a Western guy married to a Thai lady from a ‘hi-so’ background.

Politicians at the wedding (up to Dept Primeminister level), about 1000 people attended. 

Ambassadors, present and retired (friends of his inlaws, and parents of her friends), ‘big business’ people... 

Wedding was in the papers and a couple of magazines which have also invited them to numerous events etc (HiSoParty Magazine, Thai Tattler etc).

In Laws are business owners, she went to top Thai Uni’s (Rangsit then Masters at Thammarsat) was not allowed to study overseas like her brother. 

Father in law not best impressed that his daughter was dating a foreigner at first, after marriage they get on extremely well.  Child goes to Bangkok Patana School.

 

The guy doesn’t consider him or his wife hi-so at all, but other Thai’s all state she [the Wife] is.

 

The Wife’s friends, many of whom would be considered hi-so by any description are marred to extremely wealthy and successful Thai men, some of them are also married to Western men., some very wealthy and successful, others more ’normal’ and by normal I mean Lawyer, CFO, Business Management type level not language teachers etc... 

 

BUT... just by looking a & bumping into the couple’s walking around Emporium etc its difficult to tell, he just looks like any other ’smart similarly aged couple’....  The only way many of us could tell they are hi-so is to be told so... but Thai’s can recognise ’status’ within their own culture more easily than we can. 

 

 

 

 

 

[GinBoy2]

9 hours ago, CrunchWrapSupreme said:

Put on a shirt and tie. Go hang around a private school or lower tier intl school around 4 pm, as school's getting out. DON'T go to Harrow or BKK Patana, they are TOO hi-so, and all their kids have private drivers. At the lower tier schools, you can see BMWs and Benzs with hi-so moms or other family members picking up their kids.

 

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I'd be a bit careful hanging around the school gates day after day.

 

You may get a visit from the cops!

[stevymac]

Thong lor

[fusion58]

On 2/7/2023 at 3:06 PM, wombat said:

Only Fans is where you should look.

????

 

Man, I'm missing the laugh emoticon already.

[fusion58]

On 2/7/2023 at 5:51 PM, scorecard said:

Why all the above?  Simple answer; 'to keep up with the Joneses', which in this society is extremely important.

You are correct, sir.

 

In fact, I would submit that maintaining appearances/social status is the number one priority for Thais - whether we're talking about the lowliest rice farmer or the Grand Poobah.

[CrunchWrapSupreme]

20 hours ago, scorecard said:

The 'I want now' appraoch, 'what the car isn't washed/cleaned yet, I already told you 5 minutes ago, I want the car washed, why are you always so lazy' (this probably in the midst of the maid taking care of 3 other 'I want now' demands'.

 

Being demanding / expecting instant attention at restaurants / shops (regardless of the fact she can see the waiter / shop assistant is at that moment in the midst of taking care of another customer)?

Exactly this. I left the US to escape all that. I found the exact opposite in my Issan wife.

[Celsius]

14 hours ago, stevymac said:

Thong lor

 

Nothing but hookers on Thong lor and Ekkamai with On Nut being the epicenter of it all.

 

Nope, completely wrong. Try Charoen Krung.

[GinBoy2]

Well this all centers on what the OP means by 'HiSo'

 

I think for most of us HiSo refers to those who inhabit the stratified air of the super rich.

 

Then you are down to the middle class then the bar girls then the dirt poor.

 

Forget the HiSo's for those, unless you are super rich yourself you are never going to meet them let alone anything else

[thaibeachlovers]

On 2/8/2023 at 6:24 PM, FritsSikkink said:

You have no clue about HiSo women and will never be able to pick one up.

I doubt any of us will ever even meet a real Hiso Thai woman, and why should we, as we have nothing they could possibly want.

[thaibeachlovers]

20 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

Well this all centers on what the OP means by 'HiSo'

 

I think for most of us HiSo refers to those who inhabit the stratified air of the super rich.

 

Then you are down to the middle class then the bar girls then the dirt poor.

 

Forget the HiSo's for those, unless you are super rich yourself you are never going to meet them let alone anything else

IMO more than mere money. I doubt Thaksin's sister was regarded as Hiso by real Hiso families, despite hiding mega millions of his loot.

IMO more like the upper echelons of British society - those that inherited titles and so on and have family histories going back centuries.

[thaibeachlovers]

On 2/8/2023 at 7:21 PM, richard_smith237 said:

Don’t be daft...  there are plenty of western guys who have dated and married women other Thai’s would describe as hi-so....  

 

No laugh icon so 555555555555555555

[thaibeachlovers]

On 2/8/2023 at 6:50 PM, hello55060 said:

I dated a few Thai girls and they were all good experience also and showed a lot of care for me. I just couldn't give the same feelings back, like I found I have with my wife. However as I said they were all good and not one was drama or a nasty breakup. They all had decent jobs, self sufficient, wouldn't have asked me for a sinsod.

If they were Hiso they would expect a sinsod for the appearance of it. It's all part of the drama of being self important.