Challenges facing Thai Women looking for a Western partner.

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[NanLaew]

How? Learn the language.

 

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[Goat]

Dan has got a fair point this time.

 

It amazes me that so many farangs choose to marry the bar prostitues.

There are thousands of attractive available women here with decent jobs.

Why marry a hooker? Especially ones with SOCKS.

 

Dan himself really needs to ease off the botox. He is overdoing it. Makes him look serious all the time even when he isnt.

I think he has just offended half the readership.

[Neeranam]

3 minutes ago, Goat said:

I think he has just offended half the readership.

I think you have too. 

Bargirls are not prostitutes, they are different.

[BritManToo]

15 minutes ago, Goat said:

It amazes me that so many farangs choose to marry the bar prostitues.

There are thousands of attractive available women here with decent jobs.

Why marry a hooker? Especially ones with SOCKS.

A woman's background is no indication of her suitability as a partner.

This is something I have learned but you and Dan haven't.

(Probably because you haven't managed any LTRs)

 

As for marrying bar girls ........ at least you know they will have frequent sex with you.

Something that respectable, educated women from any country generally won't do (often).

 

 

Yes, in the UK I married a young, Christian, virgin schoolteacher .... 30 years of almost no sex.

Yes, in Thailand I married a bar girl, 10 years of sex whenever I wanted it.

 

PS. How do you know your respectable women never worked as prostitutes (unless you met them in high school when they were 12 years old)?

[Goat]

3 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

I think you have too. 

Bargirls are not prostitutes, they are different.

It is weird how the farangs marry them. They need help.

 

The often maligned on this forum Russian, Indian and Chinese wouldnt even consider marrying a Thai hooker. Or any hooker.

 

Then you have the thousands of sex tourists sending money to the hookers weekly/monthly. 

It is a bizare phenonomen.

[Goat]

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

A woman's background is no indication of her suitability for a partner.

This is something I have learned but you and Dan haven't.

No, you are wrong. 

It makes a huge difference.

I wouldnt consider marrying a slut. 

Marrying a prostitute takes it to another level.

 

Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years; Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and, Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce.

 

https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

 

 

There is also the social stigma of it. Thais are not stupid, they can pick when a farang has married a hooker. The Thai guys will think you as a joke. And the women will treat you like the Village Idiot.

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

What have you got against hookers? Some are decent people and a good laugh. 

Go on tell us where your g/f is from.

I play the field. Since living here have had factory workers, managers, pharmacist, uni students, business owners, etc etc.

 

Which is Dans point. Maybe you missed it?

I would never consider a whore. That is not what they are for. There are thousands more decent girls than hookers.

I agree with you that some are a good laugh.

[Skipalongcassidy]

Thank god or budda that these Thai girls cannot find  some of you suitable...

[BritManToo]

6 minutes ago, Goat said:

No, you are wrong. 

It makes a huge difference.

I wouldnt consider marrying a slut. 

Marrying a prostitute takes it to another level.

 

Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years; Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and, Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce.

 

https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

 

 

There is also the social stigma of it. Thais are not stupid, they can pick when a farang has married a hooker. The Thai guys will think you as a joke. And the women will treat you like the Village Idiot.

1. I've married both ..... the only difference was the frequency of sex.

2. Divorce rates in the west are 50%+, there is no marital stability in the west.

3. Why would I care what some low IQ guy that left school age 12 thinks of me?

I don't even talk to Thai guys (beyond simple commerce), they have nothing to say that interests me.

 

AT least I don't use a Thai racial slur to discriminate against other white guys!

[Goat]

7 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

What have you got against hookers?

And they expect payment for making love with me.

With my experience and skills they should really be paying me.

[Neeranam]

Just now, Goat said:

I play the field. Since living here have had factory workers, managers, pharmacist, uni students, business owners, etc etc.

 

Which is Dans point. Maybe you missed it?

I would never consider a whore. That is not what they are for. There are thousands more decent girls than hookers.

I agree with you that some are a good laugh.

Have you  ever fallen  in love?

Have you ever felt low self-esteem and increased it with self-righteous judgement?

[BritManToo]

3 minutes ago, Goat said:

And they expect payment for making love with me.

With my experience and skills they should really be paying me.

Don't think I've ever had a woman that didn't expect payment, some want it at point of sale, some want it at the end of relationship. At least at point of sale you know what it will cost you, and it probably won't cost you your home and pension.

[VinnieK]

The plight of gold diggers..????‍♂️

 

[Goat]

3 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

Have you  ever fallen  in love?

Many times and with multiple women at the same time.

But never with a hooker. 

 

3 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

Have you ever felt low self-esteem and increased it with self-righteous judgement?

I have very high self esteem and good judgement.

[Goat]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Don't think I've ever had a woman that didn't expect payment, some want it at point of sale, some want it at the end of relationship. At least at point of sale you know what it will cost you, and it probably won't cost you your home and pension.

Try getting on Tinder.

I have never compensated a girl when breaking up with them. Why would I? I date girls with employment who can pay their own way.

[BritManToo]

Just now, Goat said:

 

I have never compensated a girl when breaking up with them. Why would I?

Obviously you've never encountered a western divorce court.

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

What was your longest relationship?

I'm guessing 2-3 years.

Correct.

Usually less. I do the right thing and set them free.

 

I have had quite a few casual partners that have spanned 15, 8, 11 years etc. Often come back after their divorces/break ups. 

[Goat]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

Obviously you've never encountered a western divorce court.

No.

I dont really believe in sharing all my stuff with someone who doesnt like me anymore.

[ChipButty]

55 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

I think you have too. 

Bargirls are not prostitutes, they are different.

I thought they were all Cashiers? 

[Hummin]

56 minutes ago, Goat said:

It is weird how the farangs marry them. They need help.

 

The often maligned on this forum Russian, Indian and Chinese wouldnt even consider marrying a Thai hooker. Or any hooker.

 

Then you have the thousands of sex tourists sending money to the hookers weekly/monthly. 

It is a bizare phenonomen.

I do not know about you, but most who claim they married a nice educated thai woman, overlook the fact they where looking for a wealthy foreigner, or the most common negative comenters about bar girls are those who have first hand experience with them. 

 

who are you? 

 

Forgot those who only date women with decent work, but never seems to hook up with any of them, just using them for free because they are not hookers, and they get free sex in trade for future hope of a western husband.

 

 

[bignok]

48 minutes ago, Goat said:

Many times and with multiple women at the same time.

But never with a hooker. 

 

I have very high self esteem and good judgement.

How do you know? Dating sites are full of them.

[Pink Mist]

Posts baiting others, personal attacks and comments on the OP posted have been removed.

 

Stay civil to each other

[owl sees all]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

I play the field. Since living here have had factory workers, managers, pharmacist, uni students, business owners, etc etc.

 

 

What about swimmers?

Not divers. water poloists or synchroes; proper swimmers.

International swimmers.

[stoner]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

No, you are wrong. 

It makes a huge difference.

I wouldnt consider marrying a slut. 

Marrying a prostitute takes it to another level.

 

Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years; Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and, Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce.

 

https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

 

 

There is also the social stigma of it. Thais are not stupid, they can pick when a farang has married a hooker. The Thai guys will think you as a joke. And the women will treat you like the Village Idiot.

hahaha we got another mine is different guy. poor fella. 

[JimTripper]

One way to never have the money problem in Thai-Foreigner relationships.
Easy. Only pair up with someone who makes more then you do. ????

[Dmaxdan]

2 hours ago, Goat said:

 

Why marry a hooker? Especially ones with SOCKS.

Sorry, I'm confused. What does owning socks have to do with anything  relating to this topic? 

Are ladies of the night not allowed, under Thai law to get cold feet?

[Goat]

10 minutes ago, stoner said:

hahaha we got another mine is different guy. poor fella. 

Funny the guys who marry the hookers convince themselves that everyone else marries hookers also. 

Or that all women are the same as hookers.

When nothing could be further from the truth.

 

You would have to suffer very low self esteem to take one seriously. probably also suffer from anxiety and maybe show autism traits socially.

 

Who is being taken advantage of more in these relationships is an interesting question.

The needy loser who cant get a girlfriend in real life and who is spending his money lying to himself and convincing himself he has found true love? 

 

Or the low educated girl from the impoverished South East Asian family forced to treat the revolting, often unhygenic, unwanted sex tourist as a real husband that she loves and cherishes and sharing a bed with the animal purely because his countries currency has a higher value than the baht?

 

 

[Goat]

30 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

 

What about swimmers?

Not divers. water poloists or synchroes; proper swimmers.

International swimmers.

Not Thai.

But i did have a casual sexual relationship with the number 2 ranked Synchroe swimmer in australia.

The flexibility was something I will never forget.

 

It wasnt a serious relationship because she was a real slut.

 

But if the oppurtunity with a Thai swimmer comes up I will be more than keen to try.

[Goat]

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

just using them for free because they are not hookers, and they get free sex in trade for future hope of a western husband.

It obviously has not occured to you, but most women actually enjoy sex. They dont need a financial reward. The orgasm is what they are after.