CM Dad Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 Looking at your photo, you would have to pay someone to share your bed. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Alien Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 I think since you are fortunate enough to enjoy sideline, you shouldn’t get yourself into deepsxxt by engaging in another serious relationship. ???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tubulat Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 My wife is also not attractive but I love her, is that not the most important? And there is a song 'you are not happy with a beautiful woman' 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wobblybob Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 On 8/8/2023 at 8:57 AM, bob smith said: mrs. smiths body aint what it used to be, putting it mildly. I am already visiting girls on the side regularly but I do kinda feel bad about it. It's not her fault after all. well it kind of is actually, she eats like a pig and ive told her that but every time i mention she just keeps on eating, almost in spite... She is also very moody these days. Snaps at the smallest thing. she says she still loves me though and could never leave me. what should I do? I still like her personality a bit but i dont find her sexually attractive anymore. We sleep in seperate bedrooms and thats the way i want it. Should I continue getting my kicks on the side, possibly think about trading her in for a younger model, or should I just accept my lot in life and try to make my woman happy? I have checked with your wife and she said the feeling is mutual. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 On 8/8/2023 at 9:57 AM, bob smith said: mrs. smiths body aint what it used to be, putting it mildly. I am already visiting girls on the side regularly but I do kinda feel bad about it. It's not her fault after all. well it kind of is actually, she eats like a pig and ive told her that but every time i mention she just keeps on eating, almost in spite... She is also very moody these days. Snaps at the smallest thing. she says she still loves me though and could never leave me. what should I do? I still like her personality a bit but i dont find her sexually attractive anymore. We sleep in seperate bedrooms and thats the way i want it. Should I continue getting my kicks on the side, possibly think about trading her in for a younger model, or should I just accept my lot in life and try to make my woman happy? If your continued marital status is the foundation of your legal right to stay in Thailand long-term and post endless inanities here, then you should do the right thing, up your game and flaunt your extra-marital dalliances to the fullest. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolf81 Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 On 8/8/2023 at 9:30 AM, bob smith said: i watched that alone last week. I know the story inside out so to see it on the big screen was a bit boring. I thought about taking the mrs with me but i would have had to pay for the extra large seats. saved my money for popcorn instead.. You do know feeding your wife popcorn will not make where thinner, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thailand49 Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 Bob., the grass is never greener it takes a lot of work to keep it up. I'm hit up all the time by younger women of course they come from the P4P they say papa you the best you know how to take care of women. We know it starts and ends with the baht! I look in the mirror although fit at my age I'm surprise it hasn't cracked. They all try to get me to leave my wife I tell them I like being treated like a dog I know what to expect from her at my age why would I want to start over. Getting old is reality there is pain don't think for a minute she loves everything about you. Try being supportive instead of ragging on her and maybe just maybe her time has come in life menopause so try having a heart. My motto, like my dad says if a women can stay with me for 10 years deserves everything even my support.???? Personally a stupid f like yourself would post such a topic you should leave being doing her a favor. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhys Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 Dude, is the old peckerwood still strong lean and hard? More reason to stay put...do your over the hill, strut the poontang walk with a young pro and be happy. Go find your needs satisfaction and be happy.. however, who will be there when you have a health problem? Who will be your best nong? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elkski Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 I'm not sure why but i have seen thin small 46kg thai women go crazy with food. They order so much at a dinner out and then feel they have ro eat it all. Mine is learning about leftovers. They seem to cook for 2x more people than planned. I wonder if its because there was a rime in their life when they barely had enough to eat? And now with a Western man who has the means to buy almost endless food she has lost control. And as another commented being overweight can cause depression and cause more eating. There is a new drug that works andong term trial results also ahows 2o% reduction in cardio issues but its 1500$/ month https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/wegovy-shown-cut-risk-stroke-heart-attacks-company-says-rcna98741 But also i believe many thai wimen accept their husband getting some on the side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swm59nj Posted August 9, 2023 Share Posted August 9, 2023 What you should do? Well I will say what she should do. From your thoughts and behavior. She should get rid of you. She is much better off without you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Bundooman Posted August 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 9, 2023 On 8/8/2023 at 9:27 AM, 2long said: This thread is attention-seeking clickbait, and not the first one recently. But it works on here! Could it be that the OP is not perfect, and that some productive and positive stimulation or inspiration could get things back on track? A lot of fat people eat because they're depressed, and they're depressed because they're overweight. It's similar with drinkers. It's also possible that she is depressed because of the lack of care and attention by the slob who regards her as a bag of spuds. It's also possible that the problem is him! 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grumpy one Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 Tell her how you feel but make sure she has plenty of knives handy. You don't want to have her go looking for one to carve you up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ross163103 Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 If the shoe was on the other foot, would you want her having a few--or many guys, on the side? Just sayin'..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snooky Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 On 8/7/2023 at 10:18 PM, bob smith said: you may be onto something there. do they sell em on lower sukhumvit? ???? also everywhere on line! Maybe if she saw you doing things with this rubber beauty, she might understand why you are doing it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingstonkid Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 On 8/8/2023 at 8:57 AM, bob smith said: mrs. smiths body aint what it used to be, putting it mildly. I am already visiting girls on the side regularly but I do kinda feel bad about it. It's not her fault after all. well it kind of is actually, she eats like a pig and ive told her that but every time i mention she just keeps on eating, almost in spite... She is also very moody these days. Snaps at the smallest thing. she says she still loves me though and could never leave me. what should I do? I still like her personality a bit but i dont find her sexually attractive anymore. We sleep in seperate bedrooms and thats the way i want it. Should I continue getting my kicks on the side, possibly think about trading her in for a younger model, or should I just accept my lot in life and try to make my woman happy? BOB only you can answer that. Are you happy with your life. If youleft her what happen Would she be able to look after herself Do you have kids Who would be affected Have you thought about mia noi Does she hae family or friends can can talk to her on your behalf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JensenZ Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 (edited) On 8/8/2023 at 9:16 AM, KannikaP said: Now, look in a mirror. The OP should definitely look in the mirror and ask the questions: "would anyone find me attractive?" and "if there was no money transaction, who would want to **** me?" I do look in the mirror and see an aging 64-year-old that wouldnt have a lot of options if I was broke... and I'm in good shape for my age, but it's not enough to get any sexy young things excited. Maybe the OP's wife is expecting a divorce at some point, so she puts out so he can't use that as grounds for divorce. She most definitly has grounds for divorce and would be in the driver's seat in any judicial divorce proceedings. Edited August 10, 2023 by JensenZ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post soalbundy Posted August 10, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted August 10, 2023 On 8/8/2023 at 9:07 AM, bob smith said: she wiill do it with me. I just dont wanna do it with her. a sack of spuds i believe is the saying. Looked at yourself in the mirror lately? Your wife is probably comfort eating through unhappiness. Sex isn't the most important thing in life, at least not for a mature person. Why bring up something so personal here anyway, do you need the blessing of the community, sort your own life out before you get an STD from one of your superficial flings. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bob smith Posted August 10, 2023 Author Share Posted August 10, 2023 3 minutes ago, soalbundy said: sort your own life out before you get an STD from one of your superficial flings. I always wear condoms and shave. chance of getting an std negligible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isaan sailor Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 On 8/8/2023 at 9:18 AM, bob smith said: you may be onto something there. do they sell em on lower sukhumvit? ???? What about those AI Chat girls? Anyone have one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 (edited) On 8/8/2023 at 10:21 AM, bob smith said: im chisled mate. a greek statue aint got nothing on me! They have a lot of broken / missing body parts Edited August 10, 2023 by FritsSikkink 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 No worries friend! BigNok has a wife thats a 9/10 and im sure she would enjoy your compnay as he ignores her posting about best thai beers and 1980s threads......im sure he wont mind! ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sticky Rice Balls Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 28 minutes ago, Isaan sailor said: What about those AI Chat girls? Anyone have one? my japanese love doll works just fine and no back talk ???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 2 hours ago, bob smith said: I always wear condoms and shave. chance of getting an std negligible. Interesting, so you have sorted out your life without our help. If you are seeking absolution I suggest you turn to a higher authority. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaosLover Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 I bought a pink latex thing in Japan that looked like a salami with hair on one end -at a moving out sale. It was still in the package, so why not? Best neck pillow ever. Quite the conversation piece. You couldn't go into a store selling hairy salami's -no whities allowed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted August 10, 2023 Share Posted August 10, 2023 13 hours ago, bob smith said: I always wear condoms and shave. chance of getting an std negligible. Negligible isn't zero. Condoms break. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Zioner Posted August 11, 2023 Share Posted August 11, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said: Negligible isn't zero. Condoms break. Indeed, use PREP. Edited August 11, 2023 by Ben Zioner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben Zioner Posted August 11, 2023 Share Posted August 11, 2023 (edited) There is something I find fascinating with this thread: I flicked through the 4 pages of it, and I didn't see any mention of children. I reckon that the posters here have lost the plot; you can't have any meaningful, long lasting relationship with a woman without having a family. Apologies, just saw @kingstonkid's post; u r the shining light man.. Edited August 11, 2023 by Ben Zioner 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fredwiggy Posted August 11, 2023 Share Posted August 11, 2023 1 minute ago, Ben Zioner said: There is something I find fascinating with this thread: I flicked through the 4 pages of it, and I didn't see any mention of children. I reckon that the posters here have lost the plot; you can't have any meaningful, long lasting relationship with a woman without having a family. Some can't have children. That means they themselves are the family. many people have very satisfying lives without the responsibility of children. All of who have had kids know the sacrifices and work they take to raise to adulthood. Some just want the relationship between themselves. Nothing wrong with that. They can do anything they want, including traveling, without having to worry about small children. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingstonkid Posted August 11, 2023 Share Posted August 11, 2023 5 hours ago, Ben Zioner said: There is something I find fascinating with this thread: I flicked through the 4 pages of it, and I didn't see any mention of children. I reckon that the posters here have lost the plot; you can't have any meaningful, long lasting relationship with a woman without having a family. Apologies, just saw @kingstonkid's post; u r the shining light man.. Thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Teavee Posted August 11, 2023 Share Posted August 11, 2023 5 hours ago, Ben Zioner said: There is something I find fascinating with this thread: I flicked through the 4 pages of it, and I didn't see any mention of children. I reckon that the posters here have lost the plot; you can't have any meaningful, long lasting relationship with a woman without having a family. Apologies, just saw @kingstonkid's post; u r the shining light man.. A lot of guys move here & meet their wife at an age where (IMHO) they shouldn’t be having children I moved here full time at 53 (57 now) & count myself in that camp, the idea of being 65 and having a 12 year old kid isn’t for me & IMHO would be irresponsible/unfair on the kid. Appreciate there’s a few guys who have kids when they’re in their 60s and are very happy, good luck to then, again it’s not for me. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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