doubt with a girl ( police blacklist )

[dlclark97]

11 hours ago, bbko said:

Keep evidence of those messages, they are evidence she's trying to extort money from you.

May be best if you are able to record a few messages and file a police complaint for harassment.  Am sure they have dealt with her or others in similar situations.

[SbuxPlease]

She's playing you - she knows the police will do nothing but you might be uncertain enough to give her some money. She has nothing to lose either way. The police don't waste their time with bargirls like this - they know about these games too.

 

At some of these bars it is better to act just a few notches up from a bum - no money, nothing to extort. Mention that your thai wife doesn't know you're here tonight. When you pay use a wad of mashed up 20s from your pocket and no thousands.

 

The perceived lack of free cash flow and the fear of a worthy equally deranged opponent (the virtual thai wife) will keep them off your back.

[crazykopite]

Keep all the messages she has sent you as evidence if she does go to the police and makes a complaint I doubt she has any proof to substantiate her claims if the police do get involved then insist that the tourist police are also present and don’t tell her when your leaving the country . You could always inform her that your going to submit a defamation claim against her for accusing you of something you didn’t do .  It sounds like you may well have already returned to France is this the case if yes unless she managed to get a copy of your passport or driver’s license I would imagine it would be difficult for the police to do anything The RedBull guy killed a policeman under the influence of drink and drugs and as yet years later the police have not issued a world wide arrest warrant for him so I think you are well and truly safe  a few years back a mate got done for weed got a very heavy fine in the courts allowed to stay and no red stamp in his passport to me she’s just a gold digger she sees you as an idiot who will pay up to her demands .

Edited September 29, 2023 by crazykopite

[Jaxxper]

I think it is highly unlikely that she will go to the police. This happened 4 months ago. Why not sooner? I think you’re ok. Just block her on social networks and telephone. She’ll soon get fed up and go and look for another potential victim, …..oh sorry, boyfriend.

Hope it all turns out good.

[tontong7]

hello everyone, I say a HUGE thank you for taking the time to answer me and above all for reassuring me compared to the 2 drunks last night, fortunately caring people exist! thank you very much ????????

[Toby1947]

Definitely a job for Inspector Clouseau. Contact him immediately.  ????????????

[BenStark]

Let me see, OP joined 12 hours ago with a troll thread, and has 24 post in the meantime.

 

Welcome to the club Bob

[JayClay]

12 minutes ago, tontong7 said:

Hi, in fact, she asked me exactly when I was coming back, but obviously I didn't give her any answers

"Never. It was just a holiday. I will try a different country next year" would seem a suitable answer.

[liddelljohn]

block her  delete her   but keep the threatening messages  and you cannot be put on any blacklist unless overstay or convicted in Court of a crime ,, just relax and  dont listen to nasty people winding you up

[Xonax]

I would immediately block her and make a screenshot as evidence.

[tontong7]

Il y a 35 minutes, BenStark a déclaré :

Laissez-moi voir, OP a rejoint il y a 12 heures avec un fil de troll, et a 24 messages entre-temps.

 

Bienvenue au club Bob

??? 

[norfolkandchance]

My girlfriend TingTong says your English is getting better page by page.

Edited September 29, 2023 by norfolkandchance

[Stevemercer]

I just glanced at this. As others have said, block her and do not respond to her. She just wants money. She will not contact the police or immigration. If she tried she would be ignored. You will not be blacklisted. It is ancient history in everyone's mind except yours.

 

Learn from your experience. When you next return to Thailand do not share contact details unless it is more than a one night stand.

[rwill]

As lots of others have said don't talk to her anymore.   Save the conversation.  The chances she would do anything are very small.  She's just trying to scare you into giving her money.  She will soon find other victims and forget about you.

[tontong7]

5 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

from your post you have the evidence of her threatening you--screenshot it and save it

 

so you now have proof of this..so it seems....to show the cops....if u wanna involve them

 

id have fun with it as i just mirror people--u wanna trick me?  ok lets play this game.....

 

i met some lady on TF last week...i got plenty of time so ill meet anyone just to see whats up

 

we meet at big c and she cant even speak english so we go back n forth on google translate

 

i did start to see flags....she wrote down my TF info on paper and also wrote her history on paper in english..very good too,......but i wondered if SHE wrote it....never saw her "write" it

 

anyhoo i lived close by so i invited her to my room(yeah i know-mistake) but did take the back way to confuse her as she said so.....she kept trying to take my pic,,,,which i said no as i have 3 pics on TF....to her one pic.....she wouldnt take the hint..flag....almost being aggressive....hmmmm

 

so i was ready to get rid of her...and i had to go to city so  had to go out on canal rd as she seemed to be remembering location as we went sep ways.....she kept up on LINE app with wanting my pic and i said can see it on TF..she says she wants to show her kids..i said then show them my TF profile or we can meet in person......she even sent others on TF app to look..as she said it was her daughter..whom she showed me a pic of where she seemed to have a farang bf so why is she on TF....anyway....flag.....so i had enough and blocked this women--her "daughter" on TF and LINE app......as it seems TF is nothing but damaged thai ladies that no thai dude wants

 

anyway..next morning im sleeping and hear loud knocking...and again..wakes up out of sleep and think it must be manager or buddy in building....nope..was this crazy lady at my door!!!!

 

I was half asleep and she lunged at me...she also had these sharp nails as she grazed me the day before trying to get my pic....and cut me a little......add it i was half awake and shocked!

 

i pushed her back and locked the door and she waited outside my door for 15 mins..i even ahd to reach thru curtain to slide window shut and she tried to open my window.....trapped i was!   ha

 

she eventually left and i wondered if she did anything to my mbike outside andtook some time to calm down and get back to sleep....been bolting the door and locking windows for now..luckily have cameras--security and manager on site but still a little spooked from this crazy stalker!!

 

so of course dont let them know where u live--i let my guard down....and never easy being hansum man on one of the worst sites in the world.......stay sage out there gents!   good luck!

Thank you for your testimony! She didn't know where I was staying either, she just has my Instagram profile, nothing more. Indeed I would be careful, but now it reassures me to know that we cannot be blacklisted on simple accusations

[DJ54]

OP if you don’t want to have a relationship with her then block all social media for her

a d go on living life… 

[BTB1977]

Thai woman can detect the stupid ones.  They are very good at it . You will be fleased of your money for the next 5 years or until it's all gone . What ever comes first. 

[Buffy Frobisher]

12 hours ago, ChrisP24 said:

Best to block her, cease responding to anything, and move on.   Nothing good can come of maintaining contact with a bad, unstable person who keeps threatening you. 

 

Once she figures out that she isn't going to get anything out of you, she will move on too, and has nothing to gain by filing false reports.   Odds are good that you are not the only one she is trying this with.  

@tontong7 This is by far the best advice, from @ChrisP24. These girls usually have a few marks that they go after - you're not the only one she's doing this to - and the stupid ones send money and stay on the hook to Hell forever. Just block her on everything, and change your number if she calls. Fade away, have no contact, and she'll go after someone else when the effort exceeds the reward.  In answer to your original question, no, there is no blacklist for bargirls to report tourists who didn't fold with blackmail, and if everything else about you is above the law then you have nothing to worry about. That said, if you have broken any law here then you have a LOT to worry about and you shouldn't come back. If you have any further problems with Immigration next time you come back, DM me. I have someone who fixes these things quite effectively.  Just keep a copy of everything she's ever written to you.  

[tontong7]

9 minutes ago, BTB1977 said:

Thai woman can detect the stupid ones.  They are very good at it . You will be fleased of your money for the next 5 years or until it's all gone . What ever comes first. 

I didn't understand anything, and no I didn't give any money

[tontong7]

7 minutes ago, Buffy Frobisher said:

@tontong7 This is by far the best advice, from @ChrisP24. These girls usually have a few marks that they go after - you're not the only one she's doing this to - and the stupid ones send money and stay on the hook to Hell forever. Just block her on everything, and change your number if she calls. Fade away, have no contact, and she'll go after someone else when the effort exceeds the reward.  In answer to your original question, no, there is no blacklist for bargirls to report tourists who didn't fold with blackmail, and if everything else about you is above the law then you have nothing to worry about. That said, if you have broken any law here then you have a LOT to worry about and you shouldn't come back. If you have any further problems with Immigration next time you come back, DM me. I have someone who fixes these things quite effectively.  Just keep a copy of everything she's ever written to you.  

Thanks a lot ! no I didn't break any laws, at least no rape, no assault and no drugs. The only law that I broke like 60% of tourists was having an electronic cigarette, and even then I didn't know it. But I don't think that with an electronic cigarette we are on the blacklist. thank you very much for your help in all this it's a pleasure

[malone99]

easy brother. 

99.9 empty bs threats. 

just in case, archive your chat history. 

case closed, don't worry. 

Edited September 29, 2023 by malone99

[richard_smith237]

Was this Op ghost written by Bob Smith ????  

[Freddy42OZ]

11 hours ago, tontong7 said:

ah thank you, finally an answer that serves a few purposes! But is it possible to be blacklisted when you have done nothing serious and without proof? Do the police take bar girls like that at their word without investigations?

No they don't. 

She can't do anything.

[Nip]

14 hours ago, tontong7 said:

hello everyone, sorry to bother you and sorry for my English (it's not the best).
 

One evening I went out to a nightclub on Rawai and a girl from the bar came, we had a good chat, a few kisses, 2/3 rapprochement (I won't give you details) I bought her 2-3 drinks and we is added on Instagram to see each other later if ever, at the end of the evening I return to my hotel alone and she does too, period. (it was April 7, 2023).

 

I spend the rest of my vacation quietly with my friends and I never saw her again because I didn't want to + and

 

I'm leaving for France on May 4, 2023. and now for about 1 month, she has been harassing me on Instagram saying come see me in 15 days, if you don't come I'm going to tell the police that you attacked me, raped me, that I drugged her and so on, and every day she sends me messages saying that she is alone, that there are few tourists, that she needs money and so on.

 

My question therefore (sorry for the novel, but I preferred you to explain the story clearly) is whether she can file a complaint against something that never happened (I neither assaulted her, nor raped her, nor drugged her, I precise ????), more than 3 months after I saw him in the bar, and especially after inquiring I read that Thailand could blacklist tourists? Is it possible for some things that never happen?

 

I sincerely thank you for your answers, it was my first time in Thailand, I loved it, I plan to come back but it scares me a little! thank you so much

She’s winding you up. Block her on any internet platform you have connected on. Does she even have your name and passport details? If not she can’t file a complaint against you. Anyway she would need evidence and according to you there is none. Chalk it up to experience. Without evidence such as a hospital report of her injuries she is pi??ing into the wind. They are experts at mind-games. Move on. 

[SingAPorn]

This is a good reminder never to give out your personnal details like phone or real adress to these one night stand Thai ladies.

 

There are enough quickie rent 2-hour-hotels all over to get the job done.

 

The OP's experience could have ended up worse assuming the lady had an accomplice and the issue could have ended up worse with corrupt cops involved or whatever...

 

I personally always give a phony name in such situations and never invite any over to my real residence.

[Pattaya57]

2 hours ago, tontong7 said:

no she can't have my passport or my license or my name, only my Instagram photos. Thank you so much. Yes there can be no proof because absolutely nothing happened.

So she doesn't have your name but you think she might have had you put on a Thailand blacklist? How naive are you?

 

Oh wait, maybe they have your fingerprints from the crime scene, then they'll be waiting when you do fingerprint check on entry ????

 

Edited September 29, 2023 by Pattaya57

[geisha]

11 hours ago, tontong7 said:

thank you very much, that reassures me. No because for me it worries me, I've never been confronted with that, and they can't think of anything better than to play on the situation. So yes, the two who think they are smart are idiots.

Listen to the intelligent answers. ( not the idiots) . Block her. Never contact her again ! I very much doubt you’ll have any problems, so don’t worry. Don’t go back to  Rawai , change your destination, you don’t need to bump into her again, she’s a bad one . Thailand is big and has nicer places than Rawai. 

[Liverpool Lou]

3 hours ago, crazykopite said:

The RedBull guy killed a policeman under the influence of drink and drugs and as yet years later the police have not issued a world wide arrest warrant

There is no such thing as a "world wide arrest warrant"  They did issue a Red Notice through Interpol, though!

Edited September 29, 2023 by Liverpool Lou

[tontong7]

49 minutes ago, Pattaya57 said:

So she doesn't have your name but you think she might have had you put on a Thailand blacklist? How naive are you?

 

Oh wait, maybe they have your fingerprints from the crime scene, then they'll be waiting when you do fingerprint check on entry ????

 

no she has neither my name nor my passport, as I said if you can read, only my Instagram. No I'm not naive, I'm asking, Thailand is not France, I know that there by paying a lot everything is possible so I wondered if it was possible to be on the blacklist without proof, everything simply.

[DrJack54]

4 pages of rubbish.

Cannot believe so many experienced posters have replied to what is clearly a Troll thread.

Ridiculous!