You are the prize! She is not. It's about you, not her. Change your attitude!

[thaibeachlovers]

3 hours ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

Obviously you should work out, take care of yourself, and strive to bring more to the table than money - but if you take care of yourself the dating pool is probably the best in the world (for us) here.

 

The only thing a farang needs to bring to the table is money. Works every time.

[DudleySquat]

1 hour ago, HappyExpat57 said:

 

C'mon now - you put up a post hoping it would appear clever and popular, instead you stepped in dookie. Your best bet is to let it go away like a bad smell. Throwing insults merely prolongs the agony.

 

I know it hurts—chin up, mate.

[DudleySquat]

10 hours ago, Gweiloman said:

It’s obvious where you hang out and the kind of females you’re familiar with.

 

You can almost have anyone? Lol.

 

 

almost

[DudleySquat]

10 hours ago, Gweiloman said:

It’s obvious where you hang out and the kind of females you’re familiar with.

 

You can almost have anyone? Lol.

 

Is it? Tell us all what you know. Facts, please. 

 

I'm betting you have no facts about me and what I do.

[Gottfrid]

9 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

It amazes me how you all set the bar.  All the nonsense posters with nothing to say project BETA Male.

Let´s say that you started very low. How do you expect anyone to take you serious?
 

9 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

 

I meet quality women all the time. Perhaps a change of venue for you is needed.

Sure you do. Your OP really give that impression.
 

9 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

 

You seem to suffer from low-esteem.

That´s a better reality than yours, that are living on fluffy clouds in Wonderland.

[HappyExpat57]

22 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Let´s say that you started very low. How do you expect anyone to take you serious?
 

Sure you do. Your OP really give that impression.
 

That´s a better reality than yours, that are living on fluffy clouds in Wonderland.

 

I'm a little ashamed I engaged with this silly-ass troll.

[2baht]

9 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

 

I meet quality women all the time. Perhaps a change of venue for you is needed.

Will you be my hero.....for just one day! 

[2baht]

1 hour ago, DudleySquat said:

I'm betting you have no facts about me and what I do.

Your stupid post tells all we need to know! 

[DudleySquat]

10 hours ago, Walker88 said:

The value of an appealing/attractive Thai woman exceeds the value of what many Western men bring to market. Her attributes are valued more by the international market than the skills and talents many Western men bring to their own society or the international market.

 

C'mon, most of us are much better educated and traveled. Most pretty Thai women know nothing of the world because they only care about Thailand. They typically have no critical thinking skills as they are taught to be good robots and never question authority. 

 

Are you confused about who we are discussing? 

[DudleySquat]

28 minutes ago, 2baht said:

Your stupid post tells all we need to know! 

 

Try to let go of your resentment.

[GammaGlobulin]

 

You get a prize in every box.

 

 

[DudleySquat]

1 minute ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

You get a prize in every box.

 

 

I never liked the prizes. I can still taste Cracker Jack in my mind. 

 

 

[DudleySquat]

Hey .. isn't Cracker a slur? Have these been removed from the shelves? 

 

[GammaGlobulin]

1 minute ago, DudleySquat said:

Hey .. isn't Cracker a slur? Have these been removed from the shelves? 

 

 

If you are talking about a cracker in the southern part of the US, it just means some nutcase who has not seen Paris, and also someone who is not schooled, and most likely illiterate.

 

 

[DudleySquat]

Just now, GammaGlobulin said:

 

If you are talking about a cracker in the southern part of the US, it just means some nutcase who has not seen Paris, and also someone who is not schooled, and most likely illiterate.

 

 

 

I can only speak for the USA. Some Black people refer to White people as "Crackers."  

[VinnieK]

In Thailand, you are NOT the prize.

The culture is so xenophobic at heart, despite the skin-deep 'friendliness'.

They teach them at school that khon Thai is the dog's b0ll0cks.

Never been colonized etc etc.

I never saw any real preference for farangs here unless they target your  money.

Real preference would be if rich women would go for poor farangs.

They never do.

In recent years I have been targeting a demographic close to my age (50-60)

You cannot imagine how delusional these old hags are.

They still expect you to be the provider even if they have money. 😂

When I point that I could get a 30 yr old if I was prepared to 'provide', they go crazy.

[scottiejohn]

11 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

It amazes me how you all set the bar.  All the nonsense posters with nothing to say project BETA Male.

Your "Avatar/Name" seem to be nearly perfect for you as all your posts are worth DIDDLY SQUAT!

[GammaGlobulin]

55 minutes ago, DudleySquat said:

 

I can only speak for the USA. Some Black people refer to White people as "Crackers."  

 

I am unaware of this meaning.

A cracker, in slang in the US, usually means a hillbilly.

To be crackers is to be crazy.

A crackerjack of an individual would mean an exemplary person.

And then, you have Animal Crackers in Shirley's soup, of course.

Etc...

 

[FruitPudding]

1 hour ago, DudleySquat said:

 

C'mon, most of us are much better educated and traveled. Most pretty Thai women know nothing of the world because they only care about Thailand. They typically have no critical thinking skills as they are taught to be good robots and never question authority. 

 

Are you confused about who we are discussing? 

 

They're just hillbillies.

[Gottfrid]

5 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

Are you confused about who we are discussing?

Nah, in this thread, that is a state of mind that you have sole ownership of.

[animalmagic]

19 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

Sinsot or Sinsod? The dowry. Buffalo is sick. Grandma is sick. Grandpa is sick. The dog is diabetic. We have heard it all.  There is a thread going now, and it will return soon enough where the usual weak tell you that there is nothing you can do about it, cave in, bend over, and take it. 

 

YOU ARE THE PRIZE!

 

The lowest-income foreigners are still the prize compared to the life many Thais live. Why forget that you are the prize? 

 

So if you encounter the typical greedy family, who will fleece you if you let them, remember there are millions of women here, and many of them are decent non-sex workers.

 

You can almost have anyone. So be objective. Exercise your power instead of rolling over to please the "family."  Don't get sidetracked. You have the power. You can either use it responsibly or be a mark for the relatives to shear each time it gets cold.

 

I can hear them now, the ankle biters who will be aghast that I just said to use your power, your money to go where and with who will treat you best. 

 

Don't be ashamed you have money. That's one tactic used to separate you. 

 

Remember always, they will take from you until you have nothing. Then, ask them for help.

 

See how sympathetic they are.

 

Thoughts? 

 

 

I'm thinking - 'Did you post to inform or spew non-essential invective?'

[mlkik]

7 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

 

I can only speak for the USA. Some Black people refer to White people as "Crackers."  

In the U.K. after your opening post we would describe you as 'Crackers' 555

[Bundooman]

21 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

Sinsot or Sinsod? The dowry. Buffalo is sick. Grandma is sick. Grandpa is sick. The dog is diabetic. We have heard it all.  There is a thread going now, and it will return soon enough where the usual weak tell you that there is nothing you can do about it, cave in, bend over, and take it. 

 

YOU ARE THE PRIZE!

 

The lowest-income foreigners are still the prize compared to the life many Thais live. Why forget that you are the prize? 

 

So if you encounter the typical greedy family, who will fleece you if you let them, remember there are millions of women here, and many of them are decent non-sex workers.

 

You can almost have anyone. So be objective. Exercise your power instead of rolling over to please the "family."  Don't get sidetracked. You have the power. You can either use it responsibly or be a mark for the relatives to shear each time it gets cold.

 

I can hear them now, the ankle biters who will be aghast that I just said to use your power, your money to go where and with who will treat you best. 

 

Don't be ashamed you have money. That's one tactic used to separate you. 

 

Remember always, they will take from you until you have nothing. Then, ask them for help.

 

See how sympathetic they are.

 

Thoughts? 

 

 

What a pathetic and vindictive diatribe regarding Thai women. you are obviously oblivious to the way your post is not only insulting to almost every Thai family, you have no idea as to how you should behave as a guest in this unique country.

"You can almost have anyone"? Are you serious? Because NO - you cannot 'have almost anyone'. The only places you could do that is in a bar where girls are working for money and even then, many probably  wouldn't want anything to do with you.

You are very arrogant if you think you can pull any young girl, woman, or even an older woman in Thailand with that appalling attitude.

As for your attitude towards family, I doubt very much whether they would want you near their homes either. You possibly have no manners, social graces or personality worthy of most hard-working Thai families - wealthy and poor alike.

Sad people write un-informed, vicious and unnecessary rubbish such as this.

[BritManToo]

20 hours ago, FruitPudding said:

Damn right.

The type of low class woman who goes for farang, only has two choices:

1.  Village bloke

2. Farang

Would point out the very highest of high class Thai women married a white American guy.

[scottiejohn]

22 minutes ago, Bundooman said:

What a pathetic and vindictive diatribe regarding Thai women.

Well done!

What a brilliant response to a poster I commented on earlier whose avatar is so near to the quality of his postings.  He should be renamed as "diddly squat" and then banned!

 

PS; I know I am not a Mod but just expressing my disgust at some of his posts"

[quake]

Hey Dudley Squat,

You made me think of this song for some reason.  

 

 

 

[DudleySquat]

2 hours ago, animalmagic said:

I'm thinking - 'Did you post to inform or spew non-essential invective?'

 

Neither. 

It is an appeal for action. 

 

So sorry for the grammar correction but you asked. 

[DudleySquat]

51 minutes ago, Bundooman said:

What a pathetic and vindictive diatribe regarding Thai women. you are obviously oblivious to the way your post is not only insulting to almost every Thai family, you have no idea as to how you should behave as a guest in this unique country.

"You can almost have anyone"? Are you serious? Because NO - you cannot 'have almost anyone'. The only places you could do that is in a bar where girls are working for money and even then, many probably  wouldn't want anything to do with you.

You are very arrogant if you think you can pull any young girl, woman, or even an older woman in Thailand with that appalling attitude.

As for your attitude towards family, I doubt very much whether they would want you near their homes either. You possibly have no manners, social graces or personality worthy of most hard-working Thai families - wealthy and poor alike.

Sad people write un-informed, vicious and unnecessary rubbish such as this.

 

You show yourself to have a plethora of knowledge about me. 

 

How do you know me? 

[scottiejohn]

22 hours ago, DudleySquat said:

Thoughts? 

You need stronger medication or stop taking any sh!t if you are on it!

[parallelman]

Well, in reply to the OP, IMHO there is no Thai women that comes close to my second (British) wife. From day 1 of the short marriage she put her plan into motion. I did a lot of O/T at work and my bank balance was very healthy indeed. I won't bother with early details but in the final couple of months I was alerted of forged signatures both from a building society and the my bank. She had no previous convictions but had one by the time the divorce was final.

When dating/living with a Thai woman (perhaps with a large age gap) whose financial situation is wanting then we know, or at least think, that it is just an 'arrangement'. But so what! If she takes care of you in old age and she gets 'a few bob' for doing so, then that sounds good to me. Or if the chap is much younger I'm sure he can find love in Thailand and perhaps there are a few on this forum who can vouch to that. (I have no experience with 'same sex' partnerships in Thailand but perhaps some here can comment on that.)