My girlfriend/wife is 35 years younger.......

[FruitPudding]

1 hour ago, Freddy42OZ said:

Your job is to be someone your partner is turned on by, not be repulsed by. 

 

That ain't my job.

 

1 hour ago, Freddy42OZ said:

If you are having sex just so you get pleasure then you're doing it wrong.  You are supposed to give them pleasure and they are supposed to give you pleasure and a big part of that pleasure is not to be repulsed by each others naked bodies.

 

You are thinking about this like a guy.

 

Guys are very much attracted to a woman's biology and often guys are very visual-orientated with what turns them on.

 

Women are not this way. 

 

They are attracted to other things beyond the superficial visual characteristics, such as: success, power, ability, confidence, height, size, strength (mentally and physically) etc. etc.

 

It's more about who you are, what you are, and how you act, rather than how many abs she can count on your stomach. 

 

It goes back to the caveman times.

 

A woman is instinctively attracted to men who can provide for her and protect her. 

 

Men are instinctively attracted to just about any healthy, fertile vessel that can carry their sperm. Her physical appearance tells our inner caveman that she's fertile and ripe.

 

This is not so important for women. If she loses attraction to you, it's not cos of what you look like, its cos of what you have done (or not done) or how you carry yourself. 

 

For this reason men can actually age like wine, whereas women cannot.

[Kinok Farang]

6 hours ago, noobexpat said:

 

Smarten yourselves up though.

Most of you look like you've been dragged through a dumpster.

Nobody wants to see your feet or watch you picking your teeth either!

My wife picks my teeth for me.

At night,picks them out of my mouth and puts them in a jar.

Then the reverse in the morning to eat breakfast.

What a gal.

[Nick Carter icp]

7 minutes ago, Kinok Farang said:

My wife picks my teeth for me.

At night,picks them out of my mouth and puts them in a jar.

Then the reverse in the morning to eat breakfast.

What a gal.

 

   Sounds like shes desperate to be needed herself 

[jts-khorat]

On 3/18/2024 at 1:24 PM, Nick Carter icp said:

You are ruining the woman's life , she likely to be  widow at 45 years old , past it and unable to reproduce and find another husband and no work experience and then will be banging felangs cheaply hoping one of them will marry her  

 

What a weird thing to say.

 

Are you telling us that women of a young or any age do not have agency to decide what is best for them?

 

You make it sound as if they need a mentor to guide them through life, and basically a slave to their waning reproductive system.

 

I thought we have left this world view in the 1970s.

Edited March 19 by jts-khorat

[Nick Carter icp]

7 minutes ago, jts-khorat said:

 

What a weird thing to say.

 

Are you telling us that women of a young or any age do not have agency to decide what is best for them?

 

You make it sound as if they need a mentor to guide them through life, and basically a slave to their waning reproductive system.

 

I thought we have left this world view in the 1970s.

 

   Having an older felang boyfriend maybe the the best and easiest option for them , either that or doing menial work on minimum wage or brothel work .

   If they took the menial work, they would probably get married and have a family and have a normal life , rather then being widowed at 40

[jts-khorat]

14 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Having an older felang boyfriend maybe the the best and easiest option for them , either that or doing menial work on minimum wage or brothel work .

   If they took the menial work, they would probably get married and have a family and have a normal life , rather then being widowed at 40

 

Still, the decision of a consenting adult.

 

Her body, her decision, is it not? This at least was what feminism fought hard for during the last 50 years.

[Bundooman]

On 3/18/2024 at 5:29 PM, Carlotta said:

My girlfriend/wife is 35 years younger than me.... someone posted that a few days ago. It sounded pretty proud. But what can he be proud of? Has he ever thought about what it would be like to be with a woman who is 35 years older than him? Why does this man think the woman is with him? Because she loves his big belly so much? Or his wrinkles? Or his bad teeth? This woman has a financial interest and is playing her part. She may have a husband, her family and several children to look after. And the man? Buys a partner to escape being alone. Maybe he's already part of the leftover ramp? And what kind of image of man is being spread here? Is it all about sex and not about a lasting, resilient partnership? Does the man I described above think his lady will be happy if he has sex with her for a few minutes every few days under the influence of Cialis and can feel his smelly breath? I was born in Italy and I miss respect in this forum. There is hardly any discussion, everyone thinks their opinion is the only right one. Other opinion holders are denigrated and dragged into the mud. Why is that? Is it because of the origin of the members? Are the majority from the UK? Old, bitter, disappointed? There are about the same number of Germans in Thailand. I'm not treated so rudely by them. Maybe they come from a different background. So, dear members: Respect! Women are not sex objects!

 

 

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Wow! a couple of posts, an I-ta-lian-know-it-all, describing every foreigner her as though 'h'e, or is it a 'she' is aware of every older expat's physical appearance and sex habits, trounces into this forum, a Brit-hating spaghetti-eater, with no idea what he/she/it is talking about!

Who are you? Are you the older-sexual-activity-policeman-checker-upperer?

Why do you think Brits, but slightly less, the Germans, treat you so badly?

Is it because you are so dreary? Opinionated about expats?

They've all got bad teeth, bad breath, overhanging bellies? Pigging out on knob enhancers?

Demeaning Thai women who associate with foreigners? 

What a gem you are! No wonder you are so lost, unhappy, bitter, twisted and sad. 

Italy is best for you old man - sob your heart out to your beautiful women there  - they'll probably laugh at you - just as they did before you left the place!

[Kinok Farang]

6 minutes ago, Bundooman said:

Wow! a couple of posts, an I-ta-lian-know-it-all, describing every foreigner her as though 'h'e, or is it a 'she' is aware of every older expat's physical appearance and sex habits, trounces into this forum, a Brit-hating spaghetti-eater, with no idea what he/she/it is talking about!

Who are you? Are you the older-sexual-activity-policeman-checker-upperer?

Why do you think Brits, but slightly less, the Germans, treat you so badly?

Is it because you are so dreary? Opinionated about expats?

They've all got bad teeth, bad breath, overhanging bellies? Pigging out on knob enhancers?

Demeaning Thai women who associate with foreigners? 

What a gem you are! No wonder you are so lost, unhappy, bitter, twisted and sad. 

Italy is best for you old man - sob your heart out to your beautiful women there  - they'll probably laugh at you - just as they did before you left the place!

You missed out that their tanks in the last war only had reverse gears.

[jts-khorat]

18 minutes ago, Bundooman said:

Wow! a couple of posts, an I-ta-lian-know-it-all, describing every foreigner her as though 'h'e, or is it a 'she' is aware of every older expat's physical appearance and sex habits, trounces into this forum, a Brit-hating spaghetti-eater, with no idea what he/she/it is talking about!

Who are you? Are you the older-sexual-activity-policeman-checker-upperer?

Why do you think Brits, but slightly less, the Germans, treat you so badly?

Is it because you are so dreary? Opinionated about expats?

They've all got bad teeth, bad breath, overhanging bellies? Pigging out on knob enhancers?

Demeaning Thai women who associate with foreigners? 

What a gem you are! No wonder you are so lost, unhappy, bitter, twisted and sad. 

Italy is best for you old man - sob your heart out to your beautiful women there  - they'll probably laugh at you - just as they did before you left the place!

 

Indeed, the original poster voiced so many horrible opinions in one post, it can only be a wind-up in this enlightened day and age:

 

1) taking agency away from women for their life decisions

2) ageism; weirdly against only the males (why would they be less capable?)

3) body shaming; even if outer appearance would not be optimal, are they lesser people for it?

4) being born in Italy makes the OP somehow wiser, so he can give advice to the natives? That is rank with post-colonialism

 

I think, the OP can only be a troll post, persiflaging all the bad opinions we all have left behind. I think such a post does not deserve of the "respect" this person orders us to have of him.

Edited March 19 by jts-khorat

[Foexie]

On 3/18/2024 at 11:29 AM, Carlotta said:

My girlfriend/wife is 35 years younger than me.... someone posted that a few days ago. It sounded pretty proud. But what can he be proud of? Has he ever thought about what it would be like to be with a woman who is 35 years older than him? Why does this man think the woman is with him? Because she loves his big belly so much? Or his wrinkles? Or his bad teeth? This woman has a financial interest and is playing her part. She may have a husband, her family and several children to look after. And the man? Buys a partner to escape being alone. Maybe he's already part of the leftover ramp? And what kind of image of man is being spread here? Is it all about sex and not about a lasting, resilient partnership? Does the man I described above think his lady will be happy if he has sex with her for a few minutes every few days under the influence of Cialis and can feel his smelly breath? I was born in Italy and I miss respect in this forum. There is hardly any discussion, everyone thinks their opinion is the only right one. Other opinion holders are denigrated and dragged into the mud. Why is that? Is it because of the origin of the members? Are the majority from the UK? Old, bitter, disappointed? There are about the same number of Germans in Thailand. I'm not treated so rudely by them. Maybe they come from a different background. So, dear members: Respect! Women are not sex objects!

 

 

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"I miss respect in this forum" you are so correct. Specially those "only in Thailand" dumbacces or those who have nothing usefull or intelligent to tell about Thailand.

[Kinok Farang]

16 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Sounds like shes desperate to be needed herself 

She's at her absolute best though when she takes her own teeth out.

[Alidiver]

On 3/18/2024 at 10:29 AM, Carlotta said:

 Why is that? Is it because of the origin of the members? Are the majority from the UK? Old, bitter, disappointed? There are about the same number of Germans in Thailand. I'm not treated so rudely by them. Maybe they come from a different background. So, dear members: Respect! Women are not sex objects!

 

 

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You talk about respect, look in a mirror.

[CartagenaWarlock]

My youngest and favorite concubine is 40 years younger than me. I'm fond of caressing her silky, smooth skin in her birthday suit. 

[JeffersLos]

On 3/19/2024 at 8:12 PM, Nick Carter icp said:

rather then being widowed at 40

 

With his pension for life, along with the house and assets. 

 

How unfortunate for her. 

[spidermike007]

Your post reeks of jealousy, why are you so concerned about a guy getting with a woman much younger than him? Why the extreme judgment, what's up with that? I applaud a man who gets with a woman considerably younger than himself. Why on earth would a man want to be with a woman his own age, especially if he is in his 60s or 70s? That's what I don't understand. I get it if you're in the US or Europe, you don't have much of a choice, unless you are a centimillionaire. But here you have a choice, so why be with someone your own age? 

[Nick Carter icp]

6 hours ago, CartagenaWarlock said:

My youngest and favorite concubine is 40 years younger than me. I'm fond of caressing her silky, smooth skin in her birthday suit. 

 

  You like touching naked  younger woman 40 years younger than yourself ?

Do you just touch or do you also have full on sexual intercourse ?

[Dolf]

41 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

  You like touching naked  younger woman 40 years younger than yourself ?

Do you just touch or do you also have full on sexual intercourse ?

Do you have fantasies about others?

[Hummin]

6 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

Your post reeks of jealousy, why are you so concerned about a guy getting with a woman much younger than him? Why the extreme judgment, what's up with that? I applaud a man who gets with a woman considerably younger than himself. Why on earth would a man want to be with a woman his own age, especially if he is in his 60s or 70s? That's what I don't understand. I get it if you're in the US or Europe, you don't have much of a choice, unless you are a centimillionaire. But here you have a choice, so why be with someone your own age? 

Having a younger gf, there is many things you miss out on, and especially with a younger asian one. Intellectually, experience, and also economically economically. However for many men, that is not important. For me, I can adopt, but I would like, if I said I did not miss those things. It is always about give and take. But there is a limit, I would not be comfortable having a gf I had to rise and teach, like an daughter, even worse a grand daughter 

[spidermike007]

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

Having a younger gf, there is many things you miss out on, and especially with a younger asian one. Intellectually, experience, and also economically economically. However for many men, that is not important. For me, I can adopt, but I would like, if I said I did not miss those things. It is always about give and take. But there is a limit, I would not be comfortable having a gf I had to rise and teach, like an daughter, even worse a grand daughter 

The intellectual connection with the woman is highly overrated, usually it leads to a tremendous amount of aggravation, endless arguments and debates, and oversized egos.

 

I'd rather be with an intelligent Thai woman who's not my intellectual equal, but is not argumentative it is not always trying to pick a fight. That's much more fun. If she's younger and prettier all the better.

 

Life can be grand when you are not hung up on social expectations. 

[Woof999]

On 3/18/2024 at 11:47 PM, habuspasha said:

60 years ago I had little idea of what the vagina looked like or how it cold be stimulated by mouth and tongue to multiple orgasms.  I was in too  much of a hurry to satisfy myself.

 

I just saw my breakfast for the second time.

[Hummin]

7 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

The intellectual connection with the woman is highly overrated, usually it leads to a tremendous amount of aggravation, endless arguments and debates, and oversized egos.

 

I'd rather be with an intelligent Thai woman who's not my intellectual equal, but is not argumentative it is not always trying to pick a fight. That's much more fun. If she's younger and prettier all the better.

 

Life can be grand when you are not hung up on social expectations. 

No matter what, it is all about personality, experiences, maturity and more. A younger gf, is no exception to all thats negative. 

 

In my experience, older men have an tendense to be either over controlling their younger gf, or more patience. Give and take. 

 

The most important in a relationship, is to create an healthy playground for both parts to thrive, and that the real challenge, no matter age and intellectualy differences.

[Nick Carter icp]

51 minutes ago, Dolf said:

Do you have fantasies about others?

 

   I do sometimes imagine you in a leotard and high heels  holding a whip and telling me that I have been a naughty boy 

[CartagenaWarlock]

11 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

You like touching naked  younger woman 40 years younger than yourself ?

Do you just touch or do you also have full on sexual intercourse ?

All-night season in all holes. But I like to caress her silky, smooth skin while not inside her holes. 

Edited March 21 by CartagenaWarlock

[Nick Carter icp]

2 minutes ago, CartagenaWarlock said:

All-night season in all holes. But I like to caress her silky, smooth skin while not inside her holes. 

 

   Bum hole as well ?

[Keeps]

10 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   I do sometimes imagine you in a leotard and high heels  holding a whip and telling me that I have been a naughty boy 

 

8 minutes ago, CartagenaWarlock said:

All-night season in all holes. But I like to caress her silky, smooth skin while not inside her holes. 

 

6 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Bum hole as well ?

I'm not sure if I'm asleep and am having a nightmare. I do hope so. I'll let you know if I wake up soon. 

[Prubangboy]

Is half your age, plus seven still a thing? I was entertaining my fellow group tour members in Morocco with this durable trope. None of the old married guys weren't doing the math.

 

Problem with going too young:

 

The ball sack problem. How long can they look at that low-hanging wrinkled mess and talk themselves out of being yucked? My guess: about 6 months. No wait, really more like 3.

 

Possible solution:

 

Blindfold them when they're down there; maybe dress it up with a bit of 50 Shades of Grey-nonsense. Or get a ball sack nip and tuck.

 

A fellow oldie? She has no choice but to be grateful for that saggy prune stuffed with 2 raisins. Still no day at the beach for her, tho.

 

My (American) wife is 11 years younger. A few years ago, I was looking at Long Term Care Insurance. She said:

 

"Honey, I'M your long term care insurance".

 

Once you go much younger than that, that promise tends to be much less reliable.

[Prubangboy]

On 3/19/2024 at 2:30 PM, FruitPudding said:

 

 

 

If she loses attraction to you, it's not cos of what you look like, its cos of what you have done (or not done) or how you carry yourself. 

 

For this reason men can actually age like wine, whereas women cannot.

Gotta disagree. Across all ages, women swipe right on only the top 20% of men. That means the top 20% of looks, mostly.

 

A good bank book and confident demeanor can only shift your odds a bit, maybe 15%. 

 

Just like there is a looks-threshold below which most men won't go, no matter how kinky or sweet she is, so too do men run out of options if they don't meet most women's looks threshold.

 

The wall is a pathetic revenge fantasy. Jane Fonda can still pull if she wants to. 

[BritManToo]

27 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

The wall is a pathetic revenge fantasy. Jane Fonda can still pull if she wants to. 

That would be in the hopes of grabbing some of her money, I have no desire to grab her.

Shakira at 48 (and with $200M  US net worth) might still have a chance with me though.

[BritManToo]

On 3/21/2024 at 7:01 AM, spidermike007 said:

I'd rather be with an intelligent Thai woman who's not my intellectual equal, but is not argumentative it is not always trying to pick a fight. That's much more fun. If she's younger and prettier all the better.

Not a problem for me as nobody, male or female, is my intellectual equal.

[Prubangboy]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

 

Shakira at 48 (and with $200M  US net worth) might still have a chance with me though.

I def like that we're both members of The Red Pill Church. I'm light-pink, you're fire engine-red. My wife is actually redder than me.

 

Really? You'd prefer Shakira to Jane?

 

In later news, BritManToo revealed that water is wet.