Old age sex, revisited.

[susanlea]

15 minutes ago, Jimjim1 said:

Exactly the point I made about naysayer and negative remarks.

you should be ashamed of yourself at being top of the class for s - -t remarks and having followed you for some time I expected better from you, it just shows how wrong one can be.
 

Just to correct you for your worse than cynical remark when I told my lady that I only had my pension her reply was “ don’t worry I can work ) so be ashamed of yourself.

These women don't have better choices. Western pension is triple the average local wage! But whatever. I wasn't born yesterday. Every weeks guys say their one is different.

[hotandsticky]

3 hours ago, susanlea said:

She wants $

 

 

She will accept £

[Jimjim1]

4 hours ago, susanlea said:

These women don't have better choices. Western pension is triple the average local wage! But whatever. I wasn't born yesterday. Every weeks guys say their one is different.

Obviously one of the many who think they can effectively reply without reading the entire post, what an idiot, the woman I am talking about lives in England and she is not Thai. Dummy.

 

At no time did I say that my lady was different or better than any other, I was merely expressing the point that we can find love at any age and should not give up because of negative thoughts that we cannot, the very point that in your rush to denigrate you missed.

And as for not being born yesterday you have not learned much in your life have you.

 

You should stop digging holes, your stupid distasteful comments are about as useful as a stab in the back.and I have no wish to continue to converse with such low intelligence.

[habuspasha]

I've just turned 83 and find I need more of a kick so I upped cialis from 10 to 20 mg a day which helps.  I might also have to drop finasteride or just take topical version for my hair.  Cialis (tadalafil) is prescribed for both ED and BPH.  May also consider upping testosterone from gel to injections.

 

I have no interest in giving up sex.  Nor does my 42 yr old GF/wife.  Even though her main enjoyment is the multiple orgasms from my cunnilingus.

[ArnieP]

18 minutes ago, habuspasha said:

I've just turned 83 and find I need more of a kick so I upped cialis from 10 to 20 mg a day which helps.  I might also have to drop finasteride or just take topical version for my hair.  Cialis (tadalafil) is prescribed for both ED and BPH.  May also consider upping testosterone from gel to injections.

 

I have no interest in giving up sex.  Nor does my 42 yr old GF/wife.  Even though her main enjoyment is the multiple orgasms from my cunnilingus.

I’ve just read this and now feel sick 😞

[Nick Carter icp]

10 minutes ago, ArnieP said:

I’ve just read this and now feel sick 😞

It will be the last time that I read this thread, that's it for me 

[habuspasha]

What makes you feel sick?  Is it an old guy enjoying life?

[Luuk Chaai]

11 hours ago, Will B Good said:

 

How freaky......been married for 18 years. I'm 68.

 

My wife, who is 26 years younger, has just this minute turned to me and 'sang' I love you........and she recently bought a farm, land and a brand new, three bed house for us to live in....with her money....lucky 'old' me.

 

I'm 69 ..   wife is 48   married 16 years..     bought a car (Honda), built a house on  couple of rai,  still hold hand when walking around, and say I love you

 and the  "Caddy" gets washed and waxed a couple of times a week ..    I love "driving" !  ( proper nutrition and exercise is  key ! )

 

[JimTripper]

I lost most interest in sex around age 52 or so. The desire was still there, but the urge did not last like when I was younger.

 

After a day or two the urge would drop off, in contrast to when I was younger where it would increase with time. This concerned the need for physical release as well, not just the mental desire aspect.

 

I never bothered to do testesterone checkups or all that other stuff guys do. I just put it down to old age. That's what all these changes are basically imo, just aging. I can't fight it and don't really want to throw a bunch of money on treatments for problems that just get worse with time.

[scubascuba3]

15 hours ago, susanlea said:

Do you do it in bedroom or lounge room?

Usually massage shop

[georgegeorgia]

16 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Usually massage shop

Yeah you gotta pay for it .

Does your big belly get in the way ?

[scubascuba3]

1 hour ago, georgegeorgia said:

Yeah you gotta pay for it .

Does your big belly get in the way ?

I'm athletic, no big belly, why would anyone let it get big?

[JimTripper]

1 hour ago, georgegeorgia said:

Yeah you gotta pay for it .

Does your big belly get in the way ?

 

39 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

I'm athletic, no big belly, why would anyone let it get big?

 

He should be getting it for free in that kind of shape. Not to mention the great apartment, lifestyle, exercise routine, etc. Unless of course, there's something else wrong with him. 🤣

[susanlea]

23 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

 

 

He should be getting it for free in that kind of shape. Not to mention the great apartment, lifestyle, exercise routine, etc. Unless of course, there's something else wrong with him. 🤣

That's true. Totally fit handsome guy with perfect diet.

[connda]

My T-levels are actually above normal, morning wood is a daily morning occurrence, and for the most part I don't give a da*m about sex with my 64 year old, post-menopausal wife - too much work.  And even though extracurricular sex is widely available, for the most part I still don't care.  I still enjoy the "form" of a woman's body (I ain't dead yet), but past that I don't really care.  It's a blessing.  I don't like being led around by my dick personally.  It's just "so much" friction and huffing and puffing then <spurt> done.  Really over-rated if you think about it imho. 

[connda]

Oh yeah - I'm early 70s. 
Fyi for you guys who need to take pills to "get it up."  You probably have Arteriosclerosis if your pneumatics can't work property. 
"Oh I'm in great shape!" 
No you're not.  A flaccid willy is trying to tell you something.  You should probably get your heart and vascular system checked out before your November body dies on top of your January hottie.

[scubascuba3]

2 hours ago, JimTripper said:

 

 

He should be getting it for free in that kind of shape. Not to mention the great apartment, lifestyle, exercise routine, etc. Unless of course, there's something else wrong with him. 🤣

The problem with getting it for free, she'll want a relationship, motorbike, car, house, marriage, kids. I used to get it for free sometimes, now i prefer PAYG

[susanlea]

11 hours ago, Jimjim1 said:

Obviously one of the many who think they can effectively reply without reading the entire post, what an idiot, the woman I am talking about lives in England and she is not Thai. Dummy.

 

At no time did I say that my lady was different or better than any other, I was merely expressing the point that we can find love at any age and should not give up because of negative thoughts that we cannot, the very point that in your rush to denigrate you missed.

And as for not being born yesterday you have not learned much in your life have you.

 

You should stop digging holes, your stupid distasteful comments are about as useful as a stab in the back.and I have no wish to continue to converse with such low intelligence.

Your comments are really nasty. I don't know you and couldn't careless about your story. The fact you are so defensive indicates the story has holes in it. Good luck.

[susanlea]

11 hours ago, Jimjim1 said:

And as for not being born yesterday you have not learned much in your life have you.

People who go on the internet and post about some amazing story are usually not telling the full truth. I've never met a 30yo attractive woman who wants to date a 70yo man unless money is involved. But maybe you are the unique story but I seriously doubt it.

[connda]

2 hours ago, susanlea said:

People who go on the internet and post about some amazing story are usually not telling the full truth. I've never met a 30yo attractive woman who wants to date a 70yo man unless money is involved. But maybe you are the unique story but I seriously doubt it.

Exactly.  30, 40, 50 year differences in age?  It's not because the guy's a "hansum man," it's because he has a "hansum bank account." 

😠  "My 30 year old wife loves me!!!"
😁 "I'm $ure $he doe$."

[phetphet]

On 7/18/2024 at 10:03 PM, georgegeorgia said:

Even with exercise,I lift weights everyday and walk upstairs mopping , I still can't get "hard" erection like J did years ago 

 

I even had the P 💉 Shot in Pattaya , didn't work.

I'm thinking of a clinic in Bangkok called the HE clinic that injects  Hydraulic Acid into your penis .

 

Other than that we must change our gender in regards to sexual activity.

Hydraulic Acid? Does that make you go like a jackhammer? 😀

 

Or do you mean Hyaluronic Acid?

[connda]

6 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

I'm athletic, no big belly, why would anyone let it get big?

Age and hormonal changes.  Muscle breaks down, fat content increases, stamina decreases. You can offset it to a point, but eventually age wins.  I was highly athletic up into my 60s and then the inevitable begins to happen, usually starting with injuries which simply no longer healed with the speed they use to. Then your athleticism takes a hit.  At some point you gotta just start developing acceptance.  Being all ripped becomes less important than simply having a solid exercise program and working on quality of life. 

[scubascuba3]

48 minutes ago, connda said:

Age and hormonal changes.  Muscle breaks down, fat content increases, stamina decreases. You can offset it to a point, but eventually age wins.  I was highly athletic up into my 60s and then the inevitable begins to happen, usually starting with injuries which simply no longer healed with the speed they use to. Then your athleticism takes a hit.  At some point you gotta just start developing acceptance.  Being all ripped becomes less important than simply having a solid exercise program and working on quality of life. 

Nothing to do with diet? plenty of slim athletic people in 70s and 80s

[susanlea]

8 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Nothing to do with diet? plenty of slim athletic people in 70s and 80s

Plenty of fat people too. Most people stop caring after a certain age.

[scubascuba3]

6 minutes ago, susanlea said:

Plenty of fat people too. Most people stop caring after a certain age.

Yep and no end of excuses why they're fat, when in most cases it's down to them

[susanlea]

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

Yep and no end of excuses why they're fat, when in most cases it's down to them

Some of them might be happy. Today when I was exercising I was told by a really fat guy that I should be drinking beer instead.

[scubascuba3]

1 hour ago, susanlea said:

Some of them might be happy. Today when I was exercising I was told by a really fat guy that I should be drinking beer instead.

Most of them are probably happy until they start getting sick because of their weight

[StreetCowboy]

On 7/18/2024 at 11:18 PM, georgegeorgia said:

When I see older mature age guys and please we must be politically correct and use the proper terms as to not offend....but seeing mature age guys who are picking up ladyboys in Pattaya or even turned gay because they couldn't no longer get a erection in my view is.... heartbreaking 😭😭

Is that why blokes like ladyboys?  
Are they an effective mitigation for brewer’s droop?

 

Thanks for the advice, but for the time being I think I’ll struggle on as I am, but bear it in mind for the future.

[JimTripper]

41 minutes ago, StreetCowboy said:

Is that why blokes like ladyboys?  
Are they an effective mitigation for brewer’s droop?

 

Thanks for the advice, but for the time being I think I’ll struggle on as I am, but bear it in mind for the future.

Some guys like ladyboys or guys because at least one party has an erection for penetration. If it's just a flacid guy and a woman neither can penetrate. Some take it a step further and watch while a female partner is penetrated. The flacid guy "lives" the episode vicariously, often pleasuring himself, just like it was him with the female partner. The woman turns her attention to the flacid guy and uses the third party as a "tool" so to speak. The guy can wear a mask or costume that creates a curtain of privacy for the actors that are not physically penetrating or being penetrated by the partner they are interested in.

 

Let me know if you need more clarification.

 

6 hours ago, phetphet said:

Hydraulic Acid? Does that make you go like a jackhammer? 😀

 

Or do you mean Hyaluronic Acid?

He meant hydrochloric acid.

[save the frogs]

2 hours ago, JimTripper said:

Let me know if you need more clarification.

yeah jim, you're really up on the freak sh*t.