9 hours ago, MangoKorat said:

You think? were you with them 24 hours per day?  I know (knew) a married woman that used to meet a guy during her lunchbreaks from work.

 

When I questioned my ex as to why she needed to play around so much she said she wanted to try others - how would she know she had the best if she never tried 😁.

Did you have a fake girlfriend? i.e. paying her? if so it's not surprising she played away

8 hours ago, Hummin said:

As a privileged man, I can restart, how easy is it for a woman soon 40 years old to restart with a new man, or risk our marriage for a fling? 

 

I must be a retard and a very bad husband if she choose to leave me, or choosed me based on the wrong premises.

 

I want her to be happy, with me or without me, since I really do not want a miserable unhappy wife.

 

A vise man said once Happy wife, happy life 

 

I'm not sure a wise a man said that.

 

One thing that is true though men can restart. However, generally it is far harder for a man, because if you , as an older man I assume over 50, want to find a good woman, that is attractive, reaches the parts psychologically that you want them to reach, has the character traits you need, well, it really is inordinately difficult.

 

A woman in the age range 18-24 generally has it considerably easier to attract a man, though of course it is not easy for her either because she wants a man with the most resources, status, certain character traits too.

 

That is why each time when two partners have found each other and one of them breaks it off merely to experience short term excitement it is such a tragedy, since that relationship, which had a chance, has to come to an end.

 

We all want our women to be happy really, however, it is not always obvious what makes them unhappy. I'll give you an example after a breakup a girl once told me she did not appreciate pushing a trolley in a supermarket. She was such a superstar in her mind that the act of pushing a trolley in a supermarket made her feel like a servant and was unacceptable. So you are virtually guaranteed to make a woman unhappy, because beautiful women are insane. All their life they were lied to so men can sleep with them.

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'm not sure a wise a man said that.

 

One thing that is true though men can restart. However, generally it is far harder for a man, because if you , as an older man I assume over 50, want to find a good woman, that is attractive, reaches the parts psychologically that you want them to reach, has the character traits you need, well, it really is inordinately difficult.

 

A woman in the age range 18-24 generally has it considerably easier to attract a man, though of course it is not easy for her either because she wants a man with the most resources, status, certain character traits too.

 

That is why each time when two partners have found each other and one of them breaks it off merely to experience short term excitement it is such a tragedy, since that relationship, which had a chance, has to come to an end.

 

We all want our women to be happy really, however, it is not always obvious what makes them unhappy. I'll give you an example after a breakup a girl once told me she did not appreciate pushing a trolley in a supermarket. She was such a superstar in her mind that the act of pushing a trolley in a supermarket made her feel like a servant and was unacceptable. So you are virtually guaranteed to make a woman unhappy, because beautiful women are insane. All their life they were lied to so men can sleep with them.

 

 

I really do not see the same problems as you, and never experienced any "high so" women who was not able or willing to push her trolley when shopping 😂

 

But I give you one right, and that's why I never aim for, or fall for someone who are,  or think they are the gift to humanity and men, knowing she is above average. 

 

There is a fair chance you come short if you are not  especially gifted yourself. 

 

You see it in every tourist destination, older men hand in hand with their dream women, at least by first look. 

 

If I restart, my new lady will be in same ex range as my wife now. I would not go back to younger women.

 

 

 

 

On 10/14/2024 at 10:38 PM, still kicking said:

Butter is not healthy 

 

 

Butter: If consumed in moderation, especially from grass-fed sources, is a good choice for those who prefer natural products and can tolerate saturated fats.

how loyal and trustworthy are attractive Thai girls aged 18 to 32?

 

 

About the same as western girls of that age.

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

I really do not see the same problems as you, and never experienced any "high so" women who was not able or willing to push her trolley when shopping 😂

That would be because a real hi so woman would never do her own shopping. That's what the slaves servants are for.

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

 

 

I really do not see the same problems as you, and never experienced any "high so" women who was not able or willing to push her trolley when shopping 😂

 

But I give you one right, and that's why I never aim for, or fall for someone who are,  or think they are the gift to humanity and men, knowing she is above average. 

 

There is a fair chance you come short if you are not  especially gifted yourself. 

 

You see it in every tourist destination, older men hand in hand with their dream women, at least by first look. 

 

If I restart, my new lady will be in same ex range as my wife now. I would not go back to younger women.

 

 

 

 

 

I know, I couldn't believe it either, she thought the very act of pushing a shopping trolley was beneath her. Made her feel like a servant. In the supermarket she'd always insist I push the trolley. When I told her she do it, she'd disappear on her own thing exploring, then get mad when I told her  to stay close to me. The problem is exceptionally beautiful women are insane, because all their life men told them what they want to hear, did what they wanted, because they wanted to bang them. It is impossible for her not to know she is above average in attraction if she really is, because men act in a certain way towards her.

 

This notion that you have to be especially gifted yourself, I supppose the counter arguments are Johnny Deep, Cary Grant, Elvis Presley, the list of exceptionally gifted and exceptionally handsome, rich and famous men who were left by their spouse is endless. I don't think being especially gifted, handsome, rich, famous etc is even a protection against a woman cheating. 

 

And then in turn people like Andrew Tate and some serial killers have women stick by them through trials and tribulations. It's an enigma wrapped in a riddle.

 

By the way, statistics claim that older women cheat more than younger women.

 

 

17 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

That would be because a real hi so woman would never do her own shopping. That's what the slaves servants are for.

 

No it wasn't. She was not a "hi so woman". She  was 24  year old university student from Isan. just exceptionally, and I do mean very exceptionally, hot.

23 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

This notion that you have to be especially gifted yourself, I supppose the counter arguments are Johnny Deep, Cary Grant, Elvis Presley,

 

 

Great examples of 3 men who truly got what they deserved, and Im surprised you not for one second see your examples is the problem themselves and had it coming. 

 

Easier to blaim the women and not take a good look at yourself. 

45 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

That would be because a real hi so woman would never do her own shopping. That's what the slaves servants are for.

I really do not know what world you living in, but, High so people do shopping, cooking, and also do things around their own houses. Very few wannabees disconnects from the real world 

21 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Great examples of 3 men who truly got what they deserved, and Im surprised you not for one second see your examples is the problem themselves and had it coming. 

 

Easier to blaim the women and not take a good look at yourself. 

 

The woman is the one who chose to cheat, so clearly she is to blame.

 

If the spouses of the men did not like something, they could have raised it, left the relationship. Nobody was forcing them to stay in the relationship and then cheat.

The real kicker, btw, is that those women then cheat with unattractive men, who are nowhere near "gifted" in looks or money or anything like this.

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

The woman is the one who chose to cheat, so clearly she is to blame.

 

If the spouses of the men did not like something, they could have raised it, left the relationship. Nobody was forcing them to stay in the relationship and then cheat.

And you are not to blaim for your choosing of a 24 year old lady, and you are how old? Girls just wanna have fun you know? Some more than others, 

6 minutes ago, Hummin said:

And you are not to blaim for your choosing of a 24 year old lady, and you are how old? Girls just wanna have fun you know? Some more than others, 

 

Well, certainly I do raise my risk, knowingly, as women in their 20s are known to want to "explore their options", I accept that. And choosing exceptionally beautiful women aggravates that.

 

I'm 53. So  I understand the risk.

 

Nevertheless, a relationship has to be built on trust, honesty and reliability. If a girl does not have those qualities, then my feeling is I am better off without them.

 

And  there is no more malicious betrayal of trust than cheating. It is always accompanied by endless lies. If it happens, better she is thrown out.

 

I am to blame for my 24 gf cheating? No. I am not. I was loyal to her. I took her to the very best restaurants, exceptional in the bedroom, took her to all the amazing markets and events all the exciting stuff that is happening. I was very kind to her 90% of the time.

 

I do not feel like I am to blame for her cheating, she chose to cheat purely for excitement and thrills. With an unattractive man btw.

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, certainly I do raise my risk, knowingly, as women in their 20s are known to want to "explore their options", I accept that. And choosing exceptionally beautiful women aggravates that.

 

I'm 53. So  I understand the risk.

 

Nevertheless, a relationship has to built on trust, honesty and reliability. If a girl does not have those qualities, then my feeling is I am better off without them.

 

And  there is no more malicious betrayal of trust than cheating. It is always accompanied by endless lies. If it happens, better she is thrown out.

You say the obvious things about what to do, or how to handle lies and cheating, but it is kind of odd to let what can happen, control your days and the way of thinking of relationships. 

 

When you choose a lady, you obviously make choices that makes you think to much, and I suspect you only search for the sex when it comes to women, and not what makes you a bit more confident and a better half that makes you a better man. 

 

You seems to be to insecure to handle a relationship. I seek someone who can be my partner for life, not a sex machine, and to be true, we have built a relationship we both care for, and to be true, sex life is better now, than when we first met. I wasn't even in love with her when we first met and I left without thinking we would meet again, but still something stick with me, and we met when I came back, and from there to now it have been a great journey so far. 

 

Edit note, we where not even intim with each other  the first two weeks we meet before I left, and I think thats maybe the key, we established a contact without starting in the wrong end before we got to know each other.

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

You say the obvious things about what to do or how to handle lies and cheating, but it is kind of odd to let what can happen control your days and the way of thinking of relationships. 

 

When you choose a lady, you obvously make choices that makes you think to much, and I suspect you to only search for the visual og the sex when it comes to women, and not what makes you a bit more confident and a better half that makes you a better man. 

 

You seems to be to insecure to handle a relationship. I seek someone who can be my partner for life, not a sex machine, and to be true, we have built a relationship we both care for, and to be true, sex life is better now, than when we first met. I wasnt even in love with her when we first met, and I left, but still something stick with me, and me met when I came back, and from there to now it have been a great journey so far. 

 

Well, that sounds wonderful, congratulations. However, I too look for a partner for life not a "sex machine".  Maybe I am extra particular about looks, but I understand these young girls will not be great at sex, and I fully accept I have to teach them how to please in that arena.

 

Like you, I was not in love with this 24 year old initially, I just allowed things to happen and I know love can develop later. Of course after a year  you are very used to her, so the cheating affects you, but was I crazy in love, absolutely not. I was not concerned about that.

 

Nor does infidelity "control my days", I go about my day like I normally do. It's just an interesting problem. I think everyone is insecure in relationships. Because you have to give your trust to someone, and that means they can violate it. Of course that is a risk. The difference between you and me is that you perhaps were just lucky you rolled the dice and did not end up with a woman who did that ,is that the case? You were never cheated on?

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

The difference between you and me is that you perhaps were just lucky you rolled the dice and did not end up with a woman who did that ,is that the case? You were never cheated on?

I had a few who cheated on me, but I realised it was as much me as it was them, so? 

 

I have been travelling for work and sports, and it is hard to keep a healthy relationship when you are not there. I also had a few great relationships where I have been there for them, and also even I was not there in person, we managed to build trust between us, but we ended up as friends or we had different goals in life and we seperated. 

 

I was also young and stupid once, 

5 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I had a few who cheated on me, but I realised it was as much me as it was them, so? 

 

So what. Exactly. Whilst a partner that cheats, a separation is very painful, so what. Pain is a part of life, and we can use it to forge the understanding we have. It is just something all of us go through.

 

So if this pain happens, it is not just a bad thing, it is also a good thing. You  can train yourself to handle this pain.

11 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Did you have a fake girlfriend? i.e. paying her? if so it's not surprising she played away

I never paid her a penny and it was her that came on to me - not that I was complaining.

It depends on the motive of the woman and her attraction level to the man. Also 30-32 is different to 18-25. A Thai woman in her 30's, even a fairly attractive one, will often just be happy to have a partner that is half decent. An attractive woman 18-25 has a lot of choice. If you're not a local badboy or foreign stud from Korea or Europe, or something like that, then she probably is not going to get all in her feelings about you. You will a sugar daddy, if she even bothers with you at all, so unlikely to be any loyalty there.

 

Guys should stick to getting a woman where there is genuine attraction, or just accept they are sugar daddying. The problems occur when a guy muddles the field between a sugar a daddy and romance. 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

So what. Exactly. Whilst a partner that cheats, a separation is very painful, so what. Pain is a part of life, and we can use it to forge the understanding we have. It is just something all of us go through.

 

So if this pain happens, it is not just a bad thing, it is also a good thing. You  can train yourself to handle this pain.

Who is giving you pain? Other people or your expectations of them when they fail your standards? 

 

For some relationships is a game, and a game equal for men and women, where there is mote than one option. We get hurt when we go all in before both parts truly commits. 

 

A cheating woman or man, is useally someone who have been cheated on, or are afraid someone going to cheat on them, 

 

Had a gf who constantly addressed me as a potential cheater, and guess what? She cheated on me 😂

 

Anyway, I will never give up relationships just because something can happen. I thrive in coexistence with another female, and willing to walk the extra mile to make sure it is a equal and healthy one without to much problems and hassle.

 

Toxic relationships is not worth it tho, so if there is any obvious red flags and not just imagination and being paranoid, get out of it. It might hurt for awhile, but the pain will ease off. After all we are grown ups? 

Lets put this in perspective - I know of a young girl (22) at the moment who is 'bang at it' and she sees nothing wrong with it (in her case I do but I'll come to that later).

 

She is currently on a well known 'Thai 'dating site that is very 'Friendly'.

 

In the past 2 weeks she's been dating/sleeping with:

 

Her ex boyfriend from Canada (over 50).

(She was thinking of getting back with him because he provided her with a good lifestyle which she's missing ($$$) but she can't accept the fact that he's been seeing  someone else whilst they were apart)

 

A guy who she describes as 'White Hair Man' who lives in the Sukhumvit area (over 50).

(She's not too happy with this one because he got angry because she's still on the dating site - not that unhappy though as she's seeing him twice per week)

 

A guy from New Zealand (37) who she says is just a friend but she sleeps with him anyway.

(This guy wants more from her but she doesn't want a relationship)

 

A guy who lives in Khlong San and took her to The Penninsula for lunch.

(Another one who wanted her to himself - she didn't)

 

A young guy 26) from Poland who has just arrived to work in Thailand.

(She spent the entire first night with this guy - because she liked him. She told me she was really going to try with him because he was young and good looking. Apparently though when she asked about meeting again he seemed to be busy quite often - she doesn't like that.

 

The latest is 'Tim' from the USA (over 50) who hasn't met her yet (arriving soon) but he's sent her flowers, a Teddy Bear and so far, 18,000 baht.  If you're reading this Tim - for christ's sake wake up!

 

She sees nothing wrong in what she's doing and in some ways- there isn't anything wrong with it - she tells them all that she doesn't want a boyfriend (apart from the ex who's 'payroll' she'd have glady been back on if she hadn't learned he'd been seeing someone else whilst they were apart). She admitted though, that even if they made up, she would not have been faithfull to him - she's enjoying herself too much.

 

What is wrong with it is that although she wants to be able to meet other guys - the guys she's seeing cannot. If there's 'sniff' of another woman around, she dumps them.  I put it to her that she was incredibly selfish and she just said 'I know'. She says that she has to be the absolute focus of the guy's attention - she even gets jealous if they have kids. She wasn't too happy when I told her that a hell of a lot of guys that live in Bangkok, inculding the ones she's seeing (especially in Sukhumvit) see/sleep with several girls regularly - jeez its Thailand!!!

 

She also says she's not a freelancer and that she hates them - she wasn't too happy when I suggested that she wasn't much different. The Yank has sent her 18K and most of the others give her 'taxi money'. 

 

This girl has just turned 22 and the above took place over just 2 weeks - there may be more that she hasn't told me about.....................I blame the dating sites 😁😁😁.

 

Am I seeing her?  She refused because I told her I see other girls. I also told her that no matter how nice these guys were to her, they just wanted to get into her pants - well, what else is a 50+ year old going to have in common with a kid? (I don't think she liked that).  The Yank is the craziest in my opinion - if you know 'Tim' please tell him you don't need to do all that - real freelancers are around 2-3000 and you can change horses whenever you want.

 

Whatever this girl thinks of herself, she's not much different to a hooker and she certainly has some sort of personality disorder.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

To handsome men aged 18-32, very loyal. 

7 minutes ago, MangoKorat said:

Lets put this in perspective - I know of a young girl (22) at the moment who is 'bang at it' and she sees nothing wrong with it (in her case I do but I'll come to that later).

 

She is currently on a well known 'Thai 'dating site that is very 'Friendly'.

 

In the past 2 weeks she's been dating/sleeping with:

 

Her ex boyfriend from Canada (over 50).

(She was thinking of getting back with him because he provided her with a good lifestyle which she's missing ($$$) but she can't accept the fact that he's been seeing  someone else whilst they were apart)

 

A guy who she describes as 'White Hair Man' who lives in the Sukhumvit area (over 50).

(She's not too happy with this one because he got angry because she's still on the dating site - not that unhappy though as she's seeing him twice per week)

 

A guy from New Zealand (37) who she says is just a friend but she sleeps with him anyway.

(This guy wants more from her but she doesn't want a relationship)

 

A guy who lives in Khlong San and took her to The Penninsula for lunch.

(Another one who wanted her to himself - she didn't)

 

A young guy 26) from Poland who has just arrived to work in Thailand.

(She spent the entire first night with this guy - because she liked him. She told me she was really going to try with him because he was young and good looking. Apparently though when she asked about meeting again he seemed to be busy quite often - she doesn't like that.

 

The latest is 'Tim' from the USA (over 50) who hasn't met her yet (arriving soon) but he's sent her flowers, a Teddy Bear and so far, 18,000 baht.  If you're reading this Tim - for christ's sake wake up!

 

She sees nothing wrong in what she's doing and in some ways- there isn't anything wrong with it - she tells them all that she doesn't want a boyfriend (apart from the ex who's 'payroll' she'd have glady been back on if she hadn't learned he'd been seeing someone else whilst they were apart). She admitted though, that even if they made up, she would not have been faithfull to him - she's enjoying herself too much.

 

What is wrong with it is that although she wants to be able to meet other guys - the guys she's seeing cannot. If there's 'sniff' of another woman around, she dumps them.  I put it to her that she was incredibly selfish and she just said 'I know'. She says that she has to be the absolute focus of the guy's attention - she even gets jealous if they have kids. She wasn't too happy when I told her that a hell of a lot of guys that live in Bangkok, inculding the ones she's seeing (especially in Sukhumvit) see/sleep with several girls regularly - jeez its Thailand!!!

 

She also says she's not a freelancer and that she hates them - she wasn't too happy when I suggested that she wasn't much different. The Yank has sent her 18K and most of the others give her 'taxi money'. 

 

This girl has just turned 22 and the above took place over just 2 weeks - there may be more that she hasn't told me about.....................I blame the dating sites 😁😁😁.

 

Am I seeing her?  She refused because I told her I see other girls. I also told her that no matter how nice these guys were to her, they just wanted to get into her pants - well, what else is a 50+ year old going to have in common with a kid? (I don't think she liked that).  The Yank is the craziest in my opinion - if you know 'Tim' please tell him you don't need to do all that - real freelancers are around 2-3000 and you can change horses whenever you want.

 

Whatever this girl thinks of herself, she's not much different to a hooker and she certainly has some sort of personality disorder.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Do you know what hypocrite means......try reading your post again.....see if you can spot anything slightly hypocritical. 

24 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Do you know what hypocrite means......try reading your post again.....see if you can spot anything slightly hypocritical. 

Eh???

 

I don't think its me that needs to read the post again.

9 minutes ago, MangoKorat said:

Eh???

 

I don't think its me that needs to read the post again.

 

 

Why does that not surprise me?

 

 

1 hour ago, kevozman1 said:

It depends on the motive of the woman and her attraction level to the man. Also 30-32 is different to 18-25. A Thai woman in her 30's, even a fairly attractive one, will often just be happy to have a partner that is half decent. An attractive woman 18-25 has a lot of choice. If you're not a local badboy or foreign stud from Korea or Europe, or something like that, then she probably is not going to get all in her feelings about you. You will a sugar daddy, if she even bothers with you at all, so unlikely to be any loyalty there.

 

Guys should stick to getting a woman where there is genuine attraction, or just accept they are sugar daddying. The problems occur when a guy muddles the field between a sugar a daddy and romance. 

 

It's really a case by case scenario with thousands of possibilities, a woman can cheat for a long list of motives, some related to the man, others not at all.

 

Whilst of course those women who want kids and a family try to settle down around age 31 to 32 at the latest, usually earlier, this also is not an ironclad rule. The statistics, in any event, say that older women cheat more than younger women.

 

In terms of Korea and Europe, what surprises me is how clueless Thais and Filipinas are, Romanians, Ukrainians, Albanians, Russians, all these Balkan and East Europeans are top quality white males to them, but I've seen young girls in their twenties choosing black guys and all kinds. They're not exactly clued in what a top shelf male is.

 

Of course the female's own sense of self esteem is a huge factor, if she was treated very poorly by her family she may well have low self esteem, despite being attractive, and even in her 20s will be loyal to one man. However, the same problem, low self esteem can also go the other way, that she over compensates and thinks she's too good for everyone, but jumps from low quality male to low quality male.

 

It's hard to make iron clad rules in this area.

 

Normally speaking if you do things right, within 6 weeks she should be in love with you, but there are girls who are not capable of love in the sense of open affection due to childhood issues. As a man you assume if she comes to be with you then she is attracted to you, if she has sex with you and enjoys it. I purposely avoid to give huge amounts of money now to avoid any notion of "sugar daddy".

 

Of course geniuine attraction is the ideal, but we are men, we will bed any woman that offers the opportunity almost. If you notice that genuine attraction is not there, it is indeed better to break it off.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

but I've seen young girls in their twenties choosing black guys and all kinds

 

OMG

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

Who is giving you pain? Other people or your expectations of them when they fail your standards? 

 

For some relationships is a game, and a game equal for men and women, where there is mote than one option. We get hurt when we go all in before both parts truly commits. 

 

A cheating woman or man, is useally someone who have been cheated on, or are afraid someone going to cheat on them, 

 

Had a gf who constantly addressed me as a potential cheater, and guess what? She cheated on me 😂

 

Anyway, I will never give up relationships just because something can happen. I thrive in coexistence with another female, and willing to walk the extra mile to make sure it is a equal and healthy one without to much problems and hassle.

 

Toxic relationships is not worth it tho, so if there is any obvious red flags and not just imagination and being paranoid, get out of it. It might hurt for awhile, but the pain will ease off. After all we are grown ups? 

 

Such a deep and philosophical question. It's both really, isn't it? You can rightly expect your current partner stays loyal to you. That's a fair expectation. If that is not met by her cheating, she is the one causing the pain, but yes, it is also our attachment to a common standard, fidelity, that plays a part.

 

Yes, for girls in particualr relationships can be games, they want to see how much they can get, how far the wonderland goes. This is another reason why a man should hold back on his feelings until he is certain of the girl's commitment. However, it is hard to be certain, I had a girl move in with me, sleep with me, make me breakfast, make an effort to remind me of work deadlines, do dishes, play with my 7 year old daughter, give <deleted> out of herself, you would have thought this girl is all in after one year. But no, she cheated. 

 

Same here, the  juice is worth the squeeze, the pleasure a woman can give, I don't just mean sex, is something no man wants to live without. And if it means going through the valley of pain, then off we go.

1 hour ago, MangoKorat said:

Lets put this in perspective - I know of a young girl (22) at the moment who is 'bang at it' and she sees nothing wrong with it (in her case I do but I'll come to that later).

 

She is currently on a well known 'Thai 'dating site that is very 'Friendly'.

 

In the past 2 weeks she's been dating/sleeping with:

 

Her ex boyfriend from Canada (over 50).

(She was thinking of getting back with him because he provided her with a good lifestyle which she's missing ($$$) but she can't accept the fact that he's been seeing  someone else whilst they were apart)

 

A guy who she describes as 'White Hair Man' who lives in the Sukhumvit area (over 50).

(She's not too happy with this one because he got angry because she's still on the dating site - not that unhappy though as she's seeing him twice per week)

 

A guy from New Zealand (37) who she says is just a friend but she sleeps with him anyway.

(This guy wants more from her but she doesn't want a relationship)

 

A guy who lives in Khlong San and took her to The Penninsula for lunch.

(Another one who wanted her to himself - she didn't)

 

A young guy 26) from Poland who has just arrived to work in Thailand.

(She spent the entire first night with this guy - because she liked him. She told me she was really going to try with him because he was young and good looking. Apparently though when she asked about meeting again he seemed to be busy quite often - she doesn't like that.

 

The latest is 'Tim' from the USA (over 50) who hasn't met her yet (arriving soon) but he's sent her flowers, a Teddy Bear and so far, 18,000 baht.  If you're reading this Tim - for christ's sake wake up!

 

She sees nothing wrong in what she's doing and in some ways- there isn't anything wrong with it - she tells them all that she doesn't want a boyfriend (apart from the ex who's 'payroll' she'd have glady been back on if she hadn't learned he'd been seeing someone else whilst they were apart). She admitted though, that even if they made up, she would not have been faithfull to him - she's enjoying herself too much.

 

What is wrong with it is that although she wants to be able to meet other guys - the guys she's seeing cannot. If there's 'sniff' of another woman around, she dumps them.  I put it to her that she was incredibly selfish and she just said 'I know'. She says that she has to be the absolute focus of the guy's attention - she even gets jealous if they have kids. She wasn't too happy when I told her that a hell of a lot of guys that live in Bangkok, inculding the ones she's seeing (especially in Sukhumvit) see/sleep with several girls regularly - jeez its Thailand!!!

 

She also says she's not a freelancer and that she hates them - she wasn't too happy when I suggested that she wasn't much different. The Yank has sent her 18K and most of the others give her 'taxi money'. 

 

This girl has just turned 22 and the above took place over just 2 weeks - there may be more that she hasn't told me about.....................I blame the dating sites 😁😁😁.

 

Am I seeing her?  She refused because I told her I see other girls. I also told her that no matter how nice these guys were to her, they just wanted to get into her pants - well, what else is a 50+ year old going to have in common with a kid? (I don't think she liked that).  The Yank is the craziest in my opinion - if you know 'Tim' please tell him you don't need to do all that - real freelancers are around 2-3000 and you can change horses whenever you want.

 

Whatever this girl thinks of herself, she's not much different to a hooker and she certainly has some sort of personality disorder.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Another horrific story. This one is really bad though, that woman is an out and out whore. There is a lot wrong with what she's doing, she is taking money from guys by lying to them and giving them hope that she'll be their girl.

 

Of course you can bang her, but no man in his right mind would want a relationship with her. The problem is she'll lie to all of them she's had 2 boyfriends and will love them long time. They won't know what she's really like. How did you find out?  Qute a feat.