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2 minutes ago, Alpha84 said:


Why not just have the big handed LB rub the gel on your shoulders for you? Or did you try that and it didn't work?

Honestly, I went to Bangkok Hospital anti age center and got proper help after I had back problems and nerve damages with low vitamin D, T,  and severe depression. Managed to turn it all around and back in business.

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2 minutes ago, Olmate said:

Got that 100% right, monthly visit to an expert mature age massage shop owner near me is more than ample! She  somehow seems to know when that 'touch up' is needed too!! 


Only the finest pleasures in life, aye?

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13 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Honestly, I went to Bangkok Hospital anti age center and got proper help after I had back problems and nerve damages with low vitamin D, T,  and severe depression. Managed to turn it all around and back in business.


You've lost me now. So where does the big handed LB fit into all this?

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5 minutes ago, Alpha84 said:


You've lost me now. So where does the big handed LB fit into all this?

Bur I have to admit I have experienced a few prostate massages throughout my life, and I can recomend if you dare, but not necessarily from a ladyboy with big hands. 

 

All mine was my kinky gf's 

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7 hours ago, 123Stodg said:

Well, let’s just cut to the chase—getting older isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. There’s the inevitable grey hair, the mysterious aches and pains, and, let’s face it, some truly annoying changes on the “personal health” front. I’m talking about a certain lack of enthusiasm below the belt. Once you hit 50, it’s like a switch flips, and suddenly your body decides it’s gonna make things more difficult in the bedroom. For most of my life, I didn’t give a second thought to, let’s call it, “rising to the occasion.” But now? Let’s just say that even when I’m mentally ready, my body’s got other plans.

 

I’ve tried every “natural” suggestion out there—believe me, I’ve done my research. Eating clean, quitting caffeine, working out regularly. They say “get more sleep,” but try telling that to the never-ending to-do list waiting every morning. I’ve loaded up on leafy greens, upped my water intake, and even swapped out some old habits for new, healthier ones. I’ve even gotten into meditation, trying to manage stress levels. But when it comes down to it, no matter how many vegetables I eat or how many squats I do, the problem persists.

 

And let’s talk about supplements. I’ve probably spent a small fortune on everything from ginseng to maca root, L-arginine to zinc. If it’s sold as a “natural” performance booster, it’s probably sitting somewhere in my drawer right now. But here’s the reality: it’s just not working. I’ve tried powders, pills, smoothies, and shakes—anything that promised even a glimmer of hope. All I got was stack full of bottles and a lingering sense of defeat.

 

Now, being in Thailand, let’s just say there’s no shortage of… commercial options. I’ve tried visiting a few of the top spots and, let’s be real, the experience is enough to leave anyone starry-eyed. Even had a go with a few young, eager hands-on assistants who are pretty dedicated to the “art” of service, and, yes, sometimes with more than one helping at a time. But here’s the thing—even with all that charm, dedication, and sheer effort in the mix, the results haven’t exactly changed much. Sure, it’s enjoyable and exciting, but my body just isn’t playing along the way it used to. If anything, it only adds to the frustration, knowing the mind’s all there, but the engine just won’t fire up like it once did.

 

Of course, there’s always the pharmaceutical route. But the idea of taking potentially risky meds doesn’t sit well with me. We’ve all seen the lists of side effects, and they’re no joke: headaches, dizziness, stomach issues and other health risks in general. Not exactly the kind of excitement I’m looking to add to my day. And, let’s be real—once you start down that path, is there any going back? I don’t want to be dependent on a prescription just to function normally, let alone to feel more confident.

 

So here I am, wondering if there’s some magic solution I haven’t stumbled across yet or if I just have to accept this as part of the new normal. It’s humbling, no doubt. And it’s frustrating beyond belief. But I’m also hoping there’s someone out there with some real advice—because, at this point, I’ll take any tips that don’t involve side effects or miracle powders. Hoping there are other people out there with wisdom who are on the same page.

Find yourself a ladyboy and wear your co-pilots cap 👍🏼

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5 hours ago, RSD1 said:

 

 

Ah yes, the classic “mind over matter” approach to physiology—because that’s definitely cracked the code for every guy facing midlife challenges! And Yohimbe bark? Nothing like a bit of mystery bark to tackle complex biology. Gotta love some solid bro science advice!

 

I can see from your reactions on this thread, that you are suffering from a similar issue. The frustration is coming through load and clear.

For *mind over matter* to work, you need to have a properly functioning mind, so that's out for you. So try Yohimbe bark. You'll need to do your own research to find out if it's suitable for you.

 

*Mind over matter* can be a way to reverse bad habits and to get your body functioning to the best of it's ability. But many people are locked in a downward spiral and are unable to 'imagine' their way out of it.

 

 

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11 hours ago, 123Stodg said:

I’m talking about a certain lack of enthusiasm below the belt. Once you hit 50, it’s like a switch flips, and suddenly your body decides it’s gonna make things more difficult in the bedroom. For most of my life, I didn’t give a second thought to, let’s call it, “rising to the occasion.” But now? Let’s just say that even when I’m mentally ready, my body’s got other plans.

 

There is a big difference between not being so horny anymore, and not being able to perform.

I am not as horny as I was when I was younger, and I think overall that is good news. Many years ago, very horny, I needed to find some girl for the night. And more than one time I found one which did the job, but I wouldn't exactly introduce her to my friends.

Now, if I see a sexy girl and I get horny, fine, let's do it.

And if I don't see any girl like that, then it's also no problem. Let's go to sleep, fine.

 

And I think the performance depends a lot on what's on offer. I am sure with many ugly women I would not be able to perform. No problem, I don't want to f#$# ugly women.

Pretty cute girls still make me horny and the performance with the right girl is just fine.

 

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4 hours ago, Alpha84 said:


It can actually happen at any age.

Happens, yes, no doubt ...

... but surely not normal, and something is causing.

 

OP doesn't offer much info.  Past relationship, or present 'type' of relationship/encounters.   

 

Just a thought, using myself, but a good part of the 'excitement' is the challenge of meeting like minded, verbal & visual engagement and anticipation of, well before any sex.

 

If op is simply a P4P customer, that wouldn't work for me either, especially if just ST or happy massages .... BORING in my world.

 

Did have a week long rental on first visit to TH, and that was fun.  But can't see the excitement in ... 'Hi ... how much ... OK ... bye'   .... BORING 

 

Wouldn't do much foe me either, not worth the lack of effort or cost :coffee1:

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6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

A lot of men have boobs, so there's an option for you.

 

Perhaps you should stop looking at man boobs. They already wrote that they don't like men.

Some concerns about men who frequent the gym....

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Just now, NowNow said:

 

Perhaps you should stop looking at man boobs. They already wrote that they don't like men.

Some concerns about men who frequent the gym....

Trolling again I see. Perhaps you should leave the forums because you either are only here to argue or make a fool of yourself, assuming like a teenager that you know anyone here.

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Just now, fredwiggy said:

Trolling again I see. Perhaps you should leave the forums because you either are only here to argue or make a fool of yourself, assuming like a teenager that you know anyone here.

 

Is there a mirror in your home, Troll?

13 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

A lot of men have boobs, so there's an option for you.

 

 

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6 hours ago, RSD1 said:

Ah yes, the classic “mind over matter” approach to physiology—because that’s definitely cracked the code for every guy facing midlife challenges! And Yohimbe bark? Nothing like a bit of mystery bark to tackle complex biology. Gotta love some solid bro science advice!

I always found cocoa powder worked well, banana and cocoa smoothie every morning.

This was when I was a bit ill a few years back, don't need it now.

 

Not expensive,

https://www.lazada.co.th/shop/ccspecialist

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3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Yes, just as there are mirrors in millions of other homes. The hole's getting deeper. Funny how you stick up for one who's also a known troll. Birds of a feather.

 

"stick up for" 😊 Who is the teenager here?

Didn't your parents teach you that two wrongs don't make it right? So now you are blaming someone else for your bad behaviour. Take responsibility for your own actions, little one.

Do unto others....or do you follow only when it's convenient?

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Just now, NowNow said:

 

"stick up for" 😊 Who is the teenager here?

Didn't your parents teach you that two wrongs don't make it right? So now you are blaming someone else for your bad behaviour. Take responsibility for your own actions, little one.

Do unto others....or do you follow only when it's convenient?

You went right after me when I made a joke about what MalcolmB said. A joke, as many do here when someone posts something ridiculous or funny. Then you post..........."

Perhaps you should stop looking at man boobs. They already wrote that they don't like men.

Some concerns about men who frequent the gym....", thinking I'm looking at man boobs because I made a joke about it. They, meaning MalcolmB, said he didn't like men, but it again, was just a joke, so in effect, you are sticking up for him and trolling, again, me,because I'm always proving you the fool and you just have to keep coming back with childish retorts............."Some concerns about men who frequent the gym."...........  You have concerns about men who go to gyms, maybe thinking we are gay? You are about as ill informed and ignorant as any person I've ever run across, and too dense to see how you look, or again, it's the narcissist taking over, unable to restrain himself and just has to argue with someone who has proven him wrong time and again. Please keep coming back, as I'm not the only one aware of your kind.

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