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Why Do People Nitpick?

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6 minutes ago, novacova said:

 Nice representation of the OP’s question.

 

I don't disagree with you... 

 

However, you are missing a little back story...    the Op posted a video yesterday, no accompanying comment, just the video and received criticism from a number of posters for not providing context. 

 

He has clearly taken this very personally and has started this thread looking for a wingman to nurse his butt-hurt ego back to life...   You seem happy to oblige... 

 

 

This was the thread: 

 

 

 

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  • Is this inspired by a certain poster here that is always nitpicking ? He is infamous for it as if it were his raison d'etre.    

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    It happens regularly here on AN forums.  It was only yesterday I was agreeing with a member when out of the blue another member attacked me.    I reckon it's narcissism at its best, som

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12 minutes ago, Denim said:

 

Said with a strong Scottish accent. Several words strung together.

 

Ken = know

whita = what I

meen = mean

Anat = isn't it

Jimmy = mate

 

Hoots the noo , pretty clear so it is.

 

It is to someone who doesn't interpret any response they are not sure of as an insult... 

Your guess is as good as mine.

 

Nitpicking is for the birds...IMHO.

 

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If you don't pick nits, they hatch, bite, and produce more nits, which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits, 

 

Pick them while you still can

15 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

I don't disagree with you... 

 

However, you are missing a little back story...    the Op posted a video yesterday, no accompanying comment, just the video and received criticism from a number of posters for not providing context. 

 

He has clearly taken this very personally and has started this thread looking for a wingman to nurse his butt-hurt ego back to life...   You seem happy to oblige... 

 

 

This was the thread: 

 

 

 

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Not in the least bit interested in the other thread though it appears you’ve taken it personally since you’ve cited it. In any case, those who nitpick are insecure individuals and get off on putting others down in order to inflate their tiny ego and can’t sleep at night unless they trump over others with incisive wordiness. Some folks just simply have social issues I guess. 

1 minute ago, novacova said:

Not in the least bit interested in the other thread though it appears you’ve taken it personally since you’ve cited it.

 

Of course I cited it the other thread...  its the reason this thread was created.... 

 

I'm amused by the Op making this thread as a response...     I'm surprised that you are this naive given your longevity on this forum.

 

1 minute ago, novacova said:

In any case, those who nitpick are insecure individuals and get off on putting others down in order to inflate their tiny ego and can’t sleep at night unless they trump over others with incisive wordiness. Some folks just simply have social issues I guess. 

 

Sometimes people need to be called out....  of course, the dumb stuff is just as easy enough to just ignore....

... but, this is a forum in which there is interaction and dialogue - the whole purpose is to discuss things, share opinions, object to others opinions, learn, debate, argue, disagree, agree, accuse, rescind etc etc...  So, I'm not so sure that such interaction is nit-picking... 

....  just because someone is not in alignment with a comment, it doesn't mean they are an enemy, yet some get so twisted out of place their sensitivities override their intellect.

 

In this case (of this thread), I can see the thread for what it is... and getting amused that someone has been so fragile and juvenile that they started another thread looking for emotional support - which you have fallen for and given !!!... You've been used !!!

 

Others can pick at spellings and grammar etc...   thats 'nit-pickey'...    others deliberately isolate a single comment and remove context, thats 'nit-pickey'.... 

 

..... but some have an agenda or an ulterior motive that is clearly identifiable, or at least it is to some of us.

 

There are posters who are known for being particularly 'anti-Thai'...  others known for being particularly 'anti-British' or 'anti-Farang' etc..    others are just ridiculously over sensitive about really small 'stuff'...    

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

39 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Of course I cited it the other thread...  its the reason this thread was created.... 

 

I'm amused by the Op making this thread as a response...     I'm surprised that you are this naive given your longevity on this forum.

 

 

Sometimes people need to be called out....  of course, the dumb stuff is just as easy enough to just ignore....

... but, this is a forum in which there is interaction and dialogue - the whole purpose is to discuss things, share opinions, object to others opinions, learn, debate, argue, disagree, agree, accuse, rescind etc etc...  So, I'm not so sure that such interaction is nit-picking... 

....  just because someone is not in alignment with a comment, it doesn't mean they are an enemy, yet some get so twisted out of place their sensitivities override their intellect.

 

In this case (of this thread), I can see the thread for what it is... and getting amused that someone has been so fragile and juvenile that they started another thread looking for emotional support - which you have fallen for and given !!!... You've been used !!!

 

Others can pick at spellings and grammar etc...   thats 'nit-pickey'...    others deliberately isolate a single comment and remove context, thats 'nit-pickey'.... 

 

..... but some have an agenda or an ulterior motive that is clearly identifiable, or at least it is to some of us.

 

There are posters who are known for being particularly 'anti-Thai'...  others known for being particularly 'anti-British' or 'anti-Farang' etc..    others are just ridiculously over sensitive about really small 'stuff'...    

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Now you’re just being overly sensitive and defensive, on the internet I mind you. You really need to get outside and mingle and converse with some real people. This internet stuff has gotten the best of you. Sleep well dear friend.

28 minutes ago, novacova said:

Now you’re just being overly sensitive and defensive, on the internet I mind you. You really need to get outside and mingle and converse with some real people. This internet stuff has gotten the best of you. Sleep well dear friend.

 

Why would you accuse me of being oversensitive and defensive ?...  thats just mean...  

 

I'm going to have to start a thread about people accusing others of being over sensitive and defensive now and hope for support... 

 

Thanks... now look that the extra effort I'll have to go to just to save face... 

 

nite nite... :kiss01:

 

 

10 hours ago, Yellowtail said:

If you don't pick nits, they hatch, bite, and produce more nits, which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits,  which hatch, bite, and produce more nits, 

 

Pick them while you still can

It's just basic hygiene, and we should be grateful to our friends who are willing to pick our nits

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1 minute ago, StreetCowboy said:

It's just basic hygiene, and we should be grateful to our friends who are willing to pick our nits

That's a nice way of appreciating our friends helpful gestures!

Unfortunately, there are some sickos, who whilst picking our nits, they pick out our eyes, bones, intestines and what not!

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11 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

I don't disagree with you... 

 

However, you are missing a little back story...    the Op posted a video yesterday, no accompanying comment, just the video and received criticism from a number of posters for not providing context. 

 

He has clearly taken this very personally and has started this thread looking for a wingman to nurse his butt-hurt ego back to life...   You seem happy to oblige... 

 

 

This was the thread: 

 

 

 

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However, you are missing a little back story...    the Op posted a video yesterday, no accompanying comment, just the video and received criticism from a number of posters for not providing context.

 

Is this the first video that was posted on AN without any accompanying comment?

This itself is enough to explain the "missing a little back story..." that you mention, and your tirade of insults.

 

Are you making it mandatory for all videos to have an accompanying transcript?

You are 100% correct - ulterior motives exists, as much as sick minds. Hiding behind the internet and thrashing on the keyboard is how some find relief - as they dare not try these in real life!

 

Your outbursts, accusations are sickening, and your "entitlement personality" is obvious. Ever heard of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD)?

 

1 hour ago, StreetCowboy said:

It's just basic hygiene, and we should be grateful to our friends who are willing to pick our nits

I'll trade you two blind ones for one with no teeth...

Too many important things to do in my life than to worry about nitpickers.  I just smile and remind myself to totally ignore that waste of space next time 🙂

On 11/17/2024 at 11:58 AM, OneMoreFarang said:

Read this book and you will learn why women like to do that.

 

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Ex wife bought and wanted/expected me to read it, what it was all about was me to understand her better and make some changes she thought I needed to make, the irony of it all was she didnt need to change anything...

6 hours ago, Njoku said:

Ex wife bought and wanted/expected me to read it, what it was all about was me to understand her better and make some changes she thought I needed to make, the irony of it all was she didnt need to change anything...

Did you ask her if she read it and what she learned about men?

11 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Did you ask her if she read it and what she learned about men?

Silly man, you know how it is, most people cant see past the end of there nose.....and thats normal people alas she has mental health issues its only black for them.

By putting other people down, you elevate yourself. Attention is focused on someone else's shortcoming, not your own.

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