Why do so many Thai prostitutes marry their customers?

[save the frogs]

59 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I doubt if Africans, Arabs, Chinese or Indians would want to marry tatted up prostitutes.

 

It isn’t the done thing in those cultures.

 

Of course if you are near family upbringing, you won't be able to get away with it.

I don't think anyone brings their bar girl back to their home country and tells everyone what she did for a living.

 

People are away from their families back home in Thailand, which gives more freedom. 

 

"Polite society" tries to keep everyone in line to conform, and also polite society is hypocritical. Because many Chinese and Indians will sleep with these girls while their wives are back home, but hide it from them.

 

So is it worse to marry one or come here by the busload and lead a double life with one while being married to a normal girl? 

 

Trick question. 

 

Edited November 17 by save the frogs

[save the frogs]

2 hours ago, RSD1 said:

no education, that believe in ghosts and superstition,

I also believe in ghosts and superstition, so there is commonality there.

[RSD1]

2 hours ago, atpeace said:

Because it is easy.  The dire consequences come later.

 

With that said, I know a few friends that are good judges of character and have had good relationships with the bar girl they chose.  These guys are quality guys and I think that improves the odds of success substantially.  Most men here with bar girls  are flawed in many ways and their relationships are disasters.

Just avoid marrying the bar girls all together, period. Thank me later. 

[RSD1]

6 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

I also believe in ghosts and superstition, so there is commonality there.

A sad and sorry state of affairs. Thoughts and prayers. 

[scubascuba3]

9 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Couldn't you find any other job to do ?

You don't like sex, i see you as one of those sexless types like Kenneth williams but not funny

[AAArdvark]

13 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Not all have babies.

what is their excuse?money for fun, which in many cases is more important than their family. 

 

[AAArdvark]

Just remember the old saying "you can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl".

And for me I draw the line at any girl who has had sex with more than 5000 partners. 

[Yagoda]

25 minutes ago, AAArdvark said:

Just remember the old saying "you can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl".

And for me I draw the line at any girl who has had sex with more than 5000 partners. 

Thats revolting. 4986.5 is the number, the .5 being for that dwarf at the batchelor party. Anything more than that number means she is a pig.

 

Thai hookers marry customers because they can.

[harryviking]

I call that a dumb question.🙄

[Dok Mai]

At some point they get "old" (35 - 40) and get less customers. In order to keep a decent amount of money it's time to settle down. Simple right? And if it's too difficult there is still rat poison. 

[NORDO]

Soi dog no stupid.   When have big free meal, it not want to go away.

[thaibeachlovers]

It's probably the first time western guys had decent sex and they "fall in love" with it ( and the person around it ). Who wouldn't want to have it all the time?

The girls get married because it's a guaranteed meal ticket.

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, harryviking said:

I call that a dumb question.🙄

I agree.

[newbee2022]

17 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

I went to a friend of a friend’s wedding on Friday night in Pattaya. 
 

Nearly everyone attending was a farang with a thai wife or girlfriend. A few kids.

 

Everyone was reasonably well behaved until the booze started flowing when things started getting messy and the women’s true colors started showing up. 
 

It was fairly obvious that nearly every one of them was a former bar girl, most were tattooed, they got sleazier and louder as the night wore on both verbally and physically.

 

It was a fun night. 
 

I was thinking about half of them were not showing much or any respect to their husbands. It appeared the more drunk some of them got the less they liked their husbands and were not even pretending to like them.
Almost like they were trying to start trouble with their husbands/boyfriends which put me on edge a bit. Very touchy feely.
 

They seem to have chosen a life where they have to spend most of their time with men they don’t really like. An underlying tension that comes out when they are drunk?

 

Why is it that so many prostitutes in Thailand marry their customers? There are prostitutes in probably every country in the world, but I have never seen this before, it seems a uniquely Thai phenomenon. There must be thousands of them. 
 

Why is it so different in Thailand?

 

ps. The dowry was 200,000 and some gold. The wife was a stunner. An oldie, but a goodie. Nice big set of bolt-ons.
 

 

 

 

200.000 for a multiple used old wrench?

There are indeed a lot stupid farangs in Thailand, probably losers in their former life.

[itsari]

Why does any Thai woman marry a foreigner would be a better question.

Prostitutes are more likely to meet foreigners.

[Thingamabob]

16 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

The farang are usually lonely and what is the word I'm looking for ??....where they NEED someone to look after them... similar to a MOTHER figure 

That's why a lot of Australian.men go to the Philippines as Filipina women are MOTHER figures 

They are looking for someone who pretends to CARE

Philippines is popular to get a MOTHER type 

And let's face it ... FILIPINA women are much BETTER in caring than Thai women

My Thai wife and I have happily cared for each other, through occasional illnesses and other crises, for over 40 years. Thai women, whatever their background, are not as pliant as their counterparts in some other countries, but they  generally make good partners and caring mothers.

[bkk6060]

If you marry a Pattaya bargirl, you will probably be screwed.  That is my experience from The guys I know who have done this.

Maybe good for a few months then they want to meet thier friends, party, drink, meeting old cutsomers and possibly go back to work in massage because they convince the guy it is not a bar.  

[Celsius]

Just now, bkk6060 said:

If you marry a Pattaya bargirl, you will probably be screwed. 

 

well yess....200k sinsod plus gold for a prostitute

 

 

[bbbbooboo]

ummm…. money?

[fondue zoo]

They watched Pretty Woman?

[SportRider]

Seems like a weird prejudicial question to me. 

 

Women and men get married.  

 

Often we meet more people through work. 

 

People want love, companionship, financial security, reduced uncertainty about the future... 

 

Are bar girls any different? 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Celsius]

2 minutes ago, SportRider said:

Often we meet more people through work. 

 

🤣

[Grandpa Cool]

There's a lot of long and convoluted replies to this topic. But, to me it all boils down to the circles in which you move....and it goes both ways.

It has now become a cultural norm.

 

[dcalaska]

Duh, inhouse ATM.

[newbee2022]

16 hours ago, KhunLA said:

To the topic ...

 

... why does anyone marry their customer in any service oriented job or profession.   Or how meeting any partner that develops into a relationship or eventually marriage, even matter at all 

 

... I've dated & lived with coworkers

... dated workers under my supervision.  Had to fire one, awkward.

... I've dated the Mitsubishi auto service rep, when owning one

... dated waitresses, food servers, bartenders, and how met present wife/food server

... dated my physical therapist

... dated 2 prostitutes, met in social setting (non P4P), actually married the one.   Obviously didn't work out, but no major regrets 

... dated another gal, suspect was prostitute, but topic never came up.  Both those relationships ended as daughter didn't like them, and it's a package deal, so they ended.

 

Why does anyone marry any one in the 21st Century ?

Seems that institution is dying out fast, as it should IMHO

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[NedR69]

14 hours ago, BritManToo said:

You do come out with some nonsense.

You think a high milage Thai hooker has a harder heart than an American divorced single mom?

 

Tell us your experience with American divorced single moms.  

[Hummin]

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Edited November 18 by Hummin

[BritManToo]

10 minutes ago, NedR69 said:

Tell us your experience with American divorced single moms.  

None, which is why I was asking @spidermike007 

[zmisha]

1 hour ago, newbee2022 said:

200.000 for a multiple used old wrench?

There are indeed a lot stupid farangs in Thailand, probably losers in their former life.

Any man is a “loser” before 25-30 and, after he gets a well paid job he suddenly becomes a “winner”.

Girls are not the same. At the age of 18 the are all winners and call you loser, but at the age of 35 they suddenly shut up and speak very polite.

[GinBoy2]

So I've talked about my wife's cousin before . Lady of the night, no getting around that.

 

Ended up hooking up with a Swedish guy and moving to Sweden. 

 

Sweden seems to be the soft touch for visas

 

I kinda like Clas fun guy, obviously knows the history, her kids grandkids  all seems to work.

 

But she makes him happy, and she seems happy in some Godforsaken town in Sweden, so  all good