Why do so many Thai prostitutes marry their customers?

[thaibeachlovers]

10 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

No, she is Chinese with MBA and a great job 🥰

 

Go ahead with the Batman slap meme which will make you really intelligent among your barstool crew, handing out wisdom like it's free puss

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Happy to oblige.

 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

10 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

No, she is Chinese with MBA and a great job 🥰

 

Go ahead with the Batman slap meme which will make you really intelligent among your barstool crew, handing out wisdom like it's free puss

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That's great, I'm happy for you, but does she go like a pornstar? I don't think they hand out MBAs for being good in bed.

[Hummin]

5 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Yeah but it's over rated, some guys need to drag girls around, needy

Like this you mean

 

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/18BCVr9oJr/

[baansgr]

16 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Oops...triggered 

 

Keep paying the salary

 

it really gets boring with you disease spreading sexpats.

I wish I could get a BKK Chinese prosi, where you meet her..Asian love? just fess up mate, nowt to be ashamed of, the only thing to be ashamed of is thinking you got a "normal" girl

[Celsius]

Just now, baansgr said:

I wish I could get a BKK Chinese prosi, where you meet her..Asian love? just fess up mate, nowt to be ashamed of, the only thing to be ashamed of is thinking you got a "normal" girl

 

You can meet her in person and she will tell you all this information.

 

Are you interested or are you a coward?

[baansgr]

13 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

You can meet her in person and she will tell you all this information.

 

Are you interested or are you a coward?

I don't want to be stirring your porridge mate..she's not my type, apart from the comments I would get from friends back home..like "mail order bride" and "how much you pay for her"... Your welcome too her🙏

[BritManToo]

On 11/17/2024 at 5:59 PM, Pattaya57 said:

Some friend you are. You just accused all of your friends wive's of being low life prostitutes with no class when drunk

Strange that such a 'high value' man would choose to mix with such 'losers'.

[MalcolmB]

11 hours ago, CallumWK said:

 

From your response it is obvious you don't, most likely because you never experienced a real female orgasm

Female orgasm is a feminist myth.

i have been with over 100 women and have never seen one.

it is all BS

[MalcolmB]

23 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

You can meet her in person and she will tell you all this information.

Are you interested or are you a coward?

I am up for it.

[Celsius]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

I am up for it.

 

Location Thonglor police station 

[MalcolmB]

35 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

That's great, I'm happy for you, but does she go like a pornstar? I don't think they hand out MBAs for being good in bed.

How is the male nurse job going?

[fvw53]

Why do so many farangs mary prostitutes?

[MalcolmB]

48 minutes ago, fvw53 said:

Why do so many farangs mary prostitutes?

Because their only other options are to marry an overweight, entitled feminist their own age called Karen. 
 

It does seem a uniquely Farang behavior.

ISNT the done thing in other cultures.

 

Up to them.

But like with gay marriages adopting children, I think having children with prostitutes is not really fair on the children.

As with having to gay men as parents you will be bullied at school for it.

And one of the worst insults you can say to someone in many cultures is that “Your mother is a whore”

No need to make it a reality.

[Hummin]

2 hours ago, Walker88 said:

I come to threads like this for the oozing and unctuous sanctimony. Luscious! I'm late to the game here, but what the heck....I'll post.

 

I'm going to guess that the "bargirls" who marry foreigners do so for the exact same reasons any Thai woman marries a foreigner....some combination of money, security, familiarity and affection. Zero difference between so-called "good girls" and bargirls, despite the table pounding to the contrary.

 

Unless one is a celebrity or centi-millionaire, few if any top tier, creme de la creme, hi-so Thai women with a good education are going to pair up with a foreigner. What's left in the marriage pool for foreigners---from what I read here and know from chatting with expats in Thailand, the foreigners here come from failed 'back home' marriages---are women who absolutely were in the trade, probably were in the trade, might have been in the trade, or those who dallied out of horny-ness. The self-claimed morally superior foreigners make some distinction between women who had sex for money and women who had sex because they were horny. The difference escapes me.

 

I'm sure some will claim they married a Thai virgin. Good luck to you, is what I say, as my times with virgins were back in my own teens, and I do not remember those trysts as being noteworthy. The last thing I would seek in a spouse or partner is virginity, something wildly overrated and best left to religious fantasies about deities. I am not a virgin, so I would never be so hypocritical as to demand virginity in a spouse. I'm also confident enough in my own masculinity that I think I can provide what she needs between the sheets.

 

I smile when I read about "uneducated", when referring to bargirls. Is the Thai education system so powerful that one can spot the difference between a woman who completed 8 years of school and one who completed even a Thai university degree program? I haven't seen that. A few years ago I read an article that the top Thai university was rated the #418 university....in ASIA. That leads me to conclude, perhaps in error, that few outsiders could tell the difference in education between any bargirl and a local uni grad. The Thai women educated in a foreign country might have better chops, but they likely also come from hi-so families, and thus tend to marry other hi-so, well-educated Thai men.

 

As a bit of an aside, I employ in my business many Thai women with university degrees. They have told me that among their friends---the attractive ones in particular---most all did 'sideline' work while in university, generally with a Thai businessman or politician. Some did it for money, some for the excitement, some just to get a little extra cash to buy something Mom and Dad would not buy for them. Not all attractive Thai women dallied, of course, but a surprising number have. I know "yours" never did, so don't think I'm implying otherwise.

 

Before anyone asks, no, I do not have a bargirl spouse or girlfriend. Admittedly I have entered agogos from time to time and have met and spoken with women in those establishments (some of whom are paying for university with their earnings, by the way). One thing I have concluded is that they seem to have better social skills than women who never entered the trade. These women have had to develop ways to appeal to a wide range of men from a wide range of cultures. The women have 'people skills'. Also, a bargirl is as likely to have an above average IQ (brains are the sexiest part of a woman) as a "normy". I have met women in bars who are absolute kicks in terms of personality, so fun to be around they have become friends without benefits. Since I never walked in the bargirl's flip flops, I cannot make a value judgement on what path she decided to take to earn a living. There but for the grace of Zeus.......

 

Marriages fail all the time. As I noted above, the average expat in Thailand came from a failed marriage or two back home, and let's be honest...it wasn't always the woman's fault. He is just as likely to fail again, whether he ties up with a bargirl or "normy".

 

All that matters is what both parties do when they agree to be together. What they did yesterday, no matter how many sex partners they had for whatever reason, is irrelevant. Only what both do from today matters. I really doubt the bargirl is more likely to cheat than the normy, nor more likely to cheat than her foreigner hubby. Others will disagree.

 

Unless a man is a total failure back home, it's still likely he is in a much better financial position than any Thai woman with whom he develops a relationship, so whether bargirl or normy, money and financial security is one of the incentives for the woman. Also, sometimes people just hit it off; they get along enough to have a desire to try to make something more permanent.

 

Now the OP did not ask this, but I will answer: Would I ever consider marrying a bargirl? Yes, if I fell in love and believed she loved me in return....kind of like any relationship anywhere. Imagine that! Would that make me a lo-so? As Oscar Wilde once said, "People may boo me, but when I go home and think of my money, I applaud myself." If someone judges the woman I love because of her past, then I do not want to associate with that 'morally superior' person. If I'm happy, then eff those who look down on me and my chosen partner. I'm not into 'face'; I live my life for my own enjoyment, not the approval of others.

 

For those who insist on wearing their moral superiority on their sleeve, collect your bonus points and try to cash them in when you're on your death bed. Both you and I will just be wormfood, whether you've followed some fake and sanctimonious moral code or just loved whom you loved.

 

 

A long post with many good points, 

 

A woman who works in decent jobs, is tied up at work, and has little or no spare time for a man who is not working in Thailand. And who also comes for holiday to visit their gf/wife who is also working, means they just have to sit around and can't do much of anything, other than waiting. For some that is a dream situation. For me who travels frequently, that was not an option for me, and when I first met one who I actually clicked with, checked all my boxes, and there were not a few boxes actually there was nothing to think of. 

 

I find it quite provoking some members calling every woman out as  prostitutes, but then on that. Usually members who do have a great deal of experience with prostitutes or are just ignorant and all their experiences are based on Bangkok books only.

Where do girls meet western men in Thailand? Tourist places, and of course every girl who finds a man in tourist places got to be a hooker. Another thing, if a girl goes with a man, most of them, if not a cheap charlie who thinks he is a gift to the women, will drop them money on the way out, if not agreed on up front. Do we create hookers, or are they hookers ? Sometimes obvious, sometimes not

 

I had quite a few girls being ashamed. I dropped them money, when I thought they were freelancers, and some of them obviously wanted to play the long game with, and some not. They were Bangkok girls just out for having some fun, others were already sponsored, and for some reasons would like to have me hang around for a while. Of course back when I Was young and handsome, now only old and hansume.

 

It aint all black and white, even you like to think so, and the most important detail, it is all about what you think is best for you, and your reasons to think that's best for you. Nothing else. I really do not need to defend my choice, why I picked a girl who previously was dumped by her foreigner bf, who had promised her a bright future, who ran off with a younger one at once when she hit her 30ìes. At least he did a great job, teaching her language, swim, behave, drink wine, be a good gf and teach her to be very grateful for those who paid her respect, and for not drinking too much, or party with the other boys several days a week.

 

After all we are all a product of our earlier experiences.