My Thai Girlfriend Wants Breast Implants. Should I Approve?

[BangkokReady]

16 hours ago, NanLaew said:

 

Take lips that look perfect and make them look awful...  Genius!  🤦‍♂️

[BigStar]

1 hour ago, Yagoda said:

The key to breast implants on a women are the aesthetics of the finished product...in my view. For example, I like the melon balls on a toothpick look, as long as they are perfectly symmetrical with perky nipples, pierced. I dont like jiggle, or droopers, or asymetry or the ones that point out sideways or the basketballs.

 

So, I never have a problem with a girlfreind getting an upgrade. I give her written instructions to the surgeon and sample pictures and make sure they both know they better be perfect or its gonna be a do over or new model.

 

That'll be nice & cheap.

[Yagoda]

1 minute ago, BigStar said:

 

That'll be nice & cheap.

Some things in Life arent cheap. Put it on the credit card and send her to the strip club to earn it back.

[Nick Carter icp]

On 12/4/2024 at 11:03 AM, hankypankee said:

 

Well, should I support her decision wholeheartedly and let her do whatever makes her happy?

 

   Compromise on the issue , get her just to get one breast enlarged 

[Will B Good]

Absolutely not.....wife has mooted having hers done.......no way......simply not worth the risk to her health and wellbeing 

[BigStar]

31 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Some things in Life arent cheap. Put it on the credit card and send her to the strip club to earn it back.

 

But you see hard round melons sticking out are the standard cheap boob job. 

[transam]

2 minutes ago, BigStar said:

 

But you see hard round melons sticking out are the standard cheap boob job. 

We have a people watcher investigator, questionnaire member.........🤔

[BigStar]

5 minutes ago, transam said:

We have a people watcher investigator, questionnaire member.........🤔

 

Living up there in the weeds, what would you know? Living in Pattaya for more than 20 years is an education. 

[transam]

1 minute ago, BigStar said:

 

Living up there in the weeds, what would you know? Living in Pattaya for more than 20 years is an education. 

It seems you have never ventured away from your Pats bar stool to make such a comment, but at least you proved my post correct......Thanks.........

[Yagoda]

16 minutes ago, BigStar said:

 

But you see hard round melons sticking out are the standard cheap boob job. 

Doesn't matter what they cost as long as they look the way I like

[Yagoda]

44 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Compromise on the issue , get her just to get one breast enlarged 

Or have them build a prosthetic third

[PJ71]

4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

 

Nothing to do with it. Fake boobs are never as natural as the real thing. If one is a boob man, one would understand that fake is a nono.

 

BTW, they don't go under the skin- that would look gross after a while. The implant goes under a layer of muscle.

When was the last time you've experienced implants, they're way different than what they were 30 years ago which is what i think you're reffering to.

 

One should give a new set ago, although not natural they're not far off.

 

The cheap ones the bar girls get done for 30K at some ropey clinic are not the best, i agree.

[PJ71]

4 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You obviously ain't a boob luvin' man.

Why?

[BigStar]

55 minutes ago, transam said:

It seems you have never ventured away from your Pats bar stool to make such a comment, but at least you proved my post correct......Thanks.........

 

Usual illogical troll post. You're welcome.

[transam]

1 minute ago, BigStar said:

 

Usual illogical troll post. You're welcome.

I think your comment "Living up there in the weeds" was indeed trollish, as you don't know where I live.....

Pot/kettle...

[save the frogs]

On 12/3/2024 at 11:17 PM, jvs said:

Again, it can be a huge boost in self esteem and make a big difference in everyday life.

maybe you can try boosting her self-esteem by telling her she's perfect just the way god made her. 

 

 

[newbee2022]

It's not your business. Unless you want to follow her and ask for Breast implants for yourself.

Your girlfriend, not your wife, is an independent person and does not need your permission.

[Polaky]

Buy her a bicycle pump for Christmas,  and tell her to work it out.😀

[NORDO]

The Boob job isn't for you, it's for her GF and BF's.   Problems is, she will never be happy.  Boobs, Face, ass, it will always be something.

[Cereal]

The question I have to ask, which I haven't seen here yet and perhaps I missed it, is what do her boobs look like now?

Were they sitting high and firm and after  a few years or a kid or two they now are saggy and wrinkled? 

Cosmetic surgery can work wonders on a person's self esteem. One female flight attendant I flew with many times had no boobs. Seriously, it looked like she had never gone through puberty. She was so shy and withdrawn it was painful to watch. She had never had a boyfriend and wouldn't consider going on a date. She was also very pretty with a great body, just no boobs. 

She decided to get implants, small, just a nice round A cup. The change in her personality was enormous. She became outgoing and effervescent. She was a new person and had self confidence which previously had not been there. She also had the support of everyone at work. 

If your partner wants new boobs, let her have them. They may very well be a ticket to her happiness and confidence. 

Get saline implants not silicone. 

[Cereal]

4 hours ago, save the frogs said:

maybe you can try boosting her self-esteem by telling her she's perfect just the way god made her. 

 

 

She's Thai, so I'm guessing God doesn't play a big part in her life. Besides, the entire God thing is a silly fantasy. 

[zepplin]

On 12/4/2024 at 11:03 AM, hankypankee said:

So, my Thai girlfriend of 7 years suddenly decided she wants to get a boob job. Not sure what triggered it, but now she’s asking for my approval. Here’s the thing: I think she doesn't need it. She is beautiful as is, just the way she was made, and I’ve expressed that clearly to her. But she insists it’s not for the reasons I might think, she says it’s about how it will make her feel inside. According to her, it’s not about making them very big or being flashy. She wants something that is still very natural-looking, but to help make clothes hang better and to boost her confidence.

 

On the one hand, we all have insecurities. So if this will make her feel better about herself, should I be the one to stand in the way? It’s not an issue of cost, but I do wonder about how the change in appearance might affect her socially. Let’s be honest, people can become judgmental in Thailand, especially since she has a foreign boyfriend. So I'm concerned others could make negative assumptions about her. Will it change the way she’s treated in Thai circles and for the worse?

 

There’s also a potential relationship aspect. She says that it’s only for her, and that it's her body, not for me or anyone else, and I guess I can accept that. But at the same time, I still feel a bit confused. Part of me wonders if her wanting my approval is because she’s hoping that this won’t change how I feel about her. 

 

Also there is the question of whether this will really give her the confidence she’s looking for. Not sure if surgery will make her feel more comfortable in her own skin, or if it is a case of wanting to chase perfection that might lead to further dissatisfaction down the road. 

 

Well, should I support her decision wholeheartedly and let her do whatever makes her happy? Or should I continue expressing my reservations? Have any of you been in a similar situation with your partner? Did the surgery actually deliver the confidence boost that was expected?

 

My wife had it done 14 years ago, for similar reasons, as after 2 kids they were a little deflated.. since then she can wear any dress or bikini with confidence, they stlll look and feel natural , one of the best ways I’ve ever spent 60 k in Thailand!

[save the frogs]

yeah, suckin' on silicone. what a joke. 

 

[JoeRan]

“Should you approve “?

What is this, 1950’s??

It’s her choice not yours. 
BTW, if after 7 years this change is wanted, there may be more changes to follow including you. 

[Darksidedude]

No brainer bro

[RichardColeman]

Not a fan of big boobs, Every time I see big boobs I keep think how they will be tucked into her elasticated waist ban in her 60's. Gravity is the killer of boobs

 

My wife has enough for me, more than a mouthful is a waste in my opinion.

 

 

[Thingamabob]

On 12/4/2024 at 11:36 AM, quake said:

From a blokes point of view

They just don't feel right. 

Better stay with what she has.

 

 

 

 

 

Agreed. False breasts are a turn off and, more importantly, can lead to medical complications. This guy should advise his partner against enlargement.

[RSD1]

On 12/5/2024 at 5:01 AM, Ralf001 said:

Please don't project your disgusting kinks onto me.

You still sucking that rubber penis? Guess it reminds you of sucking on the rubber milk bottle tips when you were a child. 

[Taboo2]

Sure, go ahead, us Mongers will be feeling those up as soon as she dumps you.

[renaissanc]

On 12/4/2024 at 11:03 AM, hankypankee said:

So, my Thai girlfriend of 7 years suddenly decided she wants to get a boob job. Not sure what triggered it, but now she’s asking for my approval. Here’s the thing: I think she doesn't need it. She is beautiful as is, just the way she was made, and I’ve expressed that clearly to her. But she insists it’s not for the reasons I might think, she says it’s about how it will make her feel inside. According to her, it’s not about making them very big or being flashy. She wants something that is still very natural-looking, but to help make clothes hang better and to boost her confidence.

 

On the one hand, we all have insecurities. So if this will make her feel better about herself, should I be the one to stand in the way? It’s not an issue of cost, but I do wonder about how the change in appearance might affect her socially. Let’s be honest, people can become judgmental in Thailand, especially since she has a foreign boyfriend. So I'm concerned others could make negative assumptions about her. Will it change the way she’s treated in Thai circles and for the worse?

 

There’s also a potential relationship aspect. She says that it’s only for her, and that it's her body, not for me or anyone else, and I guess I can accept that. But at the same time, I still feel a bit confused. Part of me wonders if her wanting my approval is because she’s hoping that this won’t change how I feel about her. 

 

Also there is the question of whether this will really give her the confidence she’s looking for. Not sure if surgery will make her feel more comfortable in her own skin, or if it is a case of wanting to chase perfection that might lead to further dissatisfaction down the road. 

 

Well, should I support her decision wholeheartedly and let her do whatever makes her happy? Or should I continue expressing my reservations? Have any of you been in a similar situation with your partner? Did the surgery actually deliver the confidence boost that was expected?

 

Firstly, @OneMoreFarang has some outstanding advice to offer you.

Mine stems from my age and life experience, and it's for you. Don't even think or care about what others think about you or your girlfriend now or in the future. Don't give them power over your lives. 

Lastly, if she can't accept what @OneMoreFarang has suggested, then give her what she wants, but tell her that bigger breasts will most definitely not make her feel how she wants to feel for long. A sagging stomach, a spot on her face, her nose, her cheeks, etc. will follow as causes of concern for her as she gets older and her body changes. Just wait until she gives birth. Everything changes then. Self-confidence is created in a very different way, and there are many videos about this.