Bored of Bangkok... Any advice to an alternative place to live?

[newnative]

    To echo a previous poster, Pattaya's for you.  Lots of neighborhoods, lots of variety, lots of housing choices, several good malls, cheap transportation, all sorts of restaurants and inexpensive food courts, and still close to Bangkok if you want to visit now and then--as my spouse and I do.

[grumpyoldman]

11 hours ago, Billpro785 said:

I'm an American expat living in Kanchanaburi. Love it here. Close enough to Bangkok, 2 hours if you need anything. Nice little expat bar area, low key, but fun. Plenty here to keep you busy, and the scenery . 

On costs, you can rent a nice 1 bedroom floor level apartment near the river for less than 100 Used per month. So yes, with your 1100 USD per month, you can live well, and put some aside for savings. 

Pm me if you have any questions. 

Been there and agree. A flat near the river, do some fishing, Kanchanaburi should be on the OP's list. Lovely place.

[MangoKorat]

I don't understand why anyone would want to live in Bangkok anyway - do you not care for your health?

[Thingamabob]

On 1/19/2025 at 10:51 PM, kingofallasians said:

I am afraid Bangkok is getting a bit boring (and expensive) for me.

 

I had a best friend out here that I used to hang out with a bit.  Long story short, I think she is ghosting me and humankind for that matter.

 

The Meetups have me bored to tears.  The same locals who have nothing going on for themselves seem to show up all the time.  Retired expats and weirdos.  But also, it's exhausting to have the same conversations with people who you are never going to see again in your entire life.  Things were pretty awesome when Tao had his Meetups and I met some pretty cool and interesting people that way, but those are no more.  The only meetup in the city I find engaging is the FIRE meetup.

 

I am considering living in another part of Thailand or Cambodia.  I enjoy the events that happen around Bangkok and the livelihood of the city, but I am becoming an old fart where maybe I want a little bit less people.

 

Jomitien I heard is nice and cheaper than BKK.  Maybe I can try living in Chiang Mai or Udon Thani for a bit. 

 

I get around $1100 a month and was also wondering if it would be possible to living somewhere comfortably and maybe even save some of that per month.  I have horrible discipline in BKK since boom boom is everywhere and I admit I am probably a sex addict and bit of a sexpat at times.  Also, I eat my fair amount of Burger King and McDonald's as I am a cultureless American.

 

Has anyone lived in Siem Reap before?  I heard it is cheap but boring.  I went there for a few days and was pretty impressed.  However, I like to hide in malls from the sun during the day and Siem Reap does not seem to have any of them.  Also, there is the ease of staying there on a visa.  From what I hear it costs around $40 - $50 a month to extend your tourist visa and they will keep doing that indefinitely.  This seems better than leaving for a visa run every few months which also includes the 1900 baht extension at their immigration office.

 

So I guess I'm asking for some advice.  Is there more or less going on in Jomtien, Chiang Mai, and Udon Thani?  I thought I could never get bored of Bangkok because it's such a lively and interesting city, but it really has not been as good as before the pandemic.  No more 24 hour bars.  Thailand wants to be like Singapore which kind of sucks.

 

 

 

 

You sound confused. It will be difficult to find anywhere more lively and interesting than Bangkok and environs. However, Phnom Penh resembles life in Bangkok 30 odd years ago. Friendly people, entertaining nightlife. Worth a look.

[Hanuman2547]

Jomtien might be a good move for you.  There is a lot going on there.  If you end up not liking it, you can always move to somewhere else.  

[Yagoda]

1 hour ago, Thingamabob said:

You sound confused. It will be difficult to find anywhere more lively and interesting than Bangkok and environs. However, Phnom Penh resembles life in Bangkok 30 odd years ago. Friendly people, entertaining nightlife. Worth a look.

PP is a shi*thole. Bangkok was never that bad, even 30 years ago.

[impulse]

On 1/20/2025 at 2:51 PM, Billpro785 said:

I'm an American expat living in Kanchanaburi. Love it here. Close enough to Bangkok, 2 hours if you need anything. Nice little expat bar area, low key, but fun. Plenty here to keep you busy, and the scenery . 

On costs, you can rent a nice 1 bedroom floor level apartment near the river for less than 100 Used per month. So yes, with your 1100 USD per month, you can live well, and put some aside for savings. 

Pm me if you have any questions. 

 

I love KBuri. It was always my favorite weekend getaway from working in Bangkok.  Nowadays I try to get up there on my monthly visa runs to Thailand, including last weekend.  I absolutely love the Saturday night street market.  But I'm just not sure it's got enough variety to live there full time, especially as a non-drinker.  If I can get a decent room at $100 or $200 a month, I may go ahead and have a dual residency in Bangkok and KBuri.  It would be good to have a place to store an SUP and canoe/kayak so I don't have to haul them up from BKK like I did when I worked at Asoke.  Otherwise, the decent $15-20 a night hotels are fine. 

 

Bangkok for the excitement and KBuri for the sanity breaks.

 

[Thingamabob]

1 hour ago, Yagoda said:

PP is a shi*thole. Bangkok was never that bad, even 30 years ago.

What I said was in PP the people are friendly and the nightlife is entertaining, as was the case in Bangkok 30 plus years ago. Central Bangkok has always been well developed, as it was when I first arrived here in 1962.