Looking for a private investigator in Pattaya

[georgegeorgia]

17 hours ago, NativeBob said:

We had very bad experience with private investigator back in 2014: an old Aussie fart was copying and selling designs that didn't belong to him. After phone conversation he disappeared from BKK, police was useless so we private eye might help. 

At 5K/day ++ we only got province, city and local market he visited few times. 

No address, no photos, no contacts. Turn out he (investigator) didn't even speak thai. just tinglish. 

I would have done better Bob 

[Will B Good]

19 hours ago, american_boy said:

Any recommendations for a private investigator that is based in Pattaya? Thank you.

 

Are you trying to track down the left wing communist members on AN......??

 

If so, I was only messing when I posted stuff.

[Celsius]

If she was with 1000 indians and Arabs before you, she was with 1000 indians and Arabs during your "relationship" while you were braving oil fields and sending her moneeeyyy

[Will B Good]

4 hours ago, american_boy said:

You guys are funny 🤪 I met her at Soi 6. She did quit work right after she met me which costed me a lot of money. I’m back in the US now. I’m sending her a bunch of money every month.  She will disappear once a while for 1-2 days with various nonsense excuses like she dropped her phone or she had a very sick relative that she needed to visit in her village and there was no cell reception. I’m very certain that she has other ‘boyfriends’. I just need the proof for my peace of mind.

 

Really sorry.....but you have just listed your proof......believe me, you don't need PI....!

[Will B Good]

 

Anyone wondering if this could be another of Bob's reincarnations......Bar Boy Colin has disappeared?

[georgegeorgia]

2 minutes ago, Will B Good said:

 

Anyone wondering if this could be another of Bob's reincarnations......Bar Boy Colin has disappeared?

You Sir are a very intelligent guy and they have people with your intelligence on court juries to decide someone's fate

[Will B Good]

1 minute ago, georgegeorgia said:

You Sir are a very intelligent guy and they have people with your intelligence on court juries to decide someone's fate

 

Never a truer word posted.....55

[SAFETY FIRST]

4 hours ago, american_boy said:

You guys are funny 🤪 I met her at Soi 6. She did quit work right after she met me which costed me a lot of money. I’m back in the US now. I’m sending her a bunch of money every month.  She will disappear once a while for 1-2 days with various nonsense excuses like she dropped her phone or she had a very sick relative that she needed to visit in her village and there was no cell reception. I’m very certain that she has other ‘boyfriends’. I just need the proof for my peace of mind.

Stop sending money. 

 

I know a few girls on Soi 6 who are receiving monthly payments from several guys abroad, they're making up to 100000 baht per month. 

 

You got to switch off now, take the loss, it's over. 

 

I worked with an American guy, from Louisiana (strange guy, not all there) in Angola, our rotation was 28 days, he was useless, sulking, sobbing, worried about his promiscuous soi 6 lady for his entire hitch.

 

The rig can't survive having a man down all hitch. 

 

[Will B Good]

4 hours ago, american_boy said:

You guys are funny 🤪 I met her at Soi 6. She did quit work right after she met me which costed me a lot of money. I’m back in the US now. I’m sending her a bunch of money every month.  She will disappear once a while for 1-2 days with various nonsense excuses like she dropped her phone or she had a very sick relative that she needed to visit in her village and there was no cell reception. I’m very certain that she has other ‘boyfriends’. I just need the proof for my peace of mind.

 

 

Sit long enough in these bars and you'll see these girls taking up to three of four calls some days from their 'loved one's'......they will even put you on the phone to chat to them???? heaven knows why.

[cjinchiangrai]

18 hours ago, it is what it is said:

 

don't waste your money, find a partner you can trust

And at home. 

[oxo1947]

Ai does an app called "Cheater Buster" that will tell you if they are on any Dating site ( Tinder etc)  they have been showing it a lot on Tik-Tok--- usually stop a couple in the street ask how long they have been an item --"-wow 5 years -are you up to see if your girl is on any dating sites"/ -- its quite funny .     https://www.facebook.com/reel/3192338570906523

 

[NativeBob]

3 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

I would have done better Bob 

More than 10 years ago? I don't doubt it: Just nobody wanted to deal with that scum, so we hired "suggested by friend" farang to find that a**hole from kenguru-land. 

[georgegeorgia]

36 minutes ago, NativeBob said:

More than 10 years ago? I don't doubt it: Just nobody wanted to deal with that scum, so we hired "suggested by friend" farang to find that a**hole from kenguru-land. 

I would have followed him into the toilet and gently whispered in his air

I love you baby !

 

[scottiejohn]

8 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

I would have followed him into the toilet and gently whispered in his air

I love you baby !

 

I thought you did that to everyone you see on their own in the toilet!

[MalcolmB]

8 hours ago, american_boy said:

You guys are funny 🤪 I met her at Soi 6.

She sounds legit

[NativeBob]

43 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

I would have followed him into the toilet and gently whispered in his air

I love you baby !

 

Sure you would, sir!

However that was very unexpected twist. Sure there are many desperate boys (and girls) in TH who would do really nasty things but ... 
Back to the subject - good friend of us installed 25 jacuzzi tubs for Samui super resort, got only 50% advance and that was all. I think also 10+ something years ago. I told him that he should hire some "funky people" to collect his money, but he said he doesn't want to deal with such people. I know how does it feel.

[sungod]

9 hours ago, american_boy said:

You guys are funny 🤪 I met her at Soi 6. She did quit work right after she met me which costed me a lot of money. I’m back in the US now. I’m sending her a bunch of money every month.  She will disappear once a while for 1-2 days with various nonsense excuses like she dropped her phone or she had a very sick relative that she needed to visit in her village and there was no cell reception. I’m very certain that she has other ‘boyfriends’. I just need the proof for my peace of mind.

 

Are you actually for real, or just trying to keep the forum going?

 

If you are real, send me a pic to see if I boned her.

[ubonr1971]

On 1/25/2025 at 6:34 PM, StephenD said:

Ha. I actually hired a private investigator in Pattaya a couple of years ago. Well, I hired two different investigators. The first team that was sent out were very proficient, but they ended up following around the wrong lady. And I only found this out 3 days later when I received another request for payment, after which I received their report. After that I decided to use a different agency and tried this one instead https://pattayapi.com/ who did a decent job and were in touch with me the whole way through. 

 

Yes, she was cheating on me and I saw her drive her little scoopy bike to the customer's hotel after changing into high heels and a black dress. Fully understand people saying it's a waste of money, but when the only piece of information you're getting is "I GO SALON WITH MY FRIEND NOW OK. YOU NOT BELIEVE UP TO YOU OK", it was pretty satisfying to catch her red handed to be honest. Sometimes you need that to make a big decision.

you pay a PI to track a bar girl. WTF....

[Aland]

On 1/25/2025 at 4:02 PM, american_boy said:

Any recommendations for a private investigator that is based in Pattaya? Thank you.

Try trueinvestigation.net or google true investigation thailand. They are not in Pattaya but will travel to where ever you need them to go. Worked for me.

[JRG23]

On 1/25/2025 at 5:51 PM, novacova said:

Catfish

What's this?

 

[heybuz]

On 1/25/2025 at 8:20 PM, SAFETY FIRST said:

So who are you today? 

 

Inspector Clouseau

or

Inspector Gadget 

 

 

Maxwell Smart.

[findlay13]

On 1/25/2025 at 9:34 PM, StephenD said:

Ha. I actually hired a private investigator in Pattaya a couple of years ago. Well, I hired two different investigators. The first team that was sent out were very proficient, but they ended up following around the wrong lady. And I only found this out 3 days later when I received another request for payment, after which I received their report. After that I decided to use a different agency and tried this one instead https://pattayapi.com/ who did a decent job and were in touch with me the whole way through. 

 

Yes, she was cheating on me and I saw her drive her little scoopy bike to the customer's hotel after changing into high heels and a black dress. Fully understand people saying it's a waste of money, but when the only piece of information you're getting is "I GO SALON WITH MY FRIEND NOW OK. YOU NOT BELIEVE UP TO YOU OK", it was pretty satisfying to catch her red handed to be honest. Sometimes you need that to make a big decision.

"The first team that was sent out were very proficient, but they ended up following around the wrong lady." Couldn't have been that proficient then ?

[steven100]

You don't need any investigator ....   everyone in Pattaya and all Thailand will lie to you FGS ....   it's engrained in them.  

 

 

 

[Kerryd]

Many years ago there was a bit of a scam with "private investigators".

Guy meets bargirl. Agrees to send her "big money" every month so she "not have to work bar".
Guy gets suspicious when he phones her and hears a guy's voice or "bar sounds". She says she's "just visiting her sister".

Guy hires "private investigator". PI spies on the girl and when the time is ripe - propositions her. Either she sleeps with him (for free) or he tells her boyfriend that she slept with him (for money). Even if she wasn't working in a bar anymore.

Then after she shags the guy - he tells the boyfriend that she slept with him anyways. So basically he got paid to bang a bar girl.

And seriously - if you met her in a bar and are suspicious of her - break it off. You've already lost the "trust" test and you'll never get that again.

From experience.
If she says "she only work bar a few days" - it means she's only worked that bar for a few days and that she probably spent years working in other bars.

If you are sending her money so she doesn't "have to work bar" - then it's likely that she's got the same arrangement with 2-3 (or more) other guys as well - and is still "working bar".

Back in the early 00's there was a hot number working in the New Living Dolls 2 go-go bar. Her nickname was "56k" because that was how much her boobs cost (28k each and they were AWESOME).
That was before every 2nd girl you saw had fake boobs.

Turns out she had FIVE "boyfriends" sending her money every month to "not work bar" - and she was STILL "working bar". Her biggest problem was scheduling, trying to con different boyfriends into changing their travel plans so they didn't overlap.

I won't go into 5 pages of details but I've known more than a few bar and go-go girls over the years and after awhile you learn to see the signs.
The "going for coffee with her cousin" or "going to the salon" trips that last 5-6 hours - or they don't come back until the next day.
The trips to their home village that they try to convince you not to go on because you'd be bored.

Attempts to get you to change your holiday plans (usually because they'll be home "visiting sick momma" or something) - or  they panic because you tell them you're going to stay a week or so longer than expected. (And suddenly they need to make a trip "home" and won't be there for that extra time.)

Finding the 2nd "Facebook" page is always fun. Had that happen once when Facebook gave me a list of "friend suggestions" and one of them was the girl that was living with me. Except her name was in Thai and she was "in a relationship" with a guy she'd started seeing months earlier while she was living with me. Both profiles had a lot of the same friends but the other profile had - obviously - no pics of me or the places we'd gone to.

Basically, if you met her "in a bar" and she speaks enough English to carry on a conversation with you then you can be sure she's been "in the game" for a long time and knows all the tricks of the trade.

And if you hire a PI to "check her out" you can pretty much be guaranteed that the answer will be that she's "still in the game" - even if she's not (or wasn't - until the PI extorts her).

And seriously - if you are suspicious - it's not like there aren't a million (literally) other options out there.

 

[jacko45k]

Don't forget the old cynical phrase....

'How can you tell when a bargirl is lying?'.....

'Her lips are moving'....

 

I guess the modern response is 'she is using her phone'......

[carlyai]

[AustinRacing]

You’ve raised her expectation by providing funds. Now you wanna destroy it. She may be banging other guys but she only loves you. She’s probably doing to it maintain and improve her bedroom skills in preparation for your next visit. Don’t be cruel. Think of it like when you go away for a while you ask a friend to start the engine once in a while.