I was recently called out for the fact that I indulge in the steaming fleshpots of Bangkok in amounts of course commensurate with my age and abilities. I was labeled a:

 

DEVIANT!

 

Who uses......PROSTITUTES.

 

Am I alone?

 

I made the Poll anonymous. Can we have some honesty?

On 3/10/2025 at 9:41 AM, Yagoda said:

Who uses......PROSTITUTES.

You should ask ChatGPT directly for names, if you need more info. 😄

 

Historically and in modern times, people from all walks of life have engaged with sex workers, including politicians, businesspeople, travelers, military personnel, and even individuals seeking companionship rather than just physical encounters.

 

I thought there would be more honesty. Shows how many folks in this Forum dont live in ASEAN

Direct payment of cash for sex, is against my religion.  I need, at least the illusion of a challenge, or romance.    I have no interest in Wham Bam, Thank you Ma'am ... 😎

 

"Ohhh, wham bam thank you ma'am
A Suffragette City, a Suffragette City
Quite all right" - David Bowie

 

"Don't fake it baby
Lay the real thing on me" - DB again

At 500bht all the time, at 2000bht not so much.

2000bht, that's 25 large beers, I'd rather have the beer!

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

At 500bht all the time, at 2000bht not so much.

2000bht, that's 25 large beers, I'd rather have the beer!

The old joke of what's the difference between beer and women?

107 Reasons why Beer is Better than Women

 

 

  1. You can enjoy a beer all month.

  2. Beer stains wash out.

  3. You don't have to wine and dine a beer.

  4. Your beer will always wait patiently for you in the car.

  5. When beer goes flat you toss it out.

  6. Beer is never late.

  7. HANGOVERS go away.

  8. A beer doesn't get jealous when you grab another beer.

  9. Beer labels come off without a fight.

 10. When you go to a bar, you know you can always pick up a beer.

 11. Beer never has a headache.

 12. After you have a beer, the bottle is still worth a dime.

 13. A beer won't get upset if you come home with beer on your breath.

 14. If you pour a beer right, you will always get good head.

 15. You can have more than one beer a night and not feel guilty.

 16. A beer ALWAYS goes down easy.

 17. You can share a beer with your friends.

 18. You always know that you are the first one to pop a beer.

 19. A beer is always wet.

 20. beer doesn't demand equality.

 21. A beer doesn't care when you come.

 22. You can have a beer in public.

 23. A frigid beer is a good beer.

 24. You don't have to wash a beer before it tastes good.

 25. Beer always comes in multiples of six.

 26. Beer doesn't mind being in the "wet spot" that IT left.

 27. You can't catch anything but a "buzz" from a beer.

 28. After you have a beer, you're committed to nothing other than

      dumping the empty bottle. 

 29. A beer never costs you more than five dollars and never leaves

      you thirsty. 

 30. When your beer is gone, you just pop another.

 31. You rarely (if ever) find beer labels on the shower curtain rod.

 32. Beer looks the same in the morning.

 33. Beer doesn't look you up in a month.

 34. Beer doesn't worry about someone walking in.

 35. Beer doesn't worry about waking the kids.

 36. Beer doesn't get cramps.

 37. Beer doesn't have a mother.

 38. Beer doesn't have morals.

 39. Beer doesn't go crazy once a month.

 40. Beer always listens and never argues.

 41. Beer labels don't go out of style every year.

 42. Beer doesn't whine, it bubbles.

 43. Beer doesn't have cold hands/feet.

 44. Beer doesn't demand legality.

 45. Beer is never overweight.

 46. If you change beers, you don't have to pay alimony.

 47. Beer won't run off with your credit cards.

 48. Beer doesn't have a lawyer.

 49. Beer doesn't need much closet space.

 50. Beer can't give your herpes or other nasty things.

 51. Beer doesn't complain about the way you drive.

 52. Beer doesn't mind if you fart or belch.

 53. Beer never changes its mind.

 54. Beer doesn't tease you or play hard to get.

 55. Beer never asks you to change the station.

 56. Beer doesn't make you go shopping.

 57. Beer doesn't tell you to mow the grass.

 58. Beer doesn't mind seeing Chuck Norris and Charles Bronson flicks.

 59. Beer is always easy to pick up.

 60. Big, fat beers are nice to have.

 61. Beer doesn't pout or play games.

 62. Beer NEVER says no.

 63. Beer is easy to get into.

 64. Beer never complains when you take it somewhere.

 65. Beer doesn't need to go to the 'powder room' with other beers.

 66. Beer doesn't wear a bra.

 67. Beer doesn't mind getting dirty.

 68. Beer doesn't complain about insensitivity.

 69. Beer doesn't use up your toilet paper.

 70. Beer doesn't live with its mother.

 71. Beer doesn't blow you off.

 72. Beer doesn't care if you have no culture or manners.

 73. Beer doesn't bitch, yell, or cry.

 74. Beer doesn't mind football season.

 75. A beer won't make you go to church.

 76. A beer is more likely to know how to spell "carburetor" than a woman.

 77. A beer doesn't think baseball is stupid simply because the guys spit.

 78. A beer doesn't think DOS is pronounced "dose".

 79. A beer doesn't give a <deleted> if you keep a bunch of other beers around.

 80. A beer will not insist that those odious Michelin commercials

      with babies are "cute". 

 81. If a beer leaks all over the room, it smells kinda good for a while.

 82. A beer will not call you a sexist pig if you say "doberman"

      instead of "doberperson". 

 83. A beer won't get a job as a DJ and play 5 straight hours of

      lesbian folk music on your favorite radio station.

 84. A beer won't claim that the Three Stooges are <deleted>.

 85. A beer won't raise a fuss about a little thing like leaving the

      toilet seat up. 

 86. If you mention a "three-hundred-fifty cubic-inch V8" around a beer,

      it won't think you're talking about an enormous can of vegetable

      juice. 

 87. A beer won't whine that seatbelts hurt.

 88. A beer won't smoke in your car.

 89. A beer won't argue that there's no difference between shooting

      down an unidentified aircraft in a war zone and blowing a Korean

      airliner out of the sky. 

 90. A beer will never buy a car with automatic transmission.

 91. A beer will actually *support* belching and farting and share

      your enthusiasm for getting them included as demonstration

      sports in the 1996 Olympic Games in Atlanta.

 92. A beer is always ready to leave on time.

 93. A beer never fishes for compliments.

 94. Some beers (e.g. St. Pauli Girl) have fabulous tits.

 95. Beer tastes *good*.

 96. If you take a beer outta the fridge just to look at it but then

      decide to drink it, the beer won't accuse you of "date rape".

 97. A beer won't raise any objections to an evening of watching

      "John Holmes' Greatest Hits" on your VCR.

 98. An ice-cold beer will nonetheless let you have your way with it.

 99. A beer won't make you pick up some tampons when you go to the

      grocery store. 

100. A beer won't accuse you of lying when you say you read Penthouse

      "just for the articles". (You *are* lying, but the beer won't

      accuse you of it). 

101. A beer won't worry that you'll go to jail if you videotape a

      Giants game without the expressed, written consent of the

      National Football League. 

102. A beer won't fill up your car with cheesy 85-octane gas with the

      excuse: "But I saved a quarter!"

103. A beer will *never* make you go to a Swedish movie.

104. A beer will *never* make you turn off "Fists of Fury Theater" on

      channel 5 on Saturday afternoons.

105. A beer won't accuse you of being a sexist pig if you say "Gene

      Hackman" instead of "Gene Hackperson".

106. A beer won't make you eat some experimental vegetarian meal that

      tastes like STP Oil Treatment.

107. When you're through with a beer, the thought of another beer

      doesn't make you ill. 

 

https://www.pvv.ntnu.no/~steinl/vitser/beer.html

All of the above for me, except the food and marriage.

3 hours ago, SiSePuede419 said:

Historically and in modern times, people from all walks of life have engaged with sex workers

Why do they call them sex workers when usually the woman just lays there and you do all the work?

Can not answer your poll because it lacks many options, especially the one that applies to those who actually found a good woman that has never worked in a bar or as a prostitute. 

1 hour ago, thesetat said:

Can not answer your poll because it lacks many options, especially the one that applies to those who actually found a good woman that has never worked in a bar or as a prostitute. 

You are number five then

You are number five then

 

No, i am not... i did not come here to find love. it seems pretty desperate for someone to travel across the planet to find love. If you could not find love in your own country.. and need to travel to another one that barely speaks your language. Then something is wrong with you. Mentally, physically, or emotionally. 

11 minutes ago, thesetat said:

You are number five then

 

No, i am not... i did not come here to find love. it seems pretty desperate for someone to travel across the planet to find love. If you could not find love in your own country.. and need to travel to another one that barely speaks your language. Then something is wrong with you. Mentally, physically, or emotionally. 

What's the age gap in your relationship?

Steaming Fleshpots

 

Oh my goodness, I must have missed out on a lot then. I had many a young maiden for the night or longer, but steaming, I am sad to say never.

 

Can someone please enlighten me as to what comprises "steaming"? I'm gagging to know.

On 3/16/2025 at 1:18 AM, thesetat said:

Can not answer your poll because it lacks many options, especially the one that applies to those who actually found a good woman that has never worked in a bar or as a prostitute. 

especially the one that applies to those who actually found a woman that claims to have never worked in a bar or as a prostitute. 

 

Fixed it for you.

On 3/16/2025 at 1:17 AM, thesetat said:

Why do they call them sex workers when usually the woman just lays there and you do all the work?

Excellent question.

On 3/15/2025 at 9:58 PM, KhunLA said:

Direct payment of cash for sex, is against my religion.  I need, at least the illusion of a challenge, or romance.    I have no interest in Wham Bam, Thank you Ma'am ... 😎

 

"Ohhh, wham bam thank you ma'am
A Suffragette City, a Suffragette City
Quite all right" - David Bowie

 

"Don't fake it baby
Lay the real thing on me" - DB again

LOL. Are you able to tell the difference between faking an orgasm and the real thing? Not many can.

7 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

LOL. Are you able to tell the difference between faking an orgasm and the real thing? Not many can.

How do you "know" that not many are able to tell the difference between faking an orgasm and the real thing?

35 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

LOL. Are you able to tell the difference between faking an orgasm and the real thing? Not many can.

That's too easy to tell.

 

And me ... I never fake it 😎

8 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

That's too easy to tell.

 

And me ... I never fake it 😎

No, it's not, and a guy can't fake it.

Did you never watch "When harry met Sally"?

8 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

No, it's not, and a guy can't fake it.

Did you never watch "When harry met Sally"?

Yes it is, if you have 50+ years of experience, and been lucky enough to have a lot of honest female friends.   I stick with like minded sex addicts, who like getting our freak on.  We can't be bothered with faking it.   

 

I would think anyone could fake it, (or try to), but why would you want to, unless it's stroking someone's ego and only about money.  Again, I don't do P4P.

 

No, never watched H & S.  Not my genre of movie interest.

5 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

especially the one that applies to those who actually found a woman that claims to have never worked in a bar or as a prostitute. 

 

Fixed it for you.

Well, maybe fixed it for you. But I know my wifes past, present and hopefully future haha... There are not many in Thailand I can say is a good woman. But my wife is one of them. 

Couldn't answer the poll, met my wife decades ago in a furtive office romance in Singapore.

 

Over the years I've seen the farang/bargirl either explode in flames, and I've seen others just kinda morph into regular middle aged couples.

 

I think a lot depends on where you start off.

 

Are you 60 and she's a bargirl 20 years old? Recipe for total disaster

 

Of the ones I've seen succeed tend to be older, closer to the farang, and a mutual understanding that 'this is it' time to settle down'

On 3/25/2025 at 1:32 AM, thesetat said:

Well, maybe fixed it for you. But I know my wifes past, present and hopefully future haha... There are not many in Thailand I can say is a good woman. But my wife is one of them. 

I knew many good women in Thailand that worked in a bar. Conversely, I knew many western women that never worked in a bar and were horrible women.

On 3/25/2025 at 9:12 PM, GinBoy2 said:

Couldn't answer the poll, met my wife decades ago in a furtive office romance in Singapore.

 

Over the years I've seen the farang/bargirl either explode in flames, and I've seen others just kinda morph into regular middle aged couples.

 

I think a lot depends on where you start off.

 

Are you 60 and she's a bargirl 20 years old? Recipe for total disaster

 

Of the ones I've seen succeed tend to be older, closer to the farang, and a mutual understanding that 'this is it' time to settle down'

Good friend of mine met his wife in Singapore ( not a bargirl ). Absolutely stunningly beautiful and quite a nice person. More or less the same age. Last time I saw him was about 10 years after he married her, and they had a child. He absolutely loathed her. For the kid's sake I hope they got divorced.

On 3/24/2025 at 9:12 PM, KhunLA said:

Yes it is, if you have 50+ years of experience, and been lucky enough to have a lot of honest female friends.   I stick with like minded sex addicts, who like getting our freak on.  We can't be bothered with faking it.   

 

I would think anyone could fake it, (or try to), but why would you want to, unless it's stroking someone's ego and only about money.  Again, I don't do P4P.

 

No, never watched H & S.  Not my genre of movie interest.

There are certain physiological changes that occur when a women has an orgasm and they can't be faked. PERIOD.

On 3/24/2025 at 9:12 PM, KhunLA said:

Yes it is, if you have 50+ years of experience, and been lucky enough to have a lot of honest female friends. 

honest female friends. 

 

 

She'll lead you down the path
There'll be tenderness in the air
She'll let you come just far enough
So you know she's really there
Then she'll look at you and smile
And her eyes'll say
She's got a secret garden
Where everything you want
Where everything you need
Will always stay
A million miles away

 Bruce Springsteen

 

19 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

There are certain physiological changes that occur when a women has an orgasm and they can't be faked. PERIOD.

Why would I care?

25 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Good friend of mine met his wife in Singapore ( not a bargirl ). Absolutely stunningly beautiful and quite a nice person. More or less the same age. Last time I saw him was about 10 years after he married her, and they had a child. He absolutely loathed her. For the kid's sake I hope they got divorced.

Well it may or may not be a function of a cross cultural relationships, but sometimes we just fall out of love.

 

Heck, 50% of all marriages fail for whatever reason, regardless of ethnic differences

 

If it works it works, but when it stops making you happy, time to bail. 

 

Of course if there are kids things get complicated if they are young

12 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

Well it may or may not be a function of a cross cultural relationships, but sometimes we just fall out of love.

 

Heck, 50% of all marriages fail for whatever reason, regardless of ethnic differences

 

If it works it works, but when it stops making you happy, time to bail. 

 

Of course if there are kids things get complicated if they are young

The reason marriages fail more and more is due it being accepted to divorce for whatever reason. This is no different in today's relationships as well as jobs, if you used to leave your job too fast it would actually hurt your resume.

 

The same with any relationship; if you walk for every little thing, you always stay single, oh wait that's exactly the issue today. The fact that aside from this, that a man has a natural need to reproduce and might have some side gigs going on, is nothing new either, maybe even healthy.

19 hours ago, ChaiyaTH said:

The reason marriages fail more and more is due it being accepted to divorce for whatever reason. This is no different in today's relationships as well as jobs, if you used to leave your job too fast it would actually hurt your resume.

 

The same with any relationship; if you walk for every little thing, you always stay single, oh wait that's exactly the issue today. The fact that aside from this, that a man has a natural need to reproduce and might have some side gigs going on, is nothing new either, maybe even healthy.

Not saying walk for every little thing, it always deserves some work.

 

My first failure was simply I was traveling so much, my wife was essentially a single Mom and we both found other relationships, and we simply drifted apart

 

I'm Hispanic my first wife white, second wife Thai the whole ethnicity thing never really came in to anything, although I'll not deny a little 'asian persuasion' thing

 

Today we are a melting pot family, I get on great with my ex, we speak every week, my daughters and half brother are great friends, my son actually worked for my eldest daughter and lived with her in Denver until he got married

 

As bizarre as it might sound we even all go on vacation together, wife, ex wife, her bf, the kids with husbands wives and grandkids

 

Things can be messy but they don't have to be toxic