My experience is that they never get satisfied.This is my experience.My exwife stayed with me and our kids in my country.After a while she get a good paid job about 4500 £ a month.She still asked me to give her 1000£ a month if not i would be a cheap charlie and not good take care I paid every bill for about 7 years. she lived for free.

She get about 4000£ after giving birth to our son from my government.And so on I found out after we divorced that she have about 90.000 £ in her account Well.i was stupid and she was smart.We divorced 8 year ago..she and our kids stay in my country She is remarried here She get permanent stay many years ago.After we divorced i meet some other thai ladies In the beginning they not ask anything but after a while it started.Need this and that and the amount rised everytime.So i just blocked them.Many different stories.

The last one i helped was a really h..y lady from kalasin..older lady who is crazy about s x..send me videos. on cam many times.She never asked for big money Only 3-500 baht sometimes.The last week she told me she is starving because no money to buying food Today i tried to transfer her 500 baht and i get shocked but not surprised when western union declined my transfer because. THE RECEIVER HAVE REACH THE LIMIT!!!I told her this and she said its not true but i could send to her daughter bla bla bla.

Shes blocked already.aSome never ever get enough.Im single now the last years and will stay single.Free life without anyone asks nothing If i want a lady i take her to my hotel and next morning pay and forget and never give my contact details.

Congrats on being free. Dont understand why youd spend your time with older women anymore. Now you know theyre all the same, might as well stick with young ones

You can blame yourself for giving the money, the more you pay the less they like you

Some are greed hardwired like that. Avoid tarts? Most women make you pay one way or another wherever they hail from, but at least give yourself a better chance by aiming for those with similar status/education level. 

You sound like a real winner. 

Like everywhere else in the World ..some are

 

regards worgeordie

  The world has become a much greedier place. Money is idolized as the ultimate value in life, while its true purpose—as merely a means to an end—is forgotten. This mindset leads to dangerous extremes. Those who lack money (the vast majority) often see it as the key to solving all their problems. But this is a harmful illusion—one that erodes human nature itself.

10 hours ago, hotsun said:

Congrats on being free. Dont understand why youd spend your time with older women anymore. Now you know theyre all the same, might as well stick with young ones

Very good point. 50 onwards especially they know they're worth and Don t want a penny less than what her friend got out of a farang a few years ago

10 hours ago, norsurin said:

My experience is that they never get satisfied.This is my experience.My exwife stayed with me and our kids in my country.After a while she get a good paid job about 4500 £ a month.She still asked me to give her 1000£ a month if not i would be a cheap charlie and not good take care I paid every bill for about 7 years. she lived for free.

She get about 4000£ after giving birth to our son from my government.And so on I found out after we divorced that she have about 90.000 £ in her account Well.i was stupid and she was smart.We divorced 8 year ago..she and our kids stay in my country She is remarried here She get permanent stay many years ago.After we divorced i meet some other thai ladies In the beginning they not ask anything but after a while it started.Need this and that and the amount rised everytime.So i just blocked them.Many different stories.

The last one i helped was a really h..y lady from kalasin..older lady who is crazy about s x..send me videos. on cam many times.She never asked for big money Only 3-500 baht sometimes.The last week she told me she is starving because no money to buying food Today i tried to transfer her 500 baht and i get shocked but not surprised when western union declined my transfer because. THE RECEIVER HAVE REACH THE LIMIT!!!I told her this and she said its not true but i could send to her daughter bla bla bla.

Shes blocked already.aSome never ever get enough.Im single now the last years and will stay single.Free life without anyone asks nothing If i want a lady i take her to my hotel and next morning pay and forget and never give my contact details.

What do you want from others?

I think if you give it them once they expect to get it continuously. Sort of habituation. I fell in the same trap once but I am not going to do the same mistake again.

12 hours ago, norsurin said:

My experience is that they never get satisfied.This is my experience.

My experience is they like it hard and fast.

skip all that foreplay nonsense. It just confuses them.

 

As far as asking for money goes you have to get in first. Ask them for money before they ask you. If they give you some, never pay it back.
 

Good luck.

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

My experience is they like it hard and fast.

skip all that foreplay nonsense. It just confuses them.

 

As far as asking for money goes you have to get in first. Ask them for money before they ask you. If they give you some, never pay it back.
 

Good luck.

Rigth I meet a high-so half Chinese.She never asked for money..good job and high salary.She was finance director in a big company in bangkok.1 apartment in Bangkok and a beautiful house in rayong.2 cars But i gave up after 2 months with her.Didnt even get a hug.Nothing at all Never sleep together.I get sick and tired of sitting in her office in lad phrao.So I moved from my hotel there to soi sukumvit.She called me at least 30 times a day but i didn't answer.

57 minutes ago, norsurin said:

Rigth I meet a high-so half Chinese.She never asked for money..good job and high salary.She was finance director in a big company in bangkok.1 apartment in Bangkok and a beautiful house in rayong.2 cars But i gave up after 2 months with her.Didnt even get a hug.Nothing at all Never sleep together.I get sick and tired of sitting in her office in lad phrao.So I moved from my hotel there to soi sukumvit.She called me at least 30 times a day but i didn't answer.

She puts out after 3 months, 5 times a day. You missed out.

no, not all of them are greedy money-grubbers.

some, maybe a lot. but not all.

depends on the luck of the draw. 

 

some guys have all the luck

some guys get all the breaks

some guys do nothing but complain

 

some sad stories here....let me get a tissue....but not for what you think

15 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

no, not all of them are greedy money-grubbers.

some, maybe a lot. but not all.

depends on the luck of the draw. 

 

some guys have all the luck

some guys get all the breaks

some guys do nothing but complain

 

Ah yes Rod - didn't he say he wasn't going to get married next time,  to much bother -he'd  just find a girl he didn't like and give her a house .

and give her a house !

Ridiculous Topic.

Thai women are not greedy.

They are very careful in their spending.

They are very family oriented.

They spend resources on family.

I don't like Farang women because...they are ...

Frivolous and spendthrifts, and have lost family values,...

And, worst of all...Speak with...

Vocal Fry.

And getting worse.

 

9 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Ridiculous Topic.

Thai women are not greedy.

They are very careful in their spending.

They are very family oriented.

They spend resources on family.

I don't like Farang women because...they are ...

Frivolous and spendthrifts, and have lost family values,...

And, worst of all...Speak with...

Vocal Fry.

And getting worse.

 

You need to get out more… grouping Thai women into one basket (how many have you met?) while chucking farang women into another. You have no clue basically.

I have met some of the most amazing women in both hemispheres. Thai women can indeed be wonderful, but, beyond the physical and even when you speak the language, it is typically shallow and superficial. Very tough to get deep as one can with a ‘standard’ (sorry) western girl. 

13 hours ago, norsurin said:

Rigth I meet a high-so half Chinese.She never asked for money..good job and high salary.She was finance director in a big company in bangkok.1 apartment in Bangkok and a beautiful house in rayong.2 cars But i gave up after 2 months with her.Didnt even get a hug.Nothing at all Never sleep together.I get sick and tired of sitting in her office in lad phrao.So I moved from my hotel there to soi sukumvit.She called me at least 30 times a day but i didn't answer.

Bizarre. Were you a client? Didn’t get a hug even? Perhaps a mannequin. I just don’t get this scenario. 

15 hours ago, norsurin said:

Rigth I meet a high-so half Chinese.She never asked for money..good job and high salary.She was finance director in a big company in bangkok.1 apartment in Bangkok and a beautiful house in rayong.2 cars But i gave up after 2 months with her.Didnt even get a hug.Nothing at all Never sleep together.I get sick and tired of sitting in her office in lad phrao.So I moved from my hotel there to soi sukumvit.She called me at least 30 times a day but i didn't answer.

That's the common other extreme here, the ones that stayed single because they were only busy with making a career. They are then too old already to really find someone matching with them as they often then want that to be a foreigner too. 

I dated a similar girl once and even she was super smart, nice, never needed money or even paid things for me, she also never had time. Bored of her work. Was better to then have someone you support.

 

But it is quite a shock if you are used to paying all, organizing all, to then have a girl with a nice condo + a nice house elsewhere, a decent camry car, nice fashion and things going and to do lol. Suddenly you only need to be you and be there. But they want to often play the boss then.

 

Problem with that is that they can just do younger guys for fun, so if you are a 'older male' already, yo should then do younger ones for fun too.

5 hours ago, ChaiyaTH said:

That's the common other extreme here, the ones that stayed single because they were only busy with making a career. They are then too old already to really find someone matching with them as they often then want that to be a foreigner too. 

I dated a similar girl once and even she was super smart, nice, never needed money or even paid things for me, she also never had time. Bored of her work. Was better to then have someone you support.

 

But it is quite a shock if you are used to paying all, organizing all, to then have a girl with a nice condo + a nice house elsewhere, a decent camry car, nice fashion and things going and to do lol. Suddenly you only need to be you and be there. But they want to often play the boss then.

 

Problem with that is that they can just do younger guys for fun, so if you are a 'older male' already, yo should then do younger ones for fun too.

Ur right.She never had time for anything.The times we meet in public in restaurants she was on the phone all the time.Her written english was wery good .her english speaking was terrible.We only speak thai with ecother.Her age midt 40s.Small and petite with a beautiful smile.Anyway past is past 

I think this is not about greedy Thai women, but more about stupid foreigners. They are much smarter than them. There are so many nice and decent women in Thailand, but they are maybe not so sexy for you and do not speak English. You got what you deserve.

On 3/20/2025 at 3:13 AM, norsurin said:

My experience is that they never get satisfied.This is my experience.My exwife stayed with me and our kids in my country.After a while she get a good paid job about 4500 £ a month.She still asked me to give her 1000£ a month if not i would be a cheap charlie and not good take care I paid every bill for about 7 years. she lived for free.

She get about 4000£ after giving birth to our son from my government.And so on I found out after we divorced that she have about 90.000 £ in her account Well.i was stupid and she was smart.We divorced 8 year ago..she and our kids stay in my country She is remarried here She get permanent stay many years ago.After we divorced i meet some other thai ladies In the beginning they not ask anything but after a while it started.Need this and that and the amount rised everytime.So i just blocked them.Many different stories.

The last one i helped was a really h..y lady from kalasin..older lady who is crazy about s x..send me videos. on cam many times.She never asked for big money Only 3-500 baht sometimes.The last week she told me she is starving because no money to buying food Today i tried to transfer her 500 baht and i get shocked but not surprised when western union declined my transfer because. THE RECEIVER HAVE REACH THE LIMIT!!!I told her this and she said its not true but i could send to her daughter bla bla bla.

Shes blocked already.aSome never ever get enough.Im single now the last years and will stay single.Free life without anyone asks nothing If i want a lady i take her to my hotel and next morning pay and forget and never give my contact details.

You're referring to "girls'.

Girls to buy or rent?

That's why probably many "left over" men come to Thailand.

Reliable honestly relationships you'll find everywhere if you're willing to.

However, it has to do with character.🙏

Stupid is as stupid does

14 minutes ago, jippytum said:

Stupid is as stupid does

and then there's a special kind of stupid .....

Why do that women need money? 

No pension. 

No security. 

Treated like pros even when they aren't.

Probably a reason 

Whatever one gives, becomes never enough. You give them more, they give it to family or friends. Budgeting here is not something they do until the money is gone. It's a fact that many supporters here are aware of. Drip, drip, drip is best option. I give monthly support but ALWAYS have to top it up. I don't keep tally of total but it is likely somewhere in region of 40k/month. It is what it is. I'm still happy. Are you?

 

The O.P. gave biscuits to a puppy dog, and was then surprised that it kept following him around.

Never mind the newfound freedom and extra disposable income could be a grand opportunity to sit back and work on his English syntax.

Lucky you didn't go to Philippines, it's much worse there, families are much more shameless about asking for money.

 

Everywhere in the world however women will ask for money. If they don't ask for money, only because there's a joint bank account already and you're paying the rent/mortgage and all the bills.

 

Women want your resources. They don't want you. They don't care about looks they way we do. They care only about one thing, your resources.

8 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Lucky you didn't go to Philippines, it's much worse there, families are much more shameless about asking for money.

 

Everywhere in the world however women will ask for money. If they don't ask for money, only because there's a joint bank account already and you're paying the rent/mortgage and all the bills.

 

Women want your resources. They don't want you. They don't care about looks they way we do. They care only about one thing, your resources.

I agree.I meet some pinays in Singapore and Malaysia when i worked there Allways had money problems.

What they trying to do is making their problems being our problems.I dont mean all ladies but many.I dont want to listen to them at all I have some friends who admit they have many sponsors and they laughing about it.

When i sat down in surin before many came asked for borrow money but i not give because they never pay back.

I go visit my kids grandparents everytime im in Thailand.I give them some money but not much.Last time i gave 5000 baht and they get wery happy.My exwife auntie is wery greedy.Her thai husband went working in Taiwan and he have send her about 200.000 baht.When he get back home all the money was gone and he get wery upset.

His wife couldn't explain where the money went.