Popular Post shocky2012 Posted 13 hours ago Popular Post Posted 13 hours ago I genuinely don’t understand people who, upon seeing a tragic post about a young man losing his life, feel the need to point fingers and place blame on him. Instead of showing compassion or offering condolences, they choose to criticize someone who can no longer defend themselves. What kind of mindset leads to that? What kind of life do you live where your first instinct isn’t sadness or empathy, but judgment? Do you really believe that in his final moments, he deserved to be blamed rather than mourned? Accidents happen. Life is fragile. Sometimes, things go wrong in an instant, and no amount of hindsight will change the outcome. If you can’t find it in yourself to show kindness in moments like this, maybe it’s best to say nothing at all. 1 4
qwab32 Posted 13 hours ago Posted 13 hours ago 23 hours ago, kwilco said: That is a totally unhelpful comment, it just shows you are a bad driver. Why? And why does it show I'm a bad driver? Is your brain ok? 1 1
Andre0720 Posted 13 hours ago Posted 13 hours ago On 4/3/2025 at 1:10 PM, NorthernRyland said: Can't blame the roads this time, it was a reckless motorbike rider without a helmet that basically killed himself. Yes, and all of this because of the culture here, no police on the roads, no control on driving habits, no control on the wearing of helmets, so young riders, particularly, join in on the absence of rules on the roads. Who or what is responsible here here, not sure, just a mixture of conditions..
Andrew65 Posted 13 hours ago Posted 13 hours ago 41 minutes ago, Tropicalevo said: Thankfully, it only lasts for one day here on Koh Samui. Very dangerous for a motorbike rider though. A full buck of ice cold water - with ice cubes, thrown straight in your face! My old Thai friend would be in his 80's now, he said when he was a kid, 1950's, it was one day, and just sprinkling drops of water.
nick supreme Posted 12 hours ago Posted 12 hours ago 46 minutes ago, shocky2012 said: I genuinely don’t understand people who, upon seeing a tragic post about a young man losing his life, feel the need to point fingers and place blame on him. Instead of showing compassion or offering condolences, they choose to criticize someone who can no longer defend themselves. What kind of mindset leads to that? What kind of life do you live where your first instinct isn’t sadness or empathy, but judgment? Do you really believe that in his final moments, he deserved to be blamed rather than mourned? Accidents happen. Life is fragile. Sometimes, things go wrong in an instant, and no amount of hindsight will change the outcome. If you can’t find it in yourself to show kindness in moments like this, maybe it’s best to say nothing at all. The human head is fragile, which is why people should wear a full-face helmet. Many of these deaths occur because individuals do not use proper safety gear. Thailand lacks a strong culture of safety. 2
kwilco Posted 12 hours ago Posted 12 hours ago 48 minutes ago, qwab32 said: Why? And why does it show I'm a bad driver? Is your brain ok? That just re-enforces the observation - it's the Dunning Kruger effect. 1
kwilco Posted 12 hours ago Posted 12 hours ago 8 hours ago, Ironmike said: This is nothing to do with the roads in Thailand I've lived here for 23 years ride a bike everyday and watch how many idiots are riding bikes like complete morons, no helmets no clothes and no fing clue they arrive at the airport and leave their brains there. What people don't understand is very simple people from Russia drive different to Chinese and again Americans or Australians then they come here and all hell breaks loose. Total misunderstanding of the situation - akin to a flat-earth interpretation.... 1
ChipButty Posted 12 hours ago Posted 12 hours ago 13 minutes ago, nick supreme said: The human head is fragile, which is why people should wear a full-face helmet. Many of these deaths occur because individuals do not use proper safety gear. Thailand lacks a strong culture of safety. Full face helmet is not always the answer, an accident near me the guy riding his ducati with full face helmet lost his head and the helmet, decapitated
Tropicalevo Posted 10 hours ago Posted 10 hours ago 3 hours ago, shocky2012 said: Back in 2016, just a week after my 28th birthday, I had a serious accident in Chaiyaphum—one that nearly cost me my life. My heart actually stopped, and I was on the verge of not coming back. I lost consciousness, and the doctors had to inject adrenaline to restart my heart. I ended up with 37 stitches over my right eye. All things considered, I was incredibly lucky. Even though I spent a week in the ICU, my hospital bill was only around 10,000 baht. I still remember the doctor who was stitching me up when I woke up. He didn’t sugarcoat anything—he told me my heart had stopped and my blood pressure had been dangerously low. Then he simply said, “Close your eyes, stay calm, and I’ll make sure you’ll be okay.” I owe so much to that man. He was the ICU doctor that day at Chaiyaphum Government Hospital, and he quite literally saved my life. That hospital might not have the best reputation, but for me, they were nothing short of amazing. Seeing news like this really hits home. I know exactly what it feels like, and just how fragile life can be. I’m 37 now, and I hardly ever ride a motorcycle anymore—these streets are wild. Please, stay safe out there. RIP to that young man. My deepest condolences to his family. Thank you for sharing that story. I am glad that you made a full recovery (or seem to have). 1
rattlesnake Posted 10 hours ago Posted 10 hours ago 3 hours ago, shocky2012 said: I genuinely don’t understand people who, upon seeing a tragic post about a young man losing his life, feel the need to point fingers and place blame on him. Instead of showing compassion or offering condolences, they choose to criticize someone who can no longer defend themselves. What kind of mindset leads to that? What kind of life do you live where your first instinct isn’t sadness or empathy, but judgment? Do you really believe that in his final moments, he deserved to be blamed rather than mourned? Accidents happen. Life is fragile. Sometimes, things go wrong in an instant, and no amount of hindsight will change the outcome. If you can’t find it in yourself to show kindness in moments like this, maybe it’s best to say nothing at all. I definitely agree with you on the substance, I sometimes am shocked by the lack of compassion/awareness displayed on this forum. However, when a person dies in a motorbike accident and was not wearing a helmet, I believe it is perfectly valid to point it out and stress just how utterly stupid it is to do that… because it is, and who knows, it might encourage people to change their habits and potentially save their lives.
rattlesnake Posted 10 hours ago Posted 10 hours ago On 4/3/2025 at 8:12 AM, spidermike007 said: Rider beware. Use as good a helmet as you can afford, and do not use these eggshells pieces of crap. They crack at the first impact, and what lies underneath them? Your skull, which is very delicate. On 4/3/2025 at 8:12 AM, spidermike007 said: One still cannot walk, or talk or function on her own, from a motorbike accident, where she hit her head on the pavement going only 20 kph. This needs to be repeated over and over. Lack of awareness is the core issue and an impact even at very low speed can destroy your life.
georgegeorgia Posted 9 hours ago Posted 9 hours ago On 4/3/2025 at 2:07 PM, Chris BKK said: in all if not all then most states in Australia require a helmet even when riding a bicycle one must have a helmet on or maybe the bike is impounded so why not a helmet in Thailand on a motorbike. Think of the investment made by governments in Australia into this young man's life - child support payments, medical, education etc, All gone before taxes paid in return, simple economics. His family will be heartbroken as well. RIP Carlos Not true,one religion in some States is exempt, Sikhs
georgegeorgia Posted 9 hours ago Posted 9 hours ago 2 hours ago, ChipButty said: Full face helmet is not always the answer, an accident near me the guy riding his ducati with full face helmet lost his head and the helmet, decapitated Oh please, writing that could upset some people, very sad
EVENKEEL Posted 9 hours ago Posted 9 hours ago On 4/3/2025 at 12:07 AM, Chris BKK said: in all if not all then most states in Australia require a helmet even when riding a bicycle one must have a helmet on or maybe the bike is impounded so why not a helmet in Thailand on a motorbike. Think of the investment made by governments in Australia into this young man's life - child support payments, medical, education etc, All gone before taxes paid in return, simple economics. His family will be heartbroken as well. RIP Carlos Laws requiring bicycle riders to wear helmets is going too far.
kwilco Posted 9 hours ago Posted 9 hours ago 3 hours ago, ChipButty said: Full face helmet is not always the answer, an accident near me the guy riding his ducati with full face helmet lost his head and the helmet, decapitated This has to get the award for the most facile answer on the thread - which would you prefer this or your chin?
kwilco Posted 4 hours ago Posted 4 hours ago If you want to know who doesn't understand road safety on this thread just count the "confused" emojis
Tropicalevo Posted 10 minutes ago Posted 10 minutes ago 4 hours ago, kwilco said: If you want to know who doesn't understand road safety on this thread just count the "confused" emojis I think that is an oversimplification of why they are used. The confused emoji is the nearest thing to a negative one that AN allow.
wavodavo Posted 7 minutes ago Posted 7 minutes ago On 4/3/2025 at 4:17 PM, J Branche said: Seems they don't understand you only have to be wrong once and you are dead permanently. I know the helmet may not be comfortable or may be hot but if you value life wear it. Probably never had an accident and doesn't understand the dangers. RIP young man. You can understand what this 20 year old is thinking. here he is on holiday on a nice warm day and loving it especially if he comes from cold Melbourne, rents a bike no license needed no helmet needed. He gets out on the road and says to himsef how good is this my hair blowing in the wind can't do this at home and then disaster.
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