3 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

I been to the bar scene, but never when i'm hitched up. 

Yea ... if I'm in a relationship, and start getting a wandering eye, then I end the relationship.   Usually means, it was coming to an end anyway.

 

Love relationships, and love being single.  Either works for me.  

 

The 'true' storyline line of movie, sounds like anything but, although, she did die of cancer.  Trailer was enough for me, I'll pass.  

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

You are so right. We have to be tough. We have to follow our logic, not our feelings.

 

It is the only way to protect yourself.

 

 

 

It's great for a guy to be nice, sweet, considerate,  etc.   The problem starts when she suddenly makes a face ,  or pouts,  or disrespects,  or shows no appreciation .

THEN...... that BS  is not dealt with .   Because men are afraid they will lose their "sweetheart" .      My friends will tell you my joke :   I always said that when a girl came to live with me I bought a bus ticket to their home and hung it on the wall .  

 

A good reminder ............

7 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Disney has just debuted the trailer for a new heart-warming story. It is the story of a woman, Molly, diagnosed with cancer who decides to leave the husband of 15 years, who had spent years being her nurse and taking care of her. Instead Molly wants to enact her wild dreams of riding the carousel of penises, so after kicking her husband of 15 years who took care of her to the curb, she embarks on a litany of sordid sexual encounters, bdsm orgies, engages in dick punching or kicking some such and basically promiscuous sex non-stop.  

 

This is what's on Disney now.  

 

Is there a storm of outrage? No, this feminist series is lauded as the best since sliced bread by almost all media outlets.

 

Is this the actual end of civilization? 

 

This is the left version of family values. 

7 hours ago, StandardIssue said:

 

Yes, now go back to the kitchen and make your paid mistress a 7-11 microwave pizza like you're supposed to.

That’s weak, you can do better. 

6 hours ago, Lacessit said:

"Last Tango in Paris" was filmed over 50 years ago, nothing new about soft porn.

 

OTOH, civilization is definitely changing when there's a demented sexual pervert in the White House doing his best to drag the world into a depression.

You always bring the stupid. 

46 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

It's great for a guy to be nice, sweet, considerate,  etc.   The problem starts when she suddenly makes a face ,  or pouts,  or disrespects,  or shows no appreciation .

THEN...... that BS  is not dealt with .   Because men are afraid they will lose their "sweetheart" .      My friends will tell you my joke :   I always said that when a girl came to live with me I bought a bus ticket to their home and hung it on the wall .  

 

A good reminder ............

 

What a fantastic idea. I actually had to buy a bus ticket for that Isaan girl. 

 

I paid for her teeth to be fixed. Her mother had not cared for her, so she had a mouthful of problems. Those that could be saved, I paid to have all those teeth fixed.

 

I did not tell her I love her, I was careful not to go overboard with feelings. I gave her 2000 baht for her mother whenever she asked, which was every week.  I took her to the finest restaurants in Chiang Mai, RedBox, Chef's Table, 10000 baht for 2 people. When she wanted to start a business, I paid her 10000. She never really made enough selling dresses, so I always made sure to give her money for food. On her birthday I would get a cake, decorate the house, buy her presents. I would go to dinner with her family, go to her mother's home.  

 

How did she repay me? By whispering with another guy behind my back online, telling me she had to go to Roi Et and instead went on a 10 day sex holiday with him in a 5 star resort in Phuket. Then returned to me as if nothing happened. Only through my vigilance and brains was I able to deduce what was going on. She brought deceit and lies into our relationship and gave what was ours to strangers. She disrespected me and played me. That was how she repaid me. 

 

At least I didn't spend 15 years with her and nurse her, I guess. Like this other poor guy.

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Disney has just debuted the trailer for a new heart-warming story. It is the story of a woman, Molly, diagnosed with cancer who decides to leave the husband of 15 years, who had spent years being her nurse and taking care of her. Instead Molly wants to enact her wild dreams of riding the carousel of penises, so after kicking her husband of 15 years who took care of her to the curb, she embarks on a litany of sordid sexual encounters, bdsm orgies, engages in dick punching or kicking some such and basically promiscuous sex non-stop.  

 

This is what's on Disney now.  

 

Is there a storm of outrage? No, this feminist series is lauded as the best since sliced bread by almost all media outlets.

 

Is this the actual end of civilization? 

You hate a strong woman role model.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

instead went on a 10 day sex holiday

yeah but who goes on sex holidays?

 

relationships are often about learning lessons. learn your lesson and move on. you put your trust in the wrong type of girl. try not to make the same mistake again. they are not ALL like that. and dont watch too much hollywood crap. 

7 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

yeah but who goes on sex holidays?

 

relationships are often about learning lessons. learn your lesson and move on. you put your trust in the wrong type of girl. try not to make the same mistake again. they are not ALL like that. and dont watch too much hollywood crap. 

 

It's not like buying Som Tum, is it?

 

I know, they're not all like that. But you truly don't know what type of girl it is. Until they do a thing like that.

 

Only then you know.

 

I thought I found a girl I could trust. Someone honest. Good.

 

I guess, it's how this husband felt just before he was told by his wife, after 15 years of care, I want to explore other penises.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Only then you know.

no,

once you get screwed over often enough or badly enough, you will know in advance.

keep working on it. 

 

1 minute ago, save the frogs said:

no,

once you get screwed over often enough or badly enough, you will know in advance.

keep working on it. 

 

 

It really was out of the blue. 

 

There was no way to tell. 

 

Yes, the lack of physical intimacy was puzzling. Other than that, there were not a lot of signs. 

27 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

What a fantastic idea. I actually had to buy a bus ticket for that Isaan girl. 

 

I paid for her teeth to be fixed. Her mother had not cared for her, so she had a mouthful of problems. Those that could be saved, I paid to have all those teeth fixed.

 

I did not tell her I love her, I was careful not to go overboard with feelings. I gave her 2000 baht for her mother whenever she asked, which was every week.  I took her to the finest restaurants in Chiang Mai, RedBox, Chef's Table, 10000 baht for 2 people. When she wanted to start a business, I paid her 10000. She never really made enough selling dresses, so I always made sure to give her money for food. On her birthday I would get a cake, decorate the house, buy her presents. I would go to dinner with her family, go to her mother's home.  

 

How did she repay me? By whispering with another guy behind my back online, telling me she had to go to Roi Et and instead went on a 10 day sex holiday with him in a 5 star resort in Phuket. Then returned to me as if nothing happened. Only through my vigilance and brains was I able to deduce what was going on. She brought deceit and lies into our relationship and gave what was ours to strangers. She disrespected me and played me. That was how she repaid me. 

 

At least I didn't spend 15 years with her and nurse her, I guess. Like this other poor guy.

 

Fantastic story !  ..... and of course i have a similar one 😄  Mine was from Buriram .

Black Magic woman .  Looked like a Cambodian princess .  Pulled the same thing as yours did .  Almost exactly .  

I found out !   Let her come back ( i was hooked) ..... but ... after a while I came to my senses .  Then i had my revenge .  Told her to take a trip home and see her family (which she had NOT done before) .    Kept in touch with the I miss you stuff, then when she said she was coming back I calmly said those 3 famous words :   Mai pen rai 

 

Maybe Disney can make a film on that one .

 

BTW:   of course, we are all different .   I am not a big spender,  nor look like a millionaire.   My usual date was to a small restaurant,  sometimes with some music, a modest meal and some drinks.   Then home for "dessert" .   IMO flashing the big bucks or talking about it only works against a guy looking for someone who is not a gold digger .   Worked for me,  but i admit I didn't catch the hi so types.  Which was fine for me.

7 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

no,

once you get screwed over often enough or badly enough, you will know in advance.

keep working on it. 

 

 

hahaha   very true .

 

lots of trial and error for most .   and some never learn

35 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

Fantastic story !  ..... and of course i have a similar one 😄  Mine was from Buriram .

Black Magic woman .  Looked like a Cambodian princess .  Pulled the same thing as yours did .  Almost exactly .  

I found out !   Let her come back ( i was hooked) ..... but ... after a while I came to my senses .  Then i had my revenge .  Told her to take a trip home and see her family (which she had NOT done before) .    Kept in touch with the I miss you stuff, then when she said she was coming back I calmly said those 3 famous words :   Mai pen rai 

 

Maybe Disney can make a film on that one .

 

BTW:   of course, we are all different .   I am not a big spender,  nor look like a millionaire.   My usual date was to a small restaurant,  sometimes with some music, a modest meal and some drinks.   Then home for "dessert" .   IMO flashing the big bucks or talking about it only works against a guy looking for someone who is not a gold digger .   Worked for me,  but i admit I didn't catch the hi so types.  Which was fine for me.

 

You always know how to make me feel better. I was hooked to. Even after I threw her out for cheating, I asked her to come back. She refused, saying she had to make money first, lest it happen again. So I would visit her in Bangkok, make love, she'd visit in Chiang Mai, make love. She'd always tell me in 3 months she'd come, when she had enough money. It was always some excuse. She sent me money a few times. On one of her visits to Chiang Mai I of course checked her phone again, and lo and behold, while she was talking about getting back together with me, she'd been on a date with an Australian to a roof top bar. Went on a date  in Bangkok with an Israeli. Never told me. All secret. Even after I found that out, she swore there was no sex, I forgave her again. Then a week ago, she told me she needs time apart "to think if I need you in my life"...Hahahahahha. I told her we are breaking up now.

 

That awful feeling when you loved a person that never existed.

 

And you're right of course, I spent way too much money on her. She was just so spectacularly good looking. Like a dream. Turns out she was not real, after all.

28 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Then a week ago, she told me she needs time apart "to think if I need you in my life"...Hahahahahha. I told her we are breaking up now.

 

A WEEK AGO ??? !!!    Oh man .......... you are still craving that heroin .  "just one more than I will stop " .

There is no way anyone can pull you out of the "addicted to love" state .  The only way to help someone is telling them the truth :   you will never be happy with this person.

 

Personally I like the Steve McQueen persona ;  be cool.   not overly emotional . be confident !     And of course,  don't try to impress with money. 

Getting "hooked"   sometimes happens.   Good reason to go slow and do the vetting. I prefer to think of it as have fun, do simple things,  and try acting LESS interested in long term .    

 

good luck with your withdrawel .   forget the heroin.   try to find some substitute 

( that is a metaphor )    😎

26 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

A WEEK AGO ??? !!!    Oh man .......... you are still craving that heroin .  "just one more than I will stop " .

There is no way anyone can pull you out of the "addicted to love" state .  The only way to help someone is telling them the truth :   you will never be happy with this person.

 

Personally I like the Steve McQueen persona ;  be cool.   not overly emotional . be confident !     And of course,  don't try to impress with money. 

Getting "hooked"   sometimes happens.   Good reason to go slow and do the vetting. I prefer to think of it as have fun, do simple things,  and try acting LESS interested in long term .    

 

good luck with your withdrawel .   forget the heroin.   try to find some substitute 

( that is a metaphor )    😎

 

Yah, that was strong Charlie. I knew already when I threw her out the first time, I should not have relapsed. But I did. Imagine giving someone another chance after they cheated. It's insane. For 6 months she dangled herself in front of me. Banged me, came to be with me. Told me she loves me. That she wants to come back.

 

But yes. I could never be happy with this person. It's the truth allright.

 

Thank you Rumak. Searchlights are on.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

You always know how to make me feel better. I was hooked to. Even after I threw her out for cheating, I asked her to come back. She refused, saying she had to make money first, lest it happen again. So I would visit her in Bangkok, make love, she'd visit in Chiang Mai, make love. She'd always tell me in 3 months she'd come, when she had enough money. It was always some excuse. She sent me money a few times. On one of her visits to Chiang Mai I of course checked her phone again, and lo and behold, while she was talking about getting back together with me, she'd been on a date with an Australian to a roof top bar. Went on a date  in Bangkok with an Israeli. Never told me. All secret. Even after I found that out, she swore there was no sex, I forgave her again. Then a week ago, she told me she needs time apart "to think if I need you in my life"...Hahahahahha. I told her we are breaking up now.

 

That awful feeling when you loved a person that never existed.

 

And you're right of course, I spent way too much money on her. She was just so spectacularly good looking. Like a dream. Turns out she was not real, after all.

 

You mean that same girl that you bragged about how she never asks money from you and you considered giving her 2000 baht a month? The one that gave you herpes from some Uki guy that was into threesomes and was working in a factory while the whole forum was laughing at you?

 

So, now you're saying she was nothing more than a common prostitute?

 

Meanwhile my wifey of 5 years with me in Canada, flew us business class to Toronto, brought decent savings and as soon as we furnish my condo she will be looking for work. 

 

And I bet her body still looks better than that herpes 20 something spreader.

 

 

 

 

America is unraveling so fast it's incredible. The founders if they were alive would probably just tell us to rip up the constitution and start over because it isn't even the same country anymore.

 

28 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

You mean that same girl that you bragged about how she never asks money from you and you considered giving her 2000 baht a month? The one that gave you herpes from some Uki guy that was into threesomes and was working in a factory while the whole forum was laughing at yo

 

 

She didn't ask for a lot of money, 2000 a week was very little.

 

28 minutes ago, Celsius said:

And I bet her body still looks better than that herpes 20 something spreader.

 

You would lose that bet quite badly. That girl had a body of perfection, women in the street would compliment her and ask her how she got that hot body. Your 40 year old wouldn't even come close. Where do you even get off comparing a 40 year old to a 24 year old who could have competed in Miss Grand?

16 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

She didn't ask for a lot of money, 2000 a week was very little.

 

 

You would lose that bet quite badly. That had a body of perfection, women in the street would compliment her. Your 40 year old wouldn't even come close.

 

Let’s see how she looks in 10 years after another thousand Arabs and Indians. You were never really part of the picture—just a temporary stepping stone she used to elevate herself, giving you the illusion of a relationship so strangers could briefly gloat and make you feel special for ten seconds.

 

But at least you dodged another bullet after lessons not learned from the previous Filipina. Too bad your ‘Learning from Exes’ manual is still missing its last chapter.

27 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Let’s see how she looks in 10 years after another thousand Arabs and Indians.

 

It's already going downhill because she's working 10 hour days making children's dresses . She never watched her diet or exercise, she was naturally slim and perfect, but she is very stressed now.

 

I wouldn't put it past her to date an Arab or Indian. She dated Ukrainians (yes 2, she cheated on one with another) an Australian and even an Israeli. The woman doesn't know what she's doing.

 

30 minutes ago, Celsius said:

You were never really part of the picture—just a temporary stepping stone she used to elevate herself, giving you the illusion of a relationship

 

That's pretty close to accurate. I was part of the picture for a short while. But a narcissist is incapable of real feelings. When it gets boring they'll seek a new dopamine hit. I was a temporary stepping stone so she could elevate herself. And the relationship was an illusion. That much is true.

 

Such a hot bullet to dodge Let's just be glad for the good times that could be had. 

 

She just posted on Tik Tok "Maybe the best love is not when we own each other, but watching the person we love, happy and living a good life, somewhere in this world. No matter what the end result is, I still affirm the same words: Nice to meet you". With a video of some kid on her lap blowing out candles on a cake at a party.

 

Shameless.

6 hours ago, Mike_Hunt said:

That’s weak, you can do better. 

 

One sentence posts don't necessarily give one the impression the poster has anything meaningful to say.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Is this the actual end of civilization? 

 

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Society is truly in trouble.

 

11 hours ago, BritManToo said:

And yes, that is the end of our white western civilisation.

 

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

This is the end, Bro.

 

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I didn't believe it, but this confirms it. Our civilization has forfeited its right to existence. 

 

It's over.

 

You are confusing two different Disney series/franchises.  This is the one that deals with the end of civilization as we know it:

 

 

In fact, there have been clear signs of it for years in Pattaya.  Creatures with the bodies of farang tourists and ex-pats but the minds of apes have been evident since at least the 1970s, sometimes in large numbers.

 

Joking aside, it's not unusual for people who are diagnosed as terminal to engage in eccentric behavior, often in the form of a last wish.  It can be range from world travel or climbing a mountain to binge-eating a food or riding in a certain make of car.  People want to have done something they feel particularly enjoyable before they kick off this vale of toil and sin.

I wouldn't draw sweeping generalizations about society about one woman's life in the months preceding her death.

10 hours ago, NorthernRyland said:

America is unraveling so fast it's incredible. The founders if they were alive would probably just tell us to rip up the constitution and start over because it isn't even the same country anymore.

 

 

There is no reason to rip it up.    The people in the federal government need to be forced to follow it. 

6 hours ago, Evil Penevil said:

Joking aside, it's not unusual for people who are diagnosed as terminal to engage in eccentric behavior, often in the form of a last wish.  It can be range from world travel or climbing a mountain to binge-eating a food or riding in a certain make of car.  People want to have done something they feel particularly enjoyable before they kick off this vale of toil and sin.

I wouldn't draw sweeping generalizations about society about one woman's life in the months preceding her death.

 

You can make all kinds of excuses for this woman. Some have said that it was the chemotherapy that made her unbearable horny. It doesn't change the fact that this woman chose to betray her husband who for 15 years was loyal to her, invested in her, and became her nurse to look after her, in order to have sex with other men.

 

Now, as bad as that is, and it is very bad, you're right that in and of itself that has no impact on society at large. However. the media can have such an impact. It must be the case, because from the Nazis to present day America the powers that be wish to control the media. So it must have an impact at large. And if you think back on say, Sex in the City, which was syndicated in 200 countries and seen by 1 billion people, do you think its impact was to make women more faithful? Or to make women think "maybe having some fun is okay"? Did Elvis ever have an impact on men? The media has an effect on society at large.

Trump will probably be doing something about Disney before his term is up. 
 

and, i will be reading this thread. If youre a woman you either be in the west and become crazy here, or you can be a woman in thailand and get pregnant at 16, abortions being illegal and get no help from anyone and be forced to throw the newborn in a trashcan. I know which i would prefer

2 minutes ago, hotsun said:

Trump will probably be doing something about Disney before his term is up. 

 

I so hope that will be the case. They are an arch enemy of Trump.

 

But I think Disney is a number too big even for Elon Musk. It has assets of 200 billion USD. Even Musk could become poor if he buys Disney.

 

We can but dream. In any event the market will ultimately decide, already the latest SnowWhite abomination has tanked at the box office.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

I so hope that will be the case. They are an arch enemy of Trump.

 

But I think Disney is a number too big even for Elon Musk. It has assets of 200 billion USD. Even Musk could become poor if he buys Disney.

 

We can but dream. In any event the market will ultimately decide, already the latest SnowWhite abomination has tanked at the box office.

I really feel for western women, how they are being lied to, but you can not say that western civilization is any worse than the news you see here about thailand let alone the rest of the third world. If you are a thai woman with no support you are <deleted> out of luck

Reading this thread, I’m not sure there was any civilisation to end.

1 hour ago, hotsun said:

I really feel for western women, how they are being lied to, but you can not say that western civilization is any worse than the news you see here about thailand let alone the rest of the third world. If you are a thai woman with no support you are <deleted> out of luck

It's two sides of the same coin, in the west the material situation is too abundant so all manner of weeds like feminism grow unchecked, in Thailand the poverty is too extreme with mothers working and leaving the kids with grandmother so mental illness proliferates.